Well since you call her your wife, I assume you are married to her. If she doesn’t want to romantic relationship with anyone else, that’s perfect, but if she doesn’t want one with you, then I would say it would be time for a divorce. It seems as if she’s not taking the marriage seriously as she should. I would definitely confront her, let her know that you know what’s going on, and lying is unacceptable.
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Buy a reliable GPS. Keep records of all movings and build your case when you decide to divorce
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IMO, you should sit down for a calm conversation with your wife and both of you need to be completely honest with each other.
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Erm shes cheating. Divorce
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She doesn’t want to be tied down? She’s fucking married. Not sorry, that’s kind of part of it…. I’d be taking notes, keeping everything on a flash drive and be getting some divorce papers together. F that.
She’s having an affair
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Leave she doesn’t want the marriage anymore once someone tells you straight out that they don’t want you anymore believe them just leave and live your life hun she is definitely cheating all the signs are there
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Shes definitely up to something. There is no way I’d be able to trust her. I’d move on seems like she is looking at other options and keeping you in the dark.
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She said she doesn’t want a relationship. I would have packed her bags already. Why continue with it? It’s over.
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When someone shows you their true self, believe them!
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Get a friend to take lots pictures then tell her get out.
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She’s definitely fucking around
Well first get tested she may be breaking off the romantic relationship with you now but that doesn’t mean you haven’t been exposed previously. Also you can’t trust her. Just know everything she says is a lie. Is that really how you want to live in a loveless, trust less marriage? I’d start planning your exit and getting any evidence necessary. But seriously listen to her bc she’s telling you what she does and doesn’t want and that’s not you.
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I think its over ,but that is just me
I would definitely tell her. That unexceptable. Sounds like to me she already has her foot out the door
She is a liar and right now you can not believe anything she tells you. Despite that, you must confront her or set up a “catching her in a lie” situation. I know you know what is really going non her with her and her coworker so do not believe anything she tells you.
You should let her go and you find someone who’s willing to have an honest relationship
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leave her, if you really love her she needs to love you back, sorry my friend!
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Do you know for sure she is lying, or do you just suspect it? When she said she doesn’t want romance, does she mean she doesn’t want sex? Maybe you should clarify that part. My wife is close to her male coworkers but that doesn’t mean there is anything going on between them. I’m sure if my wife was asked out by a coworker she would tell them it’s not proper for her to do that. Then she would tell me she was asked out. You should confront her about what you think you know. It might not be as it appears. If it is true tell her how you feel before you make any decision.
She’s cheating. Divorce her and go find you a real queen
Just leave…don’t put yourself in useless pain if you can help it. Just leave if she changes her mind you’ll know and then can decide to work it out but do yourself a favor and leave without fights and drama and long talks that will go nowhere…leave for yourself your sanity and your heart bc you gotta pick the pieces up after
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She wants to keep you on the hook incase they other guy dont work out
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She’s cheating I’m sorry
She’s cheating…leave
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Know your worth, she has no respect for you. This is highly toxic BUT what you allow is what will continue. Please put yourself first before she completely ruins your soul.
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Seriously? Catch her and call her out! You deserve way better! If you have kids, take them and walk…after all…she’s free now. She asked for it…you didn’t.
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Respect yourself and you deserve to be treated like a gem!
Time to leave mate U deserve to be with someone that wants to be with you
She doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you or anyone else. I would say, she’s trying to let you go, and her letting you know that’s how she feels, was her way of ending things. Move on.
She’s your wife but she doesn’t want a romantic relationship with you? (Or anyone else?) I’m confused.
Talk with her, tell her how you feel, tell her what you expect out of your marriage, and tell her the things you have found out that she has lied about. Give her the opportunity to explain, or “come clean”.
If you are willing to work on your relationship, but she isn’t, then it’s over. Don’t waste time dragging it out & wondering what’s going on … talk with her and find out what she wants to do, and then leave.
