Well I have heard of this happening on tv and seems the relationship is never able to mend my sister would never have to worry about me and her ex if my sister hates him I hate him one and two who sleeps behind their sister you should just go and and forget you had a sister and pray for forgiveness
I can see something like this happen⌠Donât know why itâs so wrong either⌠She doesnât want him so why canât you be with him then?! Itâs not too hard to explain the little special situation of the family 
Donât blame her goodness that just not somewhere you even go wtf! What an awkward situation what are you auntie/ stepmom? weird poor sister Iâd never speak to you again either. Shame on you!!!
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You deserve everything.
I hope she never speaks to you again. You are trashy
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Those children are both your nieces/nephews AND step children⌠Iâm sorry but I could never allow myself to fall for someone who was once married to my sister. Iâm sure if it was flipped, youâd be upset too
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So many judges on here. People go through alot. Life is already hard. What happened canât be undone. Be good wife and good mother to your nieces. Nobody here is going to understand you coz nobody knows how it happened. What matters is that youâre happy and love each other. Move to a new town and start a new life with your family. You did not do incest or kill anybody. All will be well.
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Are you serious tho,anybody my sister dealt with in any shape or form will always be off limits your bogus 
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If u were my sister is go upside your head Everytime I seen u. Smh sister donât do this
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Thatâs awful to do to your sister and if the was turned you would feel the same way!
What happened to putting your family first??
So now your aunt/step mom??
And if you all have kids they will be sibling/ cousins to each other??
Did you even think of your sister at all? Do you love her?
Thatâs a nasty nasty thing to do, shame on you both for not thinking of her or those kids!
Besides heâs only with you to piss her off I bet!
Be a woman, sister, aunt, stepmother and get some class among yourself!
Both of you!
Is this the same wonderful man that would not change the kitty litter yesterday???
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Well Iâd never forgive you ever if you were my sister either. That relationship could never be mended and I honestly wouldnât even want it to if I were in your sisters shoes. The ONLY way you might could try to mend the relationship would be divorce at this point and lots of apologies but itâs really beyond that at this point because you married him. Kiss your sister goodbye hun sheâs looking out for her best interest.
Girl bye you have no loyalty to even your own family 
your lucky she didnât whoop that a** LBS
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Family comes first!! Not keeping it in the family!! Hell I wouldnât forgive you⌠what there isnât any other men around you could have gotten with!!!
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You know that fine line everyone talks aboutâŚyeah, I think you crossed it. Sorry, no remorse for the situation youâve placed yourself into. Itâs wrong on all levels imo. No matter how you put itâŚitâs wrong.
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Not your sister, but your momma needs to put you in the ground!!!
God pity your skank ass
Well if they didnât have kids together I see no problem but they have kids together dats wrong I hope you donât have kids with him cuz them kids be half sibkings/cousins and they will get bullied wow I feel sorry for your sister I donât blame her
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You knew who he was when you made the decision to date him. Now you kinda gotta live with the consequences of your decision.
If you were my sister Iâd want nothing to do with you. They have kids together it doesnât matter what their relationship was like. Wow girl you ainât s**t
Personally if my sister did that with my ex baby daddy i would not be able to forgive her. I get that he made you feel some type of way but i am sure there was someone else out there that could have done the same but you did not choose that route.
Brooke Franks on another level 
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You were dead wrong for that smh I wouldnât want to be bothered with you either . Itâs a respect thing or it shoulda been
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Ew she shouldnât forgive you. Thatâs disgusting snd you should be ashamed
You deserve it I wouldnât talk to my sister either thatâs a girl code you donât go after sister or friends exâs no matter what that is nasty find your spark elsewhere
I married a man who dated 2 of my sisters. But the thing is they were in elementary school when the one âdatedâ him and the other was just a few days. Weâve been together 32 years now and married 24 years.
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Iâm sorry but you need to divorce him! That was so wrong of you to do that to your sister especially when they have kids together!!!
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What made you think some hoe ass shit like that would okay?
