First off shame on you for treating your friend and husband like that. Second off tell your husband and your friend about how awful you are. You arent madly in love if both of you are having a affair.
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Dang your friends husband… Tisk tisk tisk.
The dirtiest thing about this post is that its your friends husband. Never mind the fact your poor husbands at home none the wiser.
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We’re being pranked right?
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Why wreck one home when you can wreck two? Seriously???!!! 
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Uh, don’t have an affair??!! Wth??
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Sweetie, sweetie, he isn’t going to leave his wife and kids. I bet ya. I bet however, you will lose a friend and a husband in this process. It never works out that way. He will beg for his wife back and they will go through counseling and whatever else to try to make it work. I would end it now and beg for forgiveness from your husband.
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Mmm. Sounds like none of my damn business.
Wow what a tangled Web you weave. Firstly, figure out if your friends husband actually does love you or if your just his side piece… I dont think relationships begun this way have a tendency to last as you’ll forever be insecure that he’ll do the same to you once your dating him 
and secondly I believe your hubby and friend deserve to know the truth regardless. You won’t lose your kids. Perhaps you’re both just using the kids as an excuse not to tell your husband or his wife the truth? Either way it’s not the right way to go about it. They deserve to know.
Keep having an affair till you get caught and then lose the kids. You dont deserve shit!!
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Um if hes not leaving…you a side piece.
But wtf.
Your best friends husband…really…how could you do that to her…if he will cheat with you he will cheat on you…you will end up alone…
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You said you were having an affair with your friends husband …lady you ain’t no friend you are a lowlife …
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Well well well, if it isn’t the consequences of your own actions
Friends like you who needs enemies
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.What you should do is stop calling her your “friend” cuz friends don’t do that to each other and find your own man.
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Home wrecker. Gross. You both deserve anything that comes your way.
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Diffrence between love and lust ., you eventualy lose the lust for that person…,divorce brcause if you cheat once you will do it again with another. Second tell the friend it isnt fair shes lying in a bed with who she thinks loves her ,she needs to have a chance to leave him too.
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If they cheat with you, they cheat on you. Both your husband & the other wife deserve better…and you deserve what karma deals you
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Well first of all your not her friend if your with her husband
Beg, borrow steal or rent a set of morals with a huge side order of integrity. What do you think you’re teaching your children?
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Your husband and your friend deserve somebody better. How fucking selfish you and this guy are that is crazy! You are no friend to that woman if you are doing that with her husband that is disgusting.
Listen. I’m going to be as nice as possible when saying this. Drop him and leave him alone. #1 he ain’t going to leave his wife period. It has nothing to do with the kids point blank.
I’ve been here done this all. Had an affair for 4yrs!
#2 Do yourself a favor and choose yourself. Affairs are nothing but drama and crap waiting to hit the fan. Do everyone in the marriages involved a favor and leave him. You don’t wanna be with your husband fine leave.
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Lol please let this not be real 
someone FBI and find her friends Facebook, Rat her out
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Advice? Stop sleeping around with another married man, get divorced and fix yourself. He’s not “madly in love” with you, he has a wife and children who he’s not leaving.
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Cindy Walker 
Tell your story girl!!!
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Ok you said you are having an affair with your husband?!! I’m confused
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Stop having an affair! You are not only cheating on your spouse but your children too. Be a responsible adult and take the high road. You won’t be the first divorced person.
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The right man for you isn’t another woman’s husband.
You’re gross, and this is pathetic.
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On the next Jerry Springer:
How to keep your husband and your boyfriend’s wife from the truth…
I got some really good advice from an older lady when I was a young bride. She said if your marriage isn’t working…make it work.
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Start dating YOUR husband and leave others husband’s alone.
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What the heck is wrong with you
Are you looking for someone to congratulate you
Where are your morals
I USED TO have a friend just like you. I was good to her when others weren’t so nice. She was slipping around with my husband behind my back the entire time. How can you be so callous? I truly do not understand people such as yourself. The reason he won’t leave his wife is because he knows what a piece of trash you really are. But guess what, if he’s cheating on her with you, he doesn’t deserve HER! I hope she finds out and y’all are both miserable and she finds happiness. The fact that you came on here hoping for support sickens me.
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For one I don’t agree with the affair, … I’m going to try and be nice about this… how is you “friends” relationship, if it’s over and similar to yours, maybe she doesn’t care but still has rights to know, if you want to continue… if you play with fire… 
i think all 4 of you need to sit down and talk, … I’d remove the kids from the house incase it gets nasty
Not only cheating on ur husband but with your “ friends “ husband? You are disgusting, all the men in the world and u choose ur friends man. You are the type of women that the rest of us hate.
