I think my husband searches for breastfeeding videos on Tiktok

Mannnn listen…

ONE TIME I liked a little girls dance video. She was probably 10 or so and it was a completely appropriate tiktok dance. I only liked it because she had like 12 hearts and I wanted to hype her up. Didn’t think anything about it until all of a sudden my FYP was flooded with little kids dancing :woozy_face::woozy_face: To be fair - I don’t “like” stuff often, if it’s funny then I just share it with my husband. Lesson learned though :rofl:

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Two things I hate about this 1. He’s blatantly lying to you and acting dumb. He knows you know and is defensive.

  1. It’s so disturbing to me when men find that “hot” yes boobs are hot lol. But not breastfeeding a child that shouldn’t be sexualized and is so weird

I’d have a serious debate if you want to stay with this man

It’s possible he’s lying but the algorithm is periodically adjusting, I usually get mostly building stuff or nature stuff but a few days ago all I started getting was random acts of kindness which I watched and now that seems to be what is mostly shown.

It is possible that some came through and because he didn’t skip them it started showing more.

I’m guessing he didn’t actively search them but also didn’t actively avoid them either and it’s now something that will regularly show until the algorithm adjusts but he’ll need to actively swipe them away instead of watching them.

He also needs to nut up and stand up for himself because you sound horrible and controlling. Lying is a cowards way and there is no excuse but you also need to make/keep an environment where both sides can speak what’s on their mind and it sounds like he lies because he doesn’t want to disappoint you or put up with your nagging.

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Sounds like a pathological liar… Good luck with that one.

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That’s why I don’t put myself feeding on social media/online! Too many weirdos out there! Gives me the ick thinking about it.

He prolly has a breastfeeding kink. I’ve never seen a breastfeeding video on my tiktok and I’m on there a lot lol

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I don’t think the TikTok algorithm works all the time because the videos that come up on mine are nothing like what I search, or like to watch.

With that said, it sounds more like he’s embarrassed and for good reason. If you came at me that way about any topic I’d have lied to you too. Especially a topic such as fetishes, where you were obviously disgusted from the get go. You literally slammed the door of communication shut before you said anything. Now you’re on FB making him out to be some weirdo because he has a fetish you don’t approve of? You sound real easy to talk to. :roll_eyes:

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Women like porn too. My grown kids give me crap because they’ve seen my search history. They get told to mind their business just like you should.

All he’s ever had to do was comment on a breastfeeding video and BOOM the algorithm thinks that’s what you want to see

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I didn’t get through the whole thing but I just have to say for 2 weeks all my Tiktok for you page showed me was felons in jail :joy: I didn’t ask for that

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Lmao. So he said ‘they pop up on all mens tiktok cause it’s the trend’ :joy: my husbands tik tok is all about d&d, cars and medieval coffee bars :joy: (were nerds and want to make a medieval shop but in modern days) he also has cat videos sometimes… I feel like you got a liar on your hands lol, it’s probably his kink & youre reaction got him embarrassed

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Is it hard to actually go through the phone? For me i would go through the phone. And I don’t touch my so’s phone normally, but if it’s like child related I would need to see for myself that this was a fluke.
If he liked one video, it could have given more on his feed. That many, though, seems weird.

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You can look at his “liked videos” on his profile page. It really could just be random and TikTok just thinks he wants to see it. It does that to me on random stuff sometimes and I have to tel tiktok I don’t want it :joy:

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Here’s the thing if he treats you well and he has strange fetishes Let It Go everybody has something that they don’t show the world doesn’t make them any different than you

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The fact he’s lied to you before…is probably a sign you shouldn’t trust him :woman_shrugging:

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I can’t even imagine how breastfeeding can be trashy in any way :sweat_smile::sweat_smile::sweat_smile::sweat_smile: ( as I sit here without a shirt and my 2 year old going back and forth between them :rofl::rofl::rofl:)

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He didn’t hide anything. I’m not sure how I’d feel of them breast feeding children . Breast feeding a grown adult is hot to me . I feel he said that they just come up because he was uncomfortable about your reaction. But your reaction is understandable. I’d ask to look through his phone randomly

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They don’t show up on all men’s tiktoks. Never have seen one pop up with my significant others. But damn, you need to lay off if you “understand he watches porn” I’d probably lie to to get you off my back.

My tik tok shows me nonstop farting videos which is NOT something I looked for lol

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I watched a video twice one time about a lesbian couple and the dogs they rescue. So cute. The next week was lesbian-tok for me. Literally just videos of lesbian couples. Funny, serious, random. Just lesbians. It was hilarious that tiktok was like OH YOU WAFCHED A CUTE DOG VID THAT HAPPENED TO BE FEATURING A GAY COUPLE. HERE HAVE MORE MORE MORE

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Wait. Breastfeeding babies is a kink now? I’m sorry but that’s gross. Why is feeding a child being sexualized.

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I don’t think he’s lying. He probably saw one reel and thought it was funny as you described with boobs flopping around and he clicked like :+1:
That’s all it takes and then TikTok keeps sending you similar reels.

I know my kids say once they like one thing they’ll end up bombarded with that topic…. So it is possible he liked one and now it comes up fir him all the time.

I have never commented or searched for breast feeding videos and there was like 5 yesterday, aaaaand in a trashy way as well… :flushed: idk… weird

Ya’ll complain because the men don’t tell u the truth, but when they do, you don’t know what to do with the truth. Poor dude can’t even have a kink :rofl:

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Probably can’t search boobs so he searches that in hopes of getting around that

I can honestly say that I’ve never searched any breastfeeding videos and it was like every other video on my for you page for the last week. Give the dude some slack, it’s very possible he’s telling you the truth.

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I’ve never searched but big ol weens pop up on mine 🤷

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Algorithms can be weird. I sent my husband a thing about Chris Stapleton (1 comment) and all of a sudden, he started getting ads for concerts and tickets and new released music, etc. And he has never searched country music in his life lol.

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I would have to give him the benefit of doubt on this one!

It’s definitely not random. He may not follow those pages but he searches for those videos and that’s why they’re recommended. You can delete your searches on TikTok.

Anyway I would leave him but that’s just me. 1. Blatantly lying 2. Sexualizing someone feeding a literal child 3. Probably a porn addict

I’m not sure because I’m pregnant & I’m on Tiktok a lot & I haven’t seen any videos like that. It’s possible that he liked 1 funny video about breast feeding & now his tiktok is mostly breastfeeding content. Especially if he’s not on it enough for the algorithm to see that he has other interests.

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I would give him the benefit of the doubt on this. Bdsm and dom/sub videos started popping up my feed randomly a few months ago when I first downloaded the app and I hadn’t searched or liked anything relative to that. Just animal and motorcycle vids.

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Well, in my experience… men that love watching other naked women isnt a normal thing… im 36’… was married for ten years to my ex and now engaged to another man for 3. Maybe I just attract a different breed of men. He’s perfectly happy with me alone… ive never had this problem.

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Don’t shame him. It’s weird but men are weird.

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Run. Get out. The lies alone and yes you are right. It’s rather weird he likes these videos.

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Perhaps he was embarrassed & instead of discussing it at the time, his anxiety got heightened & it’s the flight or fight response. He may be afraid that you wouldn’t understand it from his perspective.

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My hubby told me he thought tiktok was a trashy app because there were a bunch of strippers and almost naked women on it and all he saw all the time was basically porn… until one night I was watching videos with him on tiktok and found out he wasn’t scrolling through the fyp he was scrolling through the following page. :rofl::rofl::rofl: I don’t care btw, I just thought it was hilarious cause he used to be like “this is why I don’t like you using tiktok” and