Hes BUSTED and now that he is…he can move forward. Hes a coward. He shouldve told you he wasnt happy before he started cheating. Cuz hes def cheating.
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- The minute you saw that second account, your gut already knew. 2. He’s gaslighting you and making you feel like your, particularly valid feelings, are annoying and your fault. 3. I’m sure if you really sit back and think about it, this behaviour won’t be the first instance, or display of that. 4. Could you really trust him after this, working away so much? Deciding he’s just checking out on your life together? It’s a hard and horrible existence for a while, but the minute you get it together and become a stronger woman for you and your children, he’ll come crawling back.
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He’s cheating. Kick his ass out
He’s already found your replacement sorry to say, kick his sorry ass to the kerb! You and your children deserve much, much more.
Sounds like he’s talking to someone and that’s why it’s so easy for him to just drop you. I’m really sorry. Don’t forget your worth!
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Yep he has already checked out…
It’s sad when you had kids to the man
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He has already checked out move on
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What other annoying shit do you do besides invading people’s privacy to snoop on them? Maybe that’s why…
He’s got somebody else
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Of course he worked out of state
I’m so sorry, my heart hurts for you. Sounds like he has another person. Sending you love and prayers 
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My ex brother in law done this, turned out he had someone else. And she was already pregnant!
Oh sweetie this is so heartbreaking…i just cant imagine what you are going through…to think you have a great marriage and for him to do this over the phone and then by text your head must be spinning…first remember its not about you because you are not at fault, you were on the same page until he checked out…i would first check out a grief center to help you deal with your emotions right now…
Then you are going to go and look at getting social assistance, go to legal aid and apply for divorce proceedings, courthouse to get full custody…
If you own a home then it will be split, he will have to pay child support, also he will be paying alimony to you till you get remarried…i personally think in the beginning he wanted kids and everything, but as time went by he realized it was alot of responsibility and couldnt handle it anymore…what he wants is freedom which means he doesnt want a wife and kids, he wants to have fun…sad to say he probably has been cheating for a bit and maybe has a gf with no kids…but thats not important right now you have to think about what is important and that is your precious children and you…you cannot fix someone who doesnt want to be fixed, you will only ruin your life trying…now you have to start to love yourself and make yourself priority…your heartbreak wont last forever…one thing for sure what he didnt realize it was cheaper to stay because he will be paying alimony and support which i sincerely hope he pays dearly…hopefully he still decides to be a good dad and spends time with them…good luck sweetie
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Look get ur money out his account early fild for divorce make him pay u the long way and don’t be stupid about it no chances to fix it let it be over
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He definitely has someone else. 
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I’m so sorry for you,
If he is not interested in therapy then he has someone else.
Try and talk to him but it sounds like he has moved on.
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Never beg for a man’s love. Just leave.
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There’s no fighting for a marriage one person no longer wants. Get your affairs in order. Speak to an attorney. Protect yourself and your children. Find a therapist to help you get through this. Acceptance of the end of this relationship is going to be hard but it is very important to do so you will be able to move forward.
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He’s into someone else
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Hard to do, but move on. He already has. That being said…wait till you find someone new and he is the one looking in at you and another man in his place while he sees his kids maybe every other weekend and are closer to the new guy. HE WILL CRAWL BACK. I hope when he does, you tell him where to go. Everyone thinks the grass is greener on the other side, but it’s not. Hugs to you and your littles.
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Don’t let a man tell you twice that he doesn’t want you
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He is seeing someone else and what would you be fighting for when he has already told you he doesn’t want you?
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… you can’t be the only one fighting for your marriage 
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Unfortunately, I agree with everyone…. There’s someone else that’s caught his attention. Ultimately, it’s your decision and you have to do what you feel is best for your family. But, you gave that man the greatest gifts he will ever have, and he’s not making them a priority. I’m also afraid that if you try to keep fixing it, you’ll drive yourself crazy and honestly
Probably never trust him completely again. You deserve better than that. Your kids deserve better than that. Don’t let this man make a fool out of you. You’re a queen and deserve to be treated as such. Many prayers for your and your little ones
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Definitely someone else 
Don’t ignore your gut instinct.
