I am pregnant with my friends fathers baby: Advice?

Is this real life or a book?! I kinda wanna see a pic of the dad. :rofl:

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I’m 45 but in my 20s…40s was old balls…no thanks lol

Youre not much of a friend if youre sleeping with her dad…

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Girl you’re about to make your friend your step daughter (or at least close to). There’s no longer a reason to be shy might as well air it all out and get it over with. You and her dad should do it together though I will say that, because she will be mad the other didn’t tell. So do it together and hope for the best.

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Ummm seriously ur a messed up friend who the hell does that to someone

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this IS a good one Mamas hahaha
thank you from 38% of us who needed this laugh here

This is fake… right? RIGHT?!

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Obvs she has to know she’s about to become a sister, but yeah, safe to say she’s going to be pissed. Would have been best to run it by her before getting this deep, and pregnant, might have saved some drama.
Good luck with your pregnancy, hope it all goes well.

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Good luck with that :rofl:

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You’re adults now but how long have you known this man? Have you been friends with his daughter for years since childhood? Cause to me that screams CREEP…not fine.

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Haley Lynn imagine this

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I’d keep that shit a secret and take it to my grave. :100:

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Aww, congratulations

Good luck on telling her.

Valerie Meza April Alvarez april

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Better let your daughter know sooner than later :joy:

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I have to see the dad first….

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8 months and you don’t think she has any idea? :thinking:

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Well you’re her step mom now

Honestly I wouldn’t care lol

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you must know on some level what the 2 of you doing is wrong if you’re hiding the truth, the 2 of you need to tell her together now before she find out from someone else

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So what if she slept with ur dad better yet slept with both ur parents how would u feel also you and her father done broke her trust

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You didn’t do anything wrong by getting with her dad…but you did do wrong by not telling her much sooner. Now it’s obvious you’re just telling her because the cats gonna be out the bag anyway.

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Ew.
If you knew this friend since you were a teen (not saying you do but if you did) you don’t think him having sex with you is a bit creepy?

Congrats you now have a Step Daughter aswell :joy:

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oh by the way , you’re not much of a friend either.

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You in some deep shit is all I can tell ya if she ain’t happy about the situation not only are you her best friend but also now the mother of her sister or brother don’t think this situation gonna turn out so good I don’t think she’s wanting to go from best friend to step mom with ya lord what can of worms you done opened🤦‍♀️

Sounds like Eastenders soap opera, Michelle and dirty Den :joy:

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I would let her father say something but you should have definitely gotten permission well consent

You should have been honest from the start but since you weren’t you need to be honest now. I mean you’re pregnant, she’s going to find out lol. You were definitely not a great friend and I won’t be surprised if she doesn’t respond or handle this well. Put yourself in her shoes, would you be ok with it??

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Look, the heart wants what the heart wants but the minute you AND her own father went behind her back like this keeping it secret…you lost your friendship 8 months ago when this began. Not to mention the broken trust she will feel with her father.

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It’s definitely wrong of you both but what’s done is done and if you’re both truly happy together and going to raise the baby together maybe she will come around one day but I wouldn’t count on it anytime soon if ever…. Good luck to you all

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Unpopular opinion- I mean you did it, it was wrong, you say you’re in love and about to have her sibling. It sucks for her but it is what it is. Be as real and open as possible and get on with your life.

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You should have thought of that before being involved with her father. Thats so slimey of you.

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Girl you lost her as a friend now…

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If you have to hide it, you already know it’s wrong. Put your big girl panties on and accept whatever comes next. I do not envy the fresh hell you’re about to enter into.

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“But like…he’s the one” is enough to tell me this is a bs post.

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Hiding it from her in the first place is where your going to lose her as a friend.

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You’re in for a bumpy road. We humans are emotional animals. May your guardian angels watch over you and your baby while your friend struggles for dad attention, a sibling many years younger than she is and feeling overwhelmed that her friend was traded for a stepmom role model😳

Well I mean your her step mom now… you could just ground her if she doesn’t want to be your friend anymore :joy::joy::joy:

All jokes aside tho, I feel like this is weird… how would you feel if she was the one hooking up with your dad and then got pregnant and didn’t tell you ?

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I had to reread the caption. I sure thought it said my friends baby’s father . Better the dad than her man . I suppose

You’re both adults who her father or you date isn’t up to her to decide or dictate.

