18 year old? Or 18 month old? If she’s 18 CPS won’t do anything she’s an adult. But if they’re 18 months and 3 years that’s abuse see a lawyer.
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Murder to good for him a bull whip b more appropriate.
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Do whatever it takes to protect the innocent- children need our help and just maybe that’s the only way out call police- cps- anyone that will listen - just get help for them
Yes there is a such thing as grAndparents rights go to you’re local courthouse
I hope that a couple people on this post DONT have kids! Or maybe just one. Yea I hope she has no kids. Bless them!!!
If she’s 18 there’s not really anything to do. If she’s 18 months I’d get right on it if I were you
Call social services over and over and the police. Get those kids out of danger common sense
Ugh… Stop feeling guilty and do something! If something happens to those babies you’ll never forgive yourself, and it might be what she needs to get her act together.
If you know this is happening , and your daughter is not protecting her babies . Then you need to step in and be the protector period. Do what you gotta do.
If CPS won’t do anything, buy a baseball bat and knock him out!
If shes supporting him with government funds, report her!
He’ll leave if theres no money.
The town where I live, a similar thing was happening right in front of mom.
BF killed the toddler and family member knew abuse was happening.
You do something TODAY!
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Call the cops and cps they will open an investigation
I would report any kind of suspected abuse to the abuse hotline in your area. I wouldn’t mess around. So many innocent babies and children who some it’s to late for and who don’t have a place to tell anyone. I am so sorry
The mother must not care about her child , her child needs to be taken , seems like she’s more interested in her boy toy , she needs to lose her kids to teach her a lesson j don’t wish CPS upon my worst enemy but when it comes to this the girl needs to learn her lesson
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Report it if you know where they live.
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You dont stop feeling that way. Keep reporting to cps.
I would take her to court and get custody of myself and show them proof he’s doing this stuff. It’s abuse if he’s slapping a toddler and a baby. The court will give her the option and if she choose not to leave him they will be yours to protect. If their bio dad has nothing to do with them. If he does I would be on his side and give him all the info you need. It’s no longer your job to Protect her but it is your job to protect those kids and do what’s better for them
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There is Grandparents rights. Depending on your state. You have the right to visitation with your grandkids. Period. Look up the laws in your state
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Get a lawyer. Take pictures if there is physically evidence. Do not stop bothering the cops and CPS. I would do it with you if I knew you. There were too many babies who died at the hands of monsters in 2019. Don’t give up or lose hope. She deserves better then that.
Go there talk or take het
Call the cops or not and let it continue those are your options
You should see a lawyer.
Not every state has grandparents rights laws. But a custody lawyer can help you.
It’s not cheap to gain custody so you should see every free consuot lawyer and ask around for the best in your county and pay to to see them.
You’ll need to request a Guardian Ad Litem to investigate.
Good luck.
Report everything and go to court and ask about grandparents rights
If she is 18 years old she is technically considered an adult. So there isn’t much you can do there. If she has younger children you might have a chance. Get some proof first though or else its going to backfire on you even more.
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Take the 18year old with you she’s considered an adult and call the cops have the daughter say everything this guy is doing and try to fight for the little girl custody… don’t wait till it’s late … prayers
Keep calling and calling and calling CPS. You also have to call the police every time you call CPS. CPS doesn’t call the police for you. With both the police and CPS continuing to be contacted they will be able to work together more effectively. Also call an attorney. CALL AN ATTORNEY! this is awful the things your saying is happening. CALL A FREAKING ATTORNEY LADY!
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If you can gather solid evidence that it’s going on, videos, pictures, or even get them on recording admitting it then you can definitely get a lawyer and make a solid case to get custody
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Contact a lawyer and find out what you can do and I would report this to the police in the meantime
Do whatever is needed to protect your granddaughter! Now!
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It’s not abuse to put hot sauce on a child’s lips. However the smacking in the face I’d be concerned about.
Call dss, but have proof they cant deny
Well he’s not a new boyfriend if he’s been in the child’s life for over a year and a half. go get your granddaughter and when she comes for her tell her if she takes her that you’re calling Child protective Service on both of them for the abuse your granddaughter has suffered.
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Yes grandparents rights is a thing in some states I’m not sure if you could get full custody or anything but I know some places there is grandparents rights for like visitation. I’d highly recommend either doing a google search or seeing what kind of answers you could get from the court house.
This is so sad. How can a mother allow a man to hit her child. 
i would call CPS and 911 for a well check.
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18 year old can legally leave and live with you. Keep trying with CPS
Proof is in the pudding. Have to document everything. Call a lawyer for a free consultation. They’re going to tell you more accurate info than any of these judgmental assholes. Sorry, this is tough. They’re lucky they have you.
