It is your business. Anything your husband does it your business. If he doesn’t like that he shouldn’t have gotten married. He has a problem.
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Talk to him when he is sober.
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You’re his wife not his mother and you had no right trying to call him out and expect him to be ok with it. He’s right he’s grown and with that comes choices and consequences. Let him live with them.
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Tme to worry. Next time send a message to local traffic control, and let him find out the results.
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I had a husband just like your husband but after 5 years of dealing with his stuff I left but you have to decide for yourself and your child how you want to live. Best of luck
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Definitely not “adult”behavior although he says he’s a grown up. I wouldn’t trust him with MY kid, aside from the disrespect issue, just me, though.
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I think its sad how us moms/wives have to worry about our husbands like our own children they are supposed to be there for us to help us with our babies not put more stresses on us
You are definitely not in the wrong he is and if he wont own up to his mistakes and change for u and ur child you may have to set boundaries and if he doesn’t follow them you may have to leave for a night and see if he cares enough to change with that
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You could lose everything if he gets in a wreck and kills someone…This is serious issue.Let him decide’your family or the bottle.Drink responsible …
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he is in the wrong. look up the fines, jail time, penalties like maybe loosing your license. What happens if he is in an accident and dies? Can you and your daughter afford to live? do a write up and give it to him. Maybe this will help him change his mind.
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Nope, he’s in the wrong completely.
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The next time he tells you he’s a “grown a** man” tell him to start acting like it!! When he’s sober, ask him if he’s happy with himself being this role model for your child? Ask him if if was the other way round, would he be ok with you doing everything he’s done? Turn it round on him and ask him these questions. If he’s so grown, why does he feel the need to act like a fool.
Dude, Absolutely Nobody is impressed with you and your stinky attitude!! 
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Could have called the cops. Drinking under the influence and driving an illegal vehicle on the streets…
Honestly its very upsetting reading how disrespectful he was not only drinking and driving but the audacity to think he’s the shit to drive an off road vehicle right down the street putting himself and so many others at risk… then to disrespect you the person who is only looking out for him… fuck that dude bro. He has no regard for others.
Okay so if he’s a grown ass man he should know better. I would say okay and if he did it again and ended up in jail for a DUI I would leave his ass there. 
Get him some help he is a alcoholic
Then mind yur own business. But when he gets in problem and needs your help, continue to mind your own business. They don’t appreciate you caring for them until you stop. Most men have to buck their big toe to learn
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You already know you were not in the wrong. If someone else did this and hit the car with you and your child, how would he feel? Would he be mad or would he say that they were a grown adult and could do what they wanted?? If he saw you doing this, would he be ok with it? I doubt it…
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You are NOT wrong…he is a man child
Tell him grow the hell up. 
If he keeps it up, seriously maybe look at time out for you and your baby away.
Your not wrong to worry … That being said he *is a grown a$$ed man !! He he gets hurt or thrown in jail that’s on him … Some have to learn the hard way …
Leave him be when he in jail and calls you … You say your a grown a… Man hang up go to bed. Give him a wake up call.
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Call the police a ticket is better than a bad acident.
NO!
Sounds like he is the immature one. I mean y’all have a child, he has other people to think about.
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You’re not his mom. If he does something that he ends up regretting that’s his problem. You can stay or see him through it. You have one child, thats your only “safety” priority, and that grown man is gonna do what he wants. You seem mad he was having fun, and using the "you’re concerned for his safety " as a reason to try to control him.
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I know some of you missing the point that she loves him but sometimes love isn’t enough!
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Never confront someone when they’re drinking, always the day after. When do drunk people ever solve problems?
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Do just that. He’s gonna miss that you worried and feel like you don’t care anymore so when you do something and he doesn’t like remind him to mind his business
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You’re not his mom. He is the master of the household. If I had a dollar for everytime I warned hubs about something and he didnt listen and it turned out bad I’d be a wealthy woman by now. Hopefully, eventually, he will begin to listen. Tell a man NOT to do something and watch him go out of his way to do it 
best to just keep quiet and tell him to be safe.
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Honestly …these are more often then not …acts of an alcoholic…
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next time he pulls that stuff then tell him that he cant come in the house until the next day when he sobers up, and that you are minding your business since that you are married to him he is your business, unless he wants a divorce
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You’re definitely not wrong!
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Your husband is an idiot, and only thinking of himself! He could be killed or hurt or kill someone else. If anything were to happen it affects the whole family. Possible lawsuits or you a widow and your child without a father! Is he drinking too much? Maybe he needs help. At the very least he has no respect or consideration for your feelings. You and him need to sit down and have a serious discussion. I hope tjongs work out for the 3 of you.
