Record every conversation so you have proof of what you’re saying and that they are lying.
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Buy a new house without telling them and let the other go yes you will take a big hit on your credit but its worth your sanity wait 8 months fike banruptcy on the house let them worry about it
Why wld u put anyone else’s name on ur home?! Let the whole free world live/stay there, their names don’t have to be on it.
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Sorry but you are stupid
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You need an attorney but they can’t be kicked out if they are on the deed. The only way out is to sell but even then you need them to sign off. Good luck and hope you learned from it
Move YOURSELF out
Hire an estate attorney
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You are crazy to put them on the deed. Pretty much nothing you can do.
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Stop paying for it. Pay for your things only. Gather proof get your ducks in a row and than get a lawyer
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Stop paying and leave
You can sell your part of the house to someone else and they will haft to deal with it…
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Immediately call an attorney and see if they can find any loopholes to help you.
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Your fked… put it up for sale. Get your half …cut your losses and run.
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Wth were you thinking? You probably will have to see about buying them out.
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Sell the house give her cash she didn’t earn amd move on
If they were mentally challenged why did you put their name on the deed?
You really need an attorney more so than our opinions! Good luck 
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Give them the option to buy your half or tell them you’re going to put your part on the market and let them deal with a stranger 
or if you can afford to get an attorney and provide proof how long you have been paying for everything and see if there’s a loophole for your state laws .
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I would stop paying and go buy me another house before I ruined my credit and let them figure out how to pay for it.
Sell up !!! Give them notice. And go enjoy ur life.
U may have save them from there karma. But it caused u bad karma. Why sacrifice for people who wouldnt do it for you. I dont know my dear but lifes to short for this shit. You deserve better xxx
Simple: lawyer up…start the sell, have papers drawn up that they can buy you out or sell
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If their mind set is so young how were they able to legally sign documents? I would get attorney advice on this one.
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Leave them alone
Stop doing Them
Do you Only
Stop responding to the negativity, if you’re able, leave them with the house, …
Cant even force them to buy you out !!!
Just because your on deed does not mean you need to pay for it. As it is against the house if they don’t pay they take the house. Mortgages and deeds are seperate move away don’t worry.
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Seek an attorney hunny. If you have been the only one handling the mortgage. They don’t have a leg to stand on.
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Stop paying and leave! Also put the house on the market you may have to cut your losses for your own sanity. Good luck 
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Pray! God will give answer! Meantime ask for Advice from Legal Aid!!
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See a solicitor and keep records of every single thing you’ve paid for to prove what you’ve paid
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Stahhppp 
I don’t want any more
Karen’s
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Honestly, I would just bite the bullet and just leave, take yourself off the deed to the house if you can. Starting over is sometimes better than stressing every day. I’ll could be a never ending battle
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Oh no why did you put them on the deed when you paid for the house?
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Just sell it take a loss and move on
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Oh boy… you screwed yourself putting them on the deed. You will never be able to sell it without them signing off and you can’t even force them to buy you out. Maybe let the place go into foreclosure on purpose. Or you could sell your 50% interest but I doubt you’ll find a willing buyer for a house that’s already half occupied.
They sound like they won’t budge, so best bet would to see about removing your name from the deed. I know that’s not the route you hoped for but it’s clearly not a good situation and will only escalate. I would consult with an attorney that deals with property issues to point you to options and how to proceed. Go make a fresh start for yourself with a place that is yours and only yours without any toxic people. Best of luck!
