You don’t. After 25 years I’m sure she already knows.
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You don’t, you obviously couldn’t do anything as a child but you have been an adult for at least 7 years, what is your motive to tell her now? If you have issues with your mother deal with that but to potentially ruin another woman’s life is in my opinion just not cool. She may already know but even if she doesn’t 25 years of him cheating hasn’t ruined her life so either she should be able to stay blissfully unaware or find out on her own, you on the other hand would be, in my opinion, all kinds of messy by doing that. You don’t have to agree with it but it’s really none of your business
Yea, you don’t. Believe me after 25 years she already knows and doesn’t need some stranger butting in
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She probably knows. Don’t interfere.
Even when you do prove that someones partner has been cheating they either 1. Dont believe you or 2. Blame the other women and not the scumbag husband
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That is not your place. Mind your business.
My moral compass points to somehow letting her know. Once I knew that kind of information it would haunt me to keep it hidden. Me personally…I would probably tell her to get it off my chest and conscious. Whatever she does with that information from then on is her business and you can wash your hands of it. Everyone on here saying it isn’t any of her business. Sorry but I don’t agree with that entirely. It is obviously affecting her to the point she reached out on here for comfort/advice. It is her mother and somehow she knows this has been going on for awhile. Sounds like it has been a part of her life for a long while now and I feel she has every right to let the other woman know at this point. If the cheating pair has been foolish enough to show they are cheating and nkt addressed it for THAT long ans someone else knows now, that is the cheaters own damn fault. 
You dont… you’re gonna get the shitty end of the stick … besides she prob already suspicious of it.
She probably already knows after 25 years. I’m sure she had her thoughts and like most women who have any doubt about what their husbands are doing, have Private eyed that herself many years ago. She may have reasons for staying. Best not to Rock the boat on that one.
If she doesn’t know, at this point, I’d let it go. Too much at stake and not something either parties want to deal with.
Apparently they must love one another if they are still married. He just has a thing for other people.
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Everyone that is saying don’t tell has been a side chick. #Period u can be anonymous but u have to come with proof. With no proof it is he say she say. So if u have proof and I’m sure u most definitely do send that woman everything she has the right to know.
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HONEY!!! Girl code!!! You always always always always always speak up! Always!!! Just use the truth. Tell her what you know and what she does with that information from then on is her business. We do NOT sit back and let another woman get played because it’s not our business. Can we jist normalize screaming from the roof tops when you know a woman is being hurt like that. I dont care how she reacts, if she calls you a liar, or whatever YOU do the right thing and tell her. I find that some women actually hate on you for telling them. Tell them anyway!!!
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Honestly… you just message her but make sure you have proof ready
She probably already knows.
So as someone who was cheated on the lady that he was trying to see just messaged me all of their messages
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I’ve come to realization everytime I try to be a good person and do this the person is just a psycho and thinks you are lying
It’s a little sad seeing people say leave them be. Even if it’s been 25 years and even if she has an inkling about it she might not be 100% sure and although yeah it would hurt her it would also help. Plus ladies most have been cheated on and know the feeling when we found out. I know I would have rather had someone tell me especially after 25 years! I mean come on if we don’t then how will they learn? If only women had each others backs like men do for each other.
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After 25 years. Maybe she already suspects something or maybe she knows.
Oh man idk lol but please keep us updated. Def want to know how this pans out.
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If she “doesn’t know” after 25 years, she KNOWS.
I am pretty sure she knows…we usually know but wish to avoid the argument. I am happily single now but it took years .
Tell her. Period. Tell her.
Tell her, there no worse feeling than feeling like you are the last one to know. Write a letter with the details and put your contact number on it if she wants to discuss it with you she has the option.
I would want to know but in this case, there’s no way this woman is clueless after 25 yrs. Unless this is somehow affecting you or involving you, I would suggest you stay out of it.
so many conclusions, dam if you do dam if you don’t. if the affair has been going on for so many years chances are the wife knows, maybe She has her own private life also. Or she rather to ignoro the situation for a 100 different reasons. try the waters first and see if you souldsay something or not.