How do I parent my mean four year old?

Just good Ole discipline is needed with that child. Quit coddling, your doing nothing but creating a monster for the future.

Give her a good switching. If that doesnā€™t work blister her behind everytime she acts up. PS. Youā€™ve started too late. Discipline begins VERY early. Good luck with the little demon.

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My mom used to have to restrain my brother (he was sometimes violent at a young age), she even taught me and my sisters how just incase heā€™s out with us. We soon found out he has some emotional issues, he was on meds for a short while and went to a therapy type thing and now 2 years later he went off meds and is so much better at handling himself in situations that used to set him off in that way

Paddle her butt and sit her down and explaing to her that what she is doing is wrong and wonā€™t be tolerated and that if she continues every time she misbehaves sheā€™s going to get paddled. Of course if you want to coddle her and use other failed measures you wonā€™t change the behavior youā€™ll have to learn to live with it because it wonā€™t stop.

A leather belt on the bare buttocks used to correct many naughty pre adolescent children. Sadly, CPS is now waiting to take you and your child to a new address! After all, .gov knows whatā€™s best for your offspring, right? It takes a village, NOT! .gov, leave our children alone.

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Getting our backsides beat by mom cured her 6 kids of this condition.

Shit bite her back, she gets loud you get louder, im kinda old school, and kids mimic what they see and what is happening to them, so its either happening to her or she is seeing it on tv or their phone,

If it hurts your feelings to whip her then good luck all through life because itā€™s going to get a lot worst. Hurt her feelings shelly learn and itā€™ll be over and shelly love you for it.
People will not like her when they see her like that but shelly get better and have lots of friends. But she has to learn how to treat people first.

Why did you ever allow this to happen the first time she did that you should stop that

Wear her ass out with the belt or suffer foreverā€¦

A good skinny switch to the rear a few times would end those fits fast. Then just show her the switch and shelly get a gri] real fast. Shelly learn fast that it hurts the old butt to act out.

Whip her but now before it is to late

Get a dustbin ā€¦cut hole in lid for its head ā€¦stick it in it ā€¦ tell it when you say sorry and are going to be good ā€¦Ill let you out . If you dont Ill put you out with the rubbishā€¦lol.

14more years she will be someone elseā€™s problem. Just wait it out. The way social services want you to parent, you will slowly loose your mind.

Good parenting led you hereā€¦ cuz Iā€™m the bad parent for spanking my kid once and stopping them from acting out like soā€¦ good job momā€¦ excellent work dadā€‹:person_facepalming::person_facepalming::man_shrugging:

hmm, I used a wooden spoon on their asses, worked like a charm

Spank her butt and show her whoā€™s boss!

Beat her ass. Not abuse, but knowing there are consequences for behavior

Get her some counseling

First of all console her and try to explain the Iā€™ll effects of doing all this. Explain it in a friendly manner. If she agrees well and good.
Or
Try to avoid her for sometime if she does something wrong. And tell her u will not support her or cuddle her if she does not follow you.

Throw the TV out the window for starters.

Disipline mat up your passage

trade it in for a newer model

Bust her in the ass that is a good redirector

Change her diet. Only allow 8 grams of sugar a day. No lunch meat limit carbs no soda juice. Water only milk. Bed time the same time every night. You must be consistant. And get her into therapy asap. She will not cope in kindergarten next year so you better nip it in the bud now.

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Good luck!

Discipline the bastards

beat that mf assssssss

Give her a slap on her legs.

Would duct tape be helpful? Inexpensive and worked well on me.

Get looking hard for the receipt

Duck tape just saying

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speak to a professional

A good slap in the ass

Time out chair for 4 minutes

Theraphy might help.

I think she needs help.discuss her actions with your doctor who may suggest a therapistā€¦:pray::heart:

Just saying :man_shrugging::man_shrugging:

Have you tried a paddle ?

My thought is how did she know to kick between the legsā€¦ Does she have siblings? But hereā€™s the deal why is she so angry ā€¦ I have no words of wisdom here . hopefully you will get this under control soon.

Did anybody ever wonder why did gang membersā€¦shootersā€¦robbersā€¦terrorists. Got the way they areā€¦???

You have to be mean. No abusive just stern and whoop that ass. Otherwise sheā€™s gonna run all over you

Have her sugar levels checked

Spray her in the face like a cat. Shock her back to reality.

Spank her not beat her be an adult

Pray over her everyday and teach her about Jesus

Give her that well deserved butt whooping.

Get professional help.

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Ell House my first reaction ā€˜ergh bin itā€™

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Good ol fashion spanking

this is my postā€¦ so HERE is the thing iā€™ve tried everything but taking her to a doctor. so for all who wanna say im a bad parent and have taught her these behaviors NO i have not she has been this way since she was at least 2 so for every one of you who have made the comments of how i must be a bad parent thank you i really appreciate getting kicked when im down and asking for others for help.