people are assholes. it’s nobody’s business but you, your spouse and God
I would just tell your partner and don’t worry about everyone else. Just simply be happy you have a beautiful family and the kids are taken care then who cares. Why is it anyone’s business of how many kids u want or have. It’s just God’s plan in for you to be blessed to have so many beautiful children(:
My oldest daughter is pregnant with her 11th child ( yes she has given birth to everyone of them ) so just tell people to kiss your ass … its your body and your not asking them to help you take care of them as long as you and your partner can handle them thats all that matters
I just straight up ignore them. Not their life, not their business
Sorry your contraception failed. I understand the trepidation that can come with thinking you’re done and finding out otherwise. If you are done this time for certain after this child maybe a long term and/or more permanent means of contraception might work better for you and your family? This might be something to discuss with your OBGYN when you have your appointment if it is something that interests you. That being said, congrats on the new family member, and good luck with your pregnancy and delivery. I hope everything works out perfectly for you all. 
I would not concern myself with those comments. Perhaps yhey are jealous. We have a family in town that had 13 kids. Mom and dad supported them and cared for them. They seem to be well adjusted adults now so they did great. On other hand have seen some small family where kids werent cared for as well. You love your family the way see fit. . I personaly came from big family. Mom had 6 kids and 4 step kids. My mom was one of 11 my dad one of 13. I had 4 all but one sister had 4. Huge family . Good bless you all
Don’t worry about what other people think. Just focus on you and your family. All will be well 
Well next time they ask tell them “sooner than expected”
Adoption is always an option.
I say they should mind their business.
Congratulations! And if you don’t want any more children after this one maybe your husband can get his tubes tied it’s much easier for the male.
Tell them to mind their own business that you will have as many as you want to have
Your business no one else!!! You can always get tubal ligation after baby is born.
Tell them thats your business not theirs and they keep their nose out of it
Simply tell them you will have as many as you like as it is not anyone else business but you and your partner
“None of your 
business!” If someone is rude enough to make a stupid comment or ask a stupid question like that, then I can be just as rude in my reply.
There is always room for another and the love in your heart will be enough to sustain you
Who cares what people say or think. GOD has chosen you. To be these babies momma congratulations and prayers for your family
I know exactly how you feel. I’m a mom of 7, and I’m forever being asked if we have a TV in our room, or if I know what causes them yet… I just tell them yes we have a TV in the room and we watch a lot of adult movies… or that yes I do know where they come from, if they haven’t yet there are books that explain how babies come about… and walk away. Unless they are paying your bills they have no say in how many children you are blessed with. As for your partner… you’re not the only one required to use birth control…
Its nobody’s business on how many kids have or want. Nobody else is feeding me, finacing mentor fucking me. They don’t get a say.
If it’s ment to be it’s ment to be. A lovely surprise.
Congratulations