Go to a Doctor.
Good luck and God bless you 
Took me 8 years to have my daughter. It can happen. What is concering to me in this post, is that you are not able to confide in him about your loss. He’s your partner, you shouldnt have to go through that bu yourself.
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My aunt had five miscarriages and then had four beautiful, healthy children!
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My husband and I were together for 9 years, married for 7 before we finally got pregnant. Don’t give up. Go see a Doctor and find out why you aren’t getting pregnant. It could be him and not you. Not only that but even if y’all can’t have kids, if you really love eachother then not being able to have a child shouldn’t change how you feel about one another. Plus, there is nothing wrong with adopting!
The fact he thinks its embarrassing is unacceptable people go through hell every day trying to conceive children if he doesnt want to be by your side and continue to try let him go you are doing nothing wrong my memere had 8 still births and then had a healthy little girl you cant ever give up no matter how hard the situation if you want this baby you keep trying
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Talk to him about it
Have yall looked into why yall cant conceive? Have you tried finding out what’s causing the miscarriages? Were you on birthcontrol before trying to conceive? If so, what kind and for how long? I know someone who struggled with pregnancy after being on bc for years. She now has a sweet, healthy baby! It seems to me if yall are trying and have only conceived twice in 2 almost 3 years, something medical is going on. He might have a low sperm count. You might have fibroids. Definitely look for an answer to what’s going on before you let your mind get the best of you. Sometimes a healthier diet and excercise is all someone needs. Try getting in to see a fertility specialist, they can give you the answers you’re looking for. There are so many variables that go into conception, the smallest thing can throw it off. Please dont think bad of yourself or of him. I know it may seem like it’s easy for everyone else, but plenty of people have these issues. Maybe look into support groups and counseling. That way you both can see that yall aren’t alone. Hang in there momma❤ you got this
Wow! Worried about his feelings? He is the one that needs to get a grip.
Two miscarriages does not mean you want have 6 kids! Talk to your dr.
I mean his genes could cause a miscarriage too. So dont be so quick to blame yourself. And also. I have had 3 miscarriages and have a 6 year old. And now 25 weeks woth my son. It could be multiple factors.
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If you’re gonna leave him, leave him because he thinks your body is on a time schedule for HIM. You’ll get pregnant when your body is ready, he needs to have patience with it, as you’re already hiding it for a similar reason. 
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Should remind him that marriage is for better or worse.
You will have your rainbow baby when God feels it’s the right time. 3 years isn’t really all that long either and no you are definitely not a failure
I had 4 miscarriages before I finally had my baby boy. I then proceeded to have 2 more miscarriages after. I would talk to your gynecologist and see if they can help you with anything. I was put on clomid and it helped me ovulate. Don’t give up on your marriage because of a couple miscarriages. Just keep pushing on.
Don’t give up . I’ve known women who try for 10 years. Not that I’m saying it will that long but divorcing you’re husband is not the answer . Sounds like you need more communication on your part. You should be honest with him and help him understand . He may understand what you are going thru
Dont give up I got pregnant after trying for 11 years.
This doesn’t reflect on your womanhood. It was pretty insensitive what he said but remember he only said it because he is hurting too and he wants to have a child with you. He feels embarassed, not ashamed of you.
First things first, your emotions are understandably heightened because of your loss. You are vulnerable. You might consider talking to a professional before making spontaneous decisions. You need to be able to process what has happened in order to move forward. You are trying too hard to hold these enormous losses to yourself. Let alone dealing with your husband’s hurtful response (s). I’m guessing he’s having a hard time with the loss as well and maybe not thinking about the way he’s coming across. Grief is tricky. In any event you need someone you can talk to and help you sort things out. You deserve to be supported.
You need to sit down and talk with him… then see a doctor together
You are not worthless. You are a woman who is trying. Don’t let it discourage you. I had a miscarriage in Jan of 2011 and then I miscarried my twins in Sept and October of 2012. It killed me and when I got pregnant in April of 2015 I was terrified. I was lucky I carried her to term and she is my beautiful rainbow baby. Give it time and don’t rush it. Maybe try talking to your dr about it. They usually can do some testing and go from there. But never blame yourself for the loss of your babies
A lot of people try to have kids with the wrong person and it never works, then one day with the right person it happens exactly as it should.
I have a blood clotting disorder. It caused multiple miscarriages. Any chance they can test you?
So dumb, kids arent everything. 
I’m never having any. My life will be fulfilled just fine.
