You need to divorce your husband and find a new man. That’s YOUR FRIENDS HUSBAND. that’s not your friend if you could do that to her. If you aren’t happy leave your relationship and find someone who is single.
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Mister is madly in love with having someone on the side that’s all. Men lie
Well slap my ass and call me skippy I hope your friend is on this page 
Leave your husband
It’s so unfair to cheat on him
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Um why string your husband along??? Let him find LOYALTY!
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Repent and seek God through prayer. 
Another cheating man CANNOT love you
It’s not fair to your husband or his wife. I say you walk away and figure out the kids stuff apart.
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God won’t send you someone else’s husband honey… you made vows and a commitment to God and your husband to HONOR & CHERISH. Not to lie and cheat. You need to find yourself in a position where you can love yourself first before being “madly in love” with another married man. The position you’re in right now is lust, not love. You are in fact lusting after another woman’s marriage and her husband. Try loving yourself first before you try to love someone else. Like they say, the grass isn’t always greener on the other side if you worry about your own yard first…
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Wow you’re cheating on your husband AND screwing your friends husband? Damn. Just leave the marriage. Neither of you guys deserve your spouses.
What is they say? If they will cheat with you, then they will cheat on you. So therefore, you have cheated on your husband, your friend’s husband has cheated on his wife with you. So if you two got together, then you will both cheat on each other with others again, and you won’t have a relationship. Kind of late now.
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What you have done is unforgiveable to your friend when she finds out she will be devastated to find out she’s lost her husband and her best friend at the same time.
What you need to do regardless is get a divorce I think it’s best to do this before your husband finds out about the affair to save face to your children. Your saying your relationship is loveless anyway so let’s sort that issue out first.
Secondly don’t force your friends husband to do the same let him decide on his own what he wants to do. If he doesn’t divorce his wife it’s clear he doesn’t love you and still loves his wife. If that’s the case you wouldn’t want to be with him anyway. Out of respect I think you need to end your friendship with your girlfriend as your no longer a friend she can’t trust and you have to at least have some morals left.
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How about u be honest with ur husband and he needs to be honest with his wife, u two were pieces of crap to have an affair and clearly didn’t care about anyone else’s feelings because u both could of gotten a divorce first before dating each other!
Stop dropping to your knees.
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If he was madly in love with you, he wouldn’t still be with his wife. Same as you. If you were madly in love with this man, you wouldn’t still be with your husband. Have some respect for yourself and your kids father and end your marriage. Get away from the married man who doesn’t deserve your husband as a friend at all BTW, and figure your shit out. Just think for 5 mins how you would feel if the roles were reversed and you were the one being cheated on. Sneaky lies never work out! Karma will always catch up with you…
Forget it mate the answer is there he is not going to leave his wife suck it up butter cup he is not yours
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You are a narcissist! It’s all about you! Think about what this will do to your kids. They will have to live with the fact that their mother is a w__ore, a terrible friend, and a liar that hurt their father. You will never be happy with this guy…even if he would leave his wife…And he never will. You are just a piece of a__ to him. Of course he lies to you! Repent and get your crap together before you make multiple people hurt and hate you!
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Jesus Lmmfgdao I’m just not nice enough for this level of brain dead 
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Stay with your family until kids are raised then go your separate ways. You will still have your kids love and continue your life without a lot of heart ache.
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Wow so you are not concerned about your husband’s feelings , your kids feelings or your lovers wife(it’s your friend for godsakes) ?? You only care about yourself and that guy and not loosing yalls kids!! What a selfish person you are!!! Your husband deserves WAY BETTER THAN YOU, let him find true love and a woman that actually cares for these kids… cheating is a bad thing but cheating with your friends husband? That’s another level… you suck as a person as a wife and as a friend!!!what are you good at then??
I hope you lose your kids.
Sorry not sorry … if you wanted to do things right you and that married guy should’ve gotten a divorce ,then be together… “madly in love” is a joke in this situation.
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The karma train is coming your way
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You made your bed… now you lay in it… also… it will never work between you and this dude. There will never ever be any trust there… ever…but your husband doesn’t deserve this and neither does his wife and neither do ALL the children in this situation… yall donr f*cked up!
All states have no fault divorce laws, this means that the affairs shouldn’t affect timesharing unless the children are exposed to and/or affected negatively by it. There are lots of other reasons someone can lose custody though. I’d consult with an attorney to discuss your risk factors.
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I laughed so hard at this. Wtf did I just read. Um no. To all this. 
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Once a cheater…always a cheater
So you’re a piece of garbage got it 
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You should lose your children!!! Just what a sorry example of a mother and woman you are. I hope they both find out and make sure you never see your children again!!! POS
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Go to the laundry, pour yourself a tall glass of bleach, and leave a your welcome letter for the loved ones who’s lives you just ruined.lol
Survey says - STOP F**KING YOUR FRIENDS HUSBAND SIS!!!
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How bout not have an affair
You deserve to lose your kids. That’s an awful example to set for them. I hope your friend finds out and karma gets your ass. Girls like you are the reason us married women have no girl friends. I’d wipe the sidewalk with you if that was my husband. 
