My advice quit having a affair or get a divorce
Why hurt your husband if you don’t want too be with him just leave him and let him find somebody who will love him he’s your husband best friend I wouldn’t say that no best friend would do that
For sake of your kids, mend your marriage, think of your vows seriously
Disgusting… you should be less concerned about losing them and more concerned about what you are teaching them. Grow up and get a divorce regardless if your new toy leaving his family or not. Both of your spouses deserve better humans… disgusting
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Go on the Maury show and do the big reveal. Or Springer. Probably more entertaining 
He doesn’t want you. Youre just a temporary fix
Okay but why is this the plot of “if loving you is wrong”
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Don’t think these comments are what she wanted to hear #karma
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Stop wasting others time and let them live their life.
Pure deception in everything that you are doing. How could anybody trust you
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This is just bad. Why not just LEAVE your marriage if your so unhappy. I think your kids will be hurt more if they found out you didn’t love their father because you have another man on the side. The guy is definitely not your husband’s friend cause any real friend wouldn’t do that to another. Sorry to say but your foolish to think he will leave his family and wife for you…even if he did the way you get them is the same way you will lose them.
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Stop cheating just get divorced and then you can find a single guy
You clearly aren’t a very good friend, you both deserve eachother. You both need to sack up and talk to your significant others about the situation yall have created behind their backs. Stop trying to play victim about the situation.
Sorry but you are wrong on so many levels
Stop seeing each other.
If you both are so in love with each other, there is one answer, you divorce your husband, he divorce his wife, which is only fair to both spouses. Neither have to worry about losing your children, there is 50/50 or every other weekend and one day a week… My own opinion nothing worse than cheating, not fair at all to the other partner, you need to end your marriage, or stop the affair. I think you know the answer, he isn’t as much in love as you are, he isn’t going anywhere, well until he get’s caught, or vice versa
Depends if you live in a no fault state.
I suggest you file for divorce noting you are the adultuer. Get in-front of the moving train. Most family courts don’t care which spouse cheated they should be focused on co-parenting.
He’s not gonna leave n it’s your friends husband? Ummm ok but it is not good in anyway shape or form to stay together for kids AT ALL. Get outta both relationships n find a bit married guy n get an agreement for your kids with yr husband. I’d also expect to lose yr friend cuz not for nothing WTF yr not a friend if yr sleeping with her husband and I would not be friends with her cuz yr in the wrong there. Start over n get away from both men n stay away from her friends men
It’s a bit late to worry about consequences. Why would you loose the kids ? Why not do shared custody?
Either way leave your husband. He doesnt deserve that
Here’s an idea stop being so loose and start giving all that attention to your husband, you’d be surprised how much a relationship can thrive and blossom with some attention and time for one another
Just here to say, that’s a super f’ed up situation and I’d absolutely hate to have a “friend” like that 
What type of friend are you. You both deserve to lose your kids for being selfish. How’s it feel to wreck two home’s.
He not going to leave his wife , he will make up lies and tells you what you want to hear. Break it off the whole entire before you get hurt worse. If you’re were so concerned about you’re children’s should have thought about this before having an affair . Divorce your husband and be by yourself and heal . Always put you’re children’s 1st.
Grow the hell up and move on…ridiculous… smdh…
You’re going to loose everyone in the process. Lol selfish. Just get a divorce already
Go to therapy bro tf are you doing?
Yall shady, shady, huh?
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This is why I dont do friends smh
Glad you’re not my friend! That’s such a scumbag move
Wow glad we’re not friends. That’s really messed up
End it now. Go to marriage counseling.
Talk about crossing the girl code line🤦🏻♀️
Maybe stop being a home wrecking witch?
Your kids deserve more than what you 2 can offer them. That’s also not your friend, you don’t do s### like that to friends. You are not a friend. Your a piece of s***
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Hes using u, he has absolutely no intentions of leaving his wife. Why would u want him to , cause if hes doing that to his wife and kids with u, he will do it to u for someone else and u will do same to him, since u arent remaining faithful to ur hubby as well. Dont think ur lovers wife is ur friend, cause a true friend would never cross that line, thats not what friends do. In reality u both deserve each other and honestly u dnt even nd ur kids, cause wheres ur kids in ur mind when ur bedding down with this cheating loser??? Wth has become of being faithful anymore, do people not practice their vows anymore!!! U shldv left the marriage b4 u cheated. I know this isnt what u wanted to hear, but im a blunt honest hardcore truthful person and im gonna tell u what i think and what u nd to hear. Think of ur kids and either tk them and leave the hubby, or get ur life straight b4 all this mess blows up in ur face and u r left without ur babies. Kids mean everything, men like ur cheating bf are a dime a dozen, just like cheating women like u. Think of ur babies, instead of urself, ur being selfish!
