My partner works on the road, we just had a baby 4 months ago… I haven’t left the house alone or with him for this entire time… He just met his young neice late 20s for the first time in January. But the past 4 weekends hes had free time, he’s spent it taking her out. Now he wants her to go to work with him. When I told him it made me uncomfortable, especially since Iii used to ho yo work with him, he just got upset and said I was crazy. So I told neice how it made me feel, she’s a really big sweetheart, and she said she understood. I was under the impression he’d already decided not to take her, but I mentioned how I told her and she understands and then he blew up on me again. Saying I’m a weirdo, crazy, nazi, trying to dictate his life… I’m very Christian based, and believe in forsaking all others for the sake of spouse and our relationship… apparently we do not see eye to eye… but he shut me out of our bedroom when my other daughters are sick, baby is crying… and I don’t understand why I am made to be so crazy when he’s treating me do harshly! I broke the door by hurling my hip into it… I wasn’t being aggressive as that sounds… but… now he told me he’s gone forever. I do regret busting in the door. And not giving him space. But, I’m so upset. He was insisting we get out of the house before this event took place, the last time he attempted taking me out, he brought me back after I brought up how I didn’t appreciate him spending every weekend he’s home out at the bars with his neice… there’s more I’m leaving out, but… idk if I’m wrong?? … im not trying to hinder their relationship, in fact, I believe family is great, and id love to spend time together… but, I don’t want our relationship hindered either. And, maybe I’m protecting him? I think she thinks it’ll be a fun good time, and its work… they’ll be sharing hotel rooms and going out for dinners… he just brought his son, but that didn’t bother me as much… id be thrilled if he brought another Christian man who needed extra income … I just don’t love the idea with him sharing a room, a vehicle, and life with any other female who is not me… he thinks I’m selfish. … I think I’ve sacrificed much, being at home with children all day… never leaving… I think He’s being inconsiderate. But, I don’t dare try to make him see that. please help. I’ve prayed so much… and keep opening my Bible. I just want what is good, right, and fair… but, I really don’t know if he’s going to come back. I think he hates me.
Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. I don't want my husband bringing his niece to work with him: Am I wrong?
Sounds like they have something going on possibly. Sounds like he’s gas lighting and manipulating you.
I’m sorry but that’s super weird
Sounds like you think he’ll be sleeping with his niece. 
. If that’s the case, ewwww. Breaking a door with your hip, is exactly that. I would have issue with that too. That isn’t respecting his boundaries. But he’s not respecting yours about the niece. Y’all both need therapy, I think.
Sorry girl but my first thought is that lady isn’t his real niece maybe so I don’t know but your feelings and how you feel are valid go with your gut instinct and do what’s best for your family!
Is it his blood niece
It’s his niece!! Not another woman…I think your jealous.
Is it a blood siblings kid
The comments are weird. Y’all think he’s sleeping with his niece. That’s disgusting.
That’s really weird vibes nah 
I mean, if it was just his niece working with him, I would say your in the wrong for trying to control that she doesn’t work with him. But sharing a room? Thats kinds weird if they are both grown adults.
But the rest, I think your overreacting. Do you think he’s sleeping with his niece?
What kinda hillbilly land do you live in that you just automatically assume he’s gonna be cheating on you with HIS NIECE or something
Get rid of niece and husband
Doesn’t sound like that girl is actually his niece
And if she is, it sounds like your husband has perverted intentions with her. The way hes acting is beyond weird. Why does he need to take her to do all that kind of stuff alone away from you? Why doesn’t he just invite her to your house to see the kids and you? Why is he trying to isolate himself with her?
Your husband sounds like a damn weirdo
In**st …a game the whole family can play
I’m not sure what is happening at all.
Unless my “niece” was interested in my career im not sure id want to bring her to work with me
Probably not his niece
You don’t want to say it but you know that your gut is telling you something. Believe it. He’s gaslighting you as well. If mothers and fathers who meet their children for the first time as adults can “fall in love” (I forgot the Western world name for the “condition”) then it can deffo happen with cousins. He probably has a crush on her.
