If you ‘just aren’t into him’ for his sake you need to let him go. He deserves someone who is just equally excited to see him as he is to you and you know it or you would not be on here questioning it. After a few months you should feel something. Best of luck to you!
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Your leading him on if you have been seeing him for 2 months now. I know within the first date if I have a feeling or not. That’s why you continue dating after that. Then see where it goes. But u need to break it off, let him find someone who does want him and you find someone who you want.
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Why are you still dating him if you don’t feel the same way about him? Stop wasting his time. What a terrible thing to do! You are leading the poor guy on 
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SMH. If you’re thinking that way it will never happen. It’s all in your head. You have everything a woman would love to have and it’s not good enough for you? You need to figure out why
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When my sister in law started dating my brother I was worried that she’d break his heart because she had been into "bad boys ". She said "I’m not sure I can do it he’s so nice!’ I told her “nice is good!”. They just celebrated their 48th anniversary! But they always had chemistry. They still do.
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You totally answered your own question. .it’s been a couple months. Your not feeling what he is for you. Straight up . The longer you keep seeing him. The more he’s going to get attached and emotionally that’s not fair to him. I’m anything keep him in your life as a friend. I also and single four grown children. Have more guy friends due to I wasn’t attracted in them sexually. But so adored them . Friends are forever.
Let him go. He deserves better.
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Then why pro long dating him .let him find someone that wants him
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Let him go please now… so he can find that someone that is into him like you aren’t!
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Yeah. And men are the problem
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Leave that man alone so he can find someone who is as into him as he is with them. C’mon now
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b!tch move! just let him go and let him find a super nice girl who’s into him not someone who’s using him
I was the same way. He was in love with me a few months after we met but I wasnt really attracted to him. He was a great guy. Had custody of his daughter. House, car, good job. I was mad at myself because he was everything I dreamed of. He treated me like a queen 
Fast forward. We’ve been together for 4 years now. Hes the love of my life and I couldn’t imagine life without him. God does he annoy me sometimes 
but I’ve never been this happy
I’m not saying stay. Everyone is right. It is very unfair to them. But something just changed one day for me.
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If he doesn’t do for you don’t waste his time.
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Sounds like you have alot of issues 
This poor guy needs to run for the hills and find a good woman who won’t waste his time and lead him on!
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Once again this page is horrible… why yall so bitter and negative to the poster ? Do yall just say hateful ass shit because it’s anonymous ? Guarantee If it was someone you knew in real life your statements would be completely different. Don’t come at me with the whole " if say the same thing I’m blunt with my friends" because … no your not 
I like the posts on this page because SOMETIMES you can get insightful opinions but yall are just here to bash and act like your life is any better 
ANYWAY to the original poster … I would just be upfront with him , it may not even be that your not into him as much but your love language is totally different and show it different ways , if it’s been going on for a couple months I feel like there is some kind of chemistry there but you guys are not on the same level. Being honest and communicating that may be what changes things and makes a difference… IF after communicating and you don’t feel any different I would end it before It really gets too far and you both end up feeling an obligation to each other ( even with out feelings )
This question is loaded. Because it sounds like you’re hesitating for fear of your own. Why don’t it “do it for you” are you not looking to commit? Is the kids dad still in the back drop and you think things will get too complicated? Are you too closed off? Is it something you can adjust your mindset on? Maybe the kids dad started out charming and it ended bad… You’re scared of a reoccurrence… I mean you’re being honest and that takes a lot of guts. But there’s not enough info here. Maybe try counselling to find the root before you jump…ask guy to give you some time to sort stuff out…tell him honestly that you enjoy his company but with your kids in mind you don’t know where you two are headed… Be honest with him as you have with this group. Like someone above me said. Sometimes it’s just an internal reflex and you need to sort out your own qualms and sometimes it’s intuition and prevention of your instincts warning you.
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Yep if you’ve been going out together for a couple of months and he’s all over you and you’re still not into it you’re boarding on leading him on.
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Am I the only one seeing a red flag?
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First of all, if you really aren’t into him, why introduce your kids to him?
