I found out my boyfriend was cheating on me: How can I be strong through this?

Run. He didnt put his child over other women. File for child support and move on with your life.

But for real, boy bye!

Get a lawyer and get child support

Leave him. Pray to God for strength to get through this. Our Father will get you through…just have faith and believe in him. For your sake and your baby 's sake leave him and take care of you both. Prayers going up. God bless.

You have to sit down & think, do you forgive him or not ? If you forgive him, than stay with him & don’t bring it up. If not, than leave him & move on. That’s what I would do.

The sooner you move out of that situation, the better.

Leave him now and take your daughter with you.

The door is waiting to be closed as you and your child walk out

If he did it once, he’ll do it again

The same way I did. Dump him!

Leave and sue him for child support.

Leave. Or you will have a lifetime of lies. Soon as possible.

Pack your things, and your daughter’s things and LEAVE.

Once a cheater always a cheater. Leave him asap.

I would kick him to the curb and file for child support. For any parent to spend money on booty calls instead of their child is shameful. Apply for foodstamps, wic, section 8 housing, anything that can help you and your daughter. That is if family aren’t available to help you.

1 Like

Just kick him to the curb and don’t look back

Dump him. Once a cheater, always a cheater!! I raised 2 daughters all by myself. You can do it! Get that child support!

1 Like

Kick him to the curb, trust in God, and move on with your life.

Throw away the whole man! At least you know he’s a total creep! So much better out there!

I’m so sorry this happened. U have to truly ask yourself the question don’t I and my daughter deserve better. How selfish and immature of him. Think of the baby and yourself please

Unload his rotten ass. You baby doesn’t need a father who cheats nor do you.

Leave. Never go back!

Move on ,be strong! One a cheater,always a cheater!

6 Likes

Omg i feel for you… I know exactly how u feel, cuz it happened to me too😔 I was in a 10yr relationship with my ex bf, we also have a daughter. He wouldn’t contribute to household as much, but he still helped, then one day he just completely stopped, would not explain the reason, but he said he got a 2nd job working night. But then he took some money without permission, pawned daughters Nintendo wii game system. And one day I found out everything. He been seeing this woman for a couple months, he had been spending all his money on her and her 3 kids, and there was no night job… he was sleeping at her place and now she was pregnant, but that wasn’t first time he got her pregnant, they just had an abortion the month prior and I basically PAID FOR IT… he took money without my permission to pay for that?? And still hadn’t paid me back. I was also horrified to find out our 7yr old daughter knew all about dad gf, because dad would take her with him, to see gf… then tell her not to tell mom. The whole thing was very traumatizing, and it did affect me mentally

Boot his ass out. You and your daughter deserve better.

Just think about your daughter! Kid’s can feel every every emotion. They can feel your stress, and sadness. He needs to go. He’s only gonna keep doing it! Show your daughter how strong you can be. You don’t need a POS boy like him. Move on.

Leave. I was a stay at home mom 16 years ago. Was cheated on. Left. I’ll never regret not staying. My daughter is worth more than any man. Even her father. Once a cheater always a cheater. Especially a loser who wasted diaper and formula money on women

1 Like

Make sure you sue that jerk for child support!

1st thing you need to do is toss him to the curb!!! He has proven that you nor your daughter are important enough to do the right thing for. 2nd if you don’t tell him to leave then you are basically telling him that you are ok with what he did and trust me he’s hoping you never find out because he doesn’t want you to leave him so he can have his cake and eat it to then bring home whatever his side bitches have and give it to you if he hasn’t already :face_vomiting:. Respect yourself enough to tell him to get to steppin

kick his ass to the curb, get a restraining order and CPS for child support or a lawyer, there’s plenty of fish in the sea, just stepup your game next time.

Leave him ASAP, and take your daughter with you. Prioritize your life and hers without him. Talk to a good lawyer so you can get child support garnished from his paycheck (assuming he works). Find a good paying job (I work at the post office and we constantly need help. Pay starts around $17-$18/hr) and focus on improving your life and her life.

1 Like

Dump the moron.If you have no relatives go to a women’s safety home till you can get on your feet.Sometimes mom’s have to work but the time you’ll spend with your daughter will be a treasure when you get away from that moron

1 Like

I been dealing with the same thing for 4 yrs walk away with your head up and get him on child support once a cheater always a cheater in my book once you lose trust it is not worth it

1 Like

Kick him to the curb, NOW. He is the problem not you, anybody can make a mistake, but not caring for your child while spending money on whores, no excuses, he is a worthless POS. Just keep telling yourself none of this is on you, your only mistake was believing in him at all.