My great nephew was murdered , beaten to death by a freaking boyfriend. Ethan was two years old, his mother covered up for the scumbag boyfriend.
Be a pain in the ass to CPS and the cops. Please don’t allow a tragedy like my family experienced happen to your family.
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I think the mom is 18, granddaughter is 3.
Grandparents have rights…see a lawyer.
OMG she meant 18 MONTHS old people!!! Jeez!
#1 CALL THE POLICE‼️
#2 CALL A FAMILY COURT LAWYER and ask advice and your rights‼️
#3 CALL CPS back 
Tell them you called POLICE and a LAWYER and tell them you are NOT MESSING AROUND ANYMORE LEAVING YOUR GRANDDAUGHTER AT RISK:bangbang:
As soon as they hear lawyer and police their ears will likely perk up and they’ll start listening.
Good Luck 
Oh! Not sure where you live but I live in Canada…GRANDPARENTS MOST CERTAINLY HAVE RIGHTS:bangbang:
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The 18 yr old isn’t much you can do she would have to file her own charges as she’s a legal adult !!! The 3 yr old file reports to welfare checks! My ex mother in law sleeps with lit cigarettes in her hand burning holes in her blankets and pants and couch but CPS said they talked to my daughter who at the time was 4 and she said she was ok and safe so they could do nothing (we are in Alabama)
File for emergency temporary custody. My mom mad false allegations and got my kid so if this is true they’ll def help you. Inbox me f you’d like
Go up in there and regulate slap they’re faces and tell them your taking your grandbaby
My cousin 6 years old just passed away due to a “boyfriend”putting his hand on him 
My own husband isn’t allowed to spank my child .
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Call cps, take pictures and videos , also your daughter is to blame for allowing it and if u do nothing and know u will be held responsible as well
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Call the police and ask them to do a wellness check every week. Tell them what is happening. If they are in preschool or daycare, it will be noticed and reported.
Why is this even a question. Call cps
Work with cps and get a court order to have them removed
She said 18 old girl not 18 months she needs to say it right but either way it’s wrong kick his ass
Well the 28 yr old should move in with you and keep a eye on the other child
It is what ever state u are in north America you ant got no rights unless you can prove her a unfit mother in court
Of course CPS would do something. Call the police stop bitching on a public forum and help your fucking grandchild.
Who is living on SS? Disability for daughter? Confused about grand daughters. One is 18 and one is 3? Yes 18 year old can leave and live with you. Except maybe she is protecting her 3 year old sister? Does 18 year old have a phone? Your daughter is letting her daughters down for sure. If 18 year old is in school go there to talk with her. If you have the funds maybe get her a prepaid phone and give it to her there. She can call you then. Horrid situation I have been through it when I tried to get my sister out of a situation. I would try to find a place to meet with the 18 year old and go from there.
Whatever you do dont say anything to piss her or him off. Dont get into any physical contact with them either. Try to remain calm and work with CPS. My moms friend made the mistake of beating her sons ex girlfriends ass and now she as a grandparent has to have supervised visits with her grand daughter.
Sounds like she is in a domestic abusive relationship. Until SHE wants help there really isn’t anything you can do. If you try to intervene, you could put her and the grandkids in greater danger of being hurt or abused.
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Unfortunately we grandparents have no rights.
Keep trying. Your granddaughters life may depend on it.
Go to courts and file a emergency domestic violence protection order. You will have to write a statement of your reasons in depth. They will give you the child by the police THAT DAY.
Then a few weeks later a court date will happen and you will have to try and prove your case that domestic violence or abuse is happening. Call CPS on your daughter…they WILL take it more seriously that a family member is calling to report the abuse. When it comes to children being taken form the parents they like it when another family member is willing to take them rather then the state foster care. I would file police reports too. Get that baby out of there! Your daughters not doing her job as a mother to protect her child form that monster!
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Report it to the authorities do what you have to do
It started when the child was 18mos and now she is 3 years old.
They will not let the grandmother see her grandchild now because she said something to the mom and boyfriend. She’s asking if there’s a such thing as grandparents rights.
There is a such thing as grandparents rights, but you have to have some proof.
Prove your daughter is not able to care for the child and take your daughter to court for grandparents rights.
I just don’t get it anymore!!! 
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Keep calling cps until they look into it.
I would pay someone to whoop that mfers ass! Cps isn’t going to get involved if the girl is 18. She’s considered an adult. Did you mean Tabasco sauce or tobacco? Tobacco sauce sounds gross like his spit, the juice of the tobacco lol. It’s not a laughing matter, but I’m just trying to get the details correct.
