It doesn’t sound like his niece is his niece… and if she is then I’d say you sound a little extra! How every you just have birth to a baby not long ago and no matter what his responses are red flags in general!
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He’s wanting to be alone with her…I’m being blunt, but I’ve been around the world just a few times! Let this man stay gone, you better run as fast as you can and don’t look back, you deserve so much better than he will ever be able to give you, and your child!!
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That is not his niece 
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I dont think you sound crazy… tbh it sounds fishy…BUUUT are you sure that’s his niece? Maybe he is lashing out at you to hide his own guilt about something (not saying he is doing something, but why would someone get so defensive over a convo that you are being transparent about in regards to how it makes you feel)
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Are you positive that’s his niece? Sounds weird to me.
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That’s not his niece! But he’s thinks he’s got a perfect scenario!! He has you to be house wife & shes his fun tramp to party with!! They’re into each other literally!! Leave his a$$ & get you the christian man you want !! They’re both playing you & she’s acting friendly to keep you calm !! GTFO !!! Take them babies & run !!!
You are not crazy!!! If he is gone let him stay gone. Men are guilty when they try to make you think you are the guilty one. Get you a good lawyer and get 50%. You deserve it…
Good Luck…
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How did he find out that’s his niece?
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I think there is way more to this story that would clear things up.
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anyone here bring their “niece” to work?
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That sort of reaction sounds a lot like you are keeping him from something that makes him more happy than you.
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I didn’t even finish reading. But are u sure she is a niece
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JFC you’re toxic af
You should leave him, he deserves better.
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You sure it’s his niece??
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That ain’t his niece that’s his lover. The fact that they’re sharing a hotel room is a huge red flag.
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There’s a lot to unpack here. First of all I’m a domestic abuse survivor and so many red flags are going off. Leaving you in house all the time is not good for you or the kids. Locking you out or threatening to kick you and the kids out of the house he keeps you shut up in all day is abuse. And as far as the neice… he didn’t know her growing up. He met her as an adult. For some people that doesn’t make her off limits. He shouldn’t be taking her to hotels and dinners and leaving you home all the time. I think you need to refocus your energy on getting you and the kids in a safe place and leave this guy for good.
Wtf! No! Something definitely isn’t right in their relationship. I definitely wouldn’t be okay with it.
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Get rid of the whole man - let him go
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Is she really his niece? 
Kudos to you for striving to be of a Christian mindset. I’d be very suspicous. 
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this would make me super uncomfortable too. You don’t deserve that.
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He certainly is not trust worthy and I dont believe she is his neice, sounds a little weird to me
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You can’t pray a cheater away baby. You need to open up Google and search for a divorce lawyer
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And that sounds like a bunch of major red flags to me are you sure that’s his niece? Cuz if so that’s just wierd and I wouldn’t be ok with it either.
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Girl he lyinn!! My hubby doesnt even wanna horsearound with my younger nieces because of all the stuff on social media with sexual abuse and all that. Let alone a 20 year old who he can be sexually active with💆🏽♀️RUN!!! Dont even try to make him fix it
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Sisss. Go to CVS and get an Ancestry DNA kit.
We’ll see y’all on Maury next month for the results 
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Um… This isn’t right and you need to get away from him for your mental health. Let him take her. That will give you a perfect way out. Pick up and take your baby elsewhere. He sounds like a pure piece of crap if that’s the way he treats you. Calling you crazy is the the true way they deflect it on you bc of guilty conscience. Good luck luv
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I think that you should delete this post and do what your heart feels. But I have to agree that it don’t sound like no niece to me, more like a piece
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Let him leave! Good riddance
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Ok so putting myself in your shoes and if I were to tell my husband he was doing something that made me uncomfortable he would 100% apologize and never do it again. That’s what I think everyone deserves. The fact that he’s getting all defensive is such a red flag. Locking you out or the room? Like that’s crazy. Blows my mind that he wouldn’t just like idk talk to you about it? Acknowledge you’re feelings?! That’s like hella mean of him and I’m sure that made you feel horrible 
I’m soooo sorry! Some dudes really suck!!!
If you are insinuating that he is trying to have a sexual or intimate relationship with his niece then maybe you shouldn’t be with him anyways
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I don’t think she is really his niece js
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Have you ever heard of familial attraction look it up family that have never met been estranged etc become attracted to one another when they meet make sure this isn’t the case
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That’s not his niece, and why can’t she go places? She needs to talk to a therapist, then get him in for a session. If things keep being weird she needs to get out.
