Leave him ALONE bring your family. Relax and reset him out your mind.
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Daughter and grandson for sure… bye Nikki… bye boy!
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You paid for the room ? It’s your choice. They can rent a different room/cabin and only come if YOU invite them. He might think its a swinging type thing ? Idk. Talk to him about why he invited people without asking you first. Explain that you were under the impression that it would have been just the two of you for time alone.
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Invite your daughter and grandson . He is being insensitive to how you feel . You shouldn’t feel like you have to be around people who make you feel a certain way just for his sake . Have a good time with your family or invite girlfriends .
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Take ya family bump the bf let him go with his friends
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Wow. Someone that has you as a choice Vs Your family that loves you despite anything? Definitely your family!!!
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BE 100% HONEST !
Tell them the truth …that you wanted to have a nice get away just you 2 …and that you don’t feel comfortable with Nikki coming
Take your family. Don’t waist your time with him and Nikki. Wtf
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Oh wow.tell him to fuck himself. I would lose my shit.
If a man is truly into you, you know it. They make sure you know it. There’s no chasing or questioning or feeling unsure. This guy isn’t it.
Fuck that guy period. I would cancel all plans and get your money back. Also, and I’m not trying to be rude or mean about this but if he has expressed the fact he doesn’t want to be  exclusive with you, you should take his word for it and stop trying to force a relationship. He is prob fucking Nikki idc if she has a boyfriend I’m calling bs. Let them have their weekend together, him and her can pay for their rooms together. I would leave all of them alone. Bye
Stop trying to buy a mans love and affection.
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Invite your family and 
him and Nikki. That’s so disrespectful and he doesn’t value your relationship AT ALL or he would be ecstatic to go on a romantic vacation. I’m so sorry this is happening to you.
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He probably told her that he likes you as a friend and nothing more and he’s concerned about what this weekends going to be so why don’t you come along and that way I will be sure not to have to make any romantic gestures. If I were you I would call my grandchildren and I would take them and have a great time and forget about him. He obviously is not interested in a commitment so move on. Have fun, you never know, Mr Right may be there waiting to meet you.
Family. Let him have nikki.
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Him asking to invite his friend sadly shows he doesn’t have the same interest as you. Take your energy you out into this and share is with people that truly love you. Life is way to short. Hugs! I know it hurts that he pretty much ruined the vibe of the trip. Text him and tell him forget it and that you are taking your family. He needs to know this was not ok.
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Definitely invite your daughter and grandson instead. Sounds like you’d enjoy it more with them
You are wasting way too much effort on this guy. Dump him and focus on your family.
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Now have a girls weekend. Invite your friends, enjoy that jacuzzi and get drunk girl. Tell him to have Nikki plan, and pay for it all then maybe you’ll consider.
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How are you going to call this man your boyfriend but he doesn’t want to be exclusive.
. He don’t want you. Move on.
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He invites another girl! Erm no way! Be different if it was another couple! Say no to Niki and if he says no then go with family! After a year and no commitment?
Haha girlfriend you go for it tell him to go kiss off and you take your daughter and grandson and have a Time of Your Life the hell with him if he wants to do that it should be just you and him and no one else if not kick him to the curb and say adios
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I would tell him to
Kiss off
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Daughter and grandson and wave this selfish swine bye 
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Pls tell him to kiss off and invite your daughter and grandson you deserve peace and someone whose not gonna pull that bs
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Hes not into you. Move on. Don’t waste any more of your precious time or money
Girl fuck him and his female friend. You did al this to make it you all a real thing finally and he goes behind your back and tells another girl about it and invites her before even asking you. I say he made his bed and he can go F off in it with Nikki. Go and enjoy yourself, gather your thoughts and confidence and meet someone else when you come back that will take you serious
Cancel trip you do all that work all that planning and he bites another woman to go with you with or without her boyfriend that’s just wrong in so many cases he’s already told you he doesn’t want to be exclusive if you guys want to go that way still I would make everybody pitch in for the trip have everything divided by 4 people
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If a guy is inviting another female to a “getaway” he is not that into you. It seems like he’s more into this Nikki girl instead.
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Value your self and throw the man away.
Personal I would say something not allow it at end day it ment to be just you too spending a nice romantic break away so yes your in your right n plus it another girl
Don’t even take him. Tell him you canceled the trip and invite a different guy
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I’m sorry this has happened to you! Guys aren’t always as romantic as women are, so he may not be thinking of it like you do. That said, I would take your family. You’re going to be uncomfortable if his friend comes! Take your family and enjoy yourself! A getaway is good for the mind and soul!
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He can hit the curb. Take your daughter and grandson instead 
Tell him the trip was for u and him only.
Take your family and not him. He was very inconsiderate to do this to you. .Dump that jèrk.
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Invite your daughter
So just from the first couple sentences I can say with certainty that you will have a much better time if you tell him to kick rocks and go on a self love vacay. 
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I wouldn’t be doing this for anyone who doesn’t even want to be exclusive with me…
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Take your daughter and granddaughter.
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Make it a family Thing and tell the boyfriend to p*** off
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Tell him to get lost!! Don’t go with him! You will regret it!!
Invite your daughter and grandson and tell him to pound salt
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Tell him to kick rocks! Barefooted for all you care!
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What the… Yeah nah not worth it at all. Invite your family x enjoy your time still!
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Throw him in the trash.
Go have fun with your family!!
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How about you just say no. I want it to be just us? What’s wrong with communicating your feelings?
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Ask him if he wanted a threesome…if not then why did he bring his friend?
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Forget that guy 
take your family
daughter & grand child for sure!