Sounds like he feels like he’s the one who is embarrassed of him not being able to get you pregnant.
Don’t take it personal.
Hope things change for y’all and you are blessed with a baby
This is a common problem for women with low progesterone. I miscarried 4 babies. My last pregnancy, my dr put me on a progesterone supplement and I now have a healthy 6 yr old boy. There is no test to see if you are low. Just talk to your dr about trying it. You have to start ASAP once you find out you are expecting. It cannot hurt you if it doesn’t help. Make an appointment now and talk to your dr about it.
Talk to him and tell him that he hurt you and if if feels that way that you will let him go and be happy else where to make all the babies he wants see what he says
Why would he even say that to you? That is one of the most insensitive things I have ever heard. Its embarrassing? Are you fucking serious?
I’ll say that I have 4 beautiful boys . 2 biological and 2 step. My stepsons are no less mine . There are different ways to have a child and I think you should explore those . Blood does not make you a mother , love does . Good luck mama
Took me and my husband 5 years after being told we couldn’t have a baby. Now we have 3. Never give up. But he seriously needs to man up. That was awful to say to his wife who he married for better or worse.
Look into getting your hormones checked. See if you have a blood disorder that causes the miscarriages.
My Mom had a miscarriage before each one of her kids and I’m 1 of 7!
Your husband should hold you closer and not shame you for not having kids yet.
So many resources to help you and your not alone!!
He shouldnt assume its your fault
Maybe his sperm count is low …
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Marriage is about two people who love eachother through the good times and the bad times, love and support eachother, communication- I think you should talk to your husband about the miscarriages and how you feel, if he still feels “embarassed” by the fact that you’re having difficulties getting pregnant, then maybe you two should discuss what you both really want- marriage or not. Don’t be so hard on yourself, you shouldnt have to feel bad, getting pregnant can be easy for some and can be really difficult for others, I understand the pain you’re going through. I’ve had three miscarriages before I had my rainbow baby at 31- talk to your doctor and talk to your husband.
You need to start talking. First to a therapist because you can have trauma because of these miscarriages. Secondly to your husband and update him on stuff he should already know. You CANNOT keep the pregnancies from him. This is not the 1950s. Thirdly to your doctor so they can run tests on what’s going on.
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Sooo… hes upset he cant have kids with you? And you dont like hurting people…so leaving a man who loves you enough to start a family with you fixing things how?
I feel that would make things worse tbh. What ever happened to for better and for worse?
why are you worried about breaking anyone hearts? You are the one who lost your baby, not them. Now as for your husband, he also could be having a hard time with the losses. Both of you should be in therapy, together & separate. Now about feeling like you & saying horrible things about yourself, DON’T. There are many reasons for women who lose their unborn babies. And it has nothing to do about you or them. Whether you agree or not, this is how I feel ( I lost my daughter’s twin brother during labor, and another set of twins a yr after that, so I understand) I have always felt, God, needed them more, Also there could have been many birth defects, not compatible with life, so this also was Gods way to help you. No one wants to lose their baby, no matter how long they have been trying. And many women try for many, many yrs. Relax, yes that is better said then done, but when one tries , it just might not happen…unfortunately. I have known many women who ended up adopting & then ended up pregnant, because they weren’t trying anymore. One tried for over 10 yrs ….everything & never got pregnant, adopted & within 3 yrs was pregnant. They honestly thought it would never happen. Now whether adoption is for you or not, maybe fostering. But if your husband is so bend on having ‘his’ own kid, they he just might not really be the one. …sorry for saying that also. But he should be standing by you & you him.
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Drink a glass or cup of warm water with 1 tablespoon of apple cider vinegar and 1 tablespoon of honey a day. Try for a couple of months and see what happens. It won’t hurt. It’s an old farmers’ recipe.
Probably not a bad idea to check with your doctor to make sure.
There are so many reasons why people struggle to conceive. And this isn’t an uncommon problem. Talk to your doctor and see what may be going on. And please don’t feel like less of a woman! The things you are facing so many others are too!
