I found a necklace in my boyfriends pocket and now my best friend is wearing the same one: Advice?

Ok. So. Hang out with ur friend, ask her to pull up a pic of the “tinder date” if she didn’t get one, tell her to message him then and there and see what happens. :rofl:

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He’s F$&@in yo friend hun. Cut your losses and get out now

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Go tell her you found the necklace in his pocket and suddenly your wearing it what’s up ?

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I’d get them in the same room at the same time and casually say “so I found that exact necklace bestie is wearing in your pocket months ago, how long you two been sneaking around for?” Dump both of those good for nothing rats

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I reckon you’re gonna be gutted…

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Ohhh, ya. You could ask her to ask her “Tinder date” where he got the necklace because you wanna get yourself one :joy:

Your heart already knows the answers.

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IF we even consider the possibility that she happened to get a necklace the same it STILL wouldnt explain why your boyfriend had a necklace in his pocket! :face_with_raised_eyebrow:

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I would’ve confronted her straight up. Ingront of the bf. Watch for a reaction. They won’t be able to hide it

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Find a new boyfriend and a new friend. She’s no friend and he’s a cheating b@st@rd. Don’t waste your time on people like that.

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Look the necklace up online and see if it is a popular not very expensive necklace. Do a little research first. If it’s not yiu may have to really start watching there interactions and times they are both gone at the same time. I had something similar happen to me years ago while they both smiled in my face until I figured it out by accident. You really never know.

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Trust ur gut instincts

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Ask him whatever happened to the necklace that was in his pocket??

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Ask them both separately.

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Confront confront both

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Whether it’s the same necklace or not that she’s wearing, the fact is YOU did not receive it. So, he’s cheating either way!
I’d get them together and casually bring it up…
“Hey husband, did you see friend’s necklace? Isn’t it weird that it’s the same one I found in your pocket??”

You’ll know by their reactions.
I’m sorry this happened :sweat::heavy_heart_exclamation:

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Confront them both…bring up that you found the necklace and now bff is wearing it…They both are trash.

Oh girl. That was for her. End it. Leave now.

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Time for a new friend and new nan

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:disappointed: I have a bad feeling.

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Do some investigating without letting on what you. Pray about and trust your gut. You already know the answer.

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Tell your partner you saw the necklace he was going to give you and ask why you haven’t gotten it yet . Gauge his reaction . You’re not crazy it’s okay to be upset even if you’re wrong thst is a strange coincidence . Bring it up to your partner and say ‘ i found a beautiful necklace in your pocket but didn’t want to tell you Incase it was a surprise , is there a reason you haven’t given it to me ? It’s one thing to cheat but a whole other thing to buy presents for another person , that’s more than just a mistake

Or is it possible he hid it and she snooped and stole it from your house ??

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Why investigate if your posted it then your gut has already told you the answer

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I would invite her over with him there and ask about the necklace from his pocket and why she is wearing the exact same one! That way they are both there and can’t tell each other what to say. You will be able to tell from the way they act. Have his crap packed and ready for him to leave with her!

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You know they are with each other. Run

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Ask right out front. Why put yourself through the torture.

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I would invite her over while your boyfriend is there and ask about her necklace in front of him, see how their body language changes then be like “it’s funny bc I seen the exact same necklace in your pocket a couple months ago, odd” they will tell on themselves then throw them both out

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Definitely confront you know bullcrap when you hear it

I’m following for an update !!

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Sorry but seriously, stands out like dogs balls !! You must,are or will be gutted !!

Get rid of them Both, ASAP

You need to catch them because if they are seeing each other they will never admit it

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are you positive its the “same” necklace? why have you waited a “few months” before saying anything? did he give YOU anything for your anniversary? does your man use Tinder? in the event you are wrong both of them will be disappointed and hurt by your mistrust…in the event you are right, what will you do? best to figure out the outcome before outing either of them.

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Your gut has already told
You.

