Love is a choice… get counseling and fix your marriage. Start dating and flirting with your husband instead. You dont have feelings for him because you’re devoting your emotions to your husbands friend. You need to cut ties with your side piece and focus on your marriage.
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Your friend’s husband? Wowzers. That’s real low
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He deserves better. If you lose your kids, it’s because he will take better care of them than you. You don’t have the balls to actually do something smart. He won’t leave his wife because you aren’t worth it. Get help.
Madly in love but won’t leave his wife……there’s your answer …. He’s not in love with you …
Fix your problems with your husband or leave
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I can’t even with some of these anymore. 
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I hope your making this up.
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Shiiiiiiiit. Double homicide. Cheating = end of relationship/marriage instantly. Definitely need to tell your husband and figure out a plan for co-parenting.
You cant respect your children either. Where are they when you’re cheating with your husbands friend? In reality you’re cheating them as well. Not happy? Cool leave but theres zero reason to cheat. Most divorces are messy but the children are worth it. You need jesus!!
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My husband had an affair with my friend…
He never left me for her
I eventually left him and now he is on his own and unhappy and so is she
The fact you have no morals and can do this to your husband and your children is very selfish and you will get everything you deserve in the end.
If you can cheat on your partners, and be happy with that, then I’m sure down the track one of you will cheat on the other.
Good luck… you will need it!
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The ones that are actually defending her actions saying stuff like people make mistakes etc wtf! GROSS 
This woman knowingly and willingly cheated on her husband not too mention the fact that she cheated with her friends husband which is a whole other level of slimy low down bs. Not only is she cheating with her friends husband while married but they both have children her and her lover that’s two families that are going to be hugely effected and ruined by her selfish disgusting behavior. I’m all for divorce and being happy and moving on but you don’t ever have a reason or excuse to cheat on someone period! Just because it feels good doesn’t mean you should be doing it! No excuses period! Also she needs to come clean to her husband and friend and if she chooses to stay in her marriage or not is ultimately up to her. But it’s so wrong to be cheating behind there backs and having them in the dark about it all. I feel super sorry for her husband and her so called friend because you can’t really call her a friend or she wouldn’t be sleeping with her husband!
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I heard this saying this week, and am just gonna say this… the grass always looks greener on the other side… but the dog still pisses the same on either side. This is a baaaaaad idea. You need to quit the relationship with your friend’s husband. It’s not going anywhere. If he said he’s not leaving, he doesn’t love you, and he doesn’t love her either of he’s willing to screw around with her friend. You’re just a convenient option. There’s no future in that. Redirect yourself. Find something to put your self and effort into… just not your friend’s husband. Your kids will HATE you for breaking up their family. Even if you do get them in a divorce. Think about that the next time you’re around him. Also, be prepared to kiss that friendship goodbye. Hope it was worth it. Karma is coming for you, it’s just a matter of when. This whole situation is literally a ticking time bomb. 
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Can i have ur husband then? Cuz obviously hes a good guy and ur just scum
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If you both truly believe its love then go for it and be ad honest and transparent as you are writing this. Shame and guilt was thrown out for love than your children and current husband are worth being shared with your truth. The aftermath is where you will find your answer…goodluck!
Absolutely disgusting and you should be ashamed of yourself. You have zero respect for yourself or marriage in general. Not to mention the hurt you are causing your children and your friends children. I hope karma gets you in every way possible.
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Yikes. You both need some serious help. Your spouse’s and your children deserve better.
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Quit being a piece of shit for starters 
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My ex husband was seeing my “best friend” the whole time we were married. I left him and took the kids. Now he’s remarried to her living in 3 bed room trailer with 13 other people including his in laws paying them rent and stuck in a dead end job. Oh and he’s banging her friends behind her back. I’ve remarried to my wonderful wife in our own home and she adopted my two kids. We both have careers. Karma was a bitch to my ex husband and bite him in the ass. I hate say but you’re not a friend and karma will cash the check you’re writing. And far as you losing your children soon as they find out you cheated on their father and vice versa they will never respect you again and you will lose them.
Scumbags.
…that’s all I have to say.
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That’s super selfish!