So his kids gotta call him uncle dad now⌠maybe thatâs a problem 
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You are NOT loyal, thatâs your
SISTERâS ex and the father of her childrenâ:woman_facepalming:t4:. I wouldnât want anything to do with either of you 
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So you married the father of your sisters kids!?? Wow⌠I would have never even said yes to the date⌠you are wrong and Iâd be pissed at you too. So if yâall have kids would ur husbands kids be their siblings or cousins? Smdh 
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EeeiiiwwwwâŚ
No self respect or respect for your sister or respect for your nieces n nephewsâŚ
You get and deserve everything crappy in your lifeâŚ
If my sister did that to me,well letâs just say sheâd be black n blueâŚ
Broke the sister code.
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You crossed the line sparks or not you will never be forgiven by your sister. I donât know you n I dislike the situation you both created. Wrong
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Wtf now your sister is forced to see you and her ex husband and father of her children at family gatherings etc. if you were my sister I would have whooped your ass. You clearly didnât think about everyone involved when you went and pulled some shit like this. Where is the loyalty at?!
Out of all the vegetables out there , you had to pick that one 
Girl Go to hell Respectfully
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You donât deserve anything ! Wh*ore
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I would move on without ya sister. She should be adult and civil. She treated him horribly.
He , your husband moved on and deserves happiness too. Sister should respect that. Sister or not . Enjoy ya marriage. In the end it will be ya and ya husband. Children move on to their own lives eventually. Has anyone in the family helped or support the two of ya? Blessings
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U deserve an ass beating.
Nah you chose him, you threw that relationship with your sister away
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You should have never went out with him to start with! You crossed a line of no return, it doesnât matter how nice of a man he is , he was your sisters husband first!
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Man these comments didnât disappoint at all! 
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Plenty of fish in the sea. You dont hook up with your sisters exâs. Friends exâs. Etc. especially when theres kids involved. You are trash. I wouldnt talk to you either. Biggest stab in the back ever. Wtf happened to GIRL CODE!
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I mean, I donât see a problem with it. It was years later after him and her sister split. And if the family liked him that much, then good chance her sister was the one who was the issue. I get that âfamily is familyâ thing, but there are times when you have to serve the bond. Especially if it means keeping yourself happy and healthy, regardless of how selfish that may sound. Iâd say speak with her one on one, and give her the ultimatum of at least trying to come to terms with it, or just accept that they are no longer family.
They had kids togetherâŚand just no!
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From one veiw you shouldnt have married him but from another your heart wants what it wants. She will prob never forgive you so I wouldnt worry about it. Its been 4yrs. To me she is being childish but at same time she is very hurt you crossed the line. I donât believe in hating someone for ever but I do believe in forgive but not forgetting. In time she may come around but she may not. Everyone is gonna say shit because ppl can be so salty but all that really matters is what you think and do. When they kids are there tell them to call u aunt at all times not mom or step mom cause that will only piss her off more. Dont play a mom role only the aunt role let him be the parent unless they do something very bad then you help woth the parent part. Let him know that you support him but at same time bc of the situation your bot gonna be a step mom just aunt. In time she may forgive you but may not. Its drama let it go and move on. Your other family has no problem with it just let her be and you be happy. Fuck what she thinks let her see your happy with out taking to her. Sheâs gonna play into it and start shit bc she knows how to get under your skin. Ppl are gonna say ur in the wrong but are you really? Yes u married her ex but its not a crime and it happens more then ppl know about it.
Do the kids call you aunt or step mommy?
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You should be lucky your sister didnât put you in the ICU. Not only was that her husband thatâs also the father of her children. The father of your nieces and nephews. So if you have kids with him that would make them what sister brother cousins⌠What kind of hillbilly ass s*** is that?!?
Yeah life happens. But you donât just so HAPPEN to allow yourself to cross that kind of line. Sheâs been your SISTER SINCE DAY ONE, he was someone SHE chose along the way. You most definitely should have known better from jump. Regardless of what âsparkâ you thought you felt. That man was your SISTERS husband and the father to your nieces or nephews. Shame on you for not having boundaries. Just my opinion though. Oh and one more thing, just a curious question, how could you knowing he has been intimate with your sister not be the only reason you needed?
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Ummm NO!!! 