Second, you probably feel the way you do about him because he really is a nice, sweet guy. But, I would say if you find the sex not all great, let him go, because even with him being such a great guy, if you aren’t satisfied now you never will be in that department. He does deserve a woman that is & you are not that woman.
And third, he just might be putting on a act to get you where he wants you, maybe. And again, this is really, truly a well rounded sweet man.
Go get yourself a man that will use you and hurt you, you’ll probably be more into him then. 
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First queuing thought was why are you so afraid to let a love men love you. You were at Toto him until he started loving you more then you live him! He sound like he want a relationship and you dkny
I say you should end it, and let him find someone that feels the same way he does…It isn’t fair to anyone involved (including the kids) for you to stay with him if you don’t feel anything for him… Please don’t introduce your kids to him if you are not planning on being with him
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Dude you have already led him on long enough. He already has feelings that are gonna be hurt. Do it now before you make it worse for him xx
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Girl let that man go find the connection he deserves. I’m pretty sure you know you’re leading him on by now…
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You are teasing him. Let him go.
if you’re not attracted to the guy then stop seeing him. it’s very simple. leave him alone.
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Stop wasting his time… if you aren’t attracted to him you can’t force yourself to be and there is no need for him to continue to take you on dates or meet the kids, let him go so he can find someone who wants him and is attracted to him and wants a future with him.
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Don’t try to push feelings you don’t have that’s never goin to work … u can’t force feelings for someone just cause u like bein treated well… u can’t string him along like that … he deserves someone to treat him as he’s been treating you bless him
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Are you sabotaging this on purpose? Is it how your relationships usually go? If he’s good enough to be with for all the reasons you say, why not the rest…I hope you’re not leading him on…
End it so someone else can be with him. He sounds like he deserves that.
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I’ve tried the whole dating scene and it’s a minefield. So many Men don’t really know what they want and it sounds like you have a genuine and decent guy who has stayed around for Months now trying to make it work. It sounds like you are just using him because you don’t want to be alone but you don’t want him either. It hurts to get strung along like this. Please stop and let him find someone who does want him!
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Don’t settle and leave before you bring your kids into it! It sounds like you’re forcing yourself to settle because of certain characteristics. But the right one will be the COMPLETE perfect package and not portions of it. Yeah, and stop leading him on!
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I hate to be the man hater in the room but men aren’t like what you described. And if he were that perfect you would be all over it. Your spirit is trying to tell you something and that is why you are questioning things. Break it of and do it fast. The Women who survived Ted Bundy all said he was all you just described. Do Not Let HIM in Your House !! or near your KIDS.
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You have 3 kids good luck finding someone else who will accept them like he clearly does, he deserves to know your using him like you are. Why would you even consider bringing him to meet your kids when you’ve said 3x your not into him, messing with peoples heads.
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Be honest and let that guy go ,let someone else appreciate him !!
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Uv led the poor guy on enough
End it now stop messing with his feelings like that you wouldn’t like it done to you
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Stop playing him and leading him on you wouldn’t want a man doing that to you and why in the world would u want to bring your kids into the picture and hurt them like you are hurting him by leading him on you need to be an adult and break it off
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Don’t waste his time tell him the truth and hopefully you find someone who makes you feel more excited
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End it, you can’t be with someone you’re just not in to, no matter how much he does thing for you. He deserves more than to be used for his kindness. Move on
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If it hasn’t changed in a few months dont Introduce him to your kids because it will not change. If you’re meant to be together you’ll be together. It could just not be the right time. Or, you could be self sabotaging or you could be legitimately disinterested. Regardless you need to COMMUNICATE with him about it. It could just be your anxiety flaring because you are scared. You won’t know until you communicate and take some space. If you are a single mother maybe just focus on you and your kids for now. You could just simply not be ready for this step yet. Don’t listen to society. You do NOT need a man and your children for NOT need a father especially if it does not feel right.
Holy!! How selfish are you? Let this great guy find someone who appreciates him.
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Let him go if you’re not interested.
Let him go, you are not being fair to him
I wouldn’t end it yet. tell him to slow down and give yourself time to figure out how you feel about him. It seems like you like him but aren’t falling for him as fast as he is for you and that’s ok. Don’t introduce him to your kids yet since you aren’t even sure how you feel about him.