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I know people can fall out of love. I’ve been there a few times in my marriage. I also have fallen in love with my husband more than once. We have been married 17 years and been together 21. I’ve paid for a divorce twice and yet we’re still married and stronger than ever. I suggest you stop cheating on your husband and if you’re truly unhappy leave your husband. Not for another man but yourself. If he finds out this will affect him forever and that’s not fair to him. Your children will eventually find out also. Ask yourself if this is what you want. I also suggest reading the 5 love language’s. Talk to your Pastor if you have one. You can choose love or choose not to. By the way, your so called friend… you’re definitely not friends. I’m so happy I have friends that truly love and respect me. Karma does find its way back to you.
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How in hell can you say she is your friend? Why would he leave his wife when you are his side piece. I wouldn’t want a friend like you. Remember if he did leave Karma is a bitch dont worry it’s coming.
Why not just leave? Why treat someone so poorly, I don’t understand people. Get a divorce and move on, he doesn’t deserve this or your children.
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You are an awful wife and friend. FFS get some counseling.
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The mature thing to do would be to stop the affair immediately. Divorce your current husband. He deserves the opportunity to find someone who loves him.
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Just thankful you’re not my “friend” because you are a crappy one!!!
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You need to learn how to tell a story… punctuation is key. You are all over the place 
Not even sure what response or advice you thought you would get here honestly… this isn’t going to end well for anyone…
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I hope your “friend” finds out and disowns you. This is sick. Leave first! I’d never cheat or associate w anyone who does. This is utterly disturbing.
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Did you really post to a social media outlet looking for help and or sympathy? You knew in the back of your head that this would not end well. You have absolutely no respect for yourself, your children, your spouse, nor the other family involved… your “friends”. You have no respect for MARRIAGE as a whole. Until you can value and respect marriage you don’t deserve to be married nor have a spouse. I believe marriage is a sacred vow between two people and is something that should not be taken lightly.
As if it even needs to be said, your boy toy… doesn’t “love” you. He loves your vagina. He isn’t leaving his wife and kids because YOU ARE JUST A PIECE OF ASS!!!
Sorry not sorry.
End the marriage before cheating your hoe
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Your husband, kids, friend and friend’s kids deserve better. I hope they find out, leave and get custody!
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I don’t think her anonymous fan post went the way she thought.
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Oh man. You’re kidding me right??? You cant do that and live with yourself at the end of the day hun.
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Just wrong on many levels. At the end of the day, people will be badly hurt and you will have to live with that.
You cannot and will not leave your kids for infidelity. Unless you are subjecting your kids to it having them lie for you or putting them in harms way.
Doesn’t matter if the guy you’re now seeing will leave his wife. Tell your husband and let him move on to find happiness and true love since it’s obviously not you.
This will come back to haunt you so be honest!!! Isn’t that what you tell your kids!? Tell the truth like an adult!
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What a joke 
tell me you want to be dragged without telling me you want to be dragged… Ps. You’re a homwrcking w**re
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If for any last desperate attempt this is someone I personally know. I will tell you this. These responses back up why being a selfish POS and chasing after a taken man wanting what you want and not giving a crap how it punishes the children involved. Is a reason to burn in hell and not the forbidden love kind. There is no such thing as madly in love when you will stop at nothing to hurt people around you like that. That. Is being an inhumane soul who feels nothing for no one else lacks remorse and has a twisted sense of reality. No. You wont get your fairytail ending so start saying sorry to the children you hurt first. Before the SO that were collateral damage. Oh. And Ive cheated once. In a 10 year span of being the one cheated on. And left my relationship once confronted and never played both sides. Only after 10 years of being the one hurt. And them on drugs. And didnt have any children to take responsibility on for hurting. It was wrong. But it was done to finally let go and leave my old life behind. You cant go into it with a no f given selfish attitude like youre ENTITLED to do so. Youre willingly hurting people and feel not a thing about it. You two need help
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Well don’t be a wh*re:person_shrugging:t2: like wtf is wrong with you people. Separate and get a divorce don’t cheat on the man WITH YOUR FRIENDS HUSBAND. Your children, husband and friend dont deserve this. People are such disgusting human beings:nauseated_face:
Move around with that bullshit…
This is why alot of women and men have insecurities because of people like the both of you stuffing someone over. You got to be ashamed of yourselves your children are going to think very little of you for your stupid actions.