Sorry but I think you are being abused by your partner here, the part about being locked out the bedroom etc rings alarm bells, you should contact women’s aid etc
What the hell did I just read
I think that’s not his niece & you need to leave him. Lol whole story is creepy af
It doesnt matter if its his blood niece or not. She is a woman and not his wife. Its weird as hell. Nope!
His behavior is totally inappropriate. And he is definitely minimizing your feelings. Marriage is supposed to be a two way street but he’s on a one way race going his way only. Consider counseling but please do not take his abuse. That is harmful to your children as well. Good luck
If you think your husband would sleep with his niece… the relationship is over move on
For the people saying that it’s weird cause it’s his niece must of forgot stuff like this happens all the time especially with the way her husband is acting
Stay at home with kids all day? Not good for u or the kids. Hubby is cheating
He met her in January
Sounds like an affair to me used the excuse it’s his new niece
Sounds like he is fucking her… tell him piss the fuck off! Leave his ass!
Are u sure that’s really his niece?!?!
What in the incestryhell .com is this shit? I mean… I think it’s off that he’s wanting to spend so much time with his niece like that, but I mean… if your gut feeling is telling you there’s something not right here, then why do you even want this man? That’s sick.
Ma’am are you even certain that that’s even his “real niece?”
People are trying to act ignorant and being rude to the poster but they know these things happen.
100% he’s gaslighting you. The relationship with his “niece” is inappropriate if it’s making you uncomfortable. He’s making you out to be the crazy one in all this. Major red flag 
Don’t ever discount what you’re gut is telling you. Be well and safe Mum 
Sounds very odd and I’d feel the same exact way as you feel! Sounds like there’s something going on or he’s planning to try.
I know its gross but sounds like he is trying to hook up with his niece
It’s crazy that you think spending time with his niece regardless of what age she is would turn into something inappropriate… it’s obvious you’re being toxic and he’s tired of dealing with it. Either get some counseling to work on yourself or remove yourself from the home.
You’re jealous over his niece ? Breaking things like doors, throwing things, other aggressive behaviors are domestic violence . And you’re setting a bad example for your kids who are home watching you. Seek counseling . You do dare try to make him see your way by bringing it up over and over .
Ask for proof that’s his niece… I’d bet a penny and a small toe it’s not…
She’s definitely not his niece 
Do you know for sure that it his niece? And after 20yrs… where in the hell was she? I call BS.
You’re not crazy . That would make any wife uncomfortable. Stand your ground.
Find out who the parents are lol his “neice” is probably sleeping with your husband
Forget the whole niece thing for now. I am more interested in him locking you out of the bedroom cos the baby was crying…also why don’t you leave the house?
I have a basket of dirty laundry on the back porch need photo and 2 page report.
Hes banging his niece lol
O honey that’s not his niece just let him go
Would you be the same way if it was his mother or a sister? This is something that you need to sort out between the two of you. Try and explain where you are coming from maybe he will understand more maybe he won’t. Try and understand where he is coming from too. If you both can’t work out where you are both happy with the outcome maybe it is god telling you that you aren’t supposed to be with this man. Best of luck
Good way for him to get himself into a compromising position. Not so sure I’d believe it was his niece. Make sure!
If this is truly his biological niece, then it sounds like you have issues. You sound very insecure. If it is not his biological niece then you have every right to be unhappy about him spending time with a random woman, but if she is truly biologically related and they are hanging out, I don’t see an issue with it.
Sounds like your both in a toxic relationship. I’m sure there is much more to the story. With that being said it also sounds like neither of you are happy. Some time apart may do you some good.
Kinda odd he’s freaking out! Kinda odd she didn’t freak out when you confronted her. Kinda odd you broke the damn door down. Lol… I’m gathering that maybe he’s the type that would be inappropriate with a grown family member and you know this. In which case you need to RUN! Cuz that’s icky!
Either ur gut is on point and that’s not his neice… or ur completely delusional… and trying to dictate his life …
Is their anyone that can confirm that his family
I stopped reading when you said the last 4 weekends he’s been taking her out. Girl, break down that naive wall and read between the lines!! That isn’t his niece!
It’s his blood niece for goodness sake
If you think your husband would sleep with his niece then just leave the relationship. You have no trust in him at all.
