Ma’am……That’s not his long lost niece🥴
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unless you have a reason to think that something is going on between them this sounds like you are over the top. If you truly think he is having or trying to have an incestuous relationship with his niece you need to leave.
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Your whole home life sounds like a hot mess. If it’s truly his blood relative and it’s proven that it is then yes you’re overreacting. Busting in a door with your hip is seriously ridiculous. You cannot control someone else whether or not you feel like you’re protecting them or them having an affair. If you keep going down this road with all this chaos y’all going to be doomed which it already sounds like it is. Just leave
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Something very suss going on here
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That is not his niece and you need to put on your big girl panties and kick him TF out!
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Where did this neice suddenly come from??
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Wow hope he never comes back. You’re way out there
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Creepy! This sounds like a suspenseful lifetime movie 
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This sounds very fishy.
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When you are a believer in God he gives the gift of discernment. Trust your heart, and keep praying.
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Why would him spending time with his niece make you uncomfortable ??? Like you thinks he’s going to start an incestuous relationship with her??
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That’s not his niece. 
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Do you have any proof that she is his ‘niece’?? Or is he trying to pass her off as that, because there is something more going on. You need to do some digging. It sounds very very suspicious to me that this chick, in her 20’s, is all of a sudden coming around. Like where was she for 20 years??? And why is she coming around NOW?? I’d be the same way as you honey. You are NOT crazy or psycho. Listen to your gut and intuition. If you feel that something isn’t right, then it probably isn’t. Good luck 
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If you think your husband will fuck his niece then just say that
If that’s really his niece it’s weird, but also not something to worry about…do you have proof it’s his niece because it certainly sounds like a cover up. 
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I’m really confused and this whole thing sounds weird af
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Are you worried that they are having an affair? Or that it’s not a family relationship but a sexual relationship of some sort? I mean I do Believe it’s weird but I guess I would need more information. Is she actually family? Like have you confirmed that she is his niece? Usually if you feel uncomfortable about something like this then there’s a reason. Listen to your instincts.
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He called you a Nazi??
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baby girl i don’t think it’s his niece
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That’s definitely not his niece.
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I love my uncles but going to bars with them and working with them and being and sleeping in the same room with them
Nonstop is weird. I get all family dynamics are different but this just sounds strange. And trust your gut! If you feel like something is off it probably is! And If he can’t respect how you feel about the situation… it all sounds wrong and for those of you saying she’s a weirdo for thinking they may be sleeping together…… open your eyes. It’s a sick world we live in, there are pedofiles in the world and you think it’s beyond someone to sleep with a family member!? People are sick. Anything, unfortunately, is possible and it can be any race, any walk of life.
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He sounds like kinda an ass. The way you describe what he has been doing it doesn’t sound like he cares much about this relationship. And the fact that he got so mad about the niece makes me think more is going on.
This is joke riteeeee
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Don’t fall for the B.S.!!! Which of his sibling’s does she belong to…that’s who she should be sharing a room with. Just because you’re a Christian doesn’t mean you’re stupid.
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Maybe it’s not his niece but his young sidechick
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heard it’s my cousin but niece wow I would be very worried if that is his niece 
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Keep grounded in the Word of God and let God lead you .
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Not a niece. You are not toxic as was said. He needs to respect you. You are the mother of his child.
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Girl…LET HIM STAY GONE?? He’s gonna want to come back. Don’t let him cuz he will only run again. True story.
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Your thoughts are very odd. Unless he has given you a reason to think otherwise in the past. Are y8u scared he’s going to be sexually active with his niece? It seems more like a jealous thing than anything. But you know him better than the people internet I hope.
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I’m just going to say it… That’s not his niece! 
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That’s not his niece.
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That’s not his niece…
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If that’s his real niece, you crazy. But I would find out bc that sounds odd
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Are you 1000% sure it’s his niece?? If so I’d be super concerned and probably leave him. That’s just sounds creepy. And all the other stuff is red flags too. Leave before it’s to late!
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Is it really his " niece"
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Listen to your instincts and fee you probably saved his niece if I’m honest. It sounds like he is acting this way breaking away as an excuse to be a free man. Build yourself some freedom and a set up then leave, I wouldn’t even tell him what you’re doing. He needs to listen to you and value you for the woman he married and who’s raising both your children while he is out having his fun by the sound of it.
