He’s cheating u were not told about it.
Are you seriously asking this group if he’s cheating??? Really???
He either has a side piece or is seeing prostitutes. Wait until he books it again and pop up.
Many here are under the impression that you should wait for the next dalliance at the motel to confirm suspicions, there is a ridiculous statistical landslide that supports his guilt in being dishonest through omission of information within your relationship, you should have screenshotted the information and retained an attorney already
Wait until he books again and show up. If you confront him about it he’s going to know and most likely just change the email so you don’t know next time . 
Get Proof ! To Cover your butt for your lawyer!
I’d go to the hotel and see if they can roll back the cameras and catch his ass
Copy the emails (and anything else) for proof. Get your ducks in a row and plan your exit.
Good luck mama
Get your ducks in a row and show up there.
Obviously if he is renting hotel rooms and lying about work he’s a scum bag cheater. You don’t need a genius to figure it out lol
He will just bring her to the home while you are away to escape hotel rate.
Trust your gut it never fails
Didn’t read any comments but why not go to the motel and knock on the door u might be going out of town but go a day later
Obviously he’s cheating. You need to get a friend to take pics of him and the other woman if possible. Send him texts asking what he’s doing during the time your friend is there to spy. Getvas much evidence as possible for court purposes. This way you’ll get more out of the divorce
Go or send somebody else that you trust to go spy. Who’s he with? When? What room? Hopefully it’s somebody he doesn’t know or recognize so they can be up in the business. Pictures and all. Don’t play wit me cause I’d have a friend deliver room service, door dash (to the “wrong” door) or something just to get a peek inside. Oh baby leave no stone unturned so that way whatever you decide you KNOW you have all the answers! Leave no doubt in ur mind. From one sister to another I have love for you and I really hope we have it all wrong OR we are blessed that the email came through to show u what’s what so you can leave his sorry @zz! (Or counseling… I’m not here to judge)
He’s cheating end of story…
Cheater Cheater pumpkin eater
If it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck… guess what??? It is probably a D u c k!!!
Yea. Pretty sure he’s cheating.
You could call the hotel about fraudulent charges tho… get some info…? 
Consider getting a private investigator to handle getting pictures.
Girl show up at the damn hotel (sneaky) see for yourself what’s going on… don’t let him see you and if it’s what you think it is… snap some pics and go file for your divorce girl. But in my opinion your husband shouldn’t be getting a damn hotel without your knowledge period.
You got the email on the confirmation number. Also so you can cancel it all mine you got the email
First off go back in the email and print out all the hotel emails with confirmations/cancellations etc. that way he can’t delete them and state your delusional. In this situation I’d do what the others stated and keep calm, act like nothing has happened and wait for the next email confirmation. I like another’s idea and “plan” a trip back to see your mom. Then show up at the hotel. However if there are no other hotel emails over the next few weeks I’d still absolutely confront him about the past hotel dates. Do not let him have a pass on this or you will never be able to fully trust him.
What’s your gut saying? Mine has never lied. If you have that twisty, nervous, sick feeling in the pit of your stomach then something is going on that you aren’t going to like. Get your affairs in order to make the break easy on you. If you want any funds from the bank account I would get that situated prior to confronting him. Not saying clean him out, just saying half of everything is yours and I wouldn’t expect him to willingly hand it over. I agree with catching him on the down low in video. Maybe hire a PI. Personally if I feel like my significant other is cheating and we aren’t married, I’m just leaving. I don’t care to waste anymore time trying to catch him in the act or confirm it, not wasting a breath arguing with him. If we are married I would want some form of evidence, not to throw in his face, but for divorce court. That info would go right to my lawyer and he would come home to me and all my stuff packed and gone.
Jesus Christ woman, you should have been at the hotel door after he checked in, if not the first, definitely the second time. What the heck are you waiting for? He’s cheating, you are allowing it and playing stupid. You don’t need advice, you need a backbone. Otherwise sit in misery acting stupid and blind. Holy cow!
Start getting your ducks in a row, then when he books again go incognito and take pics and use as proof when you confront him. Lawyer up and show what happens when he disrespects you 
Set him up for failure. Then wait at the hotel.
you should definitely had popped up at that hotel girl! bring this up to him because a conversation needs to be had about this.
Since he keeps doing it he might again. follow that man ! show up where you know he will be
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I’m vested now. I need an update!!!
I would just leave 
And just like him give no explanation. You didn’t know that he was cheating why should you tell that you’re leaving. He knows what he did and is doing anyhow. He’s cheating. There’s no if, ands or buts about it and there’s way too many out there that won’t do this to be treated like this! I’m so very very sorry that this is happening, I can imagine how earth shattering it is. He obviously put on a good facade.