Ur nasty karma is a b hope u get urs but let me say this it’s a 100% true ur lame to think ur special and the guy won’t cheat on u who wants a cheater ? He won’t even leave his wife for u ur nothing…
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You put yourselves in the bin, that’s what you do.
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you are why i have 0 friends, and im fine with that… i cant trust “friends”
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You are not having an affair on your children and that normally would not be a factor in any custodial agreement, but you are demonstrating bad moral character for your children. Divorce your husband, and stop coveting your “friends “ husband, he’s not leaving her , he’s made that clear, so the only thing that is to come of your relationship is heartbreak and embarrassment to you, your spouses and all the children, if you want to be messy you are an adult and have every right but you don’t have the right to get everyone else dirty with the shit hits the fan! Grow up, the other guy loves you because you are not his responsibility financially nor does he share the stress of family life with you, but if you do end up together will you really trust each other, really?
You are both terrible people and deserve each other! I hope your husband finds out and so does his wife! Also stop calling her your friend. You are definitely not her friend! If you are not happy in your marriage you get counseling or leave! You don’t cheat! I feel sorry for your kids!
I don’t know your situation but its always good to end a relationships instead of cheating. I know you may be hurting but just leave him. The other relationship is just for sex. Hes just using you. Get your head on straight for those kids. They need happy parents. Don’t stay in a loveless marriage.
Both you and your husband’s friend (some friend) are completely I. The r
Get yalls 
together and take care of your KIDS!! They are the ones who will suffer most. Great examples yall are
What is so sad is there is so many people in this world that are doing this exact same thing and don’t even realize it’s such harmful and disgusting behavior. Narcissist for sure! We will be praying for your children and your husband. You are evil. Divorce and let him move forward.
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You do the right thing and find a way to love the man you married again, try to remember what made you marry him in the first place, pray about it, that will get messy for sure, no blessings come of that. Ask God to forgive you and help your marriage and stop doing what you’re doing because a lot of people are going to get hurt if the truth comes out.
I pray you repent of your adultery. God can repair your marriage .
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I just feel sorry for the kids, those who cheat are idiots
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Choose. Who is more important to you?
Whoever you choose, be faithful to that one person, and give them all of you. Not just part time shared time.
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I don’t doubt you love your kids but a friend??? Nahhh
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Die in a car crash hopefully
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Sheesh, this is absolutely disgusting! What you need to do is tell your husband and best friend about your betrayal. If communication is dead and you’re not happy, leave!! Stop cheating on your partners. It not only complicates things, it isn’t a good look for you. You literally contributed to your best friends marriage possibly ending. Children are going to be hurting bc you and your friends husband are selfish scumbags. You should be ashamed.
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I’m sorry do what now?
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Wow!! Well you’re a shitty wife and friend!! Do you really need to ask what to do??
Is this really something… I mean on here… wtf is wrong with people?? Your a grown ass woman, figure your shit out on you own
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I hope this is a troll 
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You both deserve to lose everything. I mean how selfish can you guys be?
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Wow i hope you both get caught and yalls spouses destroy you both in court and they get the kids and then i hope your “friend” and you husband get together
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the grass is not green on the other side
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You two are both sorry people. If you’re not happy leave your spouse.
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Wtf you mean practicing with each other for the kids??? If you’re cheating practice leaving your husband for madly in love dude. I can promise you he’s not madly in love because you only exist when his 
needs you. Plus got wife his satisfying those needs when you are not. His kids is just an excuse for him to stay. Empty your pockets of love from him and see what you have left to thrive on.
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This is truly disgusting!
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Girl… she’s not your friend:woozy_face:
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You both need to leave your partner’s that’s just wrong in so many ways
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That’s not love that’s lust wanting something you can’t have it’s human nature and if your truly able to have it then it will just be like you and your current husband relationship out the window. Definitely seek God and confess to your husband and friend God can and will rebuild your love 
If he is cheating with you he will cheat on you.
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You don’t respect yourself, How do you expect anyone to respect you? You don’t love your children, you don’t know what love is. I feel sorry for your children.
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If you read this again, she isn’t cheating. She is having the affair with her husband, her best friend is her husband.
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First, you aren’t her friend. Second, he doesn’t love you or he wouldn’t be cheating on his wife, your “friend”, with you. If he loved you, he wouldn’t potentially compromise your friendship or your kids. Third, it does not set a good example to your kids to stay in a loveless marriage. Is that what you’d want for your kids? Sooooo… Basically… You are making every single choice to destroy everyone around you, including yourself. Everything about every part of this situation is bad and unhealthy for everyone.
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First of all stop calling that woman your friend because you do not care about her if you’re sleeping with her husband. Second of all, go ahead and leave your husband and let her know. They deserve to find people who aren’t trash, while they maintain custody of the kids.
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At this point throw the whole woman away. Have we really become this? Wow.
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Stop it NOW. Remember how you felt when you fell in love with your husband, the reasons you married him. You are betraying your friend and your husband. Stop it.