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Stop catering to them. Number 1. Take care of you and your husband no one else. If they leave things around the house you can pick it up and put it in their room. It’s their property they can have it in their room. I wouldn’t be able to handle animals not being tended to so if they won’t tend to their animals needs then take them to a no kill shelter and the animals can be rehomed or you take 100% responsibility for them. Animals can’t help what their owners do so that’s the only choice on that one. They do have a responsibility to help pay bills at the house. You don’t have a responsibility to feed them, the people. So sadly you need a lock on your bedroom door and a refrigerator in your room with a lock and you can get shelving for your non parashibles in your room too. Then they have to get their own stuff. When they leave the house is when you clean your house and whatever is theirs goes in their room. You have to stay consistent with it. On the bill side well if someone doesn’t pay they lean the house, so you would only have 2 choices. 1 pay the bills. Water sewer electricity mortgage. If you don’t want to loose the house you need to just pay it and be done with the argument about it. Or 2. Get a new place. Leverage the existing property or just find an apartment or house you can rent. Stop paying for the existing house. Once it falls into foreclosure fill bankruptcy. If they pay the bills no worries your just waiting for them to die or loose interest in the house and move out. If they don’t pay you can still fill bankruptcy even with them in the house. Then your legally away from the house. Yes. I know walking away from your home is a hardship and can be very scary but it’s your only option if you want peace. Just make sure you have a new home to go before you walk. And don’t let your sister or family know where your going. Legally if yall are on the deed that’s all you can do. After the debt is acquired/settled on the house. And it only takes 3-4 years to get your credit back up after all this. So that’s not bad compared to a life time of fighting, hatred, built up animosity between you and them and maybe your husband/partner or the stressful life you would live if you stayed.
As a side note: I would think you could sell your potion of the deed or morage? Not to sure on that but you could sell you and your husband’s share of the house. I probably would check into that before anything else but if you can’t I’d move fast on the rest. The question is do you cave and care for them the rest of your life to keep a house that eventually is going to cause you stress and probably health issues because they nasty as hell or just walk away and let them go. Maybe in 37 year’s your sister will get her wit’s about her and straighten out maybe not but honestly it’s not you it’s her. Good luck.
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If they are not on the actual mortgage and only the deed you can have their names removed. Get an attorney
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Bad move on your part… seek legal advice! God bless u and your situation 
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They may be old and irresponsible but you’re old and naive. Should’ve asked for advice before moving to be with strangers. At this point deal with it. The consequences of your poor judgements.
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Wait, so You turned your whole life upside down for somebody you just met —-regardless if they are a blood relative or not, that was unwise. You are way too trusting.
I can’t really offer advice but I really hope you can find a way out of this. You seem like a good person and let too many people walk all over you.
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You didn’t have to put them on the deed in order for them to live with you
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Ya I’d move out stop paying
Is this a legitimate page, some of the posts on here are unreal. I’m sure it’s a bogus page. 
Why tf would you put them on the deed? What REQUIRED you to do that???
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Im not a home owner so I dont know if its a thing but maybe sell your half of the house and move on?
Look for a real estate lawyer. If they are not in the mortgage sometime depende on the state you can do a quit claim deed and probably sell the house. If the house have a mortgage being in the deed means nothing. Good luck only you can change things.
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Either buy them out or see if they will buy u out. About all u can do unless u move n give up ur credit if they don’t pay…
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I’m confused if it was your and your husband’s money why would you put her name on the deed? She is now an owner of the property .why wouldn’t you just invite her to stay with you for a while. You need to just cut your losses and leave.
Call God and a good attorney!
I believe this story is fiction, A child would know better than to get themselves in such a situation !!!
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Tell them to buy you out of your share and take the money and run. Only option I’m afraid.
You move out and stop paying. That’s the only way. 
Hard lessons … you made your bed now you get to sleep in it . You gave up everything to move in with people you didn’t know , then you put them on the deed ! you’re stuck
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Get a restating order and request the house if they get violent with you.
Sounds to like the niece knew what was up! You do have a few options.
- have niece switch houses with you and help out from afar
- move and let it go into foreclosure
- suck it up and deal with it
- pay for them to move out and set them up as a deal to buy them out of current deed.
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Stop taking care of them and their pets.
