Some men can be such Creatures!
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Disrespectful to say the least!!
He sounds really immature and like a total pervert.
You sound way too good for him.
Thatās disrespectful and disturbing behavior. Personally I would leave.
He sounds like a doucheā¦if itās not enough for you to leave him then give him a taste of his own personality! Make comments about men in movies, in public anywhere hell with it see if he likes it
Ewww! Disgusting-dis respectful! I would not stand for that behavior-
Ewwww insecurity at its finest with that āmanā
Thatās so fucking disgusting. I couldnāt be with someone like that and then add him not being faithful. Nope. And most definitely you are NOT being petty.
Heās a pig! Grunt grunt
Comment would have definitely bothered me, too.
Sounds like my ex husband. He would say things like that and also about women weād see in public. He was (and still is) an immature, egotistical ass. Turns out he was cheating for 5 years out of our 14 year marriage. Trust me girl, if he doesnāt have enough respect for you in something like that then he wonāt have respect for you in larger areas.
My husband will say "sheās beautiful " to Sandra bullock because he loves her lolā¦ but Iāve never heard those type of comments come out his mouthā¦ the only other thing heās said is oh mamacita lol like I think thatās all pretty normal to have celebrity crushesā¦ but what your man is doing is kinda inappropriate especially around children.
His mind is in the gutter and wants you there too.
You deserve better !! Way better
āOnce a cheater, always a cheaterā, and he has NO respect for you at all ! Donāt you really feel you deserve better ?
Iād be annoyed as hell
Girl! If heās already been unfaithful, and making comments like that over and over around you, he aināt shit.
Heās a guy get over it they say stupid things god some of u women need to grow up and stop wanting everything to be controlled thatās whatās annoying
This guy sounds like a tool. You can do better love
He sounds like a weirdo
You deserve more respect than that so show him a taste of his own medicine watch a movie with hot men and then talk about what you could do to them and how much sex would without him and that !you stand a better chance a f****** a celebrity than he does!!! Turn the tables I have done it.
He does not appreciate you now nor will he ever ā¦I donāt get how us woman would want a relationship like this ā¦ disrespectful. Not all men would do this. Iām just giving my own opinion
I may be the minority here, but I donāt see the big deal. Best thing you can do is not watch R rated things with him that have sex scenes and/or nudity to avoid it
Weird to me. But to each there own I guess unless its something more
Iād tell him to go try his luck w herāpeace out
Does he know how you feel? Better yet ā¦ does he respect how you feel ? Actions speak louder than words. If he canāt/wonāt stop then there is a huge issue here
I would say it back, āI wonder how long his d!ck isā āwell I canāt know if heās enjoying it!ā The fact he didnāt say thank you for your meal on his birthday is really sad though, putting all that effort in and not even a thank you. Sounds like an a$$.
Gross. Thatās disrespectful af
What a creep! You did everything for him that day for his birthday and he couldnāt even say thank you. You should also be able to watch a movie without his crude comments messing it up. He sound very rude and disrespectful. You donāt deserve that!
Ew and ew. He is disrespecting you. And from the sounds of it, taking your for granted. If this was me is leave honestly. Thatās gross.
Oneā¦talking like that around children is a complete deal beaker. Heād stop that immediately or leave. He doesnāt sound like he has any respect for the children or you, let alone himself. You and those children deserve better. Sending prayers up for the babies
Damn is he 14yo?? Definitely not an influence I would choose to be around my young children!
Disgustingā¦ā¦ and disrespectfulā¦ stop allowing this to happen - you are in control of your life!!!
Wtf my husband never says anything like this when weāre watching tv. That sounds super weird to me.
Super creeeeepy vibes.
Gross I just broke with my bf of two years for the same reason except it wasnāt just actresses it was women that he knewā¦Iām not having it anymore
A man that talks like this has no respect for himself or others! Just disgusting pig vibes yuck no thank you
I couldnāt tolerate it, but I have a low tolerance for disrespect!
I would challenge him an say letās go to bed an try
should have left him the minute he was unfaithful
My husband and I are pretty explicit but he would never. That sounds like disrespect in my book and from the sounds of your post you are inclined to feel the same. State your boundaries very clearly and really evaluate your options if heās not receptive. You are not obligated to deal with his BS.