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You already know what’s going on

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They are together. They have clearly been together for awhile, too. If it were me I wouldn’t even start anything, just go on and move out and cut them out of your life. My best friend since 5 did this to me. We were in our early 20’s and we had always been very close. She would come over and stay at my fiancé and I’s apartment all of the time, help watch our animals when we were out of town, and so forth. Our roommate walked in on them and I also heard rumors floating about. I didn’t immediately speak to either of them about it because I knew they’d both lie, deny, and try to convince me that I was the crazy one. I got them separated at one point when we were all hanging out drinking (asked my fiancé and her boyfriend to go get us more beers from inside). I lied and told her I knew they had cheated behind my back and he told me. She broke down and told me everything. I told her to not say anything else about it and just go about the night like nothing happened. When him and I got home he could tell something was off and all I said was “I know.” After that he admitted it, I packed some belongings, went to my parents house, and returned another day for the rest of my belongings. My best friend and I didn’t speak for 4 years. Nowadays we talk and don’t speak of it. She knows I will never forgive her for it but we moved past it. The ex fiancé I never spoke to again. Turned out not only he was a cheater but a pedophile and I found plenty of that awful stuff when I was moving out and was clearly out the computer.

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Ask him about the necklace. I would’ve when I found it

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Has there been an update?
This does not sound good

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You know what’s going on babe - trust your gut. Ask questions and do what’s best for you.

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Your intuition is never wrong unfortunately

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Instead of saying I feel some type of way, say how you actually feel. Feeling can’t be validated if they have no name. Jealous, angry, pissed, hurt. And talk to them both about the feelings.

Please update us. I always think the worse

I’d give them both a necklace of the best friends style … one to each… and not say a word. So they both could know you’re not dumb.

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Hate to break it to you, but that isn’t your best friend.

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Don’t be so naive, trust your gut. Be straight honest with them!!

I’d have said well how many dates have you been on with my boyfriend since I know he gave it to you and waited for the confession.

Trust your intuition

I would confront them BOTH TOGETHER that way nobody can lie and have their stories made up alreaddddyyyyy! Please let us know. So sorry you had to go through this

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Ask him. If you’re still not ok with either of their answers walk away.

Confront the boyfriend first, ask what happened to that necklace that I found in your pocket awhile back? Your friend could have possibly stolen it?

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Wait watch and gather information! Take back your life and control and gather all you need to do what’s best for you. Don’t lash out save your money, energy, and time.

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Ask him and see what he says. You can tell the truth

I would keep an eye on both of them follow him an see what happens

Did you get the necklace for your anniversary present ? If not yet …then wait to see if provided to you could be like the scene from movie " Love Actually " .

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I don’t believe in coincidences, they both need to go away. Boy bye!!

Has your anniversary come and gone, if not wait to see if he does give you the chain if not confront him.

Yeah. Your bestie is seeing your dude. I’m sorry.

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Find a new boyfriend and best friend then go buy yourself a really nice necklace to celebrate. No need to explain to either one…just dump them!

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Dude… you sit back play dumb and set them up for the bust.

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Say why is she wearing the wrong klace I found I your pants. Simple then leave him tf alone u can’t seriously b this ignorant

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Buy yourself the same necklace and say, that you saw it once and really wanted it so you went and got it yourself. Then say, I want to have matching necklaces with my BF. Then say, you’ve been having nightmares that he’s cheating. Then get crazy hot for him and spice it up a couple days to confuse him. Then WAIT a good 5 days for it to eat at them both so bad that they end up exposing themselves. Especially since you’ll be planning many third wheel days out with him and your bestie together so you can sit on his lap and kiss him like crazy in front of her to see if she’s dead by the end of the night. You can get this done. 1 week you’ll know.

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Set up a camera and get your answers

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Go with your gut feeling girl, I’d just ask and tell him how you feel. Or her talk to her calmly you’ll be able to tell by her reaction especially if ya guys are that close.

oh dear lord this seems obvious to me! I would have said something about it right then and there when I noticed

Ask him what he did with the necklace, you will see in his eyes

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Ask em straight out because then they know you’re on to them. That is not a coincidence, they need to be called out right away. Friends aren’t like that with a guy, they’ll tell you everything. You should have taken a picture of the necklace in his pocket and one of her wearing it. The biggest thing for me would be that they think I’m stupid. I’m sure plenty of men are not like that.
I’m the person that would just punch em both in the face, when they say what the hell was that, what are you doing, what are you talking about?
Punch em again and again until they understand you know shit :woman_shrugging:t2:
Good luck :crossed_fingers:t3:

I suggest having an open and honest conversation with your partner about the necklace. You can have a civil conversation without it sounding angry or accusatory. You’re only looking for reassurance and there’s nothing wrong with that.