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This sounds like a Jerry Springer episode :flushed:

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You: hey girl we need to talk

Friend: hey girl what’s going on ?

You: well, I might be getting ready to be your step mom Chile … :grin::rofl::neutral_face:….

At this point, she will probably be laughing, so you have the upper hand to explain it a little better after she realizes it’s not a joke …

Yeah I would probably say that you lost that Friendship but gained a stepdaughter

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Girl you boutta take that L on your friendship… tf :sweat_smile::joy: cause that’s whack, why not be honest from the get to see how she felt about it first… she might have maybe tried to accept it if you gave her the chance too then again she might be weirdly happy for everyone but for me… nah I couldn’t be your friend anymore :woozy_face::rofl:

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Depends on what state you’re in. Lol

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My oldest daughter had this happen to her with one of her best friends. She didn’t get pregnant but they both lied to her and was doing this behind her back. They even stayed at her home a few times at the same time. My daughter was devastated and very hurt by what they did. Needless to say she is not on speaking terms with either one of them now. Oh and by the way her so called friend is also married with 2 kids. Very wrong of both of them.

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You fucked up
You don’t do that to your friend. Yes , you’ll lose the friendship but she’ll be there for the baby.
In the end, it’s your decision so it’s not a big deal.

:face_with_hand_over_mouth::face_with_hand_over_mouth::face_with_hand_over_mouth::face_with_hand_over_mouth: shiiiiit. Your a :poop::poop::poop: friend! Good luck with it

just me aggressively eating almonds reading the comments

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You crossed boundaries.don’t be surprised if she cuts ties with you completely.you also should’ve been honest with her from the jump but waiting almost a year to say something speaks volumes of you.you hid this? What else are you hiding?,you’re both wrong.you don’t go for your friends dads I don’t give a fuck how cute they are,it’s just slimy.I know if you were my friend you’d be out of my life entirely because that’s just not okay to me.

I mean… how long have y’all been friends? Like were you chilling at their house as a preteen/teen when they were still married and you underage? Because that would be the icing on this F’d up cake :rofl::rofl::grimacing::grimacing::skull:

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So you hung around your friend saw the dad and thought gotta get me a piece of that. Talk about keeping it in the family. My advice? Tell the friend if she walks away from both of you then good on her. No point beating around the bush you carrying her sibling now

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Ehhh this happened with my friend’s dad and her friend. And she never spoke to the “friend” again. You’ll have to just deal with what happens.

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You’re about to be her step mom - and are carrying her brother or sister. Uh yeah it’s weird. Probably should have talked to her awhile ago :woman_shrugging:t4:

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That’s a good porno skit. I’ve seen a couple of them, but actually never knew the ending.

You over stepped the mark by going there in the first place :face_vomiting:

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This shit is getting interesting :joy::joy::joy::scream:

So this started off as the friends SINGLE dad to ending up in something serious with ol girl…:thinking:

Start by telling her, she’s going to have to start calling you mommy from now on!! :joy::rofl::joy:
This sh*t can’t be real!! :rofl::joy::rofl:Whatever, I still got a good laugh out of it!

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You were an adult going into the relationship so continue that path and make your choice.

We can’t help who we love in life as much as people can criticise. It’s going to be a rough road and your friend might not accept or understand right now but time heals things. At the end of the day your child will be her brother or sister so regardless she will come around :white_heart: best of luck and congratulations on your pregnancy x 

Can’t be a parent and friend. Gotta pick one :joy:

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If I had a dollar for every time a female said “he’s the one!” And it turned out he “wasn’t the one” whewwwwww $$$$

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If you’ve felt the need to hide it for 8 months rather than tell her that should tell you something. The only reason who have to tell her now is because your having her “ half sibling”, depending on how she sees the whole thing. If it’s something you have to hide it’s probably something you shouldn’t do but hey city girl up I guess :skull:

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i dont think she is going to be happy my son married one of my friends and I no longer talk to her I think she is nasty as hell mind you he did date her daughter as well so you do you and be happy if they dont like it oh well

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Wonder how long this dirty old man has been looking at you in a sexual kind of way. Old nasty *.asdard.

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I want to know the outcome of this situation

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Love happens if she’s a gud person an a gud friend she will get over it but yeah will be bit hard to hear that

The way I’d love to be a fly on the wall for this conversation. Good luck

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You’re about to see how much her Daddy really does care, don’t be surprised if ole Daddy doesn’t have a history of playing with his daughters friends. :face_with_monocle:

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Gotta make yourself her stepmom I guess :woman_shrugging:t3: I have no idea what to tell you other than good luck.

