I would have been so grateful if someone had told me. I wouldn’t have been upset with the person who did tell me. Because i looked stupid for 5 years thinking he was faithful.
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I just can’t believe a majority of you would leave his poor wife in the dark because its “none of your business”, yet not one of you are saying he’s a disgusting disrespectful pig whose the one ultimately hurting his wife by going with atleast 2 other women! If it was me I’d want to know, a no anonymous or not! What is wrong with you people, happily see the poor lass get treated like dirt because you wouldn’t want the backlash from it. #bekind went out the window then eh
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You don’t its none of your business and not your place to intervene
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What about confronting the dude, tell him to come clean with his wife or you will?
Can you mail an anonymous letter?
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Why would you do that it’s not your business even if you knew her but you don’t even know her, get a life…
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You need to stay our of it. You will be the one that comes out looking like an ass. I know because I didn’t mind my own business once and that’s all it took. Odds are she already knows.
I have been in this situation before and I did tell the woman which really backfired. The woman got so mad at me, called me every name in the book, accused me of wanting her husband. It really took a toll on me because of how mean this woman got. I recommend stating out of the situation. The truth always reveals itself eventually. I felt exactly as you do now and 15 years later, I still regret it. Just stay in your lane unless you want to be involved in a bunch of unnecessary drama.
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As a woman who was cheated on MANY times in the 10 years I was married, once with a neighbor and woman I considered a friend, TELL HER. I can’t tell you how it feels to know that EVERYONE knew he was cheating but “didn’t want to be that person”. I felt so stupid and looked so stupid. DO IT! She deserves to know, she deserves to be able to make her own choice to stay or go not be tricked into by her lying husband!
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I would make sure to have FACTS first. Evidence of this. Screenshots of him confessing or something before even mentioning it to her. In my opinion.
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You don’t 
! Girl if you’re not the other woman or her friend just leave it alone.
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Dude for the love of god! Mind your own business 
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Text her and say check out who your husband is spending to much time with! Name drop and no more !
My ex husband cheated on me and I found out through an “anonymous” person that ended up being the girls coworker as well BUT I was stupid and let him convince me it didn’t happen which could happen in this case too. Truth eventually came out but I’m glad someone tried to tell me lol. We are divorced now though lol
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It’s better to message if you have proof. If you don’t have proof and you message, just be prepared that she might not take it well and take that out on you
I’d reach out any way I could, even if it meant fb
Unless you can do it anonymously don’t do it. Like mailing her a letter or leaving a note on her windshield type thing. It could very well backfire on you if either her or the “cheaters “ find out its you. You have to think of your safety to
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You need to stay out of it.none of your business.
This always backfires in my experience. They will get it when they are ready.
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Endless you have proof of the other girl do t say anything till then get proof then tell her she don’t deserve to be cheated on
Gather proof and submit anonymously…
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However you find a way please do it soon
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Some girls are so blind. They fight you for telling them the truth. Don’t even bother. She probably knows
Been there done that, I would let her know. At least then she knows, she can choose whether to believe, be aware, or refuse it, the ball is in her court. In the end, she can never say she never knew and why didn’t anyone tell her. If she gets angry, let her, but also let her know that the only person she should be getting angry with is “her man.” But, she may surprise you and say thank you. One never knows until it happens, if you consider yourself a kind person than be that person. The other way to think about it, is if it were you and your man was cheating on you, would you want to hear the truth from a stranger, friend, family member or anyone for that matter.
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Well fuck I would like to know if my partner was cheating on me so I wasn’t unaware of it and made look like a goose
I was the woman who was cheated on 100 percent tell her, I asked over and over again until I finally got the truth as I already “knew”I wish I would have been told way earlier so I didn’t spend all that time wondering and asking and wasting my time on an already 10 year relationship. I guess some girls may get mad about it, but if I were in that position again I’d want to know. Maybe a letter if you don’t want the husband getting mad at you or the woman who was partaking in the cheating, or social media if that’s the only way you have of contacting her.
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That’s a tough one. No, it’s not any of your business. But if us girls don’t look out for each other, who will? Be careful, it sounds like you still work with him. 