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Send him on his way and don’t put up with his crap yes he cheating he got caught and he upset tell him to go to her and move on sorry for ur heart being broken but enough is enough
He sounds like Chris watts
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As much as it hurts I would leave. I was married and my husband said he didn’t love me anymore. He to didn’t want to go to counseling. So we got divorced I couldn’t stay with someone who didn’t love me. We had 1 daughter and were married 7yrs.
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Don’t get mad, get everything!
Seriously, once a cheater always a cheater. I tried to save my marriage. All that happened was I prolonged the inevitable. Don’t make my mistake….please.
Let him go. From this moment on just leave him alone. He probably has found someone else and when someone wants out let them go. I know it hurts but “fighting” for him? Why would you do that? It’ll just push him farther away. So just let go. Don’t help him leave, just stop interacting with him unless it’s about the kids.He can move his sh@#, hire the lawyer etc. Just disengage.
Hes cheating . Run you deserve better
The simple fact that he did that over the phone makes him a coward and that would be enough for me. You deserve better I know it is hard but now you must think of yourself and your children. If that is what he wants then so be it!! I wish you the best of luck!!
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Your first mistake was loving him more than life itself.
That means you have not had time to love yourself.
Let him go. Learn to love yourself more than life. Focus on those kids.
But make sure he’s pulling his weight with the kids too.
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He’s either already seeing someone else or atleast entertaining it.
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Get child support for all three kids and let him go. You will be better off because he is probably already with someone else and lying to you.
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Sweetie I understand the hurt and pain you may be feeling and I’m truly sorry that you have to go through this. Get you some child support for those kids and get you some alimony. Let him get on with his life and you do the same.
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Fight for him? Seriously? No!
You are not the fighter, you are the prize! Never forget that!
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If he’s that firm take him to court an get the kids an tell him to go to well!
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Let him go , he’s already checked out of the relationship the minute he changed his passwords
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Let his ass go, hes probably ‘talking’ to someone else or he wouldn’t have let it go so easily himself!
If you fight, you have to keep in mind, he will do him. Can you keep up with all the what ifs? I couldn’t.
Let him go. He said he’s not happy with you anymore and that’s not likely to change.
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Kick his ass to rhe curb and go file.temporary custody papers and child support separation papers if needed to peep you home
Honey, he’s made his decision. Let him go. Get custody of the kids, get child support, take time to heal. He’s probably already with someone else. He’s moved on. Get some counseling for you. Get your self-esteem back. You’re better off on your own.
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You take him for all he’s got! Fucked up for men to take our best years and when they “don’t feel like it anymore”. Can just up and leave find any thirsty bunny to start again. But us?!?
Girl I hope you get him good and don’t let him him ever forget he is stupid for fucking things up.
Make sure you get child support for the kids & money for yourself then kick him out of the house you don’t need him there will be someone out there for you when the time is tight for you & the kids. I know how hurt you are at the moment.
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Sorry but it sounds as if he has already gone!
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Let him go! He has already made his intentions clear that he doesn’t want to be with you. He has simply found someone else. U need to find out who the other person is and find out how far that relationship has gone and how long it’s been going on. U can use that in court. U need to find out if your kids have been around whoever he has met and took up with. Which, I doubt since u say he works out of town which is probably where said other person is?? Don’t blow up and don’t show u are dying inside. I know that’s easier said than done but now u gotta be strong for yourself and kids since he isn’t gonna be. U sit down calm with him and find out all details. Tell him u want to handle this maturely and as easy as possible and that begins with him telling u who he is with, why he wasn’t happy anymore, why he didn’t just tell u before straying and so on. U can do this and u will be okay. The heartbreak will hurt like hell but someone in time will love u the way he should have. Good luck 
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There has to be a gf hidden somewhere or here’s activily looking for one and he’s is being an ass about how he is handling you catching him at his secrets.
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Don’t give him the satisfaction of letting him see your emotions. He’s done, he’s moved on. Go to the courthouse and start the next steps.
From experience let him go!
It may not seem like it now but he’s doing you a favor. You will find happiness and be better off in the end. It’s just hard to see that now.
Sounds like he’s met someone else unfortunately, let him go and respect yourself, he will soon get bored of whoever it is he’s met, he thinks the grass is greener but it isn’t. You need to focus on yourself and your children, you deserve so much better, sounds like you have a lot of love to give so find someone who deserves it! Xx
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