Get your ducks in a row first! Make sure you have finances, life stuff in order; tuck away some $ that’s not tied to any joint accounts, etc…seek legal advice first…let a lawyer suggest how you proceed…and be prepared to move forward should this confirm your suspicions!
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I’d want til he books again and catch him so he can’t lie. Because he WILL LIE. Don’t be gaslight. Know your worth and please know his behavior isn’t a reflection of you. It’s a reflection of his character. Good men don’t cheat. Period. I’ve been thru this very same thing. You deserve better. Hugs.
I feel like if it was for work, he would say that to reassure you.
I would sit back and take him for every thing ,get you self set up then go to motel ,I would make his life a living hell ,cancel all cards transfer all accounts write on his car for good time with his phone number and cut holes in his best clothes,oh my lord list can really make him think twice what fun
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He’s definitely cheating. I’d let him know I already know. Just tell him to gather his things and its time to leave.
I would of been waiting at the hotel already
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Start making copies of everything financial and screen shot emails just in case. Better to be prepared for the worst scenario than not be prepared.
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Another possibility is…when he is supposed to he on “work time” at the hotel call his secretary and ask for him. If she says he’s at a meeting just say OH I forgot. Then ask where are they having the meeting? If she says sorry, I don’t know assume she is helping with the cover up. Go to the hotel like others have said and get his room/room key.
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Maybe it’s a surprise for his wife, she said they were getting along very well.
You know he’s cheating 
, maybe hire a private detective to gather evidence while making sure that your financial assets are in order. Definitely talk to a lawyer.
Good luck to you, I’m so sorry you’re having to deal with this situation.
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Obviously he is cheating is this even a real question?
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Next hotel booking go and wait for him at the hotel room door.
He’s cheating sis. Pull your head out of the sand and call him out
When you get another email that he has booked a room again , you so the same and get a room there.
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I have no idea how you didn’t sneak over there and knock on that door…nothing or no one would have kept me away lol… on a serious note, im really sorry you’re going through this.
wait til you get the next email and check in
Bust him!! But make sure you print off the emails, hotel confirmations, cancelations, etc before doing so. Have everything you need when you confront him. I’m sorry, I hope you’re wrong and everything works out for the best 
You’re probably right unfortunately and I’m so sorry. I’d wait until he does it again and catch him red handed. Collect as much solid evidence as possible and just lay low until you can prove it and have next step plans. Please, PLEASE don’t wing it. Be rational, logical and calculated.
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Next time I would go there and tell them your room with his name on it an lost the key lol
I would keep my mouth shut, tell him you’re going out of town again but instead book a hotel room there as well and sit and wait.
Girl: you know it in your gut. He’s cheating. Get things lined up, print the emails, save your $$, file papers, and RUN.
He really isn’t the brightest button in the box if he knows you’re getting the emails! Don’t say anything next time. Go to the hotel before check in time and wait in the lobby. Catch him red handed then kick him out and burn all his stuff and get with his best friend. He might think twice about doing it again. Hope it all works out
I would’ve shown up at the hotel
show up at the hotel. the email has times for check in? he shows up confront him there.
Trust your gut and prepare yourself 
I mean, how many booked hotel rooms does it take for you to straight out ask him wtf its all about?
For me it would be ONE booked hotel room.
Been there, he’s cheating unfortunately
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Buy your time, tell him your going out of time your momma needs you, wait for the email and catch them red handed! Record everything, don’t let him know and knock of the door of the room saying room service wait for him to open the door and record the whole thing! Get your PI skills ready!
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Yeah, I would be biding my time and waiting to pop up on him. Have your phone on record for court. Print yourself copies of those emails as well.
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He is cheating…
Why else would he be getting hotel rooms and NOT saying a word about it?! That’s 100% cheating ma’am, sorry to say.
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You could wait around and go to the hotel the next time… OR hear me out, you can ask him now instead of the internet and you will know right away by his face… 
If this is not uncommon for work, then I would be as concerned except for the fact he hadn’t said anything. Him cancelling after you questioned him is a red flag. Booking another room for when you are going to be out of town is another red flag unless he frequently stays in a hotel for work.
I wouldn’t question him about it again. I would go to the hotel and see if he is alone or with someone else. I would bring a set of his vehicle keys with me and if he has a woman with him, I would drive his vehicle back home and leave my vehicle in the spot he parked in. He would get the message loud and clear.
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You need your book yourself a great divorce attorney
Wait until you see he booked it. Go to the hotel that night and say “ My husband booked us a room for the evening, I was running late and he’s sleeping, can you give me the key card so I can get in our room”. Then just walk in 
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I agree . Wait in the room with a shotgun
File for divorce. You know in your heart what he is doing. Retain a lawyer and get your affairs in order.
I would say 
, yes he cheating! Hopefully you can find peace, & be happy.🩷
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Ask him what his plans are for while your away at your mother’s… if you sit and watch him lie to your face then you have your answer if he tells uou which indont think he will then its okay… Good luck but I think you already have your answer xx
First, screenshot the emails. Keep proof of everything because he is going to LIE.
Don’t say anything!!! Get your stuff situated " ducks in a row" so to say.
But yeah there’s absolutely no reason for a hotel if he doesn’t ever actually use one for work or such.
He definitely has someone on the side.