Look into narcissistic personality disorder. Typical behavior of these habitual liars.
Will also give you insight as to why it wasn’t your fault and he will never change.
RUN

1 Like

Hope you dumped his cheating ass. It’s one thing to cheat on you (not cool of course) but it’s another to cheat his own daughter. If I were you, run as fast as you can and sue for child support…ASAP!

Look in the mirror every morning when you get up and say I deserve better I deserve better every night before you go to bed look in the mirror and say I deserve better you have to have more confidence in yourself someday you will meet someone that is worthy of you

Vision your daughter in the same situation. What would you tell her to do?

Be glad you found out now. Once a cheater always a cheater. This is so true. This hurts but you need to cry it out. But prayers need to be in your hands at this moment. Pray that God remove this pain and help you move on, start doing things that help you not to think about him. Get anger with him. Be graceful he didn’t give you a disease. Go get your child support so you can save it for your child or to help you support her. Believe me once a cheater always a cheater. Always believe your beautiful, blessings and be strong to move on. Don’t date right away, so you can have the room to love another. Keep yourself busy. Your beautiful, wonderful you can love someone else and you and your child deserve way better but never stop letting her see her father. You will become a better person. You will see things differently and be more happier. You will see things brighter, I dated someone for 6 yrs. and it was hard, to find out he was cheating all that time.Everything in our life is a learning lesson. He will try come back but he will never change. But this time he will find a other way to cheat. My boyfriend was even cheating with his so call best friend (lady). I caught them myself. Always put your child first before anyone. God bless you and your child.

Throw him out. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Especially when he’s doin all that extra crap!

Can you get in his phone ? Post pictures of him on Facebook he’s scum and he’ll never change leave him

Kick his ass to the curb!!! You can be sad but better emotion is get pissed you’ll follow thru that way

Kick him to the curb, then take him to court for child support!!

2 Likes

Kick him to the curb and get yourself a lawyer and get him for child support. He’s a loser, and you’ll be better without him.

Kick his ass to the curb. File for child support and get yourself a job.

Nope cause I knock everything over including his ass…leave…leave leave leave

Kick his ass to the curb… and file for custody and child support.

Many men are too selfish to care for their own kids. Sad but true

Kick his sorry butt to the curb !

Dump the loser and move on

Kick him to the curb , you deserve better :heart:

Hey Babies send me A DM :heart::gift_heart: for your spoil Become wealthy with Daddy with one Allowance payment Bet you’d Give A Try $1000 first payment Don’t Be A shy I’m just A DM :kissing_heart: Away Darling :smiling_face_with_three_hearts::heart::revolving_hearts::star_struck:

I can’t believe that just with a phone i made to Dr. Akhere, I got my ex back to me within 24 hours interval. I had read some stuff about Dr. Akhere before i called him but i didn’t know that all those stuff were so accurate until i got my ex back, After getting my ex back i taught it wise to share my testimony with every one on this website that Dr.Akhere is a real and powerful spell caster that rebuild any broken relationship or marriage with love spell. Do feel free to Contact Dr Akhere via email: ( [email protected]) OR what app (+2348147956530)
Redirecting...

Leave leave leave now

Get a therapist and leave him!

Yeah. Pack your shit and leave.

1 Like

Go to your doctor to be tested for hiv stds. Do not let this man be sexually intimate with you until your test results are back. Do not have sex without a condom. There is no penis worth losing your life over.

Dump him. You deserve better

Grab that baby and leave

Be done with his ass

Talk to someone, a professional.

Pray…for strength…when we are weak,God is strong!!

Pray :pray:t5::pray:t5: That’s your answer

We all come over with baby supplies for you, beat his ass and peg him :joy: then burn his shit and kick him out in the cold in nothing :cold_face:

Let him go. There are agencies thar help call 211

He let your daughter starve leave his worthless no good dead beat ass you and your daughter deserve better.

First step. Leave that scumbag. Second step. Find safe home for you and your baby. 3rd step, get all the evidence of his cheating. 4th step. Sue the shit out of him for child support

Shit happens leave him and move on

Get a lock of his hair, some nails, lemon and a black candle. Hex that asshole :joy::joy::joy:

Dump his ass .u r doing it now.

Once a cheater always a cheater

1 Like

Kick his ass out NOW.

Whoever laughed at this post is a total asshole

Please read!

Dump him he will never stop

He is a simp. Leave him :sweat_smile:

2 Likes

First off why is he still your boyfriend and not your ex? Just take it day by day and just look at your baby girl and realize she is the most precious thing in the world and you don’t ever want her to go through this when she grows up.