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Stop looking after them, you sound like you are a very caring person unfortunately blood or not some people are just scum and don’t deserve the help you have given them. If they aren’t contributing towards the mortgage that could be something you can take to the courts and get them removed. Best of luck
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This doesn’t make sense, if there is a mortgage on a property then the name on the mortgage is the name on the deeds. If you have a sole mortgage then why would they be on the deeds. ? I’d go to a solicitor and look into it. If there not paying they should not be on it and I’m sure you could get them taken off. Sell up and move on. Good luck.
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Stop paying the mortgage let it be foreclosed on and start over in a few years
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Stop doing anything at all for them around the house.
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If they didn’t help put any money into the house…you should have def kept them off the deed. I truly hope you can find a legal way out of this house
Family is the worst!
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Duhhhh! So you mean to say that you moved into your sister’s house, sight unseen and based on what you’re saying, you didn’t smell the house when you pulled up curbside. Then after moving in, within two weeks, the property is deemed uninhabitable and also during that time, you didn’t notice that no one besides you cooked or cleaned? If that wasn’t a wake up call, you find yourself another place and out of the kindness of your heart, you put your sis that you haven’t seen in 37 years because you didn’t know that she existed AND her guy on YOUR deed because they too needed a place to stay. You gotta be kidding me…have you ever seen the now defunct Maury Povich Show? My goodness dear, they saw you coming…
Only thing u can do is court , ask to have them removed from the deed for said reasons u have mentioned. Will take time to resolve in court but better than continuing the way it is.
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can you prove that you have paid every bill, on your own with your partner? Maybe see a lawyer about where you stand with it and what you can do to get then out
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Move out temporarily, when they have to do everything for themselves they might leave for greener pastures.
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Get a lawyer, buy them out, draw up eviction notices, sell the house, move out of state, drop their contacts, move on with your life. I’m sure there’s something more you could do, maybe the house has insurance…
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Prove you’re the only one paying for everything and have them removed from the deed?
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I would sell it and buy one just for yourself. I would not give them much of the money since they didn’t/don’t contribute.
You should never have let them move in. Huge mistake.
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Walk out…let the fvukers gets on
Time to get a lawyer and get out of that deed. Don’t think you’ll get a penny from sis so you may have to walk away but at least you can get off the deed.
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You definitely need a lawyer. You might have to sell the house and move to get away from them. In the meantime, the obvious answer is to stop catering to them. Put a mini fridge in your bedroom if you have to. Stop cooking for them, stop cleaning for them.
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Write a letter
Stating
From 30/10/2021
I want u out of my house
If not
The police can remove them for u
I was told at a women support organisation
Sell the house and if they don’t want to then tell them they have to buy your half out since you kicked yourself in the ass for putting them on the deed. If they still refuse lawyer up and takem to court and make sure they also pay for your fees and lawyer
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You need a lawyer! My grandparents are in a similar situation. It sucks bad. A lawyer is going to be the only person who can tell you legally where you stand and what to do. It’s awful that people/family do this stuff. You need to keep all receipts and proof of payments. Pay everything with a card or check. That’s the first step at protecting yourself. Sending positive vibes your way. Hope it doesn’t take too long to work out! Good luck!
Lawyer up, get them out!
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Stop taking care of them, they are way to comfortable in mugging you right off.
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Take care of yourself and clean/tidy your own mess/dishes and washing ect
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See of you can sell your part of the house then they will have to either by you out or sell it to someone else, be persistent and out your foot down, you do you
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Pray about it…get a lawyer! Prove payments! Evict them! Sell the house if need be. Or sell the house and move just for peace! & Move on with your life. Maybe honey you were better off with out them. Not everyone deserves your time. Blood or not.
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Wow they def saw you coming. Why would you put someone on your house deed that contributed nothing to the purchase ? Something doesn’t sit right. If it’s that bad get a lawyer and sell the house. If it’s in the U.K. you won’t have to give them half as you can ask them to prove what they have contributed to purchase, mortgage, bills etc.