Maybe the whole thing is a misunderstanding, or maybe your suspicions were correct. Both scenarios are better than staying quiet and feeling more upset about it.

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Just ask one of them. The moment they go silent (because they will), pack up and say “see ya! You lose em how you win em!:fu:

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Ask him if he wants an open relationship. That means you get to pick other guys. If he agrees to this, then…there is your answer. Don’t buy into the misery of multi-partners. It never works out. You become a door mat to be walked on and ( controlled,) conformed to live in silent misery. You lose your self respect this way, too.

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Follow your gut! I did and the results broke my heart… But atleast I found out the truth!

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if you’re digging in your boyfriends pants pockets I’d say you know the answer…

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Ask. Don’t play games. Flat out. And watch his reactions. Maybe go check out a few YouTube videos on how to tell someone is lying, first…heard/depp trial had lots of body language experts… so should be easy to find some.

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Definitely confront both of them with your suspicions! Listen to your gut feelings…they are usually accurate!,

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If you don’t want to approach her then just say to him that you and her had a catch up and she openly told you when you asked about the necklace, just lie to him and say she felt so bad. He might then drop himself in it without thinking on the spot. I did this to an ex along time ago but the other way round with the girl and she she started crying saying sorry :woman_facepalming:t2:

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I would have her over and go hug all over your man and kiss him and everything and see how both them act.

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When she is at your house and he is there confront them together you will see their guilt you should go with your gut feeling what are the chances that she got a necklace from a guy she’s dating that’s the same one that you found in your boyfriends pocket id say the chances are pretty slim I’ve had friends that tried my husband behind my back they will do it

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You already know the answer , it’s very clear right in front of you, get rid of him and her!

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Hablando se entiende la gente y preguntando se llega a Roma. I hope it’s just a coincidence but your gut never lies. And as much as it hurts. The truth must be told. Good luck☺️

Also. My gut hurts for you and my heart feels you. I’m sorry you feel this way. As a woman. And a mother of 4 girls. I wouldn’t want my babies heartbroken this way but I would want them to know the truth instead of hurting themselves mentally about it.

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Oh girl, my heart hurts for you so much!!! No I don’t think you’re crazy … you’re not acting or thinking crazy!! This doesn’t look good, but definitely ask! But ask in a way that you already know the truth!!!

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Ask him but I think u already know the answer- move on sweetie

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Sit back & watch. I’ll come to light…

Don’t trust either of them
Don’t put anything past anyone
It sucks but usually your gut instinct is right
Hopefully everything is good and it was a misunderstanding

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I would ask them both when we all together

I would observe first. Gather Intel. Then go from there.

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Ask him, BTW you still have that necklace I accidentally found in your coat pocket? … the same one that’s hanging around “blah blah” neck!

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This happened with me, my child’s father and my own sister :sleepy::nauseated_face::rage:

They both still deny but now he is in jail for constantly beating me, ive had time to think and trust my own gut instinct. He gaslighted me, manipulated me for so long I thought my accusations were crazy but turns out I’m not, they are just keeping eachother as dirty little secrets. Stay right away from me!

I feel for you, it really hurts to be betrayed by our closest people xx

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I think you should ask him and her. There was something similar that happened to me and asked both. One lied and the other admitted to cheating on me. So I gave them both up and was glad I did.

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Set it up so if it’s true they are exposed…sounds like forbidden fruit syndrome, keep your man and your friends separate especially if you have more than your girlfriend because women are jealous bitches and if they think you have more than they do then they will want to take that or take some thing from you.

Sorry if this is cynical it’s just the truth from someone who’s been there.

I would not even bother asking questions because you know the truth already, never go against your intuition but you can still set it up so they expose them selves and then you know for sure instead of giving them an opportunity to deny it which they will.
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. 

Omg girl you seen the necklace first,then she’s wearing it,they screwing around behind you back this is right in your face get out if denial get rid of both of them move on please!?

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Listen, do this: tell your bestie you saw that same necklace in your bfs pocket and tellbher straight up, dont hesitate, but before you do any of this if yall both got anything together in your name like a house, or anything valuable I suggest arranging all that before you get things messy, secure your things and blow up on both of them, fudge it just do it there is nothing else to dot hats it fudge both of them you were to good for them anyways

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