That’s definitely not his niece! Ask him which one of his siblings she belongs to. See what he says. I bet he stumbles because he didn’t expect you to ask that.
His relationship with her sounds odd but you sound batshyt CRAY! Hiding behind the guise of Christianity lmfao
I think he’s having an affair and that it’s not his niece and this is his best way to exit the marriage by blaming everything on you. I would RUN fast while you can! She could be lying to your face as well!
That isn’t an uncle/neice relationship. They are clearly seeing each other.
I think his niece is really his girlfriend and they’re playing you.
Sounds like the trash took its self out count your blessings and move on cuz thats deff not his niece
Leave his ass clearly you’re already suspicious and it’s not normal to spend that much time together even if reunited she would have her own life
They aren’t related and he’s using you to look after his kids and home
You’re the weirdo for even putting this out into the world and have those thoughts! Maybe she looks up to him and they’re trying to establish a relationship
Shame on you and I’m glad he exploded on you!
He LOCKED you in a room against your will and got mad when you broke the door to get out? So help me God if someone LOCKED me in a room more would be broken than a door.
First she’s new like less than 4 months. Second she’s a grown adult who is female who is new and he wants to take her overnight sharing a hotel room? That’s strange and in appropriate.
There’s something else going on. This sounds like a LifetimeMovie Network movie 
I didn’t read this right at all. I truly didn’t.
P.S y’all are SMOKING if any of y’all think this woman is really his niece!!
And if she is, they just met in January, they didn’t grow up together, and some hillbilly type Ish is definitely going on!
Again y’all smoking!!
Lady you need to cut your losses and leave!
Ps. Don’t be so gullible
This is totally creepy 
My intuition says that this is not his long lost niece, especially with they way he is acting; defensively.
Yes something tells me this is not a niece :grimacing:
I don’t buy its his neice
Doesn’t sound like it’s his niece, that sounds odd. Something is off!
You sure that’s his niece? 
He is abusive and manipulative. Listen to your intuition. Pray! God is telling you this isn’t right.
Sounds like they’re calling her his niece to cover up some sketchy shit….bc why is she wanting to spend so much time with him? It’s weird.
Yikes. The fact he blew up the way he did??
If you don’t feel comfortable and you voice what you’re feeling and he doesn’t take it into consideration and try’s to turn it on you it’s a sign of narcissistic ways . But I don’t see anything wrong with him working with his niece … yes sharing a room is weird in my opinion they barley met for the first time . Makes me wonder if they really are related … something doesn’t seem right idk …
Chances are she’s not really his niece & if she was she has not business going over there road with him to work. He knows he’s in the wrong & that’s why he is so short tempered.
Well I’m gonna go out on a limb and say that ain’t his niece hun.
Sweet baby!!! That’s not his Niece!!
Hmmmm sounds creepy if you ask me
He has a ting for her. Sick! Make him leave or leave him.
RED FLAG I don’t believe it’s his niece.
You sure she’s a niece I feel it’s a lie
Let him leave, change the locks and say, fine have it your way. You’ll be better off
Is there proof she’s his “niece” ? If she is then your nutz if she isn’t well then I’d get the fuck out
Yea…so not his niece most likely 
I’ve seen this movie before
Where is his respect for you and your feelings?
And why would he need to lock the bedroom door??
Bin him off 
I can’t believe there is people this delusion out there.
Probably not his niece
You both sound extremely toxic. You both need counseling. ASAP
This really don’t sound like his niece to be honest. Do you know for sure that’s his brother/sister daughter ?
This whole post about him seems strange . Although if it his actual niece , I can see why he’s mad . I’d be mad too
Babygirl that is not his niece 
His reaction is way off. More is going on here than he’s saying.
That’s just wrong for you to think like that it’s inappropriate and weird! Don’t You trust your husband
Changes are this lass isn’t his niece 
Umm yea surely it’s not his blood related niece .
Is that really his niece? He a damn liar! Girl he’s causing you to lose your mind. Screw him.
How is she is niece? Like, how did he just meet a niece who is already 20?
He either fuckin his family or that ain’t his family.