I may not like it but I can understand men getting turned on by breasts and lactating, I just cannot stand the thought of a man getting turned on while there is a child involved, its too wrong and not ok in my book… there are always men with different fetishes, some men like butts or other body parts and some men like breasts… I just believe that children should be so far away and separate from anything that turns a man on, if he is into lactating women then I’m sure there are child free sites and videos on that specific thing that he can find or watch (not that I’m condoning it) also I wouldn’t jump to conclusions, I don’t understand why half of the videos that pop up on my feed are there and there COULD BE an electronic explanation for it all, just proceed with caution because accusations can ruin a relationship especially if you end up being wrong. Good luck! I hope you figure it all out 
It’s definitely creepy. As a breastfeeding mom I am weirded out by your bf fetish. But also I’m wondering if I’m missing my opportunity at millions on tick tok or only fans? 
It’s funny that you say this because my son came to me tonight showing me exactly this. There was a video that said do NOT CLICK ON THIS SOUND. And so ofcourse he did . I was very busy so tbh I didn’t even stop to listen to what it was, but he made it seem like it was something raunchy. And then he said look what happened when I went and checked out the persons profile- and there was tons and tons of videos of women’s boobs out everywhere - some had babies latched or nearby some didn’t. My son is very honest when he sees this kinda stuff pop up. He’s very mature for his age so we usually just block the content and move on.
I will say the way that the content was laid out and some of the videos didn’t seem to be actual women just breastfeeding. It honestly felt more like some type of porn for some of them, the way the video was taken was almost purposely to show someone’s body parts and not a baby feeding. I didn’t click because he was with me. We just blocked it and moved on.
This literally happened a few hours ago. So in your husbands defense, it’s honestly maybe something simple as he saw a video of a mom breastfeeding and was touched not turned on. And then once a simple video is liked a ton more like it are going to pop up. That seems to be how tiktok works when I’m on it scrolling. So this may be being thrown way out of proportion for nothing.
Ask to see his tiktok search history and if breastfeeding specifically pops up- then he needs to answer why. I wouldn’t shame a kink but I also wouldn’t want it to involve babies. I doubt that it’s that serious, but before jumping off the deep end, watch his phone for a bit. New trending stuff will eventually take over. But if in say, 3 weeks you still see that stuff randomly while he’s scrolling then it’s a bit more than a coincidence.
If you have a good man of God you have none of that which this generation calls normal to worry about 
Your man needs a head doctor yuck
Thank you for speaking up and facts dear 
ty … am hearing you and this tik tok worse than I thought dear good grief …that is not right at all. Pedophile pigs on this planet and lots of crap going on .some men are and some women .are well…they never learn to pay attention to what is right and there is lots of criminal bullshit going on for centuries exploiting women and children etc and I really don’t want to see to see that trash 
so do not look at tik tok unless it something educational like the mandate video … 
Completely agree with you. The lying and the fact that there are kids thrown in the mix with a sexual fantasy is a big red flag. If they’re going to lie about something insignificant like watching porn, they’re likely going to lie about other things. And it creates a feeling of distrust. And honestly who creates a sexualized breast feeding video with their kids involved? How low could people get?
There is no trashy way of bf a baby 
those videos are also very common and no wonder he hides shit from u ur very judgemental and over the top
If hes lying, esp about stupid shit, you should be worried. I despise liars. Its a trust thats almost impossible to get back because then how can you ever believe anything they say again?
Ewwwwy some of you ladies. I just finished BF my daughter at 1.5 but ew. No freaking way I would be nursing my
Child on tiktok to purposely get view or make it “sexy”. Breastfeeding is beautiful! But why out your Chile out there like that? Also. Ew. It’s one thing when it’s your own wife BF and you’re attracted but another woman and her child? I would be weirded out if it was my SO.
Some Man have a thing for breast milk it’s a thing it’s not the kid part. I have had multiple different men want to be squirted with it.
Breastfeeding is a trend now? Lol what he’s si ccccccccccckcccc
Some of y’all are wack af. Men being attracted to a breastfeeding woman (with or without the child) is a deep, primal thing. I can’t remember the exact wording but basically it’s because she can keep kids alive…so some of y’all need to chill with the “he’s sick in the head” and chill porn shit.