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It’s best that you both be honest to your spouses. If the love isn’t right for either of you, they may be feeling the same way, thus you must allow them to also move on and be happy without you. Ultimately you will need to decide for yourself what kind of love life you want. If he doesn’t want to fess up to the wife, he’s not that much in love with you.
From here then, you can discuss how to CO-PARENT and do right by the kids. I recommend getting a professional councilor or mediator involved.
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Feel very bad for the kids and the two of you need to
End it now.
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U are a horrible person
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Why even post this??? If you were truly concerned about your children you wouldn’t be doing something so selfish knowing full well you’re risking losing your children?!!!
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Hook your husband up with your friend, even the odds🤷♂️
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By what I read it’s a joke read it slowly looks like she is role playing with her husband. She said she is having an affair with her husband
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You created those kids with YOUR HUSBAND!!! obviously the jackass isn’t his friend and that jackass isn’t go to leave his wife for you. YOU made a horrible mistake and in the end you will be without either man and your kids!!
What do you do?
Umm….STOP CHEATING!!! Both your partners deserve better & so do all the kids!
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If your kids are that important neither of you would have let it get this far!
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What you do is stop and desist. Your both in the wrong.
Be ashamed of yourselves
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So what you’re saying is you’re a horrible person? Selfish, a cheater, a bad role model, and a bad friend. Not to mention you’re both homewreckers. Sounds like the kids would be better off with the other parents. And here’s a secret, your little boyfriend doesn’t actually love you. You’re his side piece.
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I personally hope someone tells your friend and she handles you.
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Stop. You’re damaging two sets of children. If you’re not happy separate or leave. Not fair any way you twist it
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Your friends husband???
Girl y’all both Shitty ass ppl who deserve each other.
Sorry I have no respect for cheaters. Lies are never acceptable. It’s ok to fall out of love, it is not ok to lie about it and cheat… You are not going to lose your children. You will have to go through a divorce and custody agreement and see what happens… But first stop playing dirty games.
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“Currently having an affair with my husband. The love has gone out the window, and we are currently practicing with each other for the kids.” This doesn’t even sound real
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first of all you are SHIT you are not only cheating on your husband but you are cheating on the most precious gift YOUR CHILDREN i hoope he catches you and pounds you into a puddle of shit that you are…CHEATING GARBAGE NO EXCUSE FOR CHEATING fuck you
I have no respect for cheaters
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What if I said there was still hope for your marriage?
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The emotions that you are feeling for each other is, certainly not Love. It is something that if not heeded will destroy the lives of the children and possibly others.
you and the shit you are cheating with deserve each other… get married. im sure you will both be faithful to each other. but dont forget ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER… fuck you both.thank you
Stop seeing him as there is no future regardless if you lose you children or not. How about divorce your husband and move on since you say you no longer have no respect for him. Losing your children shouldn’t be what you’re worrying about.
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Your not only cheating on your husband but your screwing your friends husband… just wow.
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I guess I’m going to be that person and won’t wish harm on you or call you names. Ultimately if your marriage is over than leave. Staying with the kids is never a good reason. You can still love your kids and be happy. You only have one life, seat down with your husband be truthful and ask for divorce.
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Y’all need to leave each other alone. But if you’re not, be prepared for the shitstorm that’s about to be your life. 
Karma is real
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Huh maybe your friend will take your husband… They are probably better off your disgusting! Your kids will never respect your new choice or you further more
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Don’t be a cheating hoe & you won’t lose your kids, SIMPLE!!
I hope your husband & his wife fall inlove & runaway into the sunset together with all the kids leaving you 2 in the shit pile youse have created. 
#KARMAGONNAGETYOU
You’re not a good person. Not only are you hurting your husband but you’re also hurting your “friend” and I use that term loosely because absolutely no friend would do that to another. Sounds like the 2 of you deserve each other & like your spouses deserve so much better.
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Of either one were afraid of losing “your” children you wouldn’t of crossed that line in the first place. I mean come on. 
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What does Jesus say is right??
I don’t get the people that can fool around with their “friend’s” spouse… sick.
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You asked for advice so I’ll hit you with some truth. You’re kids will one day be able to understand what’s going on or what has happened and you will definitely be the bad person. If you aren’t happy in a relationship, you leave you don’t cheat. Clearly you weren’t shown the correct way and if you were then smh at you. And doing it with your “friends” husband!? Yeah no respect whatsoever. Also by the way as much as you may think this other man is maddddllllllyyyyy in love with you that’s probably a bunch of bullshit too. Same goes for you. If you can both cheat on someone y’all have once loved and have children with you’re hitting an all time low and like they say, once a cheater always a cheater. So if y’all ended up together one day I can guarantee at one point ONE of y’all would cheat on each other and thus the cycle continues. I think you should just be honest and pull your head out of your butt and maybe open your eyes a bit because honey, you are WRONG WRONG WRONG. Seems to me like there is something wrong with you and probably not your current husband. DISGUSTING.
Lmfao, he doesnt want to leave his wife and kids because you’re his side piece. I can’t believe this is even a question. Hi, it’s called divorce your husband! Also, don’t cheat on your husband with your FRIENDS HUSBAND. Scum move right there homegirl. Poor kids.
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