Even if she hates you for it or it causes problems you feel you need to tell her and it will eat at you if you dont because you already feel that way so just do it reach out on fb if that’s the only way you have but dont let your heart grow heavy because you wanted to do something and listened to anyone but yourself about what the right thing to do was… I’d want to know and most feel the same no one deserves to have that kept from them and what she does with the information is up to her and if she stays or already knew then at least it’s off your chest and heart.
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It’s really up to the husband to tell her. Talk to him.
Personally don’t get in the middle of it. The truth will come out at some point. It always does. I understand you are trying to be a good person but it can honestly blow up in your face.
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Mind your own business. You don’t even know her or her life.
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Honestly just tell her. She will do what she wishes with the information. I had someone tell me that my ex was cheating on me and I was so grateful for her!
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You could also see her in person and explain everything.
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I can’t believe all of these people saying to help keep his secret!!! If you want to stay out of it, send an anonymous message. If you know him well, tell him he has 24 hours to tell her or you will.
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I would want to know
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I would want someone to tell me
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If you choose to, I suggest you have major proof. Women’s 1st thought is to defend their spouse. And who knows what will unfold at work if you do that and it ends badly
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Are you the other person?
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I’d want to know if it was me but it could back fire to you. 
Maybe the wife knows and has chosen to continue with her marriage. We never know what happens in other people’s marriage.
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Tricky. Its a great and honest thing to want to tell her the truth, but could also backfire on you as the husband knows you and works with you. Be careful. If you do end up deciding to tell her-Id do it anonymously.
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Yeah, send her a message on Facebook with any proof you have of him cheating. Women have to look out for each other.
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Id tell husband to tell her or your going too that way you have proof when you tell her
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Nope. Nope. Nope.
Not your business.
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Some of these people are a little weird in my opinion. I’d message her on Facebook. No question, I’d definitely find a way to tell her.
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I would want to know. I think it would help if you have proof then just reach out to her, it sucks being the last to know but it’s better than never knowing.
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If you don’t have 100% proof leave it alone
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It’s so sad how many woman are saying stay out of it like damn man y’all really really alright with letting this woman walk around looking foolish trusting a man that clearly doesn’t give af about her. So sad
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Why are yall saying mind your own business 
I feel like yall are homewreckers at play… that’s just wrong 
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All these comments saying “dont do it” or “mind your business” make me cringe.
If you know for a fact she has been cheated on, tell her. I would MUCH rather someone come to me with facts than watching me look like an idiot from a distance with a man who was unfaithful to me.
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Honestly, how many people here would believe a random stranger telling your that your husband is cheating on you? I’d be wondering how SHE KNOWS. If it’s a friend then yes tell her but a random stranger? Something is OFF here.
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You have to have concrete proof or she’ll think you’re just trying to get her husband… screenshots, pics, or video for proof or it didn’t happen.
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From experience, I would mind my own business, everything will come to light eventually. Nothing good will come out of it and you don’t want to make yourself part of that.
Let’s say you do tell her thn what? You really think she will leave him or that if she confronts him he will stop?
Since you don’t know her most likely you will become an enemy of someone you don’t even know, or possibly even a scapegoat. You will make her feel foolish and her anger will be towards you. Do you even know if she doesn’t already know? And do you expect to gain anything out of this? Because if you don’t believe me you will, you will gain pity and anger for that woman and think to yourself how could she stay with him because 9 out of 10 times that’ll happen. All these things and then some are why you should mind your own business. Again I’ve been through this countless times. I have learned my lesson.
I wasn’t gonna add all this but I seen some people on here talking dwn on other for wanting to mind their own business. So believe me it’s better off to mind your own than to meddle in something that you clearly do not have any business in.
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Tell her. These people are ridiculous. They may be able to live with themselves letting the poor girl walk around looking foolish with this guy, but it’s seems like you couldn’t.
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Why have you waited 2 years. Do you know her personally. If not I should keep out of it
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Yes tell her!!! If it was your husband, I’m sure you’d want to know. She could be oblivious to it, thinking her husband isn’t doing anything wrong and is her Prince Charming. Let her know that her husband is a literal piece of shit. If she doesn’t take it well, then that’s on her. At least you know that you’ve cleared your conscience. From someone who has been the wife, please TELL HER.
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She probably won’t believe you anyways, I wouldn’t bother.
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If you have the proof then absolutely! I’d want to know! But without proof it’s pointless.