Sounds like a teenager started smoking and obsessed with boobs
I’m more concerned about the women and babies in tiktok, how trashy are we talking?
He could have liked one and then they all pop up
Yer that’s not ok.
He’s aroused by a child’s mouth round a woman’s nipple.
Like, ew.
Thats weird just a bit sick…men like breasts but breastfeeding.thats wrong
You k ow if your mic is turned on in ur settings that tik tok can hear what you say and that could be why there’s so many breastfeeding videos on his fyp
Personally makes u wonder what else does he lie about??? He lies about vaping, can’t come foward like an adult. Maybe I just don’t trust men for sht anymore and call bullsht on thier sh*t. JS
Umm I’ve never seen one breast feeding video in my FYP and I’m Tiktok a lot. You are absolutely right it shows up because he watches them. Has he liked a bunch of similar videos? If you can get in his phone you can see which ones he has heart reacted to. For someone who says he is doing no wrong he is very defensive 
I would be upset to and stand your grounds.
I wouldn’t trust tiktok to give a window into your husbands mind lol my friend likes to send me funny cat videos (like the one where the cat takes rose’s place in titanic), and when i randomly pop on there I see really crazy shit. Like this one guy who was trying to kill his cat. Or i watch group dancing videos (like professional dancers doing different trends), and what popped up the other day was bedroom naked dancing videos. So if my husband saw these he would def think i was twisted lol
I get breast feeding videos on tik tok because ONE TIME I reacted to a struggling mom.i literally just complained to my kids about it the other day.
I love the, I only watched one! Or they pop up on their own! NO! I let that go too many times. The friggen algorithm doesn’t lie. Trust your instincts. He doesn’t want to be the bad guy here and he doesn’t want to be shamed for his kink. There’s a way to go into his searches on tiktok and check to see what videos he watched recently under that topic. Go to discover and type in your topic. Beside the search bar is an icon with two lines with a circle on each line. Click it and hit watched videos within 7 days or a week, etc. Every video like that he’s watched in the time frame will pop up. AND it will tell you when it was last watched at the bottom of the video. You’ll need to try a couple of variant keywords to see them all because of hashtags and such.
No your wrong, tik tok absolutley gives random videos all the time especially if trending. Two months ago the trend was Latin men dancing sexy and my feed was all that without me looking all because I liked a dance video.
Not always true. I have a lot of followers on tiktok. And I can say there are things that pop up randomly. The way it works is if you like or comment on a lot of that stuff tiktok think you like it, but I have seen plenty of videos pop up either bc they have a lot of likes or comments or something of the sort. I don’t like or comment on any animal videos and everyday I have animals videos. Sometimes it happens
I agree with you ! He sounds like a sicko!
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Leah Thoreson because her reactions to him are demeaning? He’s in trouble either way so he’s likely just avoiding the argument for as long as possible. She’s not creating an environment where he feels comfortable coming to her when she’s saying she finds “that sh^t sick af” and treats him like a child instead of a partner. He’s not the only one that needs to change his behavior.
Furthermore, highly doubt he’s turned on by the child but by the maternal instinct and abilities of these women, plus their cleavage.
Ive never seen one video of that on tiktok…let alone multiples
Look I’m a pregnant mom of 2 girls super pro breastfeeding. I have NEVER seen a breastfeeding TikTok on my fyp
And yes TikTok uses an algorithm similar to like Facebook with ads and stuff to try to cater to types of videos you’ve watched or searched or liked. But I think it also will show you videos that are super popular or lots of followers and stuff like that too.
But if you want to know if he searches it you only had to look in his search bar. I think he’s too defensive for someone who hasn’t done a thing wrong.
It sounds like you need to have a talk, as partners you should know what the other person likes and I’d definitely want to know what it is exactly that he’s looking at because I agree, a child in the mix; I’d want to know what exactly the turn on or fetish is exactly
Breastfeeding is beautiful. However sadly I have heard of the trend were the women are posting videos making it sexual. So sad. Yet never once has a video like this just randomly popped up on me or my daughter’s tik tok. Them videos don’t randomly show up. My tik tok and my daughter’s tik tok are both full of nothing but funny animal videos because that’s what we watch. Lying by itself is a HUGE red flag!!! Normal healthy adults don’t lie. There is actually a video about lying men and red flags. So I would be on edge! And shame on sickos for turning a beautiful thing like Breastfeeding into something sexual. These women and men are sick! So i would find that to be a red flag also!