Turn her into child protective services
do not know what state you live in but here in Iowa, grandparents have no rights, when it comes down to the grandchildren. you may have to go to a lawyer and try to get custody
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You want some dick slap my kids face like that and he’ll be dead hot sauce on my baby’s mouth
I would call the police and file for emergency custody right away and grandparents rights then go to war, start the battle. Call and report him for fraud, get his check cut. Secret recorder if you can. Document everything. It’s important to know if you call 3x or more they will charge you. That’s why you have the police do a random, emergency we’ll check. They can’t hide if they don’t know anyone is coming.
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If none of this works get someone to put a mask on and black clothes and when he goes out after dark, beat his ass really good. CPS is so corrupt and the government and court systems I swear.
I had to make a call to cps on my best friend when she had abandoned her kids and it took tons of calls to them over and over before something was done
This is why mothers need to focus on their child and not having a bf. Ive been a single mom and yea it’s hard but you do it because your child means the most.
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Keep reporting. I did I am now raising my 14 year old . Children Family Services came thru. But it took a long time and two returns home before I finally got her. Also talk to neighbors to see if they see or hear something that’s not right. Don’t give up. Speak to a lawyer.
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Just call cps and tell them if they don’t do anything call the authorities or try to get custody
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Call DHS and child protective services. You can do it anonymously if you wish. But idk how a grandmother can sit by and watch that happen. If my bf was doing that to my son, my mom would fucking kill him
Grandparent’s rights depend on your state
Call any and every agency you need to. Do not stop until somebody listens!!!
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Call cps or the police and get. Out put the kid first
Call cps every single day. Be their biggest nuisance. Stop at nothing to get the attention.
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You have a right to do everything you can to protect that little girl and your daughter may need saving too. There is more than one way to get help. The squeaky wheel gets the grease.
If anyone was abusing my grandchildren I would be in jail
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Take a baseball bat across the wanks face 
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Threaten the boyfriend, if he doesn’t leave you will do xyz to him and his life! Lol that’s what I would do!
Should have been ringing Child Safety when he was slapping her a cross the face at 18 months old. Your daughter does not deserve to have her kids if she allows this to happen, some times the welfare will take children but will give them back to the mother if they leave there abusive partners. She is probably too scared of him to stop him from abusing the child. You have to keep trying to do something.
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report to Child protective Services & welfare, that someone is living there
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Im confused…
Your family might be abused and you come to fb. You go to the person with said child in hand. You ask him straight up… If you don’t like the answers you call 911 immediately.
Why are you people pussy footing around a serious subject. This is your family, bring it to the table… NOW!!
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Please protect these babies. You see signs of abuse somebody needs to stand up. If CPS gets involved he will have to leave and if she doesn’t then the kids will be taken from her and you could get custody. Better then them getting put in the system. Where’s the biological father in this.
I would keep reporting it. Im sure you will have little rights but at least you know in your heart you are trying… So sorry
The reason they don’t do anything is because a slap on the face or hot sauce is low priority compared to what happens out there …next time take the kids don’t give them back police will come and face off with your daughter then cos will be called and again face off with them but I’m sorry it sounds harsh but they are over worked
find his drug stash & turn him in ! That should get rid of him ~!
The 18 yr old needs to press charges… she’s an adult… she’s being assaulted…
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Grand parents rights right first her
get his full info driv lic , ss #, home or cell phone. Smell his car for drugs & call police. STOP ANY CHILD ABUSE WITH WHATEVER YOU CAN !
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If you know these things are happening and don’t call the police YOU ARE COMPLICIT. WHY DO YOU NEED ADVICE OR PERMISSION TOO PROTECT YOUR GRANDBABIES. BECAUSE WHAT BECAUSE IT WILL ANGER YOUR ADULT CHILD. WHO CARES.
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You speak up and give a warning
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Go get the child! How could u leave her there knowing what is happening!
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Cps never does anything for children anymore, my son was recently abused by my ex’s girlfriend had bruises on his face and a busted lip and they pretty much did nothing! The system is junk! And the sad thing is they’re suppose to be the voice for these children. My only advice is contact a family lawyer n get their opinion!
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Go over ask to take the kids out to park or somewhere and then take them home with you and dont take them back when they come after them then call cops and tell them
So tell them you’re going to call the governors office But I think you should keep trying
There is such a thing as grandparents rights and the child’s rights also. Protect them any way u can.
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You may have been stopped from seeing them dues to him abusing her you need to go get her and the kids if you have to drag them out but if you really believe they are being abused then most likely the mother is too hence why she wont stop it but you need to know facts and notnot assume … have you witnessed these things or has the kid said something a threat to a kid is like we did what we say we will do but the threat doesnt follow through
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Check with your state on what your rights are as a grandparent. Also if possible take pictures of this happening or any evidence you can get besides just seeing it with your own eyes, then take it to court
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Find someone to beat his fucking ass
File for custody ASAP and GET PROOF
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