Sad 
This seems to stupid to be real…but I guess that’s what shitty people do. Get a divorce so everyone else can get away from the both of you sooner rather than later. They deserve better.
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Lady up and start telling the truth . Ur being selfish both of you.
Go straight to hell…don’t pass go , don’t collect $200 …
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You get no sympathy from me.
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Leave that woman’s husband alone and go find yourself instead of finding someone else’s man.
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Maybe stop cheating on your significant other, you trash bag. Yall both deserve to lose your kids.
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My advice is simply stop being a Ho and leave your husband to find someone better than you and I hope your friend beats the shit out of you for going near her man!!!
With friends like you, who needs enemies?
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But in all seriousness y’all should have thought about that…you two have destroyed multiple lives just for your satisfaction…now it’s time to be grown and lie down in the bed you made 
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Why don’t u stop having your affair and be a mom… If ur not happy get out !! I’ve seen a couple of friends marriages ruined be "Affairs ".
Well I mean
A.) you’re not a true friend if you’re sleeping with your “friends” husband. I’m just saying that as nicely as I can, you could have chosen ANY other man there.
B.) your friend and your husband deserve better.
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Give your husband the energy you give this other dude and I promise you, things will change. Might want to consider counseling and owning up to what’s happened thus far and asking for forgiveness.
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Please find a way to leave your husband and move on. God will never send you someone else’s husband. Everything about this is so wrong. What are you thinking? You might be seriously injured at the very least.
Go to marriage consulting because y’all are in the wrong and using the kids as a pawn in yalls game. Talk about scarring a child for life you are saying it’s ok to cheat. Get help or get divorced first. You need jesus
Umm you won’t loose your kids their is visitation for both parties, stop cheating it is very disrespectful to the ones who’s being cheated on…
And they’re not going to take your kids from you, but odds are you won’t get anything from y’all’s marriage because adultery is definitely frowned upon, I know this because my dad was married to a woman who got with another man before they were divorced and she got nothing.
Your friend deserves much better and so does your husband. Hopefully your children can learn relationship and friendship skills elsewhere. You just sound like an awful, toxic person all around.
The same way you got that man is the same way you will lose em…in case ur confused…God will never send u someone else’s husband!! https://youtu.be/AHy2KJexSJU
Eww, just eww. Get help and your life together. Disgusting…
Clearly you have zero class and are straight trash for being so selfish! Not one single part of what you’re doing is okay or acceptable as a wife, mother or friend. It’s disturbing that you believe your Edit* your friends husband** is madly in love with you- I can guarantee he is only in it for the sex…hence why he doesn’t want to leave his wife. Just imagine if one of your kids or his kids found out what you’re doing or saw something they shouldn’t have. You’re putting a whole lot of people lives and feelings on the line.
Yo this is hella fuckin gross and I hope like hell they both find out.
Quit being an a-hole to your husband and the other mans wife and call it off. The world doesn’t revolve around you and your stupidity and selfishness. Plus he isn’t leaving his wife because he doesn’t want you long term. You’re just a play thing.
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This cannot be real. Death is apon your shoulders. 
You’re not madly in love with someone else’s husband and he’s not in love with you, you’re just a piece of ass and you’re a terrible friend, sorry. You won’t lose custody of kids simply because you’re a cheater, it makes you an asshole, not necessarily an unfit parent, although you have put yourself above your family in this case. File for divorce and joint custody, it’s not fair to your husband or your kids to keep doing this and staying together “for the kids” always just messes them up worse in the end, kids aren’t stupid, they can tell when you’re not happy. Your kids may be mad at you for this too, they have every right to be, leave them alone if they need you to. You’re the one in the wrong here no matter which way you look at it (along with the other woman’s husband) so accept the consequences. You came here for advice so I’m honestly not trying to sound rude but answering honestly, you can’t expect not to lose anything at all in this situation, at this point you just need to get over yourself and do the right thing for everyone and just leave. The kids also deserve a say in where they stay if at all possible.