Can’t even say cause he needs space once in a while. Cause you left and he was home alone.
Atleast he’s not doing it at home I guess. 
After you have a plan. And your things in order. I would go to the hotel . Ask for the room number. Block the peephole and knock. Make sure your recording on your phone. And don’t let him take it from ya.
I’d be going to the hotel and spying to see who he is meeting
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Show up to the hotel next time and see what’s up. I would be fully ready to leave and be ready for a possible confrontation/retaliation
Catch that mofo at the motel then Keep us updated please !
Follow him or when he books go to hotel and see for yourself
I would have an exit plan and then I would be waiting at the hotel for him.
Hire a lawyer. You are getting cheated on.
I would be going to that hotel the next time.
I wouldn’t be going out of town to your moms. I would be checking that hotel.
I’d show up
But I’m a little crazy 
I’m just commenting to cong back for an update
This is obviously cheating. Work in a hotel and you will see it all the time. Also, he’s your husband so why aren’t you questioning him!!??
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Prepare yourself financially and emotionally. Document everything. Tell him you’re going on another trip. See if he books the hotel again. Show up to the hotel.
Go out of town again and see if he book hotel and go see what he is doing.
Why asked us you are the one married to him
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If he isn’t telling you anything about it then he is hiding something.
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Definitely 100% cheating. Could be on the DL too. Watch out for STDS
Show up at the hotel, use the email tp “check in” and just walk in and be like hey friends what’s up! 
I would assume he is cheating if it’s a local hotel. Also why would he not tell you if he wasn’t?
Can you get into his phone . I would be checking his messages and photos.
My advice to you. Would wait at the motel to see who is with him. Your mind will never rest until you find out your self.
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Girl call that man out right now.
Girl if you don’t pull up to that mf hotel, you are the wife. They will give you information.
Your gut feeling is most of the time right 
Show up at the hotel. You’ll know the truth then.
Call the hotel and ask to be transfered to his room you ll know
Wait til the room is booked, get the confirm number off the email and get you a key like you’re checking in like regular. Bring a friend.
I’d be showing up at said hotel with a girlfriend for confidence.
You have to catch him take pics then confront him …and get him for adultery in the divorce.
He’s cheating… I’d bet money on it
There’s no reason to book a hotel. He’s going there because whatever is going on he don’t want in his home. I wouldn’t trust him
Um show up at hotel after he checks in next time
Go to the hotel he booked and see if he turns up alone
Of course he’s cheating why book a motel room for any reason except he’s cheating I know you don’t want to believe it but the proof is there
Pack a bag, and tell him you decided you both need some time away. Be ready for whatever .
Girl I would be waiting in that hotel before he checks in lmao !
First things first , cut off the sex & get your butt to the Dr. Even if no symptoms of anything. Better safe than sorry.
Girl the proof is in the pudding!!!
Screenshot the emails personally as he might delete them eventually, especially after questioning. That way you have proof. Also his corresponding texts on those days, etc. Sorry, but it definitely seems like cheating. Good luck
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Next time he books a hotel, go and stop by. Lol
I would go to the hotel and cause merry hell if he’s not alone
Do you want me to call the Cheaters van to go with you???
I want a update on how she handled it
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Yeah personally I’d follow him to the hotel and see what’s up.
Go to the hotel when he books it next and have the phone ready to record. You need evidence.
But there is no doubt here ……
You need to address this with him. Have the proof. I’m sorry to say it definitely sounds like he’s having an affair.
Tell him you’re going out of town again a few weeks in advance and when you get the hotel email confirmation rent the room next to his and wait to see.
Hire a private investigator. Get your ducks in a row before bringing it up. It’s my belief that a person doesn’t book a hotel room without telling their significant other THAT many times and isn’t cheating…ijs.
He is cheating or entertaining something he doesn’t want you to know about. I’d be following his ass. I’d fake I had to go outta town for a few days and be setting up on him.
If I were you, I’d wait until he books again, show up at the hotel and catch him red handed. Then leave his ass.
Lol I’d be showing up at the hotel not going to my mom’s house 
surprise mother fucker
It could be explainable but doesn’t seem that way … unless you think your husband is violent just confront him about it. Don’t go planning an exit and stow away money becuse if it does happen to be innocent then you look bloody crazy… if he is cheating then there needs to be a conversation between you and him to see where you go from there.
Go to a lawyer and find out your rights. Unfortunately adultery is not grounds for divorce. Do not let him know you suspect anything yet. Last thing you want is for him to start hiding his assets. Start preparing yourself for the worst and hope it doesn’t come to that. Good luck.
I also want to add, I would get tested for STI’s, and wouldn’t have sex with him without protection. You don’t know who he’s been sleeping with and who they’ve been sleeping with- and not everything has a cure, sadly.
Show up at the motel! Wait for him and obviously his side chick! Video tape him cheating and get divorce papers!
When things were going the best in my marriage is when my husband cheated on me. Best of luck to you. Is it possible for you to hire a P.I.?
Wait until I got another email… Then go to said hotel…
He’s cheating. I’ve dealt with this before and came up with every excuse in the book. It’s not worth years of your sanity love.
I’d be waiting at said hotel and see why he’s there. Might be, he’s meeting a man. You never know
Follow your gut =/ sounds sketch
Pretend to “go out of town” again. Go to the hotel and catch his ass