I found a necklace in my boyfriends pocket and now my best friend is wearing the same one: Advice?

Don’t trust either one. From experience I had gut feeling My Ex of 10 yrs and my best friend of 11 yrs were messing around. I would ask if they are seeing each other because you found necklace probably will play it off. I would investigate more to get proof . I had that gut feeling always trust that feeling. At that time in my life when I found out :pensive: my whole world came crashing down but I got back up brushed off pack my stuff left never never looking back. Never speaking to neither of them again it’s been 15 yrs now

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Same thing happened to Frank Sinatra’s first wife Nancy.

Tell him you found the necklace in his pocket and then seen your friend wearing the exact same one. Have him explain that.

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I wouldn’t confront them. There are times you are not with him. Drop in on her at her house, unannounced!

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Offer him a threesome with you him and her and watch his reaction and do the same with her

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I’d ask them both when you’re all together. Putting both of them on the spot ones bound to slip up :woman_shrugging: and if anyone is super offended or angry then you got your answer without them outrigh
t saying it

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That’s Tough… I’m an over-thinker and it’s hard to not make assumptions anyway she could have maybe stole it rather than him giving it to her? Other than that I would sit back watch observe and go with your gut

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Ask them must can say is no n watch eyes if lying will be in eyes n face

Be honest and ask him 1st as to where that necklace went and where it came from; ask him why weren’t you told about it…honesty should be priority in all relationships.

Keep an eye on them. Don’t say anything but keep an eye on them. I would put a mini camera where he can’t see it and see if you catch anything.
If they are cheating, dump them both!

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Talk to your boyfriend about the necklace you found in his pocket… Don’t accuse but keep a close eye on both of them

Just ask straight up!

it’s called she is gaslighting you! confront them both together! you already have your answer!!!

Check your boyfriends phone first confront them about it and be aware of any signs that you don’t like… go with your gut most of the time is right!

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The people you love and care about hurt you the most!!!

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Someone once stole something from me… or tried…

Yuck.

Stab in the back twice…. If guilty.

“Consider alnernatives”

I can’t think of a single explanation

You should ask your best friend if you can borrow the necklace for a dinner date with your boyfriend

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Confront them…
Him 1st. Then her . Based ontheir response. You’re going to be cleaning house . Dont need that kinda B.S

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Don’t be naive . Please . Say something . And dont doubt yourself

Id ditch them both. Too much of a coincidence

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Dig a little deeper before you say something.

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Just remember you can’t trust no one!!! People will go after what they want no matter how it will affect others

Nah get them both together at your house then say to her oooh I like your knecklace and then say weird coz (your fellas name) had the same style knecklace in his pocket (whenever it was) then just say weird how they have the same taste! See what happens next x

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Nah get them both together at your house then say to her oooh I like your knecklace and then say weird coz (your fellas name) had the same style knecklace in his pocket (whenever it was) then just say weird how they have the same taste! See what happens next x