How would you react if your best friend of 10 years started dating someone you date in high school for a few months? it wasnt that serious…she was just there for me in HS when we broke up so it feels a little weird to me…
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That ain’t a friend. That’s a snake.
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Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. How would you feel if your best friend dated your ex?
I wouldn’t like it, but what can you do.
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I wouldn’t be too bothered tbh. I dated a friend’s ex but didn’t even know they’d been a thing and my now ex best friend has dated my ex’s not that long after we split (that’s not ok) in high school it’s never serious so yeah wouldn’t be bothered.
I wouldn’t care. In saying that I finished school like 12 years ago lol
It’s been 10 years. More power to them 
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Depending. If you dated in high school and it was years ago I don’t see the problem. unless you still have feelings for him
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I would probably die laughing tbh. Who cares? High school relationships don’t even matter for most of us.
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She can have my trash. If theyre meant to be, just be happy and supportive
You Dated him Years Ago 
Let Ur Friend be happy.
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Unless the guy is abusive who are you to get in the way of a possible future relationship 
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I’d say, she’s an #####, cause she knows what ##### he is😂
What does it matter? They’re an ex for a reason. Not to mention it was in hs. What they do is none of your business
My best friend married my ex! And I was in the wedding! I was just happy to see both of them happy. That’s all that mattered to me. I’m still a part of their lives and we hang out no issues.
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When I was 16, me & my first love broke up, my best friend got w him… I found out from him, I was mad for a couple years then a death happened at our school & we realized our friendship meant a lot so we got over it & have remained best friends since. She was even with him for about 7 years & had a child, & have no hidden animosity towards her! Love is weird but you have to be accepting 
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Nope wouldn’t care. When I’m done, I’m done. The past.
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My bestie dated my ex for four years i didnt mind as i didnt like him much and she was happy so i was happy for her now shes single and hes dating someone else
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Nothing bc y’all are way different people now (hopefully).
Lmao 3 of my friends are married to my ex boyfriends it don’t bother me any
Just because u dated him before doesn’t mean he’s the same person as he was back then. Let ur friend be happy in the meantime. If they split, be there for her like she was for u. If not, still be her friend regardless
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A high school relationship that lasted a few months. So taking that it wasn’t serious. You still like the guy? Let them be happy. May not last but it might. If it was a recent ex then dif story
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I’m not about to stand in the way of someone else’s possible happiness and if that means she’s happy with my trash, go for it. 
This actually happened to me… She took it weird and ended up cutting me off …because she dated my ex…weird flex… But I respect(Ed) her decision
I wouldn’t care
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I don’t understand the issue
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Wtf it was high school get over it!!!
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I wouldn’t feel weird and it’s ot like she dated him immediately after you guys broke up right
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It wasnt serious so who cares
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Wouldn’t care wasn’t serious, if my husband and I broke up and my bf started dating my him then I would care 
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My best friend now I knew her for years we weren’t really friends. I ended up with her ex the father of her 2 kids. I’ve been with him for 14 years now and her and I are now best friends.
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My best friend in high school is literally w my first dance first kiss …ECT ect…she married him…so yea…couple months is no skin off ur back or even nothing brush it off
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What are you 12? There is so much important things to worry about than a petty high school ex. 
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Oh to be so young again. But sure as hell wouldn’t want that mind set.
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Oh, my God. Get over yourself 
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i wouldn’t care. you dated in high school… for a few months… let it go.
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My best friend of 10 years dated my first boyfriend who I lost my virginity to and was with for 6 years. I left him for choking me when he got mad.
She got pregnant by him, miscarried and told me I was right about him, then got pregnant again and used the line “you may have been his first everything but ill be his last”
Then he got my current best friends sister in law pregnant and left her because the baby had a cleft lip and he told her it couldn’t be his and got back with my old best friend 
I’ll have more than words for her when I see her
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Imagine letting two people be happy instead of thinking the world revolves around your feeling only……
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High school few months Girl u need to get over it or are u not over him
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Don’t have a best friend…and he’s dead…gl …lol
Let it go it was nothing serious. The only way I can see someone having a issue with this is if they still had feeling for said ex. I mean I can’t say much as my wife was my ex best friend
I mean, one of my best friends was recently seeing a guy I dated back in high school. Didn’t bother me at all. We actually did a few double dates even with him and my best friend and me and my husband. We joked around and talked like nothing. Didn’t bother me one but honestly. I feel like it was weirder to my husband than it was to me 
my personal opinion is you should let it go. I will say I’m grateful my friend is no longer seeing him though, she deserves soooo much better 
Happened to me and now they are married. You don’t own people if they’re happy, good for them!
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Well I’d be more upset if my best friend was with my dad and about to become step Mom… anyone else see that post?
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U must still be In high-school
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It would be strange at first but not something to end a friendship over. I would double date with him to kind of break the ics
In that circumstance it wouldn’t bother me
I had a few of my friends sleep with my ex husband. They even knew he was abusing me physically and mentally. However that was one of many ways he kept me isolated!
It’s history let it go wish them well,
Nothing’s wrong with your bf dating your ex.