Disrespectful to you, the kids, and the woman doesnāt matter if sheās famous or not. I donāt tolerate that shit, if Iām not the only one who gets my man going then he can find someone else
Strange, disrespectful. This is not okay or normal.
Sounds like an unappreciative disrespectful asshole!
200% not ok. The whole post sounds troubling. I suggest counseling, both couples and individual.
His a horn dogā¦ flirting with all attractive women ā¦when you and him make love and you think it was the best lay of the dayā¦itās only because his got another woman on his mind, his closing his eyes and see these other women not youā¦
What were you watching?
I make comments to my bf āooh she has a big booty!ā Or āooooo sheās gorgeous!ā But this whole āshe probably got so wet just nowā is a weird vibe and Iād ask him to stop and also wonder what heās thinking about women in real life. I think itās okay to make comments, as Ioooove admiring other humans. but not ones that completely sexualize and expose woman in that way. Not cool at all. Iād try to get him some counseling or to talk to somebody, because those comments (could possibly) lead to something more extreme
If he talks and does that in front of u just imagine how he is when ur not around š¤¦š¾āā men are so embarrassing
Talk to him. Tell him how it makes you feel and how it makes him seem (just read him some of these comments). Next time he does it hit the off button on the remote and leave the room with it. Iād say make comments about the male characters onscreen, but that would be stooping to his level.
Marriage counseling never hurts, and a parenting class would certainly benefit him, though youāll both have to go.
Eww he sounds like a creep and thatās not petty if you at all. Normal men with half a brain donāt do that
He sounds 13 TBH ā¦ā¦ lol
Whaaaaaaat!!! Hell nah
Me and my husband are not prudes by any means but thatās fucking gross. Youāre a better woman than me, I could never. How disrespectful to you! I canāt imagine how he acts when youāre NOT around.
He sounds disrespectful as hell
Sounds like a horny creep
Next moveā¦ check his inbox.
Iād just be like, well look at the actor she is in this role with, Iād be wet AF too if Johnny Depp was looking at me like that. he would stop that real quick.
Or hmm I wonder how big his thingy is. I bet Iād actually be able to feel it.
Or dannnnng do you see that actor, his face looks like the best seat in the house
Yeah heād stop. But Iām petty.
Do it all back to him and see how he likes itā:smiling_face_with_three_hearts:
How old is he? That āwetā comment is creepy and weird.
This is disgusting and disrespectful to you. No woman would put up with that.
Give him a taste of his own medicine.
Hot actorā¦
Askā¦ " do you thing he is just huge? Bigger than you?"
Or during a sex scene, " I wish I could take her place,"ā¦ etc.
sounds like an asshole to me.
Dump water on him so he can get that wet experience. Lol
Heās not with his buddies heās with you! Very inappropriate
Tell him it annoys you, although any grown adult man should know better, if if does it again, slap him, he deserves it, if it continues it would be a deal breaker for me cause thatās just down right disrespectful.
Shouldnāt be saying anything like that with young kids in room. Shouldnāt be watching with kidsā¦
Yeah sounds like a huge pervert and shouldnāt probably be trusted especially if heās done things in the past once a cheater always a cheater and I know that sounds harsh but I have been fooled by the king of narcissist for over 25 years I do not believe anything anybody tells me anymore. Good luck I wouldnāt deal with it though I would stop it right now
Sounds like he may have an addiction.
your husband is a very vulgar man. It seems he has no respect air you, his children , or even himself. I think you should get rid of him and not subject yourself or your children to his language or thoughts. I would not tolerate this kind of treatment for five minutes. What makes this ignorant lunatic think you are interested in how wet another woman is or why she is wet? He is disgusting, vulgar and ignorant. Itās going to get worse!
How old is your husband? Sounds like youāre taking care of a manchild. I personally couldnāt put up with that. Just my opinion.
He honestly just sounds grossā¦
He sounds like a pervert.
Look at that guy sheās talking to heās got a bigger bulge than you wow
Sounds disrespectful and gross.