There’s no point she probably won’t believe you and you’ll like your tryna to make trouble x
Stay out of it! You will never be thanked and probably hated! Forget you ever knew about it!
Yes. Sometimes a woman suspects it and having it confirmed means they can stop doubting themselves and having the man blame them for being insecure when they have reasons. Also… Girl code… If it were me I would want to know. woman should help Each other out of these toxic relationships. Not cover for these lousy ass men.
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Tell her, gently, but tell her straight forward and ASAP!
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Anonymous letter with proof so he can’t deny it
I was told via fb messenger my ex had cheated by the girl he cheated with, she had some lovely details and pictures for me too 
think she was a bit nuts though because she sent me a positive pregnancy test pic too, but I don’t think any are that good that they tell you on the same night 
Not your business … I know that’s harsh but unless it involved you mind your business
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I wouldn’t say anything at the end of the day that’s none of your business remember once that comes out you are gonna be the bad guy.
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Did you ever consider minding your own biz?bill,not joanne
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Drop off receipts at her door make sure only she’s home to receive them. Disguise yourself because these days people got cameras everywhere lol
I would definitely tell her but make sure you have proof of it. Keep it anonymous but let her know she’s been played
If u tell her, just be prepared to catch hell at work. I’m not saying not to tell her. You know she’s goin to tell her husband who told her. It’s all goin to blow up. Just be prepared for what happens!!
Speaking from personal experience you’ll just end up being the bad guy. Women don’t listen and they will just listen to their husband or wife. I told my aunt that her wife was cheating on her and I was the bad guy the liar I was trying to ruin her marriage. So if you want to risk it tell her otherwise stay out of it and carry it to your grave. I lost family because of my decision to tell.
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Stay out of it! Don’t judge!!!
That is none of anyone’s business. She probably knows any way
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You can get fired if you get involved if you decide to tell her do so anonymously and have some kind of proof to show her. Create a email and fb account that do not have your name attached to it
Ond your oem niosmnrrss
Be prepared to accept the consequences. Someone could get killed. What business is it of yours anyway?
Would you want someone tell you your husband cheated and how would you react… That will answer your question…
Keep your mouth shut!
Do it anonymously for sure that way no harm done to you or your job
Walk up to her house. But have proof tho cuz he might be a manipulator
Theres ups and downs. If it were me, yes I would want to know, but if it were me, Id be pissed at u for telling me something without proof, and I would think that u were trying to get with my husband as well. And probably mad at him cuz he called it quits or something. Thats just how I would think. Then it will be very bad at home, it will cause too much chaos. So I would say stay out of it unless u have proof like a video. If not, its none of ur business. But all women do want to know and women need to stick together, however without proof its just he said she said bs that can cause too much drama.
I’ve been sent pictures of my ex cheating on her current boyfriend just like she did to me " too x rated for fb " but at the end of the day i will just look like a jealous ex so will just let karma do her work 
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What you do, is mind your business. It’s not your place to tell one thing nor confirm.
Mind the business that pays you. Why is she so adamant about telling this woman? Is she the woman he’s cheating with? She’s not your close friend or relative.
Its not your business, just stay out of it.
Well, let me just tell a horrible story about my childhood bestfriends family.
The dad was a hard working, loving, seemingly devoted man. He doted on his sick wife, took care of their 5 children, was constantly doing home renovations all while running his own construction buisness. He always made time for his family. In the summer he would take everyone out on the boat each weekend or far away to the sand dunes to race quads and dirt bikes. Fast forward a few years and the oldest son found out about his father’s mistress… and their four other children.
Somehow this man had 2 female partners (my friends mom was the wife but I don’t know about the other woman) and nine children, a combined family that had children from 25 to 8 and he made time for ALL OF THEM and was the sole provider for all of them.
The oldest son told his poor mother and she didn’t believe it. She went to the other woman herself. Both had been lied to for nearly 2 decades. She was glad that she found out but she couldn’t handle it and she committed suicide after confronting her husband.
When I think about this… I’m just reminded that there is nothing that stays secret forever. He will get caught.
I don’t know her it’s not my business
I wish some one told me i would have picked my 
and ran along time ago rather than finding out my self years later
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Mind your business, she may already know.