Not for you. You need someone that accepts your child
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Very nice of him to say. It may be time to move on though.
Dump his ass. Sounds like he doesn’t deserve you and your child. It’s a package deal. All or nothing buddy!!
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You have only been with him for 8 months and you already want to move in with him. Your tottaly nuts
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be done with this, your child is a world more important than a man
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How would I take that? I’d be throwing up duces and be out looking for a new place for you and your kid(s). And not look back once!!
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He’s not will to except your son. Kick his arse to the curb.
As a dodgy answer! He aint trying to commit, DUMP HIM FAST
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So. Maybe he’s taking it slow because he’s unsure of his abilities. Ask him to clarify it for you. It could be taken bad but maybe it’s not. Ask for a time line. If he’s not into a kid …move on. It sucks when your kids get attached and it doesn’t work.
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You respond by saying " Don’t let the doorknob hit ya where the Good Lord split ya."
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Harsh, but at least he’s being honest. If he’s not willing to take you and your boy on, then you should probably rethink your future.
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He s being honest. Telling you he doesn t want to play daddy. …and tbh…if you re considering your child…don t move in with someone you ve only known for 8 months.
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I would ask him to explain what he means
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You respond by breaking up
I know this seems crazy, but I’m a direct kind of girl and hate indirect, roundabout, hinted-at statements. If I was confused by someone’s statement, I’d say, “Can you tell me what that means exactly?” Then make a decision off of that answer if you feel like you need to. Problem solved.
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My wife says “move on” that was horrible to say to you and he knew you had a kid
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He’s not ready for that commitment. Kids should be a big consideration.
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Time to move on . Children are family . He is not . Bye buddy.
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