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Why would you even post this? You are not going to get the answer you want. what you are doing is wrong and you know it. You are not in love with this man, you are bored.You both are. Go find a hobby that does not include someone else’s husband. I hope they find out and you get caught. You deserve what’s coming. I just hope your children end up okay in the end. Maybe you should teach them right from wrong and step up and ask for a divorce instead of teaching them how to be bad people. Not Sorry!!
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Just tell the truth and go from there
Low life cheater hope you get broken an your husband finds out an leaves you. You deserve nothing but misery
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Trashy, and I’m being nice!!
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What you are doing is disgusting an you should feel like shit. Because you are literally a piece of shit
Don’t wreck your home then 
Sorry but your not madly in love, if you were you both would file for divorce from your spouses so you could be together. He already told you he’s not leaving his wife and kids, so he’s got exactly what he wants his family and you on the side. For you and your children’s sake Stop seeing him. If you aren’t happy with your husband divorce him and you can both move on with your lives. Depending on your kids ages if you continue this affair ( when they find out and they eventually will) they will be very hurt and it will affect them for the rest of their lives!
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Put yourself in your husbands and your boyfriends wifes shoes. How do you like you now?
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Chances are the kids will want to stay with their dad in this situation.
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You’re a horrible friend and partner. Wow
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Idk how to answer that
If he cheats on her he’ll cheat on you and you on him
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I’m so confused…are those typos or is she cheating on her husband with her husband and her friends husband
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Stop sleeping with your “friends” husband?
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Your a horrible person and I hope karma gets u big because that bitch has. No time frame and your definitely not the example your children nor his need neither of u ! Sounds like you two peices of shit deserve each other and I’m not sorry u a horrible person!!! PERIOD
I hope everyone leaves you friend included.
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May as well just sleep with his dad too
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This is so gross and cringe…
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Wow honestly your kids deserve to have a mom with morals. You sound like a shitty wife, mom and friend. Change your life and give your kids a mom they can look up to and be proud of
If you have to ask then you already know it isn’t a good choice
Plot twist, the significant others find out, lean on each other for support, start hanging out. Truly fall in love, get married and raise ALL the kids together.
And you and old dude are left out in the cold, bc y’all hate each other, the kids hate y’all for breaking up 2 families and now neither of you have no one! 
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You wouldn’t lose your kids bc of an affair but you definitely don’t sound like a good person lol
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Kids would probably be fine without y’all.
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You might be “in love “ but he sure is not.
Sad this happened with a friend he won’t see.
Get into marriage counseling and put the effort into rebuilding ! Remember why you once loved your husband. Forbidden love may seem exciting, but is it worth destroying so many lives.
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Ok… for starters, if this is real, you need to stop your affair. You need to get your shit together and so does your “acquaintance’s” husband. I say acquaintance because a “friend” would NEVER do this!
Also, if you are no longer wanting a relationship with your husband, you need to put your big girl panties on and stop dragging your husband by a string. Communication is key! Let that man have an honest relationship because he may feel the same way you do but staying for the kids. When you have children, you’re supposed to set the example of showing them the right way of doing things so they understand that not everything in life works out and if it doesn’t, don’t go telling lies or go behind your friend or your spouse’s back… So, have a little dignity and be honest. Cheating is how you bring unwanted “things” home like STDs and that will make it far worse. So, grow up and step up and do things the right way… im starting to wonder how people even function WITHOUT communicating… 
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Go to church. That’s ratchet as…how can u do that to ur friend??? Could have been a stranger but na. He’s dipping her and u?? Not cool.
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Cut it out, you’re both being stupid!
Deal with the process half half custody … as long a spouse is taking care of the kids and if the other doesn’t want to loose his wife he doesn’t love you at all … your just his adrenaline rush he love to stay with 2 women lmao … plus it’s his kids his kids will come 1rst then any female u can’t have him leave his kids because dique you love him have to accept all children … be honest with your husband and leave him take up responsibility and consequences
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Stop being a dumb ass!!
Is this a real question on here???!!!???
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Y’all need Jesus…grow up …leave the marriage and get your shit straight
So you didn’t just ruin your family, but your friends family also?
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Time to come clean. Nothing good comes out of an affair especially with your best friends husband.