Mayne he just has bead communication skills like he knows what he is meaning to say it just cone out wrong mixed with a dirty mind
No. Itās disgusting. Throw the whole man away.
If he has been unfaithful in the past and you didnāt leave, youāre not gonna leave him over this, so no advice needed, just get used to a crappy life with him, or have some self love and know that you deserve better than that
Your husband sounds like a pig. Gross. I couldnāt live with thatš¤·š¼āāļø
Puts me off the male species more and more with every story I read on here.
Your husband sounds like a big, greasy, self entitled, perverted, creep Donāt know why woman put up with these type of men.
Idk why people are laughing cause this is a major red flag. Extremely inappropriate behavior from a grown man. The fact heās comfortable speaking that way with children around us just disgusting. Sounds like someone with a sex addiction tbh
You teach people how to treat you. Draw your lines in the sand and know what you are going to do when they step over them.
He sounds gross, youāre better off single
Start commenting on males. They tend to shut up then.
He sounds like a creep.
Thatās just disgusting behaviour, husband or not.
You said you have children. Would you let someone speak about your daughter in that manner? Think about it.
As Helen Gamble remarked above, he is vulgar, disrespectful & disgusting. Sounds like a Porn Addict. Use reverse psychology. But you can make your observations & compliment the Males in a TV viewing in very appropriate ways & admiring words. Let him know just how it feels to be left out of his thoughts, dismissing his presence as if he wasnāt even there. The children are yet another thing!! Iād āremoteā that TV on OFF! That kind of behavior & comments really confuse & conflict young & teen children, or at best, set them on a quest of asking & learning from the wrong sources. As long as you continue to āpleaseā him, cater to him, do for him, & not speak up, he will continue being a Cad, a Jerk of a Human Being, & just get worse. Itās easy to say, ājust dump himā, but I would be making a plan for Myself & the Children for future Security & Happiness.
Next time youāre watching a movie hit him with āman, I wonder how big his dick isā
āI wonder how hard he isā
etcā¦. Bet he wonāt like that shit
Honestly this would bother me so much. Very immature behavior and frankly i find it disrespectful
Eww. He sees as objects.
Idkā¦I guess Iām differentā¦it doesnāt bother me when comments like that are made, and I will actually laugh about itā¦ and if it sometimes leads to something for me, then ā¦well lol. I mean, I guess I would think he is in the mood and I would also do something about that . Lol. Maybe Iām just weird? Idk. But with that being said, your feelings are your feelings.
thereās a time and a place and if it needs to be muted so they canāt hear the sex scene his comments are being heard by them. Not something I would want my kids learning.
He sounds like a pubescent teenager. Like, grow up. Nothing ruins a movie faster than ridiculously inappropriate commentary.
Thatās actually disgusting. We do joke around and laugh during sec scenes when our girls are NOT in the room. We try to fast forward as fast as we can and our girls are 16 and 18. That just sounds so nasty, I would definitely be shook.
My ex was like that. Had NO SOCIAL FILTER whatsoever and was very immature. It was embarrassing being around other people bc I didnāt know what was going to come out of his mouth. Not petty at all.
Iām not trying to be rude. AT ALL. I am just genuinely confused on what your question is/asking advice for. Would we be annoyed by it. 99% of us said yes absolutely itās disgusting. But are you asking what you should do about it or are you just venting so you know youāre not crazy for feeling that wayā¦ cause youāre not. And as most of us have said. Drop that mf. He is a pig and heās gross. Just so many things to say but Iām not sure if thatās what youāre asking for. All Iāll say is ask yourself this. Is this how you want to feel every day. Is this your worth. Is this how you deserve to be treatedā¦ having to coax a thank you out of him after cooking him a birthday meal and listening to him talk about others being wetā¦
I bet heās just an insecure guy. Canāt even watch a movie with you without speaking on every sexual act he sees. Sounds like a boy in the middle of puberty to me
Your husband is gross. Flat out gross. And if heās saying that shit about women on TV, imagine the nasty shit in his head about women he sees in real life. Naaaaasty.
Itās a damn show. You mute the show but not the man. If you canāt handle the inappropriatness of the show then why stay with him.