I am on TikTok allll the time lol and I follow moms and I am a breastfeeding mom and while I’ve never had a video like that pop up, I do get some pretty random videos pop up that are nothing like the ones I do like to watch or follow. So idk. But I also think when you have the gut feeling, you’re usually right
My tic tok fed me a steady stream of car accident for weeks because my son watched , then re watched,then showed me…a motor cycle crash on my phone
Haven’t read other comments but if you feel absolutamente sick about it, leave him.
Or at least that’s what everyother woman in here will say.
If not, talk to him about it.
The same.way you typed up this post, sit with him and ask him what’s up. If he’s into this or what is he into.
I dont thi k he’s sexualizing the baby breastfeeding. I belive its the breast being engorged and all that.
Before you assume or come putting him down for all these women to judge him, why not talk to him like an adult.
I would be concerned about his thoughts because children are in the videos he is 
watching. Not trying to pass judgement I’m just giving a safety flag by reading this.
If he knows he can block or unfollow this then he should because to me its like watching porn with children involved.
He’s definitely searching for it, that’s literally how tik tok works hahaha
I’ve only seen 2 people breastfeeding on my tik tok…completely covered otherwise and not even talking about that.
Other than that nothing of the sort! I’ve never seen a trashy one!
way too many red flags for me. you know what needs to be done.
I think that social media is the most toxic thing to ever happen to relationships. Previous to this did you trust your husband? I have had the most random videos come up on my for you page and trust me I didn’t search, if he paused and watched one breastfeeding video to the end they will now show on his suggested videos, you don’t even have to like or follow. But listen, at the end of the day Human nature is that we enjoy looking at other attractive people, it doesn’t mean we are acting on ANYTHING. Is he pm’ing anyone inappropriately? Is he commenting on these pages? Breastfeeding is a beautiful thing and yes some people find it a kink, who actually cares, there is a kink for everything these days
Ok…so even if he watches them…worse fetishes could have. Jesus. Women have weird fetishes as well. Women read romance and erotic novels all the time,but then want to down a man that watches porn. Kind of the pot calling the kettle black,as they say. Seems like you are stretching for things to argue about. 
Yeah he’s not going to get multiple of the same type of tiktok unless he’s heavily searching for it or likes that type of video a lot.
I have watched funny tik toks…not ever once have I seen breast feeding or any naked men…etc…mine mostly is pranks, singing, or kids. Am I missing something? Also I run across drunk ppl making asses out of themselves.
Bs it’s what he Is into and social media porn all of it is the devil pray for your husband I have experienced similarities video pop up according to what your husband’s phone knows he likes you both need Jesus repent and forgive each other but this advice is pointless if Jesus is not your lord and savior and BTW I am a woman on my man’s page lol
My husband doesn’t know how to operate tiktok beyond swiping and liking. He has liked very few tiktoks (I’ve checked) and hasn’t searched anything (doesn’t know how to) and when we are watching tiktok on his phone, many half naked girls and breastfeeding women randomly pop up like every couple videos mixed with funny ones.
I never have those come up on my tiktok… so a part of me thinks he’s telling the truth, because those videos come up all over my husbands and it’s so random.
He needs help mentally
I can’t believe the amount of ppl that say “leave him”. Why even bother getting married if you’re ready to leave with every little issue that arises?
If you stay on a certain kind of video for longer than like 5 seconds , all of those videos will start showing up on your Fyp. For an entire week I was stuck watching videos that I had no interest in bc that’s what came on. Random shit will make its way on to my Tik tok . Give him the benefit of the doubt here
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I don’t know. My for u page is a bunch of shit that I don’t like
My man purposely doesn’t like or follow anything that makes sense so the algorithm will show him everything there is to see. In return he gets shown the most backwoods wild bs ever and its caused many an early morning laugh…I wouldn’t take it that seriously lol
I searched for a furby video one time and now they haunt me 
I know this isn’t a common experience but it’s mine and the only thing he can do is to search for lots of bug related videos. Idk why but bugs are the answer to reset the algorithm.
