If your is telling you investigate he is
Ask him about it. Listen to your gut about the situation
Youāre eyes are lying to you, heās faithful to you and only you girl!.
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Ask him straight up ru messing around on me?? Call his bluff and if he is get rid of his cheatin ass!! Remember once a cheater always a cheater and u aint got time for that especially with 1child and 1 on the wayā¦and call the # as well!!
Answer that phone when it rings! My husband and I both have most people in our phones saved as funny names. I have all kinds of crazy names for friends and family but I cannot think of a reason why my husband would ever have anyone besides me saved as ābabyā.
Take the situation to God in prayer, he will fix it without you touching him. Really thou. And keep praying, pray against that woman that is trying to break up your household. You can pray against a person and donāt have to touch them.
And who the heck is baby would have been the question to him!! You should have made him answer it! Do yourself a favor and leave now. This will save you alot of head and heartache. Please donāt marry him!
You have been engaged for 2 years. He should have put a ring on it along time ago. He doesnāt value you or he would. I would just change the locks when heās gone. Leave his stuff on the porch. If he really wants you he will come after you. Make him work his way back in if you can forgive him.
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I think is not good enough to mess up a relationship with two children. Time to get busy and snoop, question, and research this guy. If there is someone else they will want to get it out in the open. Easy way is to ask him directly.
A discussion needs to be had. Be aware, once you ask, your relationship changes. You could find its innocent, but your fiance now knows you donāt trust him. Are there other signs?
Any woman that says āi think my SO is cheatingā, already knows the answer. So, text baby from your phone and invite her to take your place at the altar. Ask her how she feels about co parenting your kids and knowing heās gonna do the same thing to her in probably two years or less, that heās done to you. Donāt stay. Donāt teach your kids that his behavior is ok. And no, he wonāt change, no, he isnāt sorry and leaving the phone where you could potentially see that and her messaging or calling when she knows heās with you, is just another slap of disrespect towards you, and further evidence that walking away is best for you and your children.
This is the problem with asking online. People just jump in and give unreasonable advice. Instead of just changing the doorlocks, try a few things first. Keep a close eye and see if anything has changed. You will know it in your heart. Or simply ask him. Could be an ex that he just dropped and never got to change her name or a niece or any other person. Get your facts then make your decision.
You can leave him and put him on child support and surely he will straight up and the other person wonāt get a dime. Itās like playing checkers. As it is said, ājump meā. So who gets the purse.
If it walks like a duck and quack like a duck, it is a duck-make the right decision for you and your kids
You know what to do. You see the red flags. Now is the time to do what is right for YOU and your two kids!! 2-5 years from now - it will only be harder and worse for everyone! Let him go. Heās made his choice. Now, you make yours.
Maybe the call was from your nine month old baby
Sounds like your soulmate picker needs some work. Do not marry someone you suspect is cheating on you.
Leave. Engaged for 2 years. Leave, for your happiness
Start walking and never look back !
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Seems like he wanted to be found out,so kick him out
Leave ,get court mandated support move on with YOUR LIFE ,stop taking his shit !!!
Ask him directly. Be prepared for the truth.
Answer the phone and say that you are his wife see what happens
Before you rush to conclusions, get his phone and call the number. If it turns out he is cheating, you have a choice to make. Give him an ultimatum, he ends it and you go to counseling together or you take the children and go. My fil cheated on my mil YEARS ago and it is something he regrets. He hasnāt cheated again in over 30 years. The choice is yours. Either way, donāt hold onto a grudge , it will do no good for your children as they get older. No matter what he has done, he is still their father. Best of luck
Iām nosey. I would have answered the phone. I would have gotten her side of the story, then talked to him. Maybe he got her pregnant too. You never know. Best to have all your ducks in a row before you make a big decision. And yesā¦ after talking to himā¦ the best decision would be to leave him.
Maybe look in the mirror and ask yourself. Why is he cheating on you?
Stop making g babies with cheaters
Leave his arse. He will dump the side chick
Leave and find a real man 
Quit putting this shit on Facebook!
It could be a wrong number. Before you jump to conclusions, let him know he has a text. His reaction to you seeing it will all you need to know.