You know I think he should have a say in that if you really feel this way you really need to talk to him about this after all it would effect his life to it’s not fair for you to make that decision on your own praying for you 
I’m sorry but that was a fucked thing to say
I’m sorry but I think the bigger issue is that fact that something like that would come out of your husband’s mouth. I’ve been with my husband since I was almost 14 years old. Right after I turned 16, I had a miscarriage and shortly after my periods stopped and I developed PCOS. after 2 biopsies we learned that my body wasn’t creating the lining/tissues so it had stopped my cycles completely. All my hormones were normal, ovaries and cervix were normal, they had no explanation as to why everything had just stopped. I was devastated, all I had ever wanted was to be a mother and watching husband with other children was always heartbreaking. I had the same thoughts you did, that maybe I should let him go and be with someone who could give him the family he wanted and deserved but my husband wasn’t gonna let that happen. He always kept the faith that one day we would have our babies, sometimes he even tried to shift the blame saying maybe it was him when I had been to the doctors many times and knew it was me. I had almost given up hope that I would ever be a mother but after 10 years I finally got pregnant with my rainbow baby. He is now a happy healthy 2 1/2 year old and I’m 27 weeks pregnant with our baby girl. My husband always stayed by my side and never ever made me feel like it was my fault even though we both knew it was.
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Wow ! I had two miscarriages before i got pregnant with my son then 5 months after he was born I got pregnant with my daughter.
Me and my husband where married for like 6 years before we had our children and together a hell of a it longer then that…
I had to go on progesterone for my son and take baby aspirin…
he should be supporting you not making you feel terrible. Maybe make a doctors appointment and bring him with you so he can hear from a doctor how common miscarriages are and maybe look into options since you’ve had more then one. Don’t let him beat you down !
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You need to go get tested . You could have a blood condition. I had 4 miscarriages before they figured out what was wrong
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My parents were married for 10 years before they had me. My husband and I couldn’t get pregnant at all without fertility treatment. You’re not a failure. Neither is he. But it sounds like you could use some medical help. Best of luck to you.
I dealt with several losses and infertility in my early 20’s. I went to the doctor find out why & here I am 7 years later with an army of children including twins. There could be multiple things going on and it may not even be you! He could have low quality sperm… slow swimmers or a low sperm count. Go see a doctor to gain some clarity on why this keeps happening. In the meantime, talk to him about his (absolutely crappy & totally insensitive) comment of being embarrassed and how it hurt you. There’s nothing for him to be embarrassed about… These things happen and you shouldn’t be made to feel ashamed. He needs to be more supportive.
I’ve been there I have my husband the choice to leave I told him he deserved to have someone who could give him children and the opportunity to become a great father, he never left me. He said his love for me was not defined by my ability to have kids and we could find alternative ways to have children. If he leaves you because of your ability to bare children he never really loved you, he loved the thought of what you were suppose to be.
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Have you seen a specialist? And I get your husband is grieving in.a sense to but he is being insensitive. It may be easy for him to have the emotion but there is so much more that comes along with the physical.aspect of it all. Sending hugs!
Talk to him about the times you did get pregnant if possible go to a fertility clinic to see why if you guys want to be together he should understand it may even be a possibility to have a surrogate? Or adoption I know it’s not the same but I almost thought I couldn’t and was considering it
I think not being able to talk to him and be open and honest about what’s already happened is a bigger problem than not being able to get pregnant.
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My daughter had 2 miscarriages and God has blessed her with 2 beautiful girls donot give up God will bless you I will be praying for you and hubby
I say talk to him about how you feel.
Definitely talk to your doctor before you say you “can’t” have kids. There are so many reasons for miscarriage, including some that your body knows the embryo wouldn’t be viable. Maybe people have had more than 2 miscarriages in a shorter time frame and still given beautiful babies.
& if he only wants kids to not be embarrassed, then he needs to reality check. 3 years is not that long & he needs to check his priorities. Your health and happiness should come first many times before "embarrassment "
Not to discredit how you’re feeling but 2 miscarriages is pretty minimal in the grand scheme of things. I know people who have had several and then a successful pregnancy. Have you exhausted all options? Fertility drugs? IVF? Surrogacy? I think what’s messed up is his comment of it being embarrassing. People aren’t taking a journal of every time you’re getting it on and it not resulting in a viable pregnancy. So how is it embarrassing??? Weird.
Sometimes couples are together for ten years before they even try for a family. I think your husband and you should’ve had a what if conversation before you even got married. He needs to be more supportive. & if he is treating you badly over this then leave. Because you don’t deserve that.
I went through the same exact thing as you did I lost three children before I finally had my rainbow and then ended up having another little girl both of them were very early. it is not easy to lose a little life please get yourself some counseling my love you need it your heart is broken. You are not alone in your not a useless excuse of a woman. I’m sending you huge hugs and telling you to not give up that the rainbow will come after the storm.