If she’s willing to work on your relationship, go to counseling. I know it sounds weird, but sometimes being able to work a relationship out involves including a neutral third party who you can be honest with & share your feelings and concerns with. The only way it can work, though, is if both of you are totally honest, and if both of you really want the relationship to work.
Good luck.
she’s cheating. Tell her you know. Give her the proof of how you know. See what she says. She may say yes and I want out. She has already told you she wants out without saying it. She is using you
You deserve better than that. She is definitely is cheating. I hate when people do this. I don’t get why they have to cheat instead of just leaving. You need to leave her.
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So you did not mention kids. If you don’t have kids just straight up leave. Obviously she’s having an affair and she disrespected you by going behind your back and then cutting off your intimacy lying to you and embarrassing you.
If you guys have kids together that’s a lot harder. I would say get your finances in order and get your ducks in a row. Get all the paperwork you need together and then consult a lawyer before event bringing up the affair with her. Whatever proof you have get it on the record but it won’t really matter in terms of custody or anything for the divorce. Find a good children’s therapist and a good therapist for yourself and start now.
You deserve a better wife
Just leave and move on. She’s basically told you she doesn’t want you but is still keeping you around just in case. Might as well get yourself mentally and emotionally prepared for a separation, or actual divorce.
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She’s definitely having an affair. To me, based off what she said she doesn’t want to be with you. I think she wants you to go ahead and make the next move of divorce. She’s just too chicken to come clean or depending on the state if she is cheating you will get everything so that could be why she’s not admitting it.
She’s cheating, it all depends on YOU on weather or not you say something. I would say something, probably wouldn’t be very nice either, but that’s me. Gather up all the evidence you have and go file for divorce!! Love yourself enough to know that you deserve someone who gives as much as you give in a relationship, someone you can trust and who wants to be happily tied down with you.
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Leave. Plain and simple.
If you say anything to her now, she will deny it, and it will just cause an argument between you two. And she will be very careful next time she’ll hang out with him, because now, you are suspicious. But now that you knew what she is doing, just pretend that you didn’t know anything. But at the same time, investigate and caught her in the act. Video them kissing/lovey-dovey toward each others/going places especially going to the hotel for example. Make it sure that you have a solid proof of her cheating. Not just eating dinner sitting around the table etc. If you can also get their text a love notes between them, is a must. Then confront her about her cheating along with all the proofs you’ve gathered.
She may not be physically cheating. But if she has felt out of love with you, she would be filling this void with someone who excites her again. Their is probably nothing you can do now. Good luck.
That ship has Sailed my friend
She is cheating. May not be sexually but mentally and physically going with this man. Breaks my heart that people can do this to one another. Went through hell with my husband. If no kids, tell her your done. Good luck
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She sounds awful. If she doesn’t want to be with you anymore that’s OK but to string you along, lie, cheat, treat you like crap, and make you feel like you can’t trust her is just ridiculous. She doesn’t want to be with you, she’s said that, but she stays for some reason. That’s not right. I wouldn’t tolerate her BS anymore. Doesn’t want a romantic relationship, that’s ridiculous. 
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She doesnt want you she told you so leave and find someone who actually LOVES you.
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If she’s said she doesn’t want a relationship with you, it’s hard to make that work. There has to be two people fully invested. She also has to come clean on anything big or small she’s not being honest about because you can’t fix anything when there’s still secrets. I would suggest to her you go to couples counseling and see if she’ll open up there. But, if she’s not willing to put in the work, you’ll have to decide if you want to be in a one sided relationship.
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I would get my finances in order. Secure bank accounts,etc. She may not be contemplating ending your marriage but you may want to.
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Get evidence and then divorce.
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dip out brother if you got kids id get screenshots of her convos wit him they come in real handy in divorce court
Sounds to me like you deserve WAY better!!! It’s clear she is cheating and if she isn’t, she’s got some very peculiar signs. You as a man deserve respect and loyalty. Leave her and work on you!!! I know it sucks but you deserve better than that!!!
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Sorry to hear you have a cheating wife but it is your decision of how to deal with it
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Kick her to the curb. Plenty of fish in the sea.