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Like he say’s he’s a full grown man but of course your going to worry. Tell him if anything happens to remember he’s a full grown man and not to call you.
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I’d file for divorce and if he asks you why, tell him it ain’t none of his business 
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I’d call the cops on his a$$ and report it if it was my fiance last thing I need is him killing someone or himself… he wants to drink and drive and be stupid I’d get the law involved
I would talk about concerns and your feeling the next day when he’s sobered up.
People do not think when drinking, they just do.
Your feelings are always valid.
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You are not wrong to feel the way you do
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I agree. He was out of control. Bad things could have happened and he was being immature. I would’ve taken the keys and told him when he smartened up he could have them back.
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The way he’s living, sorry to say but you need to protect yourself and get life insurance. He is going to get himself killed. No your not wrong. If that was my man, I would have the cops waiting outside the house to arrest him. Sometimes it takes something major to see a change in a man or for the man to see what he was doing was not what a “grown a$$ responsible repectsble man” would be doing. He’s acting like child, then treat him like one. He doesn’t realize he’s not only putting his life in danger but everyone around him too. That irresponsibility deserves to see the inside of a jail cell.
He’s apparently not a grown ass man making foolish decisions like that. He’s being extremely selfish. All actions have consequences, he got lucky.
No your not wrong! He’s a jerk and immature and irresponsible.
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I’d let him get caught by the cops or alert them next time that he’s out drunk driving. You’d be protecting him as well as everyone else. Memory lesson well deserved.
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He’s a jerk! He’s acting like a teenager.
What An ass…clearly not a grown ass man…if so he would have never done that and put you in position to be his mamma…congrats you married a child
That’s not what gaslighting is, but you’re not wrong to be concerned, as his wife and your kids mom. I would wait to talk about it when he’s sober, not in the heat of it and tell him your concerns for your family, that it’s not just about him if something bad happened and he needs to think about that.
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Another reason to stay single…
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He doesn’t care about your thoughts or feelings
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He’s an ass. He is your business unfortunately. Divorce. You’re going to be a widow or worse a nurse maid to a cripple.
Might be a good time to make it your business to be able to take care of your four year old child without this person around.
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Your concern is valid. However his response was not gaslighting. That’s actually a pretty serious accusation, but I know that people like to throw out words that are newly fashionable despite not understanding them. I’d say he was trying to invalidate and downplay your concerns. If it were me, I’d try to have a serious conversation with him when he is sober and see if you can’t get him to understand your point and see that it is indeed valid. Provide concrete reasons and let him know that you and your child are counting on him and that neither of you want anything bad to happen to him. If he doesn’t have some kind of adult response, you probably have a first class jackass and perhaps a second child.
Let it go and when he is arrested and calls you say your a grown ass man and I have to worry about myself. Love you and hang up
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Tell him to jump in lake next time
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It’s both. You’re overreacting and he’s a douche.
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yes tell him to go slam it in the front door. You are the queen
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Take your child and leave, even better. tell him to go. He has NO respect for anyone, including you and your child together! I guess not ready for this but you must know the car, rego number etc. Just call the cops!
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He was with his friend and been drinking. It was wrong to drink and drive, but thanks goodness he didn’t get an accident of some sort. One thing that is not good to do, is confronting a person while he’s been drinking, and while you are upset. You two will end up in an argument. Wait until tomorrow when he is sober and you are calm.
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Sounds like a man who wants the single party life.
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I married that guy and divorced him because it was the tip of the iceberg.
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He’s an Alcoholic. You have decisions to make and you know what they are. What’s going to happen when he puts the kid in harms way because he’s Gaslighting You?
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He gets busted its his ass. Focus on yourself and your child. He’s a grown ass man. He messes up. He faces consequences.
He’s sounds gross. You are NOT wrong and I’m sorry you have to deal with that. I could never deal with someone who drinks like that. I hate alcohol.
You aren’t wrong at all. I would wait to confront him when he’s sober though. I’ve never really talked much sense into a person that’s been drinking
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That’s not what gaslighting means
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Hes not gaslighting you. That term is being thrown around just like ADHD. Stop it.
Don’t confront a drunk person. Ever. It’s not worth it. Wait until hes nice and hung over and then have a go at him.
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Hes lucky he’s not my husband. You drink and drive you’re going to jail! I see too many innocent people killed by stupid choices. It’s all fun and games until someone gets killed. One night of fun isn’t worth a lifetime of regret.
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