This seems like a question for Jerry Springer.
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BOTH OF YOU ARE TRASH! When your kids find out the truth, and they will eventually, they will think less of you for it. Not to mention it’s YOUR “friends” HUSBAND. You aren’t a friend. A Homewrecker is more of an appropriate term. Honestly you both should lose your children. So selfish.
Eww you really came here as a cheater, banging someone else’s husband, and expect help or sympathy? Women like you…ugh. Gross.
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Stop having the affair ! Family first when you are a mom.
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Tha fawk lol your having an affair with your husband but the guy your seeing is his friend but he won’t leave his wife for you!? 
the fawk kinda redneck Rez relationship is this!?
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Wouldn’t it be some shit…
If your friend was seeing your husband!!!
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This is a joke right?!?!?
Your sleeping with your friends husband wtf ? Your not a friend stop being fake and put it all on the table… You know you can leave a relationship and not be a cheater… Karma will come … You don’t need advice you need to grow up and if you cared at all for your kids you wouldn’t be doing that to them and there father who was apart of them too…
You need far more help than asking advice on Facebook. If this post is true then you have a few loose screws.
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I’m judging. You’re both shitty people & your kids would be better off if you both walked away from your spouses now! Before it all blows up & all children involved have that hurt on top of divorce.
Just remember if he or you can cheat your partners & family the way you already have, do you believe there is any kind of hope for a relationship anyway? Like an honest one? Without cheating?
You both are sad cold hearted people 
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Stop being a ho and a homewrecker. Disgusting.
Lol is this real rn!?
You’re fucking trash and I hope y’all get caught and that you get everything you deserve … you ever seen the show “snapped”?? because you’re about to star in it
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Ew. Affair and friend’s husband should never be in the same sentence. You’re definitely not her friend.
Maybe stop being a thot
Great advice everyone….
Y’all are something else 
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Jermaine-Charlsye Bishop 
Corrrr who needs enemies when they’re friends like you aye 
Here’s a hint don’t cheat 
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Cheri Brennan 
the conments
I would stop cheating
For starters… stop screwing your friends husband (
) and either work in finding the love with your husband again or get a divorce. Wrecking 2 families at once smh
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Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. I am married and having an affair and do not want to lose my kids: Advice?
I don’t understand why you’d post this kind of question thinking people were going to be nice and supportive. Imagine if your husband had an affair world war 3 would start and you’d probs stop him seeing the kids for revenge. You know it’s wrong so stop. Let’s hope your kids never get cheated on 
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If a relationship starts with a lie, it won’t last
So you want your cake, eat it and lick the crumbs off the plate! Selfish, you don’t deserve children. Think about what you’re teaching them
You wasn’t worried about your kids when you stepped out on your family. Your husband and your kids deserve better… and I hope they get it.
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It’s called having your cake and eating it. Pleased I’m not your ‘friend’!
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Teaching your children to lie to your husband, your friend and your children is definitely the right way to go about this situation 
Either way shit will hit the fan, the truth always comes out in the end! Don’t agree with cheating, it hurts many people in the process should have just ended your relationship if you knew that you wasn’t happy. I wouldn’t like the be the friend on the other end when all this does come out. Probably one of lowest things a “friend” could do
You’re not madly in love, you are madly in LUST… It’s easy to have a relationship without the responsibility of bills and raising each other’s kids…
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Where are all the witch drs today??
Be an adult and tell ur husband! Call it quits!
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You the side chick. Your lover doesn’t want you and your husband won’t when he finds out you’re cheating. 
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You should be ashamed of yourself, it’s on you if you loose your kids remember that.
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If it was love you’d be together, having an affair is wrong, get a divorce, some people would love to be married and you treat it like a joke, shame. No sympathy from me.
Seriously.Ya’lls actions will come back and bite ya in the long run.You both are grown adults that are cheating…if you stray it will eventually happen to you years down the road,you both know already you can’t trust being faithful to one another.
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If you was so unhappy to begin with wouldn’t it have been better for you, your husband and your children to separate! Way before you even thought about seeing someone else!!
Your children are going to be the ones who suffer the most!!
Your children should ALWAYS come first!
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