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Couples counseling. Don’t take no
She told you she doesn’t want a romantic relationship with you, why would you be ok with that??
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time to face her with the truth, why is she staying, if she wants out, is it the money you have keeping her, if not, she wants her cake and eat it too,…not good enough…its hard, Ive been there, but the break is better in the long run
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Exposé sorry your going threw this yet no way i do not play second to anything if she cared for you or loved you as she said none this be happening let her go dude shes not worth having not unless you like this abuse which i dought
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run… run as fast as you can
Sounds like she likes all that and to him It’s whatever he can’t get. Get everything in order and leave and don’t take her back once he’s bored with her either.
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Open up and tell her but be prepared for what you have to deal with, all the best xxooxx
If you don’t have trust you have nothing.
Confront her after you have your legal affairs all set
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What and who else is involved i.e., family. Look the spark can go out of a marriage and partners can wander. The question is do the other benefits of being together outway the negatives. If she’s not sexually providing then reciprocate and get it somewhere else.
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She doesn’t want to be tied down to you yet she’s married to you? Did she understand the assignment?
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Never go for the coworker friend bullshit. Especially a damn man
Once a cheater always a cheater! Move on ! Your in love with what you want not what you have.
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She’s out with another man. Leave her.
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She says she doesn’t want a relationship with you, she’s lying to you, she’s going on dates with other people…exactly WHY do you want to stay with her?
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So she wants to have her cake and eat it too? Nah. 
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Pack her bags and get her out.
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She doesn’t want to be tied down? Doesn’t want to be romantically involved with you-her husband-or anyone else? What wife would throw that in there? The or anyone else? What does she think marriage is? Freedom? You literally swear to love honor and obey through sickness and health, another human being…shes lying to you, spending time alone and going on dates with another man, hiding it from you and you want to trust her? You KNOW they are screwing right? You know it. The “or anyone else” comment is a dead giveaway. She wants freedom so she got married, she’s cheating and lying and sneaking round with another man and you want to trust her. Your both a special kind of stupid. And deserve one another. Please don’t procreate.
Let her go, you’ll be better off in the long run
Ahhh this whole post screams RUN 
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Your wife doesn’t want a romantic relationship with you? I think its a little late for that…ditch her
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Don’t be stupid! Leave her ass and set you both free… leave her to the next sucker… ull bounce back and find that someone you deserve…
Yes Candy Adamson, this woman doesn’t deserve to have an affair and a husband. She needs to make up her mind and cut one of these guys loose!
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Leave her. It sounds like she checked out of this relationship and keeping you as a safety cushion. You need someone who wants to be with you. You deserve it.
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If this is real.
Get real and get things in order so that u dont lose everything. If you have life and ins benifts change them. Then i would then let her know what you know but maybe without with hold certain information and sit back and watch the show.
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are you serious
Don’t let your self be treated like this have self respect
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She has told you she doesn’t want a romantic a relationship what do you have is it just sexual
Is that what ties you to her
It sounds like she doesn’t want this relationship. Why is there even a question?
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Sounds like she is ready to move on. But doesnt know how to tell you.
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She is already gone. Just needs to pack her bags.
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Id talk to her about it and see what happens
She is your wife but doesn’t want a romantic relationship? Omg, she’s insane and she’s cheating and she thinks you are stupid.
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Get on down the road, she’s playing u dear…
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She said she doesn’t want that with you so quit wasting your time feeling on her and leave
She already did expose herself. I’d get a divorce ASAP
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Screw her just because I’m keeping it clean
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Throw her shit out on the curb
You wrote that she is your wife so tell me how more serious does that get?!?! Does she want a divorce or an open relationship? Seems y’all need to talk and figure it out.
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Shes gone already. Pack up
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You need to confront her and talk about there might be something missing she’s not getting talk about it and see if its worth staying
Unless you’re happy to have an open marriage, confront her or move on.
Dude, sadly it’s done for her. I hope you find happiness down rhe road!!!
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