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I dunno that is a tricky one…as I feel if you know this info yes you should tell but on the other hand it’s not your business you may get caught in the middle and you may be the one getting accused as the person who he cheated with… have proof lots of it. Most people are not gonna take your word on it especially if you hardly know this person… truth will come out eventually maybe this women knows of this maybe they have an open marriage… After reading other comments and reading my own haha its probably best if you just leave it alone…
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Absolutely reach out to her!!! Any way you can!!
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While normally I’d mind my own business in any given situation, he could bring her home an STD…wouldn’t you want to know? Also maybe they don’t have kids yet and bringing a kid into a horrible situation when she finds out later down the road when it’s revealed, is going to create havoc for the child. Preventing it before it happens seems a better option. But i have no advice on how to go about it. 
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Id wanna know if it was me!! So think of how you would appreciate someone telling you and do that
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If you can figure out how to drop an anonymous tip, that would be the direction I would take.
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Stranger or not, I would want to know if my husband was cheating on me. All these people telling you to mind your business must be okay with their husbands cheating on them just tell her how you know him and how you found out.
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Women don’t believe women who are not their friend
Women don’t believe women who are their friends
Women need to know these things but have proof in hand and you still work with this man so be cautious and stay safe people are crazy
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Every time i have told someone i was made to be the liar and they believed or stayed with him…i would leave it alone…but if you do decide to…then anonymous fb
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You click on “message” and you literally type “ your husband cheated on you with so and so”
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All the people saying to mind your own business must not have been cheated on. Just tell her.
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Stay away from it !!
I did this and became the bad person
Remember they have a life
together (good or bad ) !
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“Hi your husband cheated on you.”
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Unfortunately have proof or she will think ur making it up
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Stay out of it. She’ll find out on her own.
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If you have something to prove to her that he did in fact cheat, tell her. If you don’t have anything and you tell her she may not believe you and may turn it around on you. Either way she needs to know and if you are 100% sure he dipped his willy where it doesn’t belong, tell her.
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Drop hints amd let her connect the dots if she isn’t ready to hear u r the bad guy no matter the proof u have, my ex husband cheated a lot just trust me or don’t get involved
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The ones wouldn’t believe you are the ones living in denial and just don’t want to leave the relationship. If you tell her 7/10 she already knew something was up and just needed proof
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Are you sure of the parameters of their relationship? Are you sure they dont have an agreement between them? Some people have different relationships theyre not all the same. If you know for a fact this isnt their arrangement then do what your conscience tells you to do. Remembering that there are always consequences to our actions. As well as being prepared for her to not believe you or to choose to ignore it. Its her life. She probably already has a suspicion. I personally wouldnt go out of my way to tell a virtual stranger this information. Especially if i dont know what their relationship agreements are.
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If you do it, I certainly hope you have 100% proof!
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You mind your bussiness that woman either knows and chooses not too accept it .
Or she knows abd has accepted it .but one thing for sure if she your friend she no longer go be your friend because she will think you knew from the get go and thars where shit is about too go down and you going too be blamed for speaking up…
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Definitely tell her asap. Guys have “bro code” and woman should def have each other’s backs as well instead of always “being the other woman or side chick etc” and then NEVER telling the woman who was cheated on. PLEASE tell her!
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The wife is always first to know, last to admit it. They’ll leave when they’re done…and just because you have knowledge, does not mean it’s your place to get involved.
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The girls ex best friend messaged me one day that my ex-husband was cheating on me. She said I hate that he’s making you look like a fool. Do what you want with this information. I started planning my divorce after that.
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Mind your own beeswax
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If you don’t have proof she most likely won’t believe you and you will be made the villain or accused of being in love with him/trouble maker and could in turn affect your job.
You’re going to need names, dates or screenshots and probably better to do anonymously. I still think you tell her though but really think about HOW you tel her.
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Guarantee she knows ! But may not ready to except the truth .Karma will win
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It depends on the woman. Some women, like me, for example, want to know and they will appreciate your honesty. Others may not want to know.
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Girl, tell her. She’ll either believe you or she won’t. Don’t listen to these weirdos saying not to. Would you want to know?
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I SO wish someone would have told me… actually someone did and I stayed another 3 years…
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Flat out tell her. Present evidence because most women will be in denial and choose to think you’re jealous or crazy for accusing their “man”.
Absolutely do not listen to these comments telling you to “stay out of it”. She may never find out if someone doesn’t tell her. He may have every cover in the world and more of her life will be wasted on a lie. If he’s cheating odds are he’s abusive and manipulative in other ways … so even if she has a “feeling” something is up, she may just believe the narrative that it’s “in her head”.
At the end of the day just tell her. Reach out in a Facebook message. Enough time has been wasted already.