What’s wrong with a divorce?? Plenty of people divorce amicably and co-parent just fine. The other mister isn’t in love or he’d have left his wife. You should really think of how his wife / your supposed friend would feel, how would you feel if you thought your spouse was faithful then to find he wasn’t.you aren’t her friend you are seriously trash and yes it’s judgemental 
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wow and because of people like you that is what is wrong with families today. A homewrecker just like the one who broke up my family. 
Scum bag
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Your kids won’t get taken away from you, but if they find out what you did then they’ll probably want nothing to do with you.
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Nothing to do but laugh and the nonsense I just read.
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What else is new in this screw up world!!!
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You both deserve to lose everything !!!
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You’re going to regret your choices when your husband leaves you and your friends husband stays with his wife!
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Your a shit friend and your a shit wife.
Kay Moon this Paige?
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She wrote that so wrong wtf “I’m currently having an with my husband” is it just me or does that not make sense lol anyways your trash and so is your “friends” husband! And your def not a good friend at all! I hope either your husband finds out or your “friend” does.! You’re not teaching the children anything good by committing adultery smh you both are ruining families and homes 
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So you are asking a man to leave his wife and kids?
Tf wrong with you
You think hes gonna treat you any different?
Shouldn’t be asking no man to leave his family behind🙄
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If there is no abuse with the children ,there is no worry’s off loosing them.,thats between adults
Too many feelings at stake here. Not only would you break your husbamds heart but imagine how your lids would feel if and when they find out. Even if you dont lose tour kids in a custody battle youll lose them anyway. Own this now, come clean, get a divorce if you dont love your husband and dont expect your lover to divorce since he isnt willing to as he is using you.
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Well, hello Delilah and Eddie 
enjoy your consequences, if you’re pulling inspiration from a #AMillionLittleThings , then you know what’s coming 
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II will be the devil’s advocate. Dont leave your husband for this man obviously hes not gonna leave his wife for you.
If things are going well between you and him right now while maintaining your relationship at home with your significant others.
Just leave it there just leave it there let it run its course who knows maybe you guys can maintain this relationship till you’re old and dead the other 2 don’t have to find out and you get your side piece happiness but you still get to maintain your family and keep up appearances as a happy family. just leave it as it is don’t try to change anything obviously it’s working. Some how… because if you 2 leave your partners and get together then you break up 2 families not just one.
And it doesn’t sound like he plans to leave his wife for you. You’ll be left waiting Alone for him while he works things out with his wife after the truth comes out that you left your husband for him and you’ve been having an affair… so don’t plan to leave your husband for him cause you’re going to end up alone.
Do you think you are better off alone.
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My opinion of the relationship . I’ll keep that to myself since you didn’t ask for that
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God would never send you another woman’s husband!!!
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God would never give you someone else’s husband.
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The kids well just leave things as they are and everybody gets to keep their kids as they are we can’t have your cake and eat it too.
If you bring it to light and you break up your family over the sky everything’s going to hit the fan and you’ll have to do a custody agreement over the kids and things will get messy and the kids will be heartbroken just keep it on the downlow. don’t try to ask late things.
I say leave and give your husband a chance to find someone that will be loyal to him. I don’t care how unhappy you are cheating is never ok!!
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Stop cheating. That’s my advice.
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I do the exact same thing as you the only difference is I begged mine for the divorce for years and he refused to give me one don’t let him have them kids and supervised I screwed up on Father’s Day and now he’s keeping my kids from me and it’s going to be $4,000 to get them back.
The crime shows i watch say murders the answer
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Are u sure he. Loves. U ???
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Karma has a special garnish for this one, smh.
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If he was madly in love with you?? He wouldn’t have a problem leaving his wife. Sounds like you are just being used as a piece of ass or he would leave his wife, I would be ashamed to post such non-sense. Smh.
50/50 custody is fair you broke the marriage…
you both are stupid to have affairs why couldnt you both just leave your marriage first.
Ruined marriage from cheating and with your husbands friend double hit to the nutts and to top that off your kids will find out and you will end up blamed for the family break down.
Ask any child that’s now a adult from a broken family due to cheating they resent the parent for cheating.
Why get married if you were not committed you bored get kinky with your husband or wife sex boring get sex toys bring it into your life with your husband or wife or go Counciling there were so many other options then to cheat and fear losing your kids…. Once your kids are old enough and understand they will have their own judgement.
So over bloody cheaters in this god damn world sooooo many options and yet you chose to cheat and to cheat with his friend you both are pathetic and so hurtful to those you are ment to love and care for….
That should say #relationShits
50/50 custody no child support he should be able to raise his kids fairly since you cheated in a marriage and with his friend
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