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Quit stringing this guy along. You’re not interested, but yet you keep dating him. Grow up and tell him. Would you like it if someone did that shit to you?
Let him find someone else. You clearly aren’t interested
Stop leading this guy on! Let someone else appreciate him.
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You may just need to grow those feelings first. Ask him to slow it down a little.
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If not let the guy go before you crush him bad
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Talk. To. Him. About all of it. Everything you’re feeling… than the TWO OF YOU can decide what’s right to do.
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Sounds like you need help. There are not very men who are that kind. Give him a chance and see if this is the real him. Not many people want to raise someone else’s kids either. I was married to a narcissist for 17 years. Just let him go now if you don’t want to be with him. Sounds like you are too picky for a relationship.
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Be honest period and tell him how u feel, otherwise it’s just effed up to let him continue on in the relationship with growing feelings.
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What’s the rush.
Lots of people, and women in particular, want to know someone well before they choose intimacy.
Tell him once you decide to be intimate, you will be ready!
Anyway, it is hard to enjoy, and usually humiliating, to have sex under pressure.
It’s supposed to be a mutual thing.
These scenarios are ridiculous! But in this one, the guy deserves way better. And this chick will probably keep picking guys she’s super into that treat her like garbage.
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You’re an adult. Be honest with him. Would you want someone to lead you on?
You’re an adult, either be honest with him or stop blocking his blessing and let him find what he deserves. I’m sure you don’t like being led on so don’t lead him on. Men have feelings too.
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Kids are involved. This is or should be a no brainer. Let him go.
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If you don’t like him why is this even a problem? Walk away
Why are you leading him on and wasting his time if you aren’t into him? That’s just wrong. Men have feelings too, you know. If you aren’t interested in him in that way, tell him and let him find someone that will appreciate him. If he’s better as a friend, tell him, don’t keep going on dates with someone you have no intention of being with, that’s hurtful.
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No one can pretend forever soo my rule is wait 3 months and if they’re the same person that’s who they really are. I’d say give him a chance and try to talk about it. Maybe slow things down a little or something. Just be honest with him
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Stop dating him. It’s not fair
Stop using him. You aren’t interested. Let him go be fore his feelings get deeper.
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Imagine yourself in his shoes.!! Be honest with him. And ….Don’t lead him on. The longer you wait , the more he’ll be hurt.
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Why are you leading him on? No he should not meet your kids. He deserves to be with someone that can reciprocate the way he treats you. Let someone else be with him. He deserves that.
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If you ain’t feeling him don’t introduce him to your kids. Tell him he ain’t it and find someone who is. Just my opinion.
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Let him find someone who likes him. Don’t use him and break him.
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If you aren’t into him, QUIT STRINGING HIM ALONG!!! That is not fair to him or to you And NO - DO NOT introduce to your children if you aren’t serious about this guy.
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Definitely do not introduce your kids if there is no future. I didn’t introduced my kids to my now husband for 6 to 8 months. I want to say thank you though. So many women move men into their house with their kids, like it doesn’t effect them. So thank you for not just having this man around your kids, he could be a great guy, my husband is amazing and i still waited. And he was a single dad of 5 kids all on his own.
Why would you want him to meet your kids if your not interested in him the way he is you? You’re wanting to end it? so I’m not understanding. Just end it and move on
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If you’re not interested, then move on. Don’t bring your kids into this!
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Sounds like you’re used to dating jerks and can’t handle this nice treatment
That’s why you are not attracted but don’t want to give up this wonderful treatment
Maybe give him a shot and allow yourself to be treated good
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You sure as hell should not lead him on.
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Let him go so he can find someone he deserves
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Seriously?? Why are you leading him on?? You sound a little full of yourself, you want his affection but your not really into him??? I hope this really good man finds a really good woman! Sorry, not Sorry!
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I think that you are just bored and looking for someone to fill your time up. You have three kids, go waste time with them. Not with some guy your not into.
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Break up with him before you are in to deep. Plus don’t let him or any one else(friends/family) guilt you into staying or feel guilty for leaving such a “perfect guy”. Trust me.