I’m a lactation counselor and always like and comment on breastfeeding videos yet its far from the majority of videos on my feed. I have also yet to see a “trashy” video. There’s no way he’s not searching for it. To have a fetish with it is one thing I’m not going to judge or shame someone who has it but when there is a baby attached that shit is so fucking wrong. Disgusting
So sometimes I will watch a video and be like “what the heck” so I will rewatch it. Then that’s all that comes up in my Fyp! It’s super annoying. It does have to do with what you are watching but not necessarily liking.
That’s abit different. I’d probably just laugh it off. That’s just me though I’d be more worried if it was something gross. Have you seen some of the shit thats out there? Man with a mummy fetish probably not a big issue.
Yes. Definitely sick as f… A child is in the video…that alone is weird… Gross…
Neither one of us have tick tock Facebook alone is bad enough
He’s kinky. Could be worse. He could be into dudes.
Men don’t love porn. Disturbed men who need therapy, counseling, or other help LOVE porn.
Could someone explain to me please, on tiktok is the for you page based on previous likes, watched videos or following?
Maybe he’s watching those videos because he can’t find adult breastfeeding videos?
Disgusting. Leave him. You can do better.
You’re right. I watched one Asian lady eat some weird terrifying looking sea thing and now that’s all I get on my FYP
Maybe he has some mommy issues
I don’t know. I’m on the fence about it. It’s a little weird yeah but that algorithm thing isn’t fool proof. I’m 100% straight cis female and its constantly showing me “thirst traps” (had no idea what that was until recently lol) of the LGBTQ+ community, which is fine I’m not like bent over it, I just keep scrolling hoping one day it’ll go away. Oh and it shows me a lot of anime stuff even though I haven’t been in to that in probably close to twenty years. I really hate it when couples let silly shit like social media affect their relationships. Makes you sit back and think no wonder our parents and grandparents relationships were a bit more…sturdy? I guess.
A lot of men go through these stupid lying phases within the first few years. It’s annoying as f. The only thing you can do is call them on their bs and don’t let him gaslight you about it.
I have no breastfeeding videos at all on my tiktok so he’s definitely watching them or searching for them
Hold on cuz I’m gonna ask my man if he ever sees breastfeeding videos randomly on his fyp cuz that definitely doesn’t sound right 
It’s the lying that gets me…you can’t trust him if he’s willing to lie about something like these videos he’s into. If he can’t be honest about something simple as his turn ons, what else will he be fine lying about?
My opinion… I think it’s very natural for a man to be turned on by breastfeeding. It’s a woman doing what a woman was meant to do and that’s sexy. As far as my husband searching for other women doing it…. Ew. Not all men watch porn either. That’s a vice. Not something that has to be your families normal.
Honestly most people know the answer before they post a question, but we like to look for everybody else’s opinion.
Mostly deep down because we dont wanna accept the truth. If we stop relying on all the noice your gut instinct will tell you whether his intention are right or wrong… best wishes
Ummm…yes I’d be icked out for sure.
The lying is what gets me. Makes me wonder what else he’s lying about and he definitely has more on his phone he doesn’t want you to see. I agree it’s disturbing but idk if it’s worth being a major issue in your marriage. Anytime you’re hiding what’s on your phone from your spouse there’s a problem and I say that having been through it on both sides of it- that was over 10 years ago we got through it but it was hard for a long time.
I’m a breastfeeding mom and I’ve never seen a breastfeeding video on my TikTok mines full of art and creepy Reddit stories so your definitely not wrong to not believe him
I’m a breastfeeding mom and follow others that talk about it and I’ve never seen mom breastfeeding nor does it ever pop up
I mean to each their own but you didn’t exactly open the path for him to communicate about why. Just kind of jumped straight to the -whoa wtf 
- so if you aren’t exactly giving him the room to tell you when you ask I wouldn’t tell either.
