Talk to a lawyer. Seems like you are screwed to me since you put them on the deed smh should have never done that.
I understand you were trying to help, but you really have got yourself in a pickle. I wouldnât take advice off anybody here. Iâd seek legal advice, especially with putting people who have the mental capacity of 5/6year olds on the deeds to a house you bought.
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Sell the house you will have to pay them out just learn from your mistakes.
Sublet your room and make sure they have bad habitsđ
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Wow tall about learning a lesson the hard way. And people acting this way at age 60?
You also have to stop acting like a 5 year old⌠you made some mistakes but you now know better and need to take action. You have the right to stop catering to their needs. Stop coddling them and use that time to legally release yourself from this mess. You created it, so rest assured you can undo it. Just move from the emotional route to the legal one.
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Wow I had the same problem with my granddaughter, I let her move in with me even went to Michigan from Texas to pick her ass up. Put her on my lease because the apartment complex that I had to and after she beat me up I called the cops and they told me I had to move out well thank God so damn miserable around here I quit cooking for her and I told her not to be using my kitchen not to be eating my food she eventually moved out things are better now I can get along just fine without her help she never help to start with
Stack your money in cashâŚfile for bankruptcy and break the deed!!
Get a lawyer. You made a HUGE mistake adding them to the deed.
Donât make any other mistakes taking advice from strangers on Facebook and make it worse. GET A LAWYER.
(And a young priest and an old priest for the exorcismâŚlol)
Wow that sounds tricky. I think you probably need to see a lawyer/solicitor. I would also stop pandering to them. So donât do anything for them. No cooking no cleaning etc etc a bit like when you get fed up of your adult children? Not sure what country you are in but you can sell the house and not necessarily have to give them any money. Depends upon the contributions they have made to purchase and upkeep. Or it does in UK anyway.
Stop being a mug and being their slave. If they owe u money for Billâs etc take them to small claims court. They will carry on just as yhey are cos right now you allow them toi
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Offer to buy them out , that will be the only way .
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I would talk to a lawyer and see what your options might be? Offer to buy them out if you have no other options. Unfortunately you put them on the deed so youâre gonna have a battle on your hands.
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You need a lawyer. Call ASAP. You need OUT of this mess. Get your name off the deed⌠theyâre on the deed, you move out and they can pay the mortgage.
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Move an leave them there. They will have to fend for themself.
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Start saving money, move, leave them the house, donât tell them where you move to.
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Iâd honestly see how to remove myself from the deed and leave it for them to handle. Save you sanity.
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Walk away 
Definitely contact an attorney though
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You can get a lawyer to get them off the deed or remove yourself and move.
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Personally, I would do my best to find a way to get myself off the deed, cut ties and disappear, and make damn sure they never find me again.
I think youâre screwed
Sell the house and move .
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Remove yourself from the deed. You do this by getting a Lawyer. You dont need a big fancy Exspensive one either. Any lawyer out of law school should be able to handle it. And something to always remember for the future, good intentions get you know where. You meant well
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You shoulda knew when the house she was in got condemned 
theyâd pay me (for living in our shared house) or pay the doctor
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If they arenât paying you maybe be able to go to court and sue them for either the money or their part of the house.
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You didnât know this after living with them two weeks? Your a special kind of foolish . Putting there name on something only you paid for ? I would say your mind isnât any better than thereâs. Hate to kick a person when there down . But you made your bed enjoy it . You bought them a house 
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Boy did you ever make the biggest mistake of your life
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Buy them out or have them buy you out. And cut contact afterwards unfortunately. They sound like scammers
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So you have proof that you paid for the house? Contact a lawyer and start there. Good luck.
Gonna have to buy them out.
You can remove yourself from the deed but youâre still stuck with the mortgage. You can file bankruptcy and surrender the house and get out from under the mortgage. They will be left to deal with it. The house will be sold by the bank for the mortgage.
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Sounds like u got yourself in a really shitty situation. U really gotta think before doing stupid stuff like this. Not being a b**** but did u really think theyâd help, if her own house got condemned? It mustâve been unlivable for it to be condemned. U gotta get a lawyer, honey and see if thereâs ANYTHING u can do.
But dang⌠that was a horrible idea from the jump!
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Sell the house. If they donât agree, offer to sell them your half. If they donât get approved. Take it to small claims court to get an order to sell.
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I mean⌠if they smell that bad they arenât taking care of themselves. So thatâs a pretty high age they will probably die soon.
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Donât take them anywhere. Donât cook anymore, eat out. Save money and get off the deed. Stop paying any bills there.
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Do a quit claim deed and have them sign it removing themselves from the deed. Then serve an eviction notice and kick them out. Since buddy doesnât want to pay the mortgage.
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Why the hell would you put them on a deed to a house YOU bought with your savings? You made a series of really bad decisions. Let the house foreclose, take a significant loss and go get an apartment somewhere.