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Tell her. Straight up tell her. Of she believes you or not that’s her prerogative. I’d probably not rub the twice in though
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I would mind my business
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I’m confused. Is the woman he cheated on his wife with you?
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I’d tell her anonymously. At least you’ve done your part. Up to her to investigate or not.
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Everyone saying to mind your business are the ones who get mad at the person who knew and NEVER told them. They were minding their business 
Do it anonymously and WITH proof.
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Please dear God tell her … my ex cheated on me - everyone knew, except ME !! The realization that nobody had the decency to tell me made it even worse. I promise you she will thankyou oneday !!
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If you don’t have PROOF, then I wouldn’t say a word
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Stay out never works out… despite your feelings stay out. It back fired on me twice.
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Mind your business. Chances are that the wife A. ALREADY KNOWS B. Is secretly bidding her time to set her a$$HOLE of a husband up or C. Knows but doesn’t care.
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I told a coworker that her husband was cheating and she said it was just lies from disgruntled employees. Then a few years later, her sister contacted me and said the woman caught VD from him. She should have listened.
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Tell her. I wish the people at my ex’s job would have told me. Would have saved me so much wasted time. I would have been grateful for someone to tell me
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I had a man trying to get with me, turned out he had a woman and a kid and was lieing about it. I snooped enough to get her instagram and I messaged her. Tell them! They need to knowm
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It’s tough… and I’ve only ever run across mess like that a few time (where I saw it myself)but I honestly just send them whatever i saw and just straight tell them… I mean, I would definitely want another person who saw something to let me know… & I wouldn’t care how I would be told, just tell me and let me decide what to do with the info… that’s all you really can do.
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I mean, unless you know them very closely I say it’s best to stay out of someone’s business. IMO
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If you feel that strongly about getting involved I would suggest doing it anonymously! You may have good intentions but this could definitely backfire on you big time!
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No advice but can you come back and update once you’ve decided 
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Unless you have proof, I would stay out of it.
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Whether she takes it or not tell her you don’t want to be her one day
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Ehh… As a woman I feel like she should know but also this is a slippery slope… Unless you actually know them and their marriage maybe you should keep to yourself… What if they have an open marriage? What if they are legally separated?
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I had a stranger come to me about my ex and tell me the same thing. It was her tho that he was cheating with. She confronted me with truth and although it hurt, girl code brought us together as friends. Tell her the truth.
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Make sure you have proof. Love is blind. She will stand by her man until proven otherwise.
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Nope don’t do it. I would only tell her if I knew her personally
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Show her an evidences but not showing her who am I unless she really needs to know me
I would say do it anonymously, because what if she confronts the husband and it comes back to you in the work place. Best to avoid that drama
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This is how The First 48 start. I would mind my business unless I knew them personally. It will also make your work environment inhabitable.
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The reason why people are saying stay out of it is because of the backlash you could receive from the wife for being honest. She’s not going to take it well and she might take it out on the woman that told her instead of directing it at the husband. It’s not because of people condoning cheating, it’s because even if you tell her, she could stay with him and have both of y’all looking stupid just for trying to do the right thing.
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I would tell her anonymously if you can… My ex’s roommates gf told me and I was super thankful but I feel like I almost threw her under the bus when he asked who told me… I don’t even know why I told him because it doesn’t matter who tells you if it’s not the person themselves coming clean
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Mind your damn business! You don’t even know the woman. Take care of your own house.
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My ex-husband told his girlfriends (yes miltiples- I didnt find out till after we were married) that I died in a car accident and he was a single father. One of the girls reached out to me and told me everything. She was nice about it. Except in the beginning she said your his fucking wife. But hey could be worse. We talked for a bit and I never talked to her again. The courage it takes to do that. I’d be scared. We need to look out for each other.
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Unless you are the other woman, do yourself a favor and stay out of it, chances are she won’t believe you and will quickly become your enemy, things like that come out eventually
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If she isn’t even your friend I would stay out of it. Not worth it.
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I would definitely tell her; anonymously, if possible.
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Nope, you stay out of it is my advice! You need proof and even with proof, it will somehow end up your fault …Not worth it and she probably knows herself!!!
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You don’t just mind your own business!
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Mind your own business.
No
You will be the blamed
And the culprit
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Send her the proof in the mail
I’d rather be told than have people know and say nothing! From experience.
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Unless you want the gates of pettiness and anger yeeted into oblivion, I would at least get pictures and screenshots of conversations to protect yourself. Also, if you were the one he partook in the event, I would recommend you seek help.
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