Just imagine that it was your daughter in the situation you are in now, with a man who just did that to her. He’s not a good man, clearly a terrible father and an even worse partner. He made his choices. If I were you I’d keep absolutely every single piece of evidence you have against him. I’d fight for full custody and supervised visits since he has proven he can’t be trusted

Think of you baby I mean normally I probably wouldn’t even have a problem with any of that but if it’s taking away from diapers for your kid or food from your daughter or clothes or even the bills and the house then that’s a big no no no no even being a stay-at-home mom and leaving him and trying to get a job you would have a better chance of getting the help that you need

1 Like

Take your daughter and walk away

3 Likes

Fuck that guy!!
Do you have any family or friends that you can stay with until you get on your feet? Reach out to all government assistance programs to help, you are a single mom to a baby, you have plenty of options. You do not have to stay with him.
As for keeping strong, I don’t know…just look at your baby and remind yourself that she deserves a happy mom.

sound to me like this guy doesnt care at all about his daughter or you if he can let her go without necessities so why are you still there? put your babys needs first and its all uphill from there. i went thru this same situation but with 4 lil ones to think about–:pray: you can do this for her that will keep you going

Take your daughter n clothes n leave. They don’t change. Rodney Brown of anderson s.c. did this t me years ago. I kicked him out n it was over.

1 Like

He’s showing you his true colours, why stay and deal with that bullshit? Leave him! it’s not worth it.

get out of this relationship! obviously, you and ya’lls child isn’t important to him!

Sounds defective… send him back!

But seriously you need to be a champion for your child. It is better to be alone than to be in a relationship that has no trust, honesty, respect, or loyalty. You can do it!

1 Like

The bad thing with relationships anymore is most are trying to outselfish each other.

You are stronger then you think momma! Love to you and your baby girl you CAN and WILL get through this! Without him! Pack your stuff and get out! There’s a better life waiting for you and that baby girl of yours! :heart::heart:
I did it with two little boys so can you!

1 Like

He will pretend that he wants to fix his family and that he is sorry just know that you are better off alone and that you will be just fine I mean after all it wasn’t providing anyways

2 Likes

Nah. He took away from your CHILD so he could pay these frikin pornstars. Screw that hes not a man and doesn’t deserve you or that baby

2 Likes

Kick his deadbeat ass to the curb and go after him for support. Sounds like a set addict. Spending money on women and denying his child basic needs! A real low life.

Leave him. Men that love his other half especially with a child doesn’t go off trying to find another woman. He doesn’t like you. Move on. Your child deserves better than seeing that crap

5 Likes

He doesn’t respect you and no amount of apologies will rebuild trust and get rid of the resentment you feel for his lies about money and you have to panic over buying essentials for your baby girl… And… He will just do it again when he thinks the dust has settled. Is he truly sorry? Does he regret his actions? I doubt it… Obviously addicted to the thrill of paying online women more than he cares about being a loving partner and father!

Throw that POS to the Curb,

Firstly, call a help line and get someone you can talk to. By talking about the situation you can decide what your next steps are because you are the one who needs to make the decisions. I wish you well and stay safe.

1 Like

He won’t change. Leave. For you and for your daughter. You should find a good support system if you don’t already have one. You deserve better but your daughter definitely deserves better. There are so many resources out there for single parents apply for all you can and try to find a stable job to support the two of you.

He didn’t just hurt you, he hurt y’all’s child. :heart: Wishing you the best in this terrible situation.

How I got cured from HPV through herbal medicine is still a surprise to me, and I want to thank a very good friend of mine +234 8037946490 for his support, without him i wouldn’t have meet with ojukudele who i got cured through his herbal medication because HPV almost took my life and I’m ensuring you that you can also get cured through ojukudele his medication is % guarantee and also he is very good in curing illness like, cancer, HIV, thyroid, SPV, HPV, Diabetes, and weak Erection. Contact him today on WhatsApp +234 8037946490 or email address [email protected] and also remember that a problem shared is a problem solved. Do not hide your sickness because you will die lonely with it.

Babe, keep you head held high. You are a queen. Do not judge yourself based on his foul decisions. You take that princess, back yours and her things, and walk away. You can be strong. You can do better then him. He’s going to say alot of shit, do not believe him. No, you won’t find someone like him, because he is the only version of himself. You’ll be ok. Put you and that baby first.

Pick up your pride, pack yours and your daughter’s stuff, and leave. You and your daughter deserve so much better.

Put you and your baby first and kick him to the curb .He has show you that your feeling don’t matter. A father will spend his money on his family if he loves them not other thing .He has showed you he doesn’t love you.