Quit having babies with boyfriends
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He wants he cake and eat it to but because youâre pregnant with Bub number 2 he will play poor me I didnât mean to do it I will never do it again bullshit thatâs to keep you where he wants you find out the truth and leave on good terms because in the end if he has cheated you will lay awake wondering when his coming home whoâs he with because he knows you are not going anywhere with two babies Let that sink in . They donât change and we drive ourselves crazy always wondering what his doing
Confront him and call the number on
The phone
Call the number back and ask questions. Then ask him.
My ex had his side piece named âpetâ in the phone i was letting him borrowâŚ
Dont stay together for years for the kids⌠its more harmful then good 
Maybe ask him see his reaction
I would ask who Baby? I dont think i would marry him
Confront him. Or call the number and asked.
Itâs easy to say âleaveâ, but personally, I wouldnât know where to go pregnant with a toddler.
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If it was not baby it would be someone else. If you stay you will have to live with it.
Stop getting knocked up
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Get rid of him hez not woeth the trouble
My fiance of 12 yrs and twins. has my name as Baby in his phone.
Heâs been cheating on me off and on. Tells why I wonât marry him yet.
Confront him about it, if itâs trueâŚdump his sorry ass!! You donât need the headache.
Maybe you butt dialed himâŚ
What should you do??? Really??
See ya later alligator.
Kick him to the curb!
Keep your pants on an move on too next sucker
Find out. Then decide if you can fix things. If you canât forgive and work on it leave.
Question them and ask them whatâs up
You even had to ask ?
Answer back, yes sweetie.
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The funny thing is they be cheating with ugly woman, and then , they think there something, which theyâre not!!! Cheaters will never be happy, or keep any woman!!! Unless you think your not worth more than that!!! Cause men donât care, cheaters , I mean, all they care about is who they can get at next!!!
Prob his alarm to remember to check on the baby 
⌠silly lady 
Just leave lol. You dont need to prove anything to him.
Donât think you canât live without him. Run!
Once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater
Leopards do not change their spots.
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Keep having kids with this jerk
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Ask him who the fuck is baby
Make sure itâs not a surprise for the new baby.
Someone trying to sell baby stuff.lol lol lol
When hes in the shower,look in his phone,get the # for Baby. Then when hes gone call Baby and tell her who you are and that you got 2 kids with him,and engaged. Then kick his ass out to the curb cause once a cheater always a cheater
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Ditch him
While you can. He wonât change. The voice of experience!
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You didnât ask him? Call the damn number. Confront them both and kick his ass to the curb. Then go on with your life
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Leave now. Why go through all the drama, heartache, distrust, etc⌠cheating is hard to heal from when you loved the person that did it you. Speaking from personal experience. I tried, he tried, he promised and I believed he didnât want to cheat again, but I couldnât shake the feelings if distrust and always wondering, feeling like I was useless bc if he wanted me then he wouldnât have cheated and heâs only not cheating now because he was caught. Then to have to drag kids through that mess as well, just donât. You can do better, bc there is always better. He found what he thought was better and you can too. Sorry, Iâm not a candycoater and I hate to see women in this predicament, thatâs just my opinion.
Leave now, that shit is never going to change. Who wants to spend their life baby sitting a grown man. Donât waste your time on a loser. NO ONE SHOULD PLAY SECOND!!
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Find out who baby is and make sure he or she knows that youâre pregnant and have one child. Most decent people would leave. Could be that he is lying to whoever baby is about being single. Get a hold of that show called cheaters.
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Iâm not going to tell you to stay or go,that is something totally up to you and only you.
No one else can chose that for you,nor should they be swaying you either way.
At the end of the day you have alot to think about,your kids, husband,your home,your life.
You need to sit him down and get it done,you will know of he is lieing to you.
Donât go threw his phone cause that is just going to start drama and your family dosnt need more than it has to deal with right now.
First thing you should do is get a brain!!
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Why are assuming the worst? You.must have felt he wasnât faithful at sone point prior to immediately go to a negative spot. What if it was a sweet surprise for the baby? Or he was planning planning a baby shower? You know the answers already. Go communicate with him instead of asking questions to strangers. Just have a plan or what you will say and how you react should the answer be your fear.
Figure out how to make it on your ownâŚand go for BIG child support
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Lose him first, then go to court for child support. Be smart, heâs a loser.
Um!!! Leave his sorry ass. Nonononono⌠Donât leave him actually⌠Make sure you are 1000% sure that hes cheating on you then go find yourself another man and then after u do make sure he knows that he was the reason why u did it. And The This way to do so is record yourself on your phone right now before you even consider talking to another man and explain All of what caused you to realise that hes cheating on you and then say about how youâve been loyal up until this point and now youâre gonna look for another man so this way when he does find out you Have proof because you could just click on details on the video on your camera roll and it will show when you recorded the video
If you have access to his phone records start there and see how often he calls or texts a number and get those text records. Thereâs also a site called spy dialer where you can possibly get the name of the phone owner. He will not tell you if heâs cheating so donât even waste your time with that. Follow him if you get a opportunity. Truth always comes out but if you believe heâs cheating he probably is.