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People don’t act this way towards their nieces. If so it’s just super inappropriate.
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That’s either not his niece or GSA… And, just,
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Narcissistic behavior! You are not wrong. He’s gaslighting you, honey. Allow yourself to see the truth.
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See your doctor. You may be experiencing postpartum. Your intuition is always right. If you are uncomfortable he should be sensitive to this. He chose to marry and have a family. And now treats you as if you duped him into it. Marriage counseling could be an option - but both have to want to try. Chin up and keep pressing on. You can do this!
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That’s not his niece!!!
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That’s not his niece. Lol
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This woman is 4 months postpartum . Your not necessarily thinking clearly your feeling locked down and stuck in the house it’s spiraling in your head to make issues. It sounds like he needs to be home. And he needs to be putting the attention to his new baby. And bring the niece over… Unless in fact it is not his niece then you need to just get away, he’s being a dirt ball.
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Whoa…
First, you and the baby need to get out sometimes. Go to the park, take a walk, something. Some movie theaters have parent toy movie screenings during the day when adults can see movies with other adults who are bringing their young kids.
Second, you and your husband need time together. Divorce rates spike within two years after the first child is born. Many new fathers feel displaced, like they’re no longer the center of attention. Others don’t know what their role is anymore. Baby or not, the relationship must come first, children a close second.
I highly recommend couple’s counseling as well as setting up a weekly date night. Currently, you’re living two separate lives. If you don’t make concrete changes and rebuild the marriage, you’ll likely end up divorced.
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I’m sorry but no man would treat you like this over his niece. They would simply remind you of family. Not call you crazy for following your intuition!!!
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Something shady going on here.
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Yeah…Julia Roberts was Richard Gere’s “niece” in Pretty Woman. Does he even have siblings 
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For those of you saying she has no trust in him, like it’s her fault … obviously he has given her a reason, or really plenty of reasons to not trust him. The way he responds to her? Huge red flag. HUGE. :exclamation:
I’m just gonna put it out there… I don’t think she’s truly his niece. Definitely not a normal uncle/niece relationship. Somethings up. So here’s my advice: let him leave, let him continue to fck up. Don’t let him blame you. Get out. Focus on yourself and your kids, and live your life. There is absolutely no reason as to why he needs to get all worked up and rude like he has. Must be guilty of something. This is all just really weird to me. 
most definitely isn’t his niece 
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I’d be asking how this person is a niece? This whole situation sounds fishy!!
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I dont think that is his niece… 
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I think it’s sus… maybe she’s NOT his niece. Who’s her mama and daddy?
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That’s weird to be taking your niece to bars and restaurants without you and the family. Sounds like he’s a cheater
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Listen to your gut and stand by it.
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If people act like they don’t care about you, believe them
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Mmmm that’s not his niece
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Kaila Eileen Wallace am I wrong for laughing at this lol
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How is this a niece? Have you met her parents? I’m guessing she’s not a niece
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It sounds like you both need to go to counseling. Praying i good and all, but, you also need intervention. None of us can give you sound advice as we don’t know the total situation, only what you have told us about how you feel and your perspective of the situation. You guys should have a licensed therapist sit and talk with both of you so y’all can work through your issues and learn how to effectively communicate. Continue to pray and ask for guidance and discernment.
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Is niece a new code name for side chick 
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Is there proof that’s is his niece?
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Okay…
All that comes to mind for me personally is that you have experienced some sexual abuse from a family member or some shit… How else could an uncle/neice relationship trigger you so? How are you threatened by another family member lol… Get out of the house woman 
it’s not doing ya mental health any good.
So is incest a Christian thing and that’s why you think he’ll commit it?
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neice or not his niece hes treating you like garbage and after you just gave birth to his child …he should be bring you flowers …helping out with the baby and understanding about your feeling and concerns …let him go hes not a good role model for your babies and hes certainly not good for you …please let hm go hes not worth it what hes doing is mental abuse get out now before its too late
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He has you and the new baby along.
I got a few sentences in and I don’t believe this is his niece one bit.
Thats his girlfriend.
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Ohhh he has a thing for her…
Yeah…I’m in agreement with the other people on here who say she’s likely not his niece. I rarely even speak to my uncles-let alone go to work or share a hotel room with them. 
Something stinks. Smells like a big ol pile of BS to me! 
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That’s just weird anyway. Who spends that much time with a grown neice they just met. I’d feel the same way. Cause nah.
