Yes take ur daughter and grandkids and let him go!
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Bring your family and go have a good time. Forget this guy lol
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Tell him to kiss off and go with family
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Tell him the trip is off and that you no longer wish to see him. Then ignore any further communication from him. He doesn’t want to be exclusive but you do, he’s just not that into you. Take your daughter and have a good mini vacation with family or invite some friends and make it a girls trip weekend. This man is not worthy of all this attention you’re giving to him. I would honestly be surprised if he and this Nikki didn’t have something together, either now or recently in the past. He’s showing you that he doesn’t want to be with you, listen to those signs.
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Why is this not just a simple conversation. You cant make anyone do anything. But, you can talk about how you feel. Pushing him into a situation where he would be a bf is kinda icky. That aside, go without him. You will regret it otherwise. Lots of resentment in your future.
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Take your daughter and grand daughter Have lots of fun!
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Take some friends or family, he’s a dud you’d look back wishing you didn’t waste all the effort & money on him js
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Why dread the thought of going with him and the friend and then put yourself through it?
Go on holiday and enjoy yourself… With your family.
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Take your daughter and grandson at least you’d enjoy yourself screw him
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Nikki is her lover, wake up and smell the damn spring flowers and take your kids, what is wrong with you? 
Sounds like him and Nikki are more than what you think
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Throw away the man and take your family
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Tell him to kiss off
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Daughter and grandson make family memories, Priceless
Girl, go with your family. He obviously has no wish in having an alone getaway with you and that says it all.
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You should of told him straight up that you not going if she goes. Tell him you planned it just for the 2 of you. If your not exclusive why are you wasting your time. Take the kids instead.
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Daughter and geandson
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Daughter and grandson trip it is 
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Take ur daughter and grandson and tell him to kiss off
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Oh wow he hadn’t paid:rofl:
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Take your family instead because he didn’t even check to see if you were okay with that. 
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I would tell him to get a clue… you planned that for you both for you 2 to have a get a way and he invites other people? Not cool
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Not fair to you, for putting all the time and effort in for others to enjoy, not to mention the money. This was about the two of you and he ruined that. At this point I think it’s best if you tell him you are not interested in a weekend with friends and have decided to invite family instead. Try to enjoy the time with the ones who will appreciate it.
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Take your daughter and grandson! That man is obviously not going for the same reasons you are, babe. His wanting to bring other people into it blatantly shows that, I would move on.
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Invite ur daughter & grandson a wee break away with family.let him go somewhere else with his supposed friend!
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Yes tell him to F off!!! He’s so rude
He mentioned a vacation so you would pay and you did and he wants to play with his friends too. Why why why do women do this? Whyyyyyyy
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BS…come on…your probably paying for it all and your an easy sucker…Cancel the trip and cancel him…Live & learn honey…lol
Daughter and Grandson…F**k that dude!!
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Can you explain to him where you’re coming from and if he still doesn’t get it, tell him that you think you’d rather have a family trip then a trip with people who make you feel not seen. I’m so sorry, this hurt my heart for you.
You’ve been seeing each other years but not exclusively. Sounds like he isn’t all in if inviting people when it’s a get away. I’d find someone who will commit
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Wow! Why are you with him?
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Wow he wants another woman to come??!!! I’d be super weirder out by that as well
Run don’t walk. Dump him or he will continue to string you along.
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Take your daughter and grandson. You won’t regret it.
Take👏your👏daughter👏and👏grandson! F that…
Your daughter and grandson are gonna have a blast.
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Awwww…man! What a bummer. You cannot win with this one. Follow your gut.
He hasn’t paid and wants to bring another woman? Nah bruh, bring your daughter and grand baby
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It just sounds like a double date to me…
Maybe you could say id rather Nikki and bf didnt go…Say im not being mean just i thought it would be nice if we had alone time just the 2 of us…If he didnt respect that then id go with my family instead x
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Let this man go. Get rid of him. You deserve someone who puts the same effort into you that you’re putting out. You deserve the same love you have so freely been given. You guys aren’t even exclusive after this long. Please find someone who can make you happy. This man is using you as a place holder. Or someone he can get things out of. Please take your family and enjoy your time. Promise you deserve much more than you’re getting. Hugs mama
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Definitely take your daughter and grandson. He clearly has no feelings or even respect for you. Let him goooooo
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Just here to agree with everyone else. Take your daughter and grandson. Forget that guy.
Girl if you’re going to take KIDS … Might as well take your own… That was definitely some lil boy energy… DROP HIM and leave the door open for a real MAN.
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Go in this getaway by yourself. You will have a better time. Run away from this person. You are worth more than that.
You are all in, literally, but he’s not? Why put in all this effort for nothing? F that guy. Do you babe. Tell him and his friends to not come.
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- hes not your boyfriend
- Cancle him.
Fuck him take the daughter and grandson! You would enjoy your time more write him off
Let him and his friend go together!
Even my man said “throw him away and just take the girl with you instead” lol.
And I asked “well what if was the opposite” and he said “well if woman tried inviting another man, then toss her out. It’ll be a Homies night out” lmao
Take the kids instead of the man. Get rid of him altogether
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I would politely say ,”I pass! That doesn’t work for me. Have a nice weekend!”Take your family members! If he cares he will notice and make you a priority in his life! If not, it is better to find out now instead of later.