Donât u see what heâs using u for cannot believe all this stupid women out there
LEAVE and stay gone! Get an attorney for child support!
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Hire a private detective to follow him for a few days.
Drop him you donât need that in your life
Ask him. I wouldnât marry him though.
Find out. Donât put up with it!
Baby momma, you canât do anything.
Have a conversation; you know what to do.
I would answer it and tell that bitch to d
Fucking quit calling her man before u beat her damn ass then I would beat his
You already know! Now make your move
Go with ur GUTS OR LOOSE UR NUTS
Kick him to the curb.Once a cheater,always a cheater.
GET OUT. Live with your parents or a good friend. RUNNNNNNNNNNNNNâ:bangbang:
Talk to your fiance.
Take him to the cleaners if true
Castrate him then leave him
Best decide if u wanna share him.
Run dont get married
Answer it next time .
Talk to him instead of Facebook
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I would get child support, and leave him. Better yet kick his ass out if he is cheating. Get a lawyer. He canât have his cake and eat it too.
If you think he is cheating he is
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Tell him the truth that you know.
Iâm nosey. I would have answered the phone. I would have gotten her side of the story, then talked to him. Maybe he got her pregnant too. You never know. Best to have all your ducks in a row before you make a big decision. And yes⌠after talking to him⌠the best decision would be to leave him.
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Ask him directly who was that.
Dial 62 then your number then # from his phone and have his calls and texts routed to you 
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You have answered the question there is no trust
Answer that phone! Then crush it, and clean house! Send him packing, boot in the ass!!
Do what I did. Block the bitch
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Just be careful confronting. Donât throw stuff in his face unless you have a person close by that can help you if you need it or do it quietly in public.
(I watch a bunch of murder shows and its usually the woman who tells off the man (who deserves worse) that gets killed. Women should not throw stuff in a manâs face unless she can 100% physically defend herself.
I agree with the people who say call her. Baby and belly bump pictures saying how happy you both are would work too. Set your camera up to video him without his knowledge and ask him about âbabyâ. Send her the video.
I donât get women who allow the men in their lives have private phones. My vagina is my most private thing. If Iâm gonna let my husband explore that, he better cool with me looking at his phone.
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Baby as a Contact name is so sus⌠like he wants to get caught. Might as well use mistress as contact nameđ. Your man sounds pretty dumb. Hopefully your babies didnât get his dumb ass genesâŚ
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Is this something you really need advice on?!
Get out and get child support
You may also thinks âŚthat the person on the other end could have gotten the wrong #⌠that is a possibility
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I actually knew a girl named baby. I know one named honey! I think I would ask questions before I blow up my world
Nobody puts baby in a corner, cowgirl up and ask him directly.
Answer his phone lol
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My grannies name was Baby so I canât jump to the conclusion of he is cheating⌠best is to either call the number and ask the person yourself who and what they are to your finance and if it turns out he is cheating, he is a real dumb f*** saving her number under thatâŚ
If he is cheating, walk away from him now⌠Being pregnant is hard enough without the stressâŚ
If he was dumb enough to store his side piece as baby in his phone, you donât want him in your life anyways. Run. He can be a dad without you being played.
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You shouldve answered the phone to be sure
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Call the number back and find out for sure who it is. If it is a girl let her know you are pregnant and have kids.
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I donât understand why you even have to ask âwhat should I do?â Ummm⌠ask him! Answer the phone! Call the number back! Youâre really gonna sit there and wonder? That is your man, the father of your children! But on a second note even if he was cheating why would he have his side chick saved as baby? You need to get to the bottom of it.
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Add the number to your contact and look it up on social media.
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Answer it. If he has a problem with it then leave his no good ass.
Answer next time see who calling or take the number down and have one of ya girls call her on speaker or reverse look up the number and see who she is and where she lives know your enemy love
Go with your gut feeling
Make a text me account. Text that number and say itâs your husband and its his new number and go for there
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Unfortunately in my experience side pieces dont care if your pregnant, have kids, or have spent a significant amount of time with the guy. If he is cheating, im sorry you have to deal with this.
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Get the number and call âbabyâ
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The balls on this guy to not even put a fake name SMH. He does not respect you at all
Change Baby Name to your name and change your name to Baby See how it plays out!
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Confront him, sounds suspicious, but never know. Make it a discussion not any accusations. Based on his answer, you should know him well enough to find out if he is misleading.
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Once before I met my boyfriends family. I didnât know they called (grandma ) bae ⌠once he accidentally texted me instead of her âŚâhave fun on your vacation baeââŚand I flipped outtttttt bahahaha now I laugh at how quick I was too jump too conclusionsâŚyou have alot of research to do Missy!
I would hav answered the phone and said who TF is this! This is the worst feeling. Iâm so so sorry