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Are you sure it’s his niece? is she blood related? It sounds like you are both in a toxic situation and you are better off without him. It sounds like when you try to express your feelings, you are met with a very negative response. Not communication, which is what it should be. And why is he taking her out every weekend? He has a very odd attachment to his “niece”…
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If it’s his neice I think your super insecure and sick in the head for having these thoughts and u should get evaluated lol and he should leave your crazy ass
If it’s not his niece than clearly he’s cheating on you but u said him spending time with his son didn’t make u uncomfortable so again red flag is you
If he’s some creep and likes to fuck his family members than lol not much of a loss, RUN cause thats sick. This entire thing is weird and fucked up no matter which way u spin it either he’s a creep or your the creep
Being a niece in my late 20s, with an uncle who works on the road… going to work with him was awesome. It gave me a chance to learn about hands-on work, and make some real cash. If his wife had reacted in such a manner, my uncle woulda lost it too lmao.
Are you that insecure that he can’t even hang around family because they’re female?
I’d suggest stepping back, counselling and if that’s not enough don’t be with him.
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He invalidates your feelings. What do you mean shut you out of your own room? I’d bust it down too
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You’re seriously jealous of his niece?
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Baby that’s not his long lost niece. Maybe you shouldn’t have busted the door down but hey hormones and suspicion make people do things. Was your baby in the room he locked you out of? That would cause me to break a door down too. IMHO and in my experience, when you bring up that you are uncomfortable and don’t feel right about something and they fly off calling you names and such it’s because they are guilty of something and trying to make you think you are the one in the wrong.
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Maybe a bit over the top breaking a door, but locking you out, i would leave his ass for that alone…
About his niece, maybe he is just trying to make up for lost time? It sounds to me like you may be a little jealous that his attention is on his niece which is totally valid, they are your feelings and you are entitled to them. I don’t know how to help you there. But it sounds like there are a lot of issues here, for your own sake and sanity go somewhere and visit someone for a few weeks and see how you feel after that…
All these comments about him being perverted etc are way over the top, we don’t have enough information to say that either way. Not all men are perverted, pedos etc!!
Let him go to work. And while he’s gone take your things and kids and get out, find somewhere else to go. Doesn’t seem like it’s his niece.
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Sounds like you are not trusting your husband with his niece. You are thinking she is a threat…that in itself tells alot about how u feel as the wife that you are threatened by a family member he is getting to know in general. You don’t trust him now the question is why do u feel that way about your husband ? Is it you or has he given you a reason to think her being family that nothing will happen? But in fairness if you came busting through a door that gives you your answer.
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Are we sure it’s actually his niece? I’m cringing. And I always say go with your guy bc even if you’re wrong something isn’t right.
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He doesn’t sound committed to you. I’d let him go .tell him goodbye. You deserve better.
Ma’am that isn’t his niece lol 
sorry to laugh but neices don’t just pop up one day and spend all their free time with their long lost uncle. He’s sleeping with that girl. Next step she will be pregnant.
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Umm nope…just nope! Wake up!!
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My number one question is are you absolutely positive that is his niece & he’s not just saying that she is…
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Oh well get a j- o- b and take care of you and children. Apply for help.
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You’re not crazy or imagining things. He’s gaslighting you to make you feel that way.
If you can, get away from him
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Are you positive it’s his niece?
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There’s more going on than what meets the eye. Be Careful !
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Yea come on are people actually this naive??
I mean, has he tried to put the moves on family before? I’m getting Deliverance vibes here …
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NOT his niece not buying it
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Are you sure it’s his niece?
If she definitely is there is something called GENETIC SEXUAL ATTRACTION you should look into
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A niece at 20 that he has never met? Lol ummm have you not met his family? His brothers and sisters?
There is a lot to this story we don’t know lol -
On the flip side if it really is his niece then you have some serious issues that should also be addressed.
This situation sounds like everyone needs some therapy or on Jerry Springer one
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Are you sure she’s his niece? That sounds weird as ever
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Girl he’s lying to you! That’s not his niece! If it was he wouldn’t have made a big deal about you not wanting her to go with him! Sounds like u need to lose the loser!
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I wouldn’t trust it either honestly
That ain’t his niece…
The End!
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Niece? I’m gonna say no
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I wouldn’t want him to take her either
How sure are you she’s actually his niece? That’s so weird.
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