Tell him the the trip was just for you two and you don’t want anyone else going and he he kicked off then go with your daughter and grandson
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Dude is obviously seeing other people and invited someone else on your romantic getaway. Drop this scrub fr. Take your daughter and granddaughter.
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Don’t go, if his friend is a woman then he might try 2 be with her at some point…
No she no go end of story
Maybe he’s only into her, when they are all alone. She has caught feelings for him. It sounds like he’s inviting other people to tell his partner, that he’s going with his friends, who will back up his story. Yet, I don’t forecast the two of you getting to be alone, if he invites his friends along. Sounds like she’s made great plans that may go the opposite of her plans. Take her family and friends instead. Be happy !
Time to find the true love of her life , who will want to be by her side all the time. Shes at a halt, dead-end road, with this one for as long as putting her own chance at finding the love of her life, on hold for someone,
who thinks less of the situation.
When he asked if you cared if Nikki came along that was the time to tell him it a getaway time strictly for you both. Maybe he didn’t know of your intentions. Don’t people in a relationship communicate any more? I would have said “yes, I mind because I plan to be naked and having sex all weekend and unless Nikki is a voyeur she can’t be there.”
Take your family… he can go with Nikki and her bf…
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Invite the daughter and grandson. Sounds like you won’t enjoy the trip at all if your bf Nikki and her bf goes but at least give your man an explanation as to why you’ve changed the plans
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Yea, I’d take my family instead…
Tell him to piss off and take your friends/family
Life’s too short to waste your love on someone who doesn’t feel the same. Pick your sucker up out of the dirt and take your family and have a good time. If he values you than he will take this time to reflect and figure out what he is about to loose. Again I stress Life-Is-Too- Short……
To hell with him. Tell him you are withdrawing your invitation. Take your daughter and grandson. They will appreciate it wayyyy more then he does.
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Something is wrong here I would look into this so called friend
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Take your daughter and grandbaby. Tell floppy fish to flip off!!
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The whole last sentence. Have fun with you’re FAMILY !!
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Why are you acting like your in a romantic relationship by buying all that stuff for just a weekend with him when he’s very clearly not into ypu like that and only using you, he literally doesn’t care, so much so that he even invited another girl to come (probably his actual girlfriend), and then he will be bragging about the trip with two girls he got to screw around with and left the bill with you. Girls you need to stop setting the bar so low for yourselves! It’s ridiculous how yall are getting worked up over a guy when they are literally everywhere. They ain’t going anywhere but you are doing nothing for yourself or your children trying to keep a boy that don’t want to be kept. Trust me, there’s always pnet y of real men out there to choose from and who will actually appreciate ypu doing stuff like this and even do it for you instead.
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I’d invite my kids or friends. Then pet that little boy go so ypu can find a real man. If you’re looking for a relationship, you need to find a guy looking for the same thing else it will always be like this.
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He obviously likes her. And they gonna enjoy a trip and food on your expense he’ll no!!! I’d say the booking messed up the date and take your girls nit tell him where your going. Enjoy those crab legs and view with somebody else girls trip. He not that into you. Sorry your going through this
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Daughter and grandson or friends. He’s not the one I’d want to waste energy, time and money on.
throw the whole man away:woman_facepalming:t2:
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Definitely get rid … enjoy with your family 
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Enjoy it with family. Regardless if they’re just friends or more he obviously doesn’t want the same romance with you that you want with him. I’d take that as a sign I’m wasting my money and time when I could spend it with my kiddos.
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Move on!!! He should NOT be inviting a friend at this point in my opinion
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Off and on for years…probably because of Nikki…tell him to kick rocks and you have fun with the family
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Take your family…sounds like they would appreciate it. Go tell him and Nikki and her BF to go to hell.
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I wouldn’t be taking him
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Go with your daughter and grandson and let this man go…. Like go go… do his own life.
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Take you family not him.
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Dump him and never see him again! He’s not that into you lol
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I wouldn’t take him!
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Go with your family. 
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Wow. I wouldn’t take him.
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Delete and block his number. Block him on any social media and go enjoy time w the people who actually give a damn about you. Guy sounds like a piece of work. He’s using you and, using Nikki too. He’s behaving like a child
Umm yeaaa,
Fu€k that guy.
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Take your daughter and grandson. Then you know for sure you’ll make good memories. He clearly did not understand that this was a “romantic getaway” for starters. And second. He had no right to invite someone to something you planned. Go enjoy it enjoy with your family. Hugs to you.
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I know who I’d rather spend my time with and it’s not him
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I’d tell him to kiss my rear end
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Daughter and Grandson. And tell him you’re done.
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Girl, that right there is a f**k boy. Ditch him, and take your babies.
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Omg how rude and insensitive of him. Tell him to piss off and invite someone else
Honestly, he has no real interest in you and has probably made it known to his friend, hence why she treats you poorly. I would even guess he has interest in her or she in him or both. You are being used…that is the harsh reality.
Just tell him that the trip is cancelled and take your family. Don’t offer any explanations or talk to him during your trip without him and when you get cut him off. I hope you listen to our advice here because it seems we are all in agreement. Take this time to have a great time with your family because that is what is meant to happen.
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Omg!!! Get rid of him!!! Don’t even think about it.
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Wow…no…i would drop that like a hot potato. Absolutely not…
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Okay, so 1) this guy is not your BF, at best, he’s a booty call. If you can’t get your money back, dump him and invite someone else. You deserve someone who respects you.
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I’d take my family. Going forward, I would not do anything like this for someone I’m not exclusive with and who’s not treating me the same.
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Deffo ditch that so called romantic get away with him and bring your daughter and grandson.
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Take your daughter and grandson
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Him and Nikki cab go somewhere else
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Take the kids theheck with him
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Go with family and dump him.
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