If they casually dated for a few months no kids than maybe I would say she should move on⌠but they have kids together WTF their your nieces/nephews and now your stepkids!! Yeah thatâs not psychiatrist worthy at all! SMFH
Help me understand and make it make sense do you live in a state with no other men?!? I mean number wise thereâs like 3 men to every woman in the world yet here we are!
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You really are slow and not to mention trifling if you think nothing is wrong with this situation that your thirsty a** would go behind your sister and marry her ex-husband⌠Yâall h*es amaze meâŚ
If you were my sister, you wouldnât of been making this post. You are foul af and I hope she isnât stupid like you and EVER talks to you again! Canât stand someone who canât find their own man, YOU are the exact reason why!
I dont have sisters, and even I KNOW BETTERâŚWhat did you expect to happen?? DUH!!!
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& what are you Auntie Step Mom? Get real girl, just because it wasnât planned doesnât mean it isnât wrong.
&&&&& you married him 
grimy asf.
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Here for the comments
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There are too many other men in the world for u to be with ur nieces/nephewâs father u are fucking grossâŚn ur sister is completely right to disown u!! #nasty
You should be ashamed of urself
I wud pretend you are dead to me
The poor girl naw ya donât do that lady its called morals !
Sooo you are Auntie Mom now ? Your sister has every right to not speak to you and has every right to give both of ya a good a** whooping too !
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she really thought us WOMEN would have her back and give her advice.
My only thing to say to you is love yourself. Itâs clear you donât.
Hahaha this post stirred the shit pot real quick
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So your a step mom to your nieces and nephews? Thatâs not awkward
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Donât agree with you saying yes to the date in the first place. On the other hand your sister probably sees what she lost and it sounds like a hint of jealousy so just let it run itâs course naturally.
Personally⌠I wouldnât forgive your ass, my leftovers are not yours for the takingâŚ. Girl code⌠but thatâs just međ
These comments are wild as fk. All these dirty responses make u know better then the judgement u cast 
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Your her sister, you should have not crossed that line, how do you feel he was married to your sister, and not only your a aunty,/ step mom, your children will be cousins has well step siblings, itâs all messed up, I donât think itâs right to be honest, and I donât think youâll get maney positive comments, itâs not ok
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What ever happened to girl code? Thatâs your sister and your nieces or nephew. Sorry but I donât blame your sister you were 100% in the wrong.
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You married the father of your sister kids?? Blood is supposed to be thicker then water. Stop trying to justify your innocence you ainât loyal. You shouldâve put those sparks out real fast kept it moving from hello. I wouldnât want anything to do with you either
Girl. Girl. Girl. Thatâs number 1. on the girls code of ethics, Do not date your friends ex man and more so NOT YOUR SISTERS!!! I know you canât help who you fall in love with but you donât do it with your sisters ex, especially when they have kids together! It doesnât matter how their relationship was or how she treated him, thatâs just a huge NO NO!!! Shame on the both of you but you mostly cuz you did it to your own sister!!! I wouldnât forgive you either, damn she donât need enemies when she has a sister like you!
Sad.
Iâm confused. Yuh start off saying your sisterâs boyfriend but reading lower yuh say while she was married to him. This messy as ever. Whew chile the gyeddo 
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Are you for real?? Him being the father of your sisters kids its like a huuuuge sign that he is not to be meddeld with like seriiuosly i mean i can totally imagine okay im your aunt bcuz ima your moms sister his your dad his not with your mom.his with me." like literally have you asked your self how your gonna go through that convo someday i think thats a line that nobody should cross if i were you id get a divorce and work on emmends with your sister
Tragic. Let the shoe be on the other foot. Would you be good? Naw
Did you have an actual conversation with your sister prior to you guys starting to date. Like a true heart to heart? If you didnât this is on you. That is your sister, for life. If there werenât kids involvedâŚpossibly but now it just seems messyâŚ
Could of left it at being just friends with the guy. I donât think she would of cared much if yâall hung out as friends but youâre sleeping behind your sibling & itâs down right nasty! Why would she want a relationship if sheâs married? So you can get with her now husband? Iâd keep you far away too.
My sons father recently left me for my best friend. I will never forgive her. When you started that relationship you knew that it would jeopardize your relationship with your sister, so you obviously felt that was more important.