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Tell him! Tell him it was supposed to be a romantic weekend and that you don’t want them there just the two of you
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Daughter and grandson
Absolutely not, know you’re self worth and move on to someone who treats you the way you deserve. Take someone else !!!
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Daughter and grandson…Male is a friend period…
F him . Go with ur daughter and grandson .
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So, you’re not exclusive? And he invited another female on your trip 
Girl, he’s just annoying your money
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Why not tell him that this was meant to be a getaway for you two only?
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Cancel it or go without him. Fuck him lol
Tell him maybe another time and take your family who will appreciate you more!
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Sounds like he is using you for your money. I would take my mom instead 
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Take your daughter and grand baby end enjoy your time!!! Screw him
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I’d not do anything until he pays up - if he doesn’t - take your family and run from him .
Go with your daughter and grandson. Why does he want to invite Nikki so bad? Things happen, those two are hiding something…
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Tell him how you feel about it all be completely honest, it will be the best for both of you. And if he still wants his friend to go, then pass and take your daughter and grandson. I understand where you’re coming from and you’re feelings are valid.
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Take your girlfriends! Fuck that man. When my ex did that he liked the other chick & I found they were secretly hanging out & were pretending to be friends around me but reality they were hooking up i wad prego when it happened. Then he left me cause I was apparently to negative after I took him back. Its a major red flag. I wouldn’t be comfortable at all with that situation.
SCREW HIM that is so inconsiderate of him to do last minute. Like no. Id say im not interested in going with her on such short notice and tell him if he isn’t interested in going with just you this time around that you will just go ahead and take your family. Be like next time id rather we plan ahead for a friend group trip.
Maybe if he had asked way in advance you would have had time to mentally prepare for a different vibe
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Take your daughter and grandson. Enjoy!!!
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Take a different man lmao
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What the hell😳!!! I would be sooooo
p!$$ed off😡
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Daughter and grandson! It won’t be the trip you had planned but it sounds like it will end up being more fun and less drama!
Daughter and grandson is the best way to go! Tell him to take Nikki and take a hike!
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Go w your daughter and grandson
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“His choice not mine, but lately it’s been great.” It sounds like you want more & are way more invested than he is. Don’t waste your time waiting for things to change or for him to see your value. Take your family and in general, move on. I’m so sorry. 
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Lmao he can go with Nikki and her boyfriend. Take your family.
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He knew what he was doing by inviting her. Sounds like he’s not all that serious about you. Tell him to screw off and take your daughter and grandson. They will enjoy it more than he will.
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Honey screw him and Nikki!!! You’re wasting energy on Asshole!!! Please take your daughter and grandson and have a blast!!!
Daughter and grandson!
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You’re wasting your money, time and energy on a loser. Get a man that wants to be with you and would put the same effort into planning a nice getaway with you. This is a simple fix
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Daughter and grandson and dump him he can go date Nikki and her boyfriend lol jk but seriously find someone worth your time
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Take daughter and grandson.
Tell him you rented this place and it was expected to be just the 2 of you considering YOU paid for it… and that you think it would be best for him to just not come… take your babies and drop his A! You deserve commitment (if that’s what you want from him)
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Tell him no, he can go with them somewhere else, and you will enjoy the getaway you planned, what you did is something HE should of done, I don’t see a relationship here, more friends with benefits, and financial benefits.
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Maybe Nikki boyfriend is a cuckold and he’s her f boy don’t do it this is weird take your family
I didn’t even read it all because girl why are you with him if it’s all red flags 
!!!
He’ll leave him and take yourself and your daughter and grandson
His choice not To be exclusive, if exclusivity is what you want, QUIT LETTING HIM USE YOU!!! DUMP HIM!!! He is obviously doing other girls, probably the “friend”
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Daughter and grandson big time! Sounds like he has commitment problems and this girl is just another option as you are…
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Not exclusive…HIS WORDS!! HELLO…
CANCEL THE DAMN HOUSE!!!
And why did he only mention that Nikki was bringing her bf until AFTER you had a fit?!?!?
Could it be that the bf is in fact your man???
I mean sounds like at the last minute the “bf” will be a NO SHOW and YOUR BF will just say we have to cheer her up…
I was in the VERY same situation several years back. Come to find out they had been an item for YEARS!! You know…friends with benefits. Hello!!!
Show yourself some RESPECT and put him YO THE CURB WITH THE REST OF THE TRASH! BLOCK HIM ON SOCIAL MEDIA AND BLOCK HIS NUMBER ON YOUR PHONE
NO EXCUSES. YOU DESERVE BETTER.!!!
YOU ASKED…
Go with your daughter and grandson. I would be livid if I were you
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Yeah, tell him not to come
Not too sensitive. Go without him and be done with him.
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Go with your daughter and grandson!
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Invite your daughter n grandson
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Daughter n grandson for sure
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Take your family and move on. He’s not into you the way you are into him. Don’t waste your money on him. Break up with him and take your family instead…
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Stop doing gf things for someone who’s not your bf
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