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Get yourself a lawyer. Stop cleaning, cooking, washing clothes and whatever else you are doing for them. Stay in your room, cook for yourself and only for yourself. Better than that, move off and leave them. Let the house go back. What do you care?
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Get some advice from a lawyer,see what options you have,because youâll become their caretakerâ:flushed:
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Sounds like youâre an idiot lol
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Maybe they wonât live long.
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Come on now this is ridiculous why would you be doing all that stuff for adults who do not pay any bills just stop stop making it comfortable they will leave
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Iâd place some hidden cameras in the home so this can all be documented!! But you definitely made a huge mistake!! Take all your receipts and go to court!!!
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Go buy you another place to live and let the bank take the house back. Itâs a big loss and ruin your credit but your happinesses more important.
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Tell them the house is going up for sale ⌠and please stop doing stuff for grown ass adults!
Get a lawyer have them buy you out of the house tell them you arenât going to do this any longer and the bills will default to them just use it as a threat maybe they will leave if you tell them your leaving free ride over
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First red flag was knowing their home was condemned. Apparently they didnât take care of it
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Well you canât sell unless they all agree to sell. The only way out us to sell it back to them and cut your losses.
Sell your half and run
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Stop being an enabler for one. For two get an attorney and get your shit together for yourself. Donât buy a damn thing for them. Put a lock on the fridge or get a mini fridge you lock in your room. Get this delt with legally and have an attorney deal with it so they canât find loopholes
sorry, but putting your sister & her man on your deed, was not the smartest move. I would move far, far away from them, Donât pay the mortgage, yes your credit will be shit for awhile, But please think before you do something this stupid again
Consult with a lawyer and real estate agent. Tell them you are going to sell and they can either take their share and go, or buy you out - which they probably canât afford to do. You may need a lawyer to help get an agreement with a move out date for them so you can clean their room and show the house.
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Alls I have to say is WHY would you put them on the deed!
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Sell the house and cut your losses. Move on away from them and be free again
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So if they have special needs like you say, (mentally challenged) then they would be eligible for benefits and they could have a staff come in and help them clean up and do shopping and things. If you are of sound mind and they are not, then you need to help them facilitate this. A 5 and a 6 year oldâŚyou wouldnât expect that age person to run a home or even their own bodily needs.
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Milk of milanta mixed well in mashed potatoes for their dinner. Use a good amount
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U cared u wanted to help your family. I donât blame u. Go get them off the deed and throw them out on there ASS!! Get a lawyer. Ur not stupid. U have a heart. Now get them the HELL outta there
Iâm so sorry. You have a big heart that got you in trouble. Hope a lawyer and real estate agent can help you get out of this.
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Pretty sure this woman knows she messed up big. Instead of suffering silently sheâs asking what she should do & you people are kicking her while sheâs already down, stating the obvious karma sees all, even on the book 
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Let her daughter take care of her and you move away
You were reunited with a sister after 37 years of not knowing she existed? You move in with her and her house has been condemned and you gave up your beautiful house. Did you buy another house and put their name on the title?!!? I wonder who it is that has the mentality of a five and six year old? I find this story very hard to believe.Who could be that stupid? Sorry just my opinionđ¤
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Can you take yourself off of the deed?
You made this up didnât you?
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Yep you shot yourself in the footâŚif u want out or they want outâŚyou have to buy each others share out. Similar to a divorce in some cases.
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Is this even real? The other question didnât seem possibly real and now this one?
In the event that it isâŚ
You need a lawyer. Like yesterday!
There are lot of red flags you missed but rather than put you down like some people did - Iâll just say - get yourself a lawyer, sell the house - either to them or someone else which means they will probably get some $$ out of the deal and cut your losses. Move on and act like she doesnât exist for the next 37 years!
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Thereâs got to be a way you can remove your self from the deed maybe? Iâd consult a lawyer.
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Sounds like a lot of bad decisions all around here. Talk to a lawyer and see what options you have.
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Sell the house and move
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I would contact a lawyer to see what can be done. In the meantime, I would stop doing things for and with them. If you have the funds, maybe move into an apt and just let your sister and her man deal with all the bills? I donât know how that would work but itâs a thought?
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In Nevada there is a specific type of action for this. But you will have to sue her to get her off the deed. Talk with an attorney.
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Welp. Be a b****. They donât want to help bill wise? Fine take their sTuff and lay it all outside ohhhh these are your dirty dishes??? Throw them in the room , your pet made a mess ? Thatâs fine throw the whole animal in the room along with the mess it made. Iâm sorry your going through that but you definitely need to get tough with them to make them leave . As for your niece Iâm sure she will understand her parents are adults and can and should be taking care of them self unless they are disabled but Iâm sure you would if posted that if they were. They have shelters for the homeless so they wo t be homeless they also have programs to help food and clothes wise.