Come clean the both of you and let your husband and wife move on to someone else that will treat them alot better then you guys did
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Wow what a friend. Do you not think that your friends husband ain’t gonna cheat on you when he gets sick of you. Once a cheater always a cheater. Stop thinking about y’alls relationship and stop the whole affair. And think about y’alls kids and how your gonna hurt them. Sounds like you both need some marriage counseling.
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What do you do??!! WHAT DO YOU DO!!?? YOU learn to behave yourself and take care of your kids! “Madly in Love” is not a staying kind of love. Plenty of couples stay together once the shine is gone from their marriage. They raise their kids.
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Get a life, preferably without someone else’s husband!!!
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Some friend you are… you think he loves you more than he loves his security with his wife and kids? You’re stupid. Even if he does leave her for you, do you think he’s not going to cheat on you too once he’s bored after 10 years? You both deserve each other. Horrible people.
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Stay in your lane! Move, change #
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You won’t lose your children. But ask a lawyer (free consultation) to make sure because laws are different in each state. Her husband and the other dudes wife are probably having an affair with each other. Lol but seriously I don’t think anyone should be shaming this woman because we don’t know the entire story. She could be a stay at home mom and have no where to go. He could be verbally, emotionally and/or physically abusive. He could be neglecting her needs. Stuff like this don’t happen overnight. Just because she cheated doesn’t mean her husband is an angel. Alot of people stay for the kids because they worry about what environment they’ll be in when the other spouse has them. The fact that she doesn’t make a any move towards divorce for her children shows she’s not selfish and she love them. The fact she’s cheating is because her husband isn’t being a husband and she is human also and has needs. It’s a hard and sticky situation. But you without sin cast the first stone!
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Seriously! The grass ain’t greener on the other side. Water your own lawn !!
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This can’t be a real post 
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End it. You’re going to hurt everyone involved including yourself.
You should also distance yourself from “your friend “ let them fix their marriage while you work on yours.
I hate divorce but affairs are worse.
The courts will never take your children or rule full custody to the other unless they can prove legal safety reasons.
Well I read this as a joke, seems I got the wrong memo 
I thought the poster was joking about pretending to have an affair, but with her own husband to spice things up…
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Stop your affair and confess to your friend
Tell your husband you’re cheating on him and deal with the consequences you deserve
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Amen Jessica Amy Monteiro jessi
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This sounds like the woman that used to cut my hair. 
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He obviously doesn’t love you and you obviously don’t love your husband so leave both of them alone🤷🏻♀️and tell you’re friend you’re a whore for sleeping with her husband
Oh my… good luck! This is NOT the way to do things whatsoever. I don’t care if you say you’re madly in love. What are you going to do 10 years later when you cheat on the dude you’re cheating with? This is so disgusting… you guys aren’t just doing it to your spouses, y’all are doing this to your kids as well. If you truly don’t love your husband anymore, do him a favor and leave him. But don’t ruin another family. You’ve already ruined your own.
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If you’re having an affair with a married man which is also your husbands friend then maybe you should get a divorce because when he finds out the marriage will be over because there is no trust. Nothing like this comes out in a good situation. Sounds like you need to be honest with your husband and tell him the truth, if you don’t love him anymore why not allow the man to find someone that will love him the way he deserves. As for the other man if he will do what he is doing to his wife with you what makes you think after all mess that’s been created and losing your family that he won’t do the same to you. If his wife finds out and tells your husband before you that is not going to work in your favor neither if anything it’s going to south fast. The kids are an excuse for you doing wrong, I believe you should be honest and move on with your life and not expect the same from the other man because it’s not likely he’s going to leave his family for you otherwise he would have already done so.
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That’s a messy situation. If I was you I’d be looking at why I thought ANY of this was a good idea. Do some soul searching cause I’m sorry but I only see disaster #wtaf
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Leave… You won’t lose your kids. Divorce happens daily… AND you won’t break any ones heart in the process.
You are both wrong … Stop making excuses that you don’t want to loose your children… What comes around goes around you putting sin on to your children… Your selfish person…
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Ummm end things now! You are not that good of a friend if you are sleeping with your friends husband!
Then again maybe you both since you are cheaters deserve each other 
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Yeah I have an answer for you,
Close your damn legs, see a counselor and work on your own marriage. If you can’t do that, then do your family a favor and walk away, you do not have the right to screw up your children’s lives.