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Sorry but your dumb you shoulda never gave ya house up n that sis of yours shoulda stayed non existent cause her n her man are leeches…your up sh#ts creek as they say without a paddle…
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Get a lawyer… Take them to court. They didn’t contribute to buying the house. It’s your mortgage. None of it has to do with them. Let your lawyer know and get some options because your not stuck. And never put anyone on a deed like that unless THEY helped pay too
Wow U got urself in a huge pickle didn’t ya. It’s beyond me y U gave up Ur house brought another & put them on the deed they probably had a hidden agenda from the start & took advantage of U. U hardly knew them. Ur niece probably knew what her parents were like & sounds like she’s taken the burden off her own shoulders & has placed it all on U to carry😳Get legal help & get out of the situation for ur own sanity & health, life’s too short to be worrying abt another old immature couple that don’t give a shit abt U or anything going on in ur home. When ur able to walk away never look back. U don’t need that shit. Get a lawyer
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Can’t kick them out, but you may be able to force a sale or force them to buy you out. That’s the only thing I can think of that might be an option.
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Lovely lady with a big heart thats what u are. Me been honest to u there taking the p**s and knew what they were doing from the start u stand ur ground and as long as u can prove ur the one paying bills they havent really a leg to stand on. Id say go get urself a lawyer hun best way to sort it i think. Hope u manage to sort it and get ur home back xx
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Sign it over to them for free or just stop paying the mortgage and move out, no matter what your liable for the mortgage so looks like bankruptcy might be the best bet or your stuck with them and if you sell the house you have to split the money,
Hmmm me being the thinker i am id move into a motel get some much younger pot smoking head banger music friends to move in and drive these nasty asses out thru 24/7 partys and loud music and generally cause havoc until it drove them out of that house and out of your life.Stuff putting up eith their crap why this is happening get the deeds sorted thru the courts and never give these so called family not one more minute of your time.
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you need to advise them they need to buy you out for the amount you put in, or you will be listing the property for sale. This is pretty simple. A local lawyer will be needed to help you.
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You did what? Moved in with people you hardly knew and put them on the deed?
Now you are saying they have mind sets of under 10’s.
I wish you luck
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Stop paying the mortgage see if they’ll step up!!
Real estate attorney! Will give you options that you dont know about.
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Best bet… cut your losses and leave.
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Another thing…
I would pack ul all my stuff and put it in storage, everything! All but one pan, 1 plate, bowl, silverware, etc.
Move out all the furniture and put a deadbolt lock on your door. Keep your dishes, tv, everything in your room. Remove your shampoo, towels, and anything else you buy and use then put back in your room. Lock the door even while youre in the shower. No one says you have to support them so don’t. Let them buy their own stuff, that includes everything that you buy from a store. They are squatters and obviously dont give a damn, this is why they are homeless. You must see a real estate attorney asap, don’t wait.
You are a beautiful person. I wish I had advice. If you believe in prayer, that’s a really good start. If you can afford a lawyer, I think legal advice would be helpful. Sometimes the first consultation is free
You may just have to remove yourself from the deed and move yourself.
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Move out, when they get hungry, they will leave to find another sucker
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If i have the means to rent instead, i will definitely get out of that house and stop paying for mortgages. Let them drown on their own while i am far and getting my shit back together. Neverever reward bad behavior. it is all on you because you deserve what you tolerate.
A house cannot be sold without the consent of all owners listed on the deed. You can file a petition and attempt to have the Court force a sale … .
Or try to negotiate a Buyout w your relatives…
If you want out but your co-owners don’t, try negotiating a buyout. One option is for you to buy your cousins share of the property. After the buyout, you’ll own the home by yourself…
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STOP doing Anything for them then.
Take back your power and Stop letting them control you.
Keep a diary of Everything.
Seek legal advice and keep copies of all bill receipts and mortgage payments.
Tell them nothing.
Stop catering to them and going anywhere with them.
If they yell or threaten you call the police everytime.
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Put up a wall down the middle and add another door