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If he’s so into you so quickly he may be a narcissist and trying to groom you. Be careful
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You need to let that man go so he can find someone who appreciates him now for who he is rather than his long list of things you like, none of which are him. It’s better you realize all this now rather than later when it would really hurt him to lose you. It wouldn’t be fair to him. If you aren’t that into him you need to let him go. And absolutely keep your children out of the relationship if you aren’t sure. There’s no need for them to be included.
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I’m agreeing with some of the other comments. Have you been with lots of jerks and like can’t handle actually being treated nicely?
Either give the guy a shot or let him go so he can find someone who actually wants him.
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Are you attracted to his personality and not his looks? So funny story but when I first started dating my kids father I kinda felt the same. I loved his personality but I wasn’t all that attracted to him physically. And then one day I was. I decided to give him a chance bc personality definitely matters way more and I think I just grew into thinking he was attractive. But in the beginning he for sure was not my type at all. I’d say give him a chance. Also he might be amazing with your kids and that right there should make you attracted to him.
So.etimes we are so used to guys from our past treating us like crap, that when we get a good one, we look the other way, or are turned off by them. Maybe sit back and evaluate WHY you like him, and honestly point out why you’re having these “turn off” moments with him. It’s never gonna be that fairytale “Love at first sight” mess. But you shouldn’t have those feelings. I’ve been with some pretty bad A-holes in my past, where my guard is up and me just protecting mine and my kids heart. But I met a man that was ONLY supposed to be a friend, which turned out becoming my best friend, and now my partner. He treats me the way I always expected to be treated, I still at times have and keep a wall up from past experiences and such…But I never had the “turn off” sense with him. It was always a desire for MORE of each other as each day grew. So step back, and reevaluate your wants and desires with him…and for the love of god don’t introduce him to your kids until you know that. It’s not fair to him or the kids to have someone “taken away” from them, especially if they get a bond with them.
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Put yourself in his shoes and do what you would want someone to do you or your kids.
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Childish tendency on your part! How many times you say your NOT INTO HIM? HOW OLD ARE YOU?
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You should be a grown up and cut that amazing man free to find someone who will love him not use him. It’s unfair to be with someone just because you are lonely and he is kind and loving.
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Two months is a short time. Slow down. You don’t even like him. Men say and do alot to have sex with you. Obviously he’s trying his luck and trying to make moves. He’s spending money to also get sex
Let that man go stop wasting his time. Nobody is gonna benefit from the situation
You have literally repeated urself a million times…we get it…“you are not into him”… stop leading him on and let someone who deserves him find him and treat him right…
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Walk away before HE gets hurt. If you are not into him, why are you hanging around? For the benefits? Walk away and make someone else miserable.
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You should grow tf up! And stop playing with this man! He deserves so much better!
“wHeRe Did aLL the gOoD gUyS Go?”
They got sick of being played and strung on!
Dates for months? And you know you’re not into him?
QUIT WASTING THIS MANS TIME!
SHAME ON YOU.
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You don’t even know if you like him but your gonna let him meet your kids 
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Turn the tables and think about how you would feel if he was saying this about you. Doesn’t feel so great aye?
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Personally this is how my bf was when we first got together, I didn’t know how to handle it because my bfs before that were the exact opposite… we started dating when we were 16 so i didnt understand alot of things about guys yet or realize he really was good not just acting like it like my previous abusive relationships… I hurt him in ways I shouldn’t have been forgiven for because I wasn’t as into him as he was in me for those reasons… after I got my head out of my ass I realized he really was everything I wanted… thankfully he was able to forgive me and we are happy and I spend everyday loving him how I should have from the beginning.
Don’t lead him on anymore find someone you’re interested in. And don’t introduce your kids to him if he’s not going to be around a while.
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Please let that man go so he can find someone who really cares for him and wants to be with him. I won’t try to tell you how crazy it is to find everything you’d want to have then not want it. Please do take one piece of advice and don’t chase men who don’t want to be with you like this guy does. Been there done that and now I’m happy to have a man who actually wants to be with me.
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If he’s not what your looking for. Let him go. Don’t introduce your kids to him unless he’s a keeper.
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