That’s fine if you don’t want to be with him but you shouldn’t make him take you to court to see his kid, that’s just childish.
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Take him to court for full custody
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Let him try… unless u are unfit he has nothing to stand on… js I went thro it and he had nothing to say… he even got best of the best attorneys and got supervised visitation at first…
He can’t take the baby unless he can prove you unfit which your not block any n all numbers of his intill visitation n child support are filed n signed off by a judge
Laugh in his face. And dont put his name on anything.
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Keep those texts. He can take it to family court to get visitation. But he cannot just take the child away from you, with his reasoning being that you don’t want to be with him. However, he does have parental rights. Unless he’s unfit, is there another reason you don’t want him in your child’s life?
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Just stop communicating with him. If he wants to fight through court let him lawyer up. You don’t owe him anything.
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Don’t put his name on birth certificate but my opinion he should be able to see the baby and know everything about the baby just cause you ended things doesn’t mean it ended for the baby
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Immature. Grow up. Poor kid. I will never understand why people being kids into such chaos!
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I left my bd before I had baby right after I found out I was pregnant.
I’ve had a horrible experience with my oldest son’s father. Ever since the divorce many years ago now, and after I put him on child support, he’s tried everything to take my son away from me.
Keep every single message her sends you and NEVER, EVER, reply with anything condescending, threatening, mean, no cursing, etc. This helped me tremendously and I won both times in court. Do not give him any satisfaction in seeing you shaken. He’s the one messing himself up either the harassment and threatening to take you to court. That’s a form of intimidation. Don’t fall for it. Stay responsible. Take care of yourself and your children.
Everything will be ok 
I’ll pray for you. This isn’t an easy situation, but you’ll all be ok
You should be glad he’s trying to make it work no.matter what; respect that.
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That’s fine if you don’t want to be with him as a spouse/partner, but he has parental rights. In fact, he has just as much right to the child as you do at this point. Document all communication with him and you and he both need to contact attorneys ASAP because you will be in court. Keep in mind that anything and everything you post on social media can be made aware to the court and judge, so be careful what you say and do.
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Y’all sound super immature.
You don’t have to be together. Don’t respond unless it’s about baby. And keeping a kid from the other when there’s no safety issues is gross.
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Do not put him on birth certificate and give the baby your last name
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Don’t respond unless it’s about the baby. Keep him informed and included in all baby related things. File 50/50 joint custody, no child support when the baby is born. The child deserves the fathers relationship.
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He can’t take full custody just because you don’t want to be with him. It would probably be 50/50 or work around his work schedule. Let him take you to court it’s just easier no fighting or arguing or keeping the kid from one another.
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You don’t have to be with him. Keep records of all of his harassment. Tell him to leave you alone or you’re getting a restraining order.
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Dont communicate with him at all unless you need to. Do all necessary communicating via text and save it all. I doubt he can take the baby bc you to him about the baby or “led him on” 
. Don’t list him as the father, don’t sign a paternity affidavit. If he really wants to push it, he’ll have to first take a paternity test and then he’ll have to prove you shouldn’t have custody and that he should.