What the trailer park Iâm married to my bro n law going on hereâ:roll_eyes:
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Yeah girl I donât feel bad for you 
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Thatâs a line you donât cross. I would want nothing to do with you either. Those are the consequences of your actions and now you need to live with it
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Unfortunately this happens more then yâall think, yes itâs wierd that she has kids with her ex and now he married her sister, honestly itâs wierd but it does happen! Her sister is remarried and it has been 4 years now since this has happened. It sounds wrong to marry youâre sister ex with having kids with him. But she will eventually get over she kinda sounds like a drama queen and she was using her ex and now he found someone that was better and not using him and it happened to be her sister . I say move on with life and go on because your sister will eventually forgive you , or she wonât sorry. I wouldnât date or marry any of my sister exs ! Girl code is like high school stuff ! Hell I have seen bffs date there friends exâs . And they was still friends itâs called maturity all these negative comments . I say sit down and talk about it and if she still doesnât wanna forgive you just go on with life
You would be dead to me! âŚwitcho TRIFFLEN AZZ!!!
Just here for the commentsâŚâŚ
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imagine having your sisterâs sloppy seconds 
good luck with that, every action has a consequenceâŚyou May have to live with yours.
All the men in the world and you chose your sisters ex-lover
And then have the audacity to ask why she wonât forgive you
Oh youâre a special type of stupid arenât you.
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At the end of the day love is love. As long as the kids are taken care of thats the most important thing.
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Girl code. Thereâs millions of other men in the world. You should have picked another one
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Ur sister should be able to for give you guys and especially since she has move on.
In 1991 I married, my first sperm donor had two kids. We divorced in 95âŚ
During those years We introduced my cousin to his cousin. They had a daughter. My cousin hubby passed away of cancer in 2008. ( I remarried in 2004)
Times goes on as I took care of my mom dieing of cancer and my cousin(girl) was there for me. So was my sermon donor cause of the kids. After I buried my mom. My ex and my cousin came to me and ask me if they could date. I looked at both of them and laughed for a min. I said sure but you know how he was many years ago.
To this day they are still together and we do things together, cook outs, vacation. All the kids we all have are close. Donât let things get to you⌠sorry ur getting some rude comments. Life to short to worried about it. Good luck
How you marry your sister baby daddy tf
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Of all the MILLIONS of men to feel a spark with. Like what?! Lol
Girl, ignore all the hateful people on here. They were never married, she dumped him. Key phrase âshe dumped himâ She is just pissed off that she let him go, she realizes he was a good catch and she lost out. Its hard, but hold your head high create a great life for your family, love his children like you always have, and let her live her miserable life away from you.
You canât even tell the story without exposing yourself as Shady at best. Youâre getting what you asked for.
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Fuck why not have kids with him tooâŚthrow a wrench in things ya knowâŚthrow everyone off a little 
Ummmm⌠even if he was your friendâs ex, the answer is still NO! Whereâs your loyalty? Whether your sister mistreated him or not, he shouldâve still been off limits to you. I hope youâre just as understanding if you guys divorce and he starts dating your best friend or anyone you know. Iâm sure the âthere was a spark and it didnât happen while they were togetherâ.
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How would you feel if sheâd done it to you?
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Definitely wouldâve beat yo ass 
You made choices, now you gotta live with them.
Shame on you though. 
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To me you donât date your relatives exes or your friends exes. Itâs just a golden rule.
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So your nieces/nephews are now your step kids. She should beat your ass
Enjoy your married life let your sister get on with it her decision xx
You donât deserve your sisters forgiveness, ever. This is a whole nother level of trash. I canât imagine how ur sister feels inside. I feel so bad for her. And when ur sisters kids grow up. They wonât like you either. Canât believe you came here for adviseâŚwhat did you think we would all make you feel better?? Lol hell naw.
Exâs of family and friends are off limits period.
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No turning backâŚyou did the damage. Thereâs no forgiving that. Good job đ¤Ś
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U getting exactly what u deserve, all the men in the world u go to ur sisters BD! U nasty in every way shape and form!
Sorry but you are flat out scum for doing this! He was MARRIED to your SISTER and they had KIDS!! Thatâs all sorts of wrong! If you were my sister Iâd be in jail!!