A man’s TT is different then a woman’s… on mens it shows a lot of girls thinking it what they want to watch also if you don’t go to the settings on TT and turn the mic and camera off on it it listens to what you say and then stuff will pop up on it. When my husband was on his and I was right next to him cuddling he was looking at videos normally he is a mechanic so he mostly watches that or fishing and hunting but when he scrolled he maybe had to scroll like 15 times where there was just half naked girls on the screen dancing and stuff. It happens all the time from what I hear on all guys accounts. Do a test and create a new TT account but for a man
1.You shouldn’t be on his phone 2. He shouldn’t be searching for them 3. Breastfeeding ain’t gross it’s normal suck it up and deal with it it’s not gonna go away
I am always on tik tok and have never seen one on there ever! Seems fishy! When u start tik tok it asks u to pick what u like
Ok- so my opinion isnt like most I guess. I have been through this exact type of thing for 13 yrs…
I would find really weird random things- he had an app called jiggle or something like that. It was like a kid picture app. He would put naked pics of girls in the app & make their boobs giggle. Like dude ur 40. I would find weird sex pills in the car but he would say they were just vitamins. 1 time I found him looking at young hot teens. He denied it forever but it was clearly typed in the search bar. He also lied to me about vapping. Sayn he quit then 2 wks later I would find them in washing machine. He would literally claim they aren’t his ect over the yrs I was told I am over reacting, I am crazy, I need to leave him alone, told I was wrong, the stuff isn’t his or that he wasnt doing. 12 1/2 yrs later I found out he was having a full on affair with someone for almost a yr. Trust ur gut & leave. I didn’t listen to mine. I am now divorced & it’s the greatest thing I did was to leave him. 
So here’s the thing, he’s a liar and you don’t trust him. Therefore you’re not gonna believe anything he says about it, unless it’s validation. Toxic.
I see these tik tok all the time! Most recording a video while feeding… But never a whole exposure. I’m curious now. She said trashy. What is a trashy breast feeding? Lol
I haven’t seen any breast feeding videos on my hubby’s tiktok.
He is definitely lying. I have never seen a tik tok like that on my mans page so no they do not just pop up on men’s pages. Or anyone at alls for that matter unless theyre being searched or watched constantly. Breastfeeding is a fetish for some men and maybe he is embarrassed by that. People cannot help what turns them on and sometimes they feel embarrassed by what gets them off.
You cant help what comes on you fyp. I love tik tok and not once have i had anything like that to pop up thou lol
He’s a hetero cis man. Hetero cis men tend to be sexually aroused by breasts. Breastfeeding still involves a breast.
I breastfeed so I watch a ton of videos on it to learn more and it doesnt come on my fyp and if it does its educational ones, never trashy. I have never seen them on my partners page either.
He pays for only fans… those videos do not show up on regular tiktok
TikTok doesn’t just show men random breastfeeding videos. Me and my husband scroll through his TikTok together sometimes and not once has a breastfeeding video popped up. The stuff that pops up is stuff similar to what he’s liked and commented on before. Your husband is lying. I agree with the woman that said he might have a breastfeeding fetish and is embarrassed by it
This is the EXACT reason I think women should cover up when breastfeeding. Should they be able naturally breastfeed without issue? sure. Should they? Nope. Fucking pervy bastards out there getting off on your tiny baby sucking on you. Sick.
My tik Tok just plays what it wants
My husbands TikTok is 90% building stuff and tools/construction. We watched his together yesterday and not one breastfeeding video popped up. 
TikTok algorithm plays what you watch period
As a breastfeeding mother, no tiktok doesn’t just show you breastfeeding videos. I haven’t even seen one on tiktok before and I’ve made content about breastfeeding and been on tiktok for the past 3 years.
I like one video, and then it’s alllll I see! And it’s stuff I don’t even really care for, I only liked the one to be nice…ctfu… Literally…
What do men look for in a woman, someone to love and take care of them … like a mum … men like to suck on boobs when having sex and forplay shit
Breastfeeding is primal and reminds then of all that, it’s not that they think of there mother but looking for that mother insist and sucking on there breast is part of it
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That is just sick but worst is the lying
Your husband was probably just embarrassed and your reaction to it probably made him feel he had to lie. You were not very well communicated yourself when you asked. When you come off seemingly upset from the get go, people tend to try to get themselves out of that situation as soon as possible. That was probably the case.
Also, I dont understand how a mother breastfeeding her baby could ever be trashy. She is literally giving her baby nutrition. I mean even if she “plops” her whole breast out to feed the baby, how is that trashy?
The bigger concern for me is the grown man on tik tok 
but yea his algorithm is…… concerning….