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20 jears difference, just too much.

Bye-bye to that friendship, first and foremost, if you felt like you guys were getting serious I would’ve sat her down and talk to her long before your ass got pregnant. Wow!

That’s y’all’s business. You and the dad’s. You have to be prepared for any outcome with the friend, though. Just tell her and let the chips fall. There’s nothing you can do now…

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Your choices have potentially ruined two relationships. Your friendship and her relationship with her father. He is equally responsible for this :poop:show, not all of the blame rests on you. This was a really :poop:tty thing for the two of you to do without having open dialogue with her about her feelings as soon as ya’ll realized you were catching feelings. You deserve whatever happens. Personally I would likely be done with both of you (at least for a very long time) this is a lot to process. You, most likely for good but I might at some point want to try to mend a relationship with my father

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Well first of all, you don’t give a shit about her or the friendship. So it’s over and good luck. Things are going to get very awkward.

I never thought there’d be a time where I was like “thank god my dad is dead so I don’t ever have to worry about that” but here we are. :tipping_hand_woman:

Also, you’ve already waited 8 months. Might as well not see her/not make plans for another 8 months (assuming you’re 1-2 months along since you know) and surprise her with all of it at once. :woman_shrugging::woman_shrugging:

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It’s the 21st Century…
You are In Love, That’s what really Matters and that You are Happy!

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If you didn’t want to lose her friendship probably shouldn’t have fucked her dad :woman_shrugging:t2:

She’s going to hate you for the betrayal and for keeping it secret :woman_shrugging:

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Too late to turn back now. Gotta tell her.

Yall are all grown and can do what you want. My guy is 30 yrs younger than me. His parents did not like it but it’s not their business. Maybe you should have told your friend, but you didn’t. So tell her now. If yall love each other, she should be happy for both of you. She will always be daddy’s girl. My kids just wanted me happy and safe. Good luck and congratulations on your little one. You’ve found joy now keep it…

Sorry to burst your bubble but this is not going to end well!

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I’m here because I want an update on this! Hahaha

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Well you’re pregnant so its not like it can be a secret any longer🤣

I mean. Unfortunately that friendship might be over. I wouldn’t consider you my friend if you hid something like that for so long… it is HER dad. Whether he’s grown or not I feel like you 2 crossed a whole lot of invisible boundaries everyone knows you just shouldn’t cross. :woman_shrugging::woman_shrugging: good luck! I just know how I would feel in that situation and it doesn’t feel good that your friend is also going to find out you hide things from her… especially when it involves her because that baby is technically her sibling…:woman_facepalming::woman_facepalming:

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Lol the we are getting serious and I’m pregnant lol​:rofl::rofl:. If she’s 25 then it’s really none of her grown a$$ business. Just tell her she about to be a big sister and you do expect mothers day gifts :sweat_smile::rofl::upside_down_face:

As long as your happy that’s the main thing. Congratulations.

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Why didn’t this come to mind before you started the relationship? Or did it but now it’s really complicated.

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You made the choice to fk your friends Das. Live with it

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This is some jerry springer shit lol

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I would love to know how this turns out :laughing:
But at the end of the day if you are both happy just try talk to her. She may be hurt and take time to come around to it.

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Well it’s gonna be weird. You’re going to be her brother or sister’s mother. Hopefully the relationship won’t end. Expect it to be different though.

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You being with her dad isn’t wrong because y’all both are over age and not minors. You care about who you care about and that’s that. However, you’re definitely a shitty friend because regardless if she would have liked it or not, you should’ve been honest from the beginning and you weren’t. And 8 months later AND being pregnant you’re only telling her now because of that. Im sure she will also wonder what else you hid from her or question whether or not you’ve lied or ever been honest with her. She deserves a way better “friend.”

Just how fine is this man? :face_with_monocle::rofl:

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I guess you really did fuck her dad :joy::joy:

Sounds like you’re more of his sugar baby🤷🏻‍♀️

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The fact you had to ask you already knew the answer yes you did something wrong by hooking up with your best friends father what is wrong with you and even worse you got pregnant now all you have to do is tell the truth and hope she forgives you because you’re about to have her baby sister or brother!

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