Maybe you need to be honest with him about the miscarriages and support each other and seek medical advice. Two miscarriages doesn’t mean you can’t have kids two is nothing in the grand scheme of things.
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It took my husband and I six years before we had our son. Dont give up.
I have had 5 miscarriages and 2 tubal pregnancies one of which ruptured my tube and uterus and gave me placental choriocarcinoma (a rare form of cancer) I went thru 2 months of chemo was told I’d never have kids. I have 3 kids now. My son was before the cancer and ruptured tubal (which was my last pregnancy loss) and my daughters both were after that pregnancy and after doctors told me I couldn’t have any more kids. Don’t give up 2 miscarriages doesn’t mean u can’t have kids. And if u actually can’t there is so many options for people who can’t. U r not a failure, u r not less of a women!!! And ur husband loves u let him support u thru this and support him thru it. Don’t leave him.
It was awful and selfish of him to say that to you!! It is not your fault and I understand how you feel though I haven’t experienced it myself, but you still have a chance there is always a chance! Maybe set up a dr appt and get all checked out to see if there is something wrong that they can help you with that may be causing you to miscarriage! 
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For one, he shouldn’t be talking to you like that. It’s not your fault. In any way shape or form. Doesn’t make you any less of a women. And it shouldn’t matter. It’s through sickness and health.
You should probably talk to someone about your miscarriages. It’s not healthy to bottle that up. You should be able to express how you feel and have someone to comfort you.
Lastly, just because you’ve had two miscarriages doesn’t mean you can’t have kids. I had unprotected sex for 10 years basically off and on. In two serious relationships. Starting in 2010. I had two miscarriages. Then had my first child in 2015. I had a miscarriage in 2017 I believe it was. And I just had my second child in 2019. So I have two children and I’ve had three miscarriages. They are more common than you would think. Doesn’t mean you can’t have kids. Keep your faith
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My friend and her husband had 10 miscarriages now they have 3 kids. God will give you one in his time. I had 3 miscarriages myself and have 3 kids
I also had to do progesterone shots and baby aspirin
First off who said it is you it could be your husband’s sperm and not you at all then you would have left for nothing second 3 years isn’t that long could be the birth control you were on there are so many reasons dont give up dosent mean you wont have a baby you will when the the is right usually a early loss there could have been something wrong with the baby
Me and my so was together for 5 yrs before I ever got pregnant after I had my first child. Your time will come and just have faith. But seem medical advice and always prep your body before pregnancy. Be honest with your husband about your feelings as well. It’s a partnership in a relationship.
Sounds like a poor excuse for a man. You can’t not get pregnant. You have. Twice. Some people it takes years to conceive. If he is so concerned he would be more supportive. Honestly if you were to leave I would hope it would be so you could find someone that is more supportive and loving. And would go the distance. Meaning things like. “Maybe we should both get checked out and see if there are any issues in us conceiving. If there is maybe we try IVF. Or a surrogate. If nothing works we adopt.” Someone who would pick up some prenatal vitamins, fertility lubes and vitamins. There are over the counter things to try.
Maybe your not supposed to have kids with him. I had miscarriages before finding my husband. We had two, had a loss, and just had our rainbow baby in dec. I believe he was who I was meant to have children with.
It’s not your fault. Maybe there is an underlying medical condition, in either of you. Maybe the universe is telling you something. But don’t let him get to you and don’t think it’s your fault. You are not a sorry excuse for a woman. Don’t ever think that’s the case. And don’t let him allow you to think that. Sending baby dust your way, but not for him. For you.
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There was nothing wrong with what he said. He said “we”. He was just expressing how he feels. Yeah it may have made you feel like you are to blame but he didn’t blame you according to what you said. Sorry you’re feeling hurt but you don’t leave your husband for that.
You need to open up about your miscarriages to your husband and need to find a medical help. I suspect he too loves you the same way and he might be thinking whats wrong with him. So just open up to your husband
This is no reason to leave your husband, if he truly loves you he will understand. Also don’t give up so easy, talk to your doctor and get checked out. You may still be able to carry a child. A lot of factors could contribute to early miscarriages like that and some of them may be able to be changed. I’m 33 and suffered 2 miscarriages when I was younger and didn’t think I could carry a baby to term, my sweet surprise was born 07/2019. Don’t give up hope and don’t give up your husband, you’re not a failure and even if you can’t carry there are plenty of options for you to consider. Talk to your husband and your doctor. Good luck!