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Why do you care…if you barely dated the guy in high-school
Exes are off limits period
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Is this a joke!! Get over yourself and let your friend be happy!
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Girl let her have a chance at happiness. Good guys are hard to come by. You said it wasn’t serious.
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If it wasn’t a long-standing relationship for you back then, I wouldn’t make a big deal about it.
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Look, if you’d just finished dating him and then she jumped on, that would be weird.
A few months in high school? Get over yourself.
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Girl get over it… it’s not that weird. Do you still have feelings for the dude? If she is happy you should support her and be happy for her.
Ex’s are off limits.
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If it wasn’t that serious , neither should this?
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That was a long time ago. Wasnt that serious. Let it be, theres nothing wrong with it.
Not exactly the same but I was engaged to a guy for over 5 years, anyway our relationship ended and the following year he started dating a girl we had both worked and were friendly with and she was there for me when we split etc they’re now married and I wish them all the best x
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If you didn’t want him why do you care who does want him? I wouldn’t care at all.
If it was that short, didn’t mean much and it was that long ago…who cares
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Get over it. Trust me let it go. Life is hard enough then to dwell on something so small. Do you really want to lose your best friend of 10 years over a guy? Think hard about your answer. If he treats her good and she’s happy then let it go.
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One persons lose is another treasure.
I see nothing wrong with it. If it’s weird for U then I think U have unresolved feelings for the man. Maybe U should look at that.
Y’all don’t know how old OP is for one… I think if it bothers you then say something to her. Nobody should shame you for that. Girl code. She honestly should have brought it up to you to begin with.
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ex’s are a no go when it comes to freinds especially best friends, how ever i wouldn’t even class that as a proper ex 
that’s childhood relationships which i’m assuming happened years ago so i don’t find that weird at all.
there’s a difference between your friend going with someone you’ve been with years, someone who’s done you over more recently (fling or not my friends despise any man that’s done me over or played me for a fool) or your child’s farther than a childhood fling you had back in high school that lasted a few months i don’t think there’s anything wrong with this one, like i said major difference.
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High School?
Shouldn’t feel like anything
Wasn’t that serious, it was for a few month, and it was back in school?
Move on and get over it
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Its been over 10 years and yall werent even serious?? Get over it. Its not a big deal.
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Ex from high school … who cares
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Why would it feel weird ? Hes an ex. Not as if hes cheating on you
I wouldn’t care. I got my own life to live and worry about. I’d be happy she’s happy and wish them the best… like friends are supposed to do.
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Really!!! You are so dramatic, I thought you guys just broke up recently 
That doesn’t even count as a ex
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I dont get this part of the “female code” first off yall barely dated a few months in high school how long ago was that for you last year or more then 5 yrs that was a whole lifetime ago also he is an ex do you still have feelings for him or something would it be better if she was to ask you and be like hey it just happened we caught feelings you moved on hopefully get over it
Thought this was a mom page
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Depends on which ex but honestly if she’s happy I’d feel happy for her.
She was there for you so you be there for her.
Ok I’m all for girl code ! I have to ask did it get physical ? If so then yes it’s a no go but if not then why not !
What if that was her soulmate? And you made him “off limits” to her because you feel some weird special claim over him from when he was a child😬
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In high school? Get over it
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The only thing weird about it is how your portraying it. There is NO REASON at all you should feel any sort of way about it. If your a real friend, be happy for them both!
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I’m gonna assume you graduated years ago, so this shouldn’t be an issue they’re two grown adults who want to be together, when love comes along your feelings are not important, it’s their life, and since it was a high school bf and let’s say you’re around 28 so ten years, it’s not a big deal, don’t make it weird. It’s different if it’s a recent ex, or someone you went deep into a relationship with. This was high-school. It’s not weird. Be excited for her, they may be meant to be together. Be a supportive friend.
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Who cares? Why would it bother you if it wasn’t a serious relationship? I wouldn’t care if my best friend wanted my ex. I might think she needed psychological help, but I wouldn’t care.
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since you moved on, let sis shoot her shot and be happy for her!
If you’re an adult worried about a high school relationship from the past then I think you have more to worry about than just your friend dating him. You said it yourself— it wasn’t serious.
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Is a high school ex even a real ex?
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So it was only for a few months, not serious and how many years ago??? You don’t own him.
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You dated him in high school, you don’t own his whole life. Get over him.
Girl I thought this was like an abusive ex boyfriend. If y’all weren’t that serious grow up lmao 
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Wouldn’t be bothered at all🤷♀️ you weren’t that serious you might feel a little weird but you’ll getvover it
Did you just finish high school? Cause that’s how it sounds. You dated for a few months, you weren’t married.
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Hey if your up for taking my trash. Hello yourself but just know I won’t bite my tongue on I told you so
Are you still in high school? Cus you seem like it.
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It was a few months in high school. I wouldn’t feel any type of way.
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It’s not a big deal.
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Um he is barely an ex. You dated for few months. Get over it and be happy for her
Seriously? Why is that even a question?
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Sounds like you are jealous lmfao can’t believe this is rly a question
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