Frist good for you. And second I would be making plans to leave. In my opinion, most people when they are drinking alcohol that’s when they speak the truth. Or what they feel.
You said y’all had been talking about separating. So if i was in your shoes, I would be leaving.
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I would leave. That’s so disrespectful.
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Sounds like it’s time.
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It sounds like he has left mentally, so leave physically. There’s no way I would stay.
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Don’t make a scene. It just gives them a reason to think he’s right. And girl tell him bye. He is just trash talking, doesn’t want to fix anything.
Tell him to leave n go back to her
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Maybe shouldn’t have, but I probably would have. I would get away as soon as I could.
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Just leave. Wtf? I would definitely talk crap and make a scene because well, crazy. But just go? Why you trying to make your life stressful. He’s obviously a dumba$$.
Hearing that would be enough to make me want to leave.I’m curious as to how he reacted when you told him you heard what he said
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Second marriages tend to end in separation or divorce.
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my second husband wanted his first marriageall along /he didn’t want the 2 or 3marriage.so we where nothing to him and even his kids he did not want at.All he really wanted was himself and a woman to wait hand and foot on him
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I would have left after that. He has no respect for you.
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I wouldn’t have even confronted him, I would have just immediately started figuring out somewhere else to live and started packing.
He publicly let his feelings be known. What will you put up with?
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I couldn’t stick around for that.
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Do it right. Contact a lawyer first, make sure you won’t get screwed. Then, hit the door running!
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Can’t have been that real if it ended 
, sounds like a dick tbh!
My ex only wanted to wave me around his ex to make her jealous. He only ever wanted her. He used me. Then abused me mentally and emotionally. It took some years but I ran for my life.
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Good for you for speaking up in front of his friends …
Now pack your stuff & move along …
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Start a private savings account and be ready to leave.
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Dang it! I really dislike hearing that. If I were you, I’d comment of how this marriage is…get sarcastic and say that this marriage is SO FAKE! Get him embarrassed in front of “his” friends. But that’s just me and my sarcastic mind. Mb just take a break, think of it as a “vacation”.
I’d say yeah so real it didn’t last just like this one won’t byeeeee
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Seems like he’s the common denominator in these scenarios. I’m sorry you’re going through this
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Get up and leave. He’s a dick, it’s alright for him to feel that way but to embarrass and disrespect you in front of his friends like that is just wrong. He is immature and you deserve better. I hope you find someone who appreciates and loves you like you deserve one day 
all the best.
Glad you spoke up. Should have said well clearly not, it wasn’t too REAL cause here I’m leaving ya too. 
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Sounds like it time to leave
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Now I know you wanna read LEAVE which most have commented but I’m guna say the opposite (STAY) cos I know as well as you know thats exactly what your guna do 
If he first married was good . Why aren’t there together the now . I so sorry hun know one should feel sad in their married or relationship
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I probably would have done the same thing tbh. Talk shit to my face, not behind my back. Otherwise I’m gonna get petty ASF when I confront you and embarrass you in front of everyone. Just get out of there. It’s over so what are you waiting for?
You did the right thing. Shame on him for talking about you like that. You need to get yourself ready. Have a separate account at another bank or credit union and save as much as you can, get copies made of all legal documents, talk to an attorney and start making plans for your life and decide what is best for you.
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Nah I woulda made a scene too!! Fuck that. You’re having problems but you’re still there and trying. That’s mad disrespect
Please leave him. You should NEVER be made to feel that way.
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No you have to stand up for yourself-he did on purpose…I’d say when you feel up to it leave
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I would leave why stay clearly you aren’t the real one. Even though he’s not with her but I hope that not because she’s not here.
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Leave that looser as soon as you can run!
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I’m proud of you for speaking up for yourself in the moment 
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You should have just left when you heard that comment. Not said a word, grabbed a small overnight back and your keys and walked out the door.
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The way he talks about you when you’re in ear shot of him is only a fraction of what he probably says…
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Say nothing and leave.
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Why should you leave? Make him leave!
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I think it’s over. He clearly has no respect for you. Your his current wife and he is saying y’all’s relationship ain’t real or even worthy. He saying someone he is divorced from is better than you, more real than you and it’s ok to tell everyone about… he is telling you and whoever will listen that he gives no shits about you or y’all’s relationship… LISTEN TO HIM
Now IS the time to get up and leave. He does not respect you. Find a man that does.
Oh girl I would have tko my husband hearing him say that how sad and so disrespectful
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What you did needed to be done and if that didn’t change is actions or attitude it’s time to kick him to the curb or up the rock kicking pop cans - can’t respect you then he don’t deserve you - should of stayed with his “real marriage” - makes you wonder if the same thing didn’t cause that one to dissolve as well…good luck in whatever choice you make but always remember your worth and never settle for less.
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Nope. Cause I’d have said something a lot more distasteful. It’d have been more along the lines of “If your first was your real one then why are you here? Why’d you marry me? Why? If she was your real one, why aren’t the 2 of you still together? Why’d she leave? So much for ‘real’!” among some other things.
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Ooh. Sorry to say, but I can almost guarantee that what you heard is just a teeny fraction of what is said when you’re not around.
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If his first one was the real one why he not still there idot
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Well if you are in his house then u should leave cause obviously he doesn’t want you there he probably did on purpose
Time to move on his feelings are right out there with his friends so get the message and get going.
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You did better than I would have.
Stop eavesdropping and stop making an ass of yourself in front of other peoples friends. This can not possibly be how your therapist told you to behave ffs.
I would be done divorce
You stay and let him leave. Apparently he is divorced from first wife so that “real” marriage did not work well either . Don’t let him keep hurting you protect your heart sweetie
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I don’t think you’re wrong here but I’m far meaner than that. And I would encourage you to be as well. Lol
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Unfortunately, that’s probably not all that was said. I’m sorry that you had to hear it.
If he can sit there and say those things to his friends, he’s probably saying much, much more than that.
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Kick his devil ass OUT 
I would’ve gone completely off on him in front of friends and then packed my stuff (all my stuff) and left right then. You now know how he truly feels about you so no point in sticking around for him to keep doing this.
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I mean my husband and I are eachothers only marriage but if something even similar Came out of his mouth I can’t even say what I’d do because I’ll get banned lol
Leave. If he can say this while your in the house, imagine what he has said behind your back and what he is will do to hurt you worse. This is not a man! Real men don’t gossip or talk ship about a woman. Get out, he’s loser. Serious loser
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Time to leave and tell him to go back to his real marriage.
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There’s a lot going on here. First off, we are all entitled to our own feelings and we should be able to voice them at anytime, regardless of who likes what it is we have to say. I think you could have handled it a bit better considering you guys already have enough problems. You didn’t hear the entire conversation and instead emotionally reacted on a single sentence that you heard your husband say along with him laughing. Of course his friends aren’t going to say anything. You stormed into the middle of a conversation that you weren’t even apart of. It’s not their place to say anything and they don’t owe you anything. If you are already to a point where you want to leave, why do you stay? I see a lot of comments regarding the “real one” comment, his first marriage ended too. None of you were there for the entire conversation and so you are all speculating another adults feelings and assuming what he meant. There’s a lack of respect from both parties and you both deserve better, to be better. You weren’t wrong for speaking your mind, however, you could have waiting until after his friends left and then approached him and said something along the lines of, “What did you mean, when you said your first marriage was your real one?”. Conversations can go a long way when you communicate effectively. Good Luck
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Should have said, “that’s why it didn’t work out…”
What’s stopping you?
So glad that you called him on it! Great job! He is a fool!!!