If your husband said that that’s so fucked up …
If you leave him for any reason, it should be so that you can find yourself a supportive husband. It’s 100% ok for him to be devastated and upset that you guys have had 2 miscarriages, it’s ok for him to be angry that you guys are unable to conceive, it’s 1000% not ok that that anger and devastation is directed towards you. You both lost 2 pregnancies, you are suffering just as much as him, if not more, because chances are you are already blaming yourself. You are not at fault. You did nothing wrong. Life dealt you guys 2 unfair blows, unfortunately it happens. This doesn’t mean you can’t conceive, this doesn’t mean you will never bring a baby into this world, this just means that you had 2 miscarriages.
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It sounds like he was just trying to express the the disappointment he’s feeling. You guys have to talk to each other about how you feel. He said “we” not “you”. I definitely get how your feelings are hurt, especially with such a sensitive subject. This doesn’t make what he said okay, but you also have to remember most men aren’t really taught the ins and outs of pregnancy and fertility. He might secretly be blaming himself too!
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Talk to him. I have had a few miscarriages and I thought that only I was affected till one day I lashed out at my husband accusing him of being cold and he literally cried and told me how hard it 8s for him every time we lose a baby and how hard it is to see me go through that loss and he just never wanted to add to my burden l. We stopped trying to have a baby but we didn’t do anything to prevent having one and after over 5 yrs of trying we got pregnant last year and throughout my whole pregnancy I was scared of miscarrying but 7 jan 2020 my little man was born happy and healthy so u guys probably need to take the pressure off the way we did. Hugs and more hugs
Hun. I get you but trust me… You need to be open and honest with your partner and tell him what’s going on. My timeline is miscarriage, baby miscarriage, miscarriage, baby. Every loss gets a bit harder. Take the time to heal your heart and try again.
You need to tell him about the miscarriages because they were his babies too… Also the fact you’ve been pregnant twice in the last few years is a good start… You may need further investigation into why youve had 2 miscarriages though and your husband should be part of that process… Tell him
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I had five miscarriages, then had my daughter. Don’t give up. I wasn’t supposed to be able to have children.
Maybe you have mthfr. Or low progesterone… go get some testing done
Don’t leave him over him expressing his feelings. He’s hurt just like you. You both want a baby so bad and sometimes we say things without thinking how much it can hurt our spouse. Don’t leave him because you think he can make babies with someone else. If you love him and leave him, and he ends up meeting someone else and having kids, you’ll be devastated. Keep trying and don’t give up! Go to a fertility Dr, talk about a surrogate, talk about adoption, think really hard and look into all of your options. As many people have shared it’s not uncommon for their rainbow baby to come years after trying/miscarriages. You got this, good luck!
My friend and her husband had the same problem she finally broke down and went to her doctor and he prescribed her clomid. she took one dose which was a week’s worth and was pregnant they now have a beautiful one year old. Good luck momma
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Hiding the loss of his children from him is wrong and he’s going to be deeply hurt when you tell him but you have to if you want to have a successful marriage. Don’t give up on trying to get pregnant. Three years is not a long time. You can also go to the doctor and see if there is something wrong. There’s always adoption too.
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I had a miscarriage four yrs ago (twins) husband and i tried since to get pregnant I found out I was pregnant again finally on October 5 2019 I am now 19 weeks I was terrified sometimes things happen we can’t explain. But when God is ready for you to have a baby you will
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We tried for 10 years until we decided to see an infertility specialist. We had an iui with me taking clomid and a shot prior. His sperm was washed and we got pregnant on the first try. My second was conceived naturally and unexpected. I believe it’s because I learned I had hashimotos disease while pregant with my first. My thyroid levels were controlled and bam we got pregnant on our own. You don’t know what’s going on until you consult a specialist.
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There is so much more to you than having a kid.
But who’s to say it’s you?
Maybe he has the issue? Or maybe you just need to keep trying. See a doctor.
If that’s what you want and you aren’t able, look into adoption or surrogacy.
Or decide to travel together or something. Your life isn’t over and it isn’t fair of you to assume your husband only wanted to marry you so you could have his children.
I know it’s rough right now but you’ll make it through this. 
Hugs
You’re not silly for feeling the way you do. A lot of women who have been in your position have felt that way plus more.
My suggestion would be to sit down with your husband and just have a heart to heart. Get it all out, put forth your options, and then decide what you both would like to do moving forward.
But please know that you aren’t a horrible excuse of a woman. Our fertility status doesn’t define us so don’t let it define you.
You are a beautiful woman.
Let your soul shine. 
