My husband had an affair and I’m crushed. We’ve had a pretty rocky relationship so I get why it happened… it isn’t right what he did at all but I do understand why it happened. I honestly don’t think I can get past it as the hurt is pretty deep but we have two kids and I don’t want to take our family living away from them. I want to continue making family memories, taking vacations together, Christmas, etc. Does anyone cohabitate/co-parent but go out on dates etc? Is this called an open marriage?? If so, how is it working for you? Is it even possible to do this?
Hi there sorry that you’re going through this I’ve been there myself and I am still with him we eventually got married had another child and we’re very happy now. It hurts like h*** like a burning knife ripping your gut right open . It’s gonna take a long time but you can’t get there if you want if you really do love each other it will work . The hardest part is the trust because you’ll never forget what happened but you can’t forgive with time period If you ever need to reach out or talk to someone I don’t mind you reaching out to me.