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Is this for real? Sounds like a movie plot from the 80s.
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You need legal advice, NOW!!
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Look into taking your name off of the deed and move if you can.
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If they have mind sets of children they should be getting monthly checks and you should be over such⌠that help everyone financially. Apparently daughter doesnât want to help⌠And talk to them like a child so they understand the rules of a household. OR call dhr and see if they can find them some group home for the disabled if you cannot handle it⌠Iâm sure some sort of attorney will find they were not sound of mind when they signed it so it probably remove both their names
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Can you get them declared incompetent and then you could get them off the deed.
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You say they are only on the deed. Does that mean as you say that you are the only one on the mortgage? If you refinance you should be able to remove the quit claim. Contact a land lawyer!
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I donât understand y you would put them on deed?âŚâŚ
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Call a local real estate attorney. Take your name off the house with a âquit claim deedâ it costs $250. Take your losses or they will take and take and take. Get out and let them deal with their debt and shitty behavior on their own. Then you can buy your own house again and live in peace 
By the way yaâll shouldnât be living together, no one should be living together like that, lesson learned.
Sell the house. If they donât want to, have them buy you out. Take your money and run
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Stop catering to them, they arenât children. If they wonât take care of their own pets, give/sell them to someone who you know will take care of them.
This is a nightmare 
. Move a man in and make them WANA MOVE OUT
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Youâd have to sell to break that arrangement and because they are on the deed, they have to agree to selling. Good luck.
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Are they mentally challenged, or just selfish jerks? If theyâre mentally challenged, Iâd first ask a lawyer why they were allowed to sign a deed, then find out about placing them in a home where they can be properly cared for by a trained staff after you get them removed from the deed due to their mental incompetence.
If they arenât mentally challenged, Youâre gonna have to be a bitch to make a point. If they canât/wonât care for the animals, look into rehoming them, maybe⌠Donât cook for them at all. If they donât clean up after themselves, put their messes in their room. Dishes, trash, any of it. Donât run any errands for them, donât take them to appointments and such. Have regular gatherings at your home. Saturday bbq, Tuesday game night, whatever. Invite everyone. Be noisy (within reason), have fun, enjoy yourself. Got internet? Change the password and donât give it to them. Do they watch Netflix, amazon, etc? Change the passwords and donât share them. Phones? Shut em off. Sheâs your sister, not your toddler. And her husband? Well, screw that guyâŚ
Hope it works out for you.
Oh wow. This is horrible. I donât even have adviceâŚIâm sorry they took advantage of your kind heart. Would anyone question if they came up missing? 
kidding⌠Kind of.
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Call Adult Protective Services!! This will protect you as well!! If you KNOW they are mentally of a child age you could be held responsible. I would contact them and let them advise you! They could put them in a group home put something like that with their mental capabilities. Praying for you allâ:pray:
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If you put them on the deed, sounds like youâre just about as stupid as they are.
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Not sure what state you are.in but sadly sounds like youre.too nice and may have fucked yourself! Iâd seek a lawyer specializing in such situations. Im so sorry mama sounds like youâre too nice and I hope.it all works out in your favor. Best qishes
Contact an attorney for advice. Sounds like they contributed no money when you hought the house. An attorney would be able to help you and see you donât lose much money if not any money from this deal.
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Record everything. Put cameras up and then use the evidence to get a pfa and have them all removed
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Move out. Do whatever you need to do to get your name off it and move out. Why the hell would you move in with someone you donât even know? 
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Iâd also contact adult social services and the health dept for their room. They can possibly be removed that way
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Get a lawyer if you want to remove their name.
Selling the house would be the best bet to get your money back without lawyer fees perhaps.
Once the house belongs to the new buyer, your sister and her man would be trespassing and cops would boot them out.
Never put anyoneâs name on the deed, ever again!
I wonder if your sister and her man are dumb? If you can just make up a deed without their names and tell them you got a lawyer to remove it and maybe they can pack up and leave and you can sell the home?
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Call adult protective services and have them looked intoâŚthey may falk under vulnerable adult criteria or have some psych troubles that need addressed. After that Iâd hire an attorney especially if APS relayed any disabilities or issues with themâŚgood luck.
Sell your part of the house. They either have to buy it or sell it too.
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If you put them on the deed the only thing you can do is buy them out. You legally gave them half of the property
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Get rid of their pets donât do shit for them if you have internet change password donât do anything for them you should have just let them stay without being on deed and if they use dishes and put in kitchen sink take put in their room and if they not paying bills they go to use water shut it off they use electricity shut breaker off put lock on it 
start being annoying maybe they will just move
Why would you put anyoneâs name on a deed? Smh. It isnât a rental agreement. If youâre buying a house you can have whomever you want live with you.
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