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It took almost 2 year n 3 miscarriages before my so n i had our second child. It wasnt until i gave up n relaxed n started having fun n boom surprise pregnant.
Maybe you should tell him that you’ve miscarried two of HIS children so he can be supportive 
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I think you should focus your time and energy into your marriage and maybe look into fostering/adopting babies who desperately need someone to love them and raise them out of harms way. I don’t think throwing away a three year marriage over the fact of no kids is a good idea. You’re allowed to to be heartbroken and you’re allowed to question why. But it’s not embarrassing and it’s not because you’re any less of a person than someone who’s got bio kids. Open up your heart to the possibility of loving a child who needs a mommy and daddy.
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Go get checked out. I’ve had five pregnancies and only two made it through. There’s hope. And it might not be anything wrong with you it could be him.
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Talk to your doctor,and go to a therapist.Also they’re are thousands of kids who need parents,you can always adopt.
Geez, don’t create drama where none exists.
- Tell hubs about your miscarriages. Why would you keep that info from him? TALK to him now and consistently and honestly from now on or there will be way bigger problems in not just your marriage but your life.
- Talk to your doctors: OB/GYN for you & his doctor for him.
- Both get work ups that could spot any problems. Ask if genetic counseling would be helpful too.
- If there are physical problems, address those.
- If no physical problems, look for solutions other than pitying your husband enough to divorce him. There are fertility clinics with numerous treatments, surrogacy, adoption, fostering, etc. Start saving money as many of these options aren’t cheap, and neither are kids once they’re born!
- Join a support group to find more ideas. Resolve is a good organization and source of info & support for fertility issues. (Resolve.org) These folks can provide even more info to you.
I have many friends who sought treatment and became moms. It may take longer than you think, but you can get there. Also maybe get counseling. Being ashamed of a miscarriage that is not your fault is a problem, and just dealing with two of them can benefit from grief counseling or therapy. Don’t be miserable if you don’t have to be!
Good luck future mama!
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there is nothing wrong with you and Im so sorry for ur loss stay strong ur a wonderful God has a plan for you and I pray some day you have you baby dont give up it took me three years to have my boy and we tryed i ate right didnt drink one day gave up got drunk and three months later i found out i was pregnant i have a girl 10 and a boy 3 dont stress and keep ur head up mama
You need to tell him about the miscarriages- they were his babies to. But it will also let him know you CAN have kids. I lost 4 babies before I got my son. And my aunt lost 9 before her twins. Dont give up just yet. It’s only been 3 years. Talk to your doctor.
If he loves you the way a husband is supposed to love you, he will support you through this. Not guilt you. He needs to grow up.
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Stop right now go to the dr for a thorough exam before you do anything
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You are not broken but you should talk to him. Give him a chance to be supportive and to be there for you.
First of all, your husband sounds like a royal ASS for saying such a thing to you. Shame on him. Also, my friend had two miscarriages and was also trying for this amount of time. Now she has 2 children. It takes time to get pregnant. My other friend who is now currently pregnant was trying to conceive for a year after she had her first child, had a miscarriage, then got pregnant. I don’t think people talk about how common and NORMAL miscarriages are. Anyone can have one and it doesnt mean you can’t get pregnant or that you are an awful wife.
Yes I don’t know you but a vegan diet can help with falling pregnant.
it’s a natural way to feed your body, and things might fall into place
Women who can’t have children tend to blame themselves. They label themselves defective and think the solution is to run and hide, like people should be saved from them and their defective uteruses… uteri? Anyway, I say… Perhaps you’re not the one that is defective, and he’s not the one who needs to be saved. Perhaps the defective one is out there getting pregnant with your child right now, and that child is the one who needs to be saved. Perhaps, if you leave him, you’ll be simultaneously depriving him of the best thing that will ever happen to either of you. Perhaps you’re exactly where you need to be, but you’re just not focusing where you need to be focused. Just a thought… 
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Ask him what he thinks.
Sweetie don’t give up. It took my husband and I 4.5 years to conceive, and I just gave birth to our son in November.
I won’t lie, the struggle was HARD. It was an emotional and isolating journey but you can do it.
What is meant to be will be… Maybe you’re meant to adopt your baby. That will be your child and you will be their parents. Don’t lose faith!
I’ve got 4 children but I’ve had 18 pregnancies. xx also your husband needs a swift kick to the balls for that comment. I’m sure it will happen.
Have you been checked for a tipped Uterus? Simple fix if you have one.Another thing to get checked for is MTHFR. Both can cause miscarriages.
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