Yeeeeeah… If you are concerned, why not just talk to his mom?! 
You have to tell him that’s not nice
Oops forgot to say, “tell him to leave & then, close the door”.
Just explain what you are doing and tell him it’s not ok for him to watch… Simple
Have you asked him why he follows you?? Maybe he wasn’t involved with any siblings and is curious… Maybe he would like to help… Maybe he wants to be needed… But to just assume a 10 yr old has bad intentions says something about your issues… Maybe you need to talk to someone.
I would tell the kid myself to:
please do not stand over me and watch me changing the baby, please go back and play with the other kids.
If he doesn’t listen tell your husband to take care of it
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Watching can be innocent, I mean kids learn by watching. He may even be wanting to be close to you even or protective of your daughter. I get how you feel been a survivor of sexual assault thou
oh yeah and my nieces do this with my 2 yr old son i shake the poopy wipe in their faces and they run off, theyre kids… they also get watched by my baby but they dont like it so we shoo him away… its just kids, in general . some do some dont
You girls in these mom groups overreact to everything. 
he’s a child probably curious.? Way to try and make him out to be a pedophile. It’s only weird if you make it weird.
I think you’re over reacting. He’s 10. I mean he’s still a little boy himself basically. He’s just curious.
pff. lol yeah kinda weird just tell him go play if it concerns yu that much. kids ARE curious. Kids do play dirty. Theyre all little weirdos learning to be mommys, daddys, husbands, wives…
I agree with Amanda.
maybe he wants to be a girl one day, hon you never know. dont hurt him jumping to conclusions, and just watch your kids.
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he is ten years old! for the god sake, what the hell you think he was doing? seriously if i was yours in law i send you to hell and never go to your house again, i cant understand how you can take a ten years old that he was just watching how you change her diaper, its curiosity, how in the hell you jump right to pedophile intentions? he was doing something that give you that vibe? or you just went right into the darkest scenary possible.
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He’s 10… He’s still a kid himself, curious about bodies and probably wants to help… Bloody hell you wouldn’t have survived in our house, us as kids used to run around in the starkers until we hit puberty even my 1 year old runs around in the nuddie now in front of everyone and my brother is 22 (being thw only other male in the house) I’d be concerned if he was perving all the time but naked time etc was normalised in our house .
I change my daughter in privacy no point in everyone in the room seeing her bits. Tell him he needs to give her privacy its not ok for boys to watch little girls get their diapers changed or use the potty. People are saying its no big deal but would they let a little boy stand there and watch their daughter use the bathroom? Should that be normalized as well? No. I catch a little boy watching either one of my daughters get dressed or use the potty, They will be told to avert their eyes and give privacy. Just tell him nicely when little girls are doing private things like using the potty or getting their diaper changed when their private parts are exposed your expected to give them privacy. Why do u think theyre called private parts? Because theyre meant to keep private…
I think I would address him about it. Could be as simple as turning and asking him if he needs something. He might be curious, but it doesn’t mean he is creepy. Talk to your nephew, inform him.
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Before I leave this group id like to say, you thinking this now when he is 10… Youre never gonna change ur mind about him. Anything and everything he does will be suspect. Smfh. He is a child and you could help him learn instead you are making him out to be a lil creep to a bunch of strangers. Shame on you. You had a chance to be part of his village, instead you are recruiting your lynch mob. If I was your in laws id get my children away from you. Furthermore, why would you go to strangers for advice on what to do?? You literally are villianizing this CHILD!! WHY IS IT ONLY YOUR CHILDREN MATTER!!! Sick ass people just hyping this woman up. I pray your daughters never get curious and someone makes them look like a creep. Smfh. Bye!