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Well, I’d follow him next time, waiting outside the hotel for him to go in. I’d wait a few minutes then go to the front and tell them my husband just checked in and ask them the room number. Most hotel doors are thin enough that you can hear what’s going on. Burst inside, confront him, and file divorce.
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If my husband had booked a hotel room a few times and I found out about it , and it wasn’t for us … and was all secretive… I wouldn’t be wasting my time on here asking questions… !!
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Wait for next confirmation and go!
Good luck in whatever u decide to do.
I hope we are updated after this!
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I’d personally would go to the hotel and then I would go to jail. That’s just me though LOL
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I’d wait for the next email stating his room is book, then…….knock, knock, knock……”room service”
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I would go and see. If he checked in, give his name for room and check out for myself. So sorry but your gut feeling is probably telling you the truth
Next time meet him at that hotel in disguise
Get a get out plan in affect. Then tell him ur going to ur moms for the weekend see if he books hotel book a room at the same hotel and surprise have a friend and camera ready to assist….
I would show up… hi hunny!
Before you do anything, phone a divorce lawyer and a PI. You know this won’t end well. Get everything you need together before you confront and walk.
I’d pack me an overnight bag and show up with MY HOTEL KEY and greet him.
Have a safe exit plan for yourself. I hope there’s no kids involved 
. Prayers and hugs for you 
Im going to need an update lol
Wait til he books another room, say your going to visit your mother, and then go to that same hotel and catch him red handed
I’d go ask for the second card to get in the room tell them your husband booked and you are meeting him there and we’ll SURPRISE
Shoot I’d be showing up at that hotel room
I think we all know he’s cheating. Move in silence and get out!!
Oh man. Usually I never jump to cheating I’ll say of course do your research but girl I think we all know what this is. Especially if u know he actually went to the hotel. I’m sorry mama
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I’d go to that hotel and see why he is there. If ur out of town and he booked a hotel that doesn’t sound right.
Book the room next door if he does it again, show up b4 he gets a chance to get there and wait to see if he gets a knock on the door then peek out to see who it is, chances are she won’t know u if he is meeting sum1 there
Why arent you questioning him? If it was my marriage i have a right to know what my mate is up to. Dont play his game and be sneaky…confront him Right now, today.
Is there anyway u can call the hotel and see if “u” accidentally left anything behind?? Maybe be extra friendly n ask if the person ur talking to is the one that checked u n ur husband in?? Don’t tell him until u figure it out bc he might be able to cover his tracks… but patience is key. Act normal but next time it’s booked it’s time to go urself n watch… pretend u gotta go away in a week or 2… keep us updated. If u need someone to call u n act like ur needed to go visit somewhere I got u
Show up at the hotel the day it’s reserved! Be a spy!
If she says she is going to her Moms, husband could bring person to her bed
Come on. He ain’t your husband any longer. Period.
Go to the hotel. Hands down.
Cheating for sure hugs u don’t deserve this
cough coughput an air tag in his trunk **cough
Roll up to the hotel instead of going out of town.
He’s hiding something. How convenient to book an hotel when you are not around and not tell you about it . You don’t need more proof than that.
I would save them emails n confront him. He’s definitely cheating why else would he be getting hotels without u knowing?
Girl he booked hotel rooms. He’s cheating!
I’m sorry. He’s cheating.
Girl. It’s black n white. He is cheating. I would pretend I’m going out if town again n let him book again. N show up n knock on the door…
Hmm sounds like my now ex husband. We were rocky but I gave him space. Out of blue he said he was getting h I tel room to ‘regroup’. Well my friend followed him and he was having dinner with some chic that night and they both went back to hotel fir the night. I held onto his receipts from that night cuz he never empties his pockets…dinner for 2 $50+. 2 weeks later he went for a drive and same friend found him parked on a dark road with same chic. I already had things lined up to leave. I went to where he was parked took a few pics. And he jumped out of car yelling at me saying I made him cheat. Been divorced for 6 years now and he hasn’t had anything to do with our child in 4 years. He married his mistress.
So you don’t tell him you have access to his email or that you know about the hotel. Then you show up there. Duh!
Where is the hotel in proximity to where you live? If you lie about going out of town, where will you hang out & what will you do while waiting for him to go to the hotel? Do you have a discreet friend that he doesn’t know that can go and do surveillance for you, like take pictures and/or video? If you go to the hotel and catch him cheating, what’s your plan? Also, be sure to print the emails. Have a plan and expect to be gaslit. Big time, if you ask. Staff shouldn’t tell you anything unless they want to get fired. If he’s a regular there, he might be friendly with staff and they’ll know your not his regular, so keep that in mind. You could always go to the lobby with a friend and pretend you’re waiting to meet someone for dinner. If staff asks you, you could say oh I’m surprising my friend/college roommate/whatever. His girlfriend/wife text me they were in town me and he doesn’t know I’m surprising him.