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And when said “niece” pops up pregnant I bet it wouldn’t be by him
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Sounds like he is gaslighting and manipulating emotional abuse
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He is messing with his “niece” if it even is his niece. Bye boy bye.
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It all sounds strange.
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Sounds like he has a thing for his niece, which is creepy. Honestly, I think your better off without him
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Your not in the wrong at all. As a matter of fact, it sounds to me like he is very interested in her. If he just met her at 20, He’s not seeing her as a family Member IMO. Id be pissed.
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Is she really his niece have u any proof of this sorry but this is sketchy asf he wounds like a horrible man u deserve better
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Whatever dude that is not his niece… 
like bye 
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When it walks like a duck. Talks like a duck. Its usually a duck.
Handle accordingly. If he’s having that huge of a reaction, youve hit a nerve , he could use some counciling it seems. If she’s 20, irregaurdless, of how he approaches her, he’s got his personal perspectives off kiltered somehow… something in his reaction, about guaranteeing that something is out of balance
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What type of toxic stuff did I just read?
Sorry lady, but she ain’t no niece. That’s his side chick.
Stand up for yourself and don’t let him make you feel crazy!
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What did I just read…
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Sure its his niece??
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Let him go. Find someone deserving
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be very careful…, are u 
this is his niece? Seeing they now met I have seen persons introducing the “side chic” as family
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Oh lawd… sweetie you need a lawyer to draw up some divorce papers cause that ain’t his niece if he’s getting hotel rooms with her…
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That girl is not his niece, I’d be wanting to meet the brother or sister she belongs to and have an explanation about why he’s wanting to spend so much time with this “newly found niece, that’s in her late 20s” cause I can tell you now my ass wouldn’t be running around to bars and staying in motels with an uncle I barely knew🥴
She’s a piece not a niece. Hunny grab your bible and run.
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Yes, are you sure that’s his niece?
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Just reading that, I got the same exact vibes you’re writing about, OP. My gut is telling me theres something wrong there. Either thats not his niece, or he intends to connect deeper than family bond with her. You take her out to dinner, ask her her entire story, how she came up, who her family is, how she found him, all of it. And god damn it, TRUST YOUR GUT. Familal bonds to some only mean easier ways to manipulate a person. But I genuinely feel that either shes pulling a “Pretty Woman” scene or hes a creep. Either way, hell no.
I feel very badly for you! I have my suspensions but cannot voice them! I’m praying for you and hope that everything works out for you!
Or maybe he’s a straight pedo!!! And he’s grooming her. Red flags
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Yeah you’re right. Let him goooo.
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That’s not his niece…
Spending every weekend with her?? At bars?? She’s going with him to work???
You have a brand new baby at home, but won’t spend any free time there?
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Are you assuming hes going to have sex with his niece? That’s disgusting and if you that’s What you think then he is right you’re crazy and should probably talk to a therapist.
Sounds like that’s not really his niece
I don’t believe you are wrong. God has showed you. Now you need to stand by your choice
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I find more often than not a ‘good christian wife’ is a wife that shuts up and puts up and made to feel guilty if she doesn’t. Does he fulfill the role of a good christian husband? It does not sound as if he does…
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If she was 4 there wouldn’t be a problem. But 20 like come on but even still a uncle always taking his niece out reminds me of that weird Netflix programme out of plain sight that’s weird
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I don’t think that’s his “niece”…. Either way i’d say ta ta
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You a not crazy doesn’t mean being a Christian you don’t have right to question
I don’t think this is his neice… honestly
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The vibe this post is giving me is you all up in everything he does and maybe that is pushing him away?!? Sound super controlling like if it’s not what you say then it’s not what should happen. Sounds like that is not his niece either.
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So buy one of those ancestry.com whatever there’s a million of them okay somehow get his DNA pretty easy it’s all over your house and then ask her to do one too. Secondly you need to be making proof of all of this and documentation so that when you go to court you have the proof. Secondly he is probably already cheating on you and if not he really wants to with his so-called niece and not his niece.And if he has an issue with any of this and cooperating to make his wife feel more comfortable especially since she’s at home with his then I would serve him with divorce papers. He seems toxic and a narcissistic gas lighter.
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Niece… Are you sure about that???
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Let him stay gone, go get child support.