Just leave everyone in peace.
You’re a work of art.
You do not deserve them❤️
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That’s not ending well for anyone. What about your “friend” just cause the love has completely gone as you say for you doesn’t mean everyone involved feels this way. Cheating isn’t the answer.
For better for worse ,for richer or poorer,in sickness and in health … …these vows were put in place years ago as a warning that these things may have to be endured , poverty ,I’ll health and things between you getting better or maybe worse with the question …do you promise to love each other if these things happen ,if you said yes after that ,as supposedly did your ,"other guy " then you both better take a good hard look at each other ,if vows can be so easily broken what does it say about yours and his character ,grow up and face your responsibilities !!
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Wow, this whole post! Your trash no advice, I hope he divorces you and makes your life a never ending cycle of drama. You deserve it.
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You have no business calling your lovers wife a friend smh cause friends wouldn’t sleep with there friends husbands…
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some people don’t deserve happiness. but all of those kids do. he says he’s not going to leave because of his kids. ha. no honey, hes not going to leave his wife.
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Who wrote this her child
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Uhhh you need your ass whooped sis 
what’s wrong with y’all
Oh gosh. What do u do??? Be honest, tell the truth and accept that your actions will cause heatbreak and devastation to your husband and children. The potential loss of your family.
Ask forgiveness. And do some work within yourself to forgive yourself for your betrayal
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Home wrecker in its finest form 
hope everyone leaves your stupid ass in the dust, kids included
You won’t lose your children just for having an affair. It’s not child neglect. While it’s a horrible thing to do, it’s not illegal. If you’re not happy in the marriage, leave. No point with anyone being miserable.
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No only are you a bad wife but also a bad friend and mother…GROW UP
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Is this even for real 
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You need to go to therapy…that’s messed up…
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Your vile YOUR MATES HUSBAND 
who needs enemys with friends like you
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There are a lot of negative comments. First of all, good for all of you that have wonderful lives, we all weren’t lucky enough to hit the lottery when choosing our spouses. You both were unhappy and found happiness else where. Both file for divorce, unless there is some kind of child abuse/neglect you won’t lose your kids. Best of luck to you both.
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im still wondering what yall are practicing…safe sex:woman_shrugging:
lol
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I pray you both loose Everything and have to pay spousal support… oh and throw in a little bit ov Hiv/Herpes.
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I think this is how forensic files starts…
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If you were that worried about losing your kids you should have gotten a divorce before you started sleeping with someone else
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Death do the part wedding vows doesn’t mean anything do you both now. Loyalty has gone out the window.
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Be an adult and tell your husband you don’t love him anymore. Eventually he and the kids will find out. That’s very devastating and destructive.
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I can’t actually belive this is real… this has to be a troll… “your friends husband” you are a horrible friend, and a horrible wife if this is legit
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Affairs never end well. Love is not the only thing that keeps a marriage solid because every marriage runs of love at some point.
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Sounds toxic. Why not be honest with your husband, and then stop seeing this guy (who will never leave his wife and kids for you as you mentioned)… since there is no future for the two of you. Do you want to continue having an affair with someone who doesn’t really want to have a future with you? And in that way neither of you will lose your kids. And then start afresh…
First of all you should be ashamed of yourself that’s a nasty thing to do
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Omg! Your friend’s husband?! What a horrible person you are!! Just wait, karma is a bitch!
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this has to be a troll this is some real Jerry springer stuff
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Probably stop being a cheating lying w&$;e 
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On the next episode of 48hours … LOL!!!
My gosh people on here hoping she loses everything over an affair. Are you kidding me. Yeah having an affair is really shitty but it doesn’t mean she deserves to die or lose everything. Love is a tricky thing. She needs to end it and tell her husband or file for divorce and move on with her life. There will be devastating consequences of course but that’s fucking life. Shitty things happen and you have to keep truckin along.
Bakit d kayo maglason ?
Is this a joke or trick statement? You allege your having an affair with your husband???
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You, and people like you is why I’ve been single most of my life. You made your bed
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Home wrecker piece of gutter trash you are
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Having an affair with you’re husband. Unreal. What ever works . 
You’d both deserve it, so I’d just call it off now.
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Quit having an affair until I divorce