Lol barely met a “niece” 4 months ago?? You sure hes not a closet polygamist? Lol. red flags all over this
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You can and should always trust your gut instinct.
You are not wrong. I don’t know that that is really is his niece. If it is, he’s got a thing for her and that’s creepy. You’re better off without him.
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This sounds like he has a thing for his "niece "
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That is probably his GF and no relation. He is dating her right in your face. 
You deserve better.
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Don’t let him tell you more than once who he truly is. Even if it is his niece - that sounds super weird! Sorry hon, but at this point you wouldn’t even want his own daughters around this guy. Run!
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Girl, that ain’t his niece.
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I don’t know one grow ass man who’d want to spend that much time with a “niece”
Yeah, not his niece. It’s his girlfriend. I’d leave immediately
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That is not is niece and he is cheating on you 
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Gd has showed you, as someone else said. Now run!!! Seriously, better off without that gaslighting, shallow, fool. You guys are not a perfect match and that’s ok. Thank your lucky stars, move out and move on.
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Why In the hell is it wrong of him to be around his niece out of town? Where in the Bible does it say something like that? This whole thing is blowing my mind. Now I definitely don’t think that’s his niece and he sounds like a tyrant
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Religious folks are over the top
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Hate to tell ya but something’s very rotten in Denmark! I think you’re attempting to get it but you’re really not getting it. He’s mad because you’re figuring it out. Don’t be a fool! He has no true family bond with someone he just met. He’s looking for and found himself some arm candy and what ever else she may be willing to do for him while he’s on the road. She’s young, probably not too bad looking and could care less about your feelings no matter how she acts to your face. It’s a free ride and wine and dine for her and don’t think for one minute she doesn’t know what she’s doing. She’s got herself a new sugar “uncle” and you’re just the dumb wife at home. Don’t worry though because the first time someone else turns her head she’ll send him back to you with his tail between his legs. Wake up lady…it’s clear what’s going on here.
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The first 4 sentences gave me the creeps. I doubt that’s his niece or he… has a serious illness and should consult a doctor cause… eewww
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They fuckin! Kick his ass to the curb and move on! He sounds like a narcissistic pig.
Sounds like he is narcissistic and that was not his niece and if it was his niece then that is an inappropriate relationship. He is lying about something. Let him go. YOU DESERVE BETTER!!!
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Wow unless you believe him capable of such incestuous behavior I just don’t understand the concern
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Where did this niece come from 
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Lady you sound toxic as hell. The whole relationship sounds toxic as hell. I get the feeling that either you thing the niece isn’t really a niece or you think he’s into incest. I’m sorry, but if he locked me out of my room I’d have kicked him out then, but I do feel like you were mad, he was mad and he wanted to get away from you and you couldn’t respect that and had to go in after him. I think you are both in the wrong.
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He’s not worthy. It sounds like he’s a lying POS and he’s turning it around on you! You don’t need that kind of negative and abusive relationship… and I agree with the consensus… she is NOT his niece… and even if she is, even more absurd. Let him stay gone… 
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That sounds very shady to me. Sounds like they are having a very inappropriate relationship and maybe he is feeling guilty about it. There should be no reason any of that should be happening with his niece.
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If you can’t seat down and have a real conversation together then you won’t be able to save your marriage.
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He’s fucking his niece
Tell me you’re a gullible doormat without telling me you’re a gullible doormat —-
“My husband just met his young niece for the first time and wants to spend all of his free time with her and take her on the road with him ”
I feel like your next statement should be something along the lines of he doesn’t have any brothers or sisters so I didn’t know he could have a niece, but he sure does!
Girl, that is not his niece. Why haven’t you left the house in 4 months??! This entire post is one red flag after another.
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How sure are you that she’s his niece
You should kick this behind out the door now.
Are you sure shecis blood related it seems really sketchy but also sounds like to have jealousy issues to something you should look into if she is blood or not
That’s not his niece lmao
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Smells foul! Suddenly in her 20s she appears where was she the last 20? Did he know of her? Something isnt right…I would let it go hes made his choice wants to have the single life with the wife at home…take this time and review maybe your better off without him! Dont be his welcome mat so to speak…think its time to take the kids and leave
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I think you need to lose him asap
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I’m not buying the whole “thats his niece” thing… and for her to be in her 20s wanting to stay in hotel rooms and go to dinners with her long lost uncle is weird to me. When relatives are kept apart for a long time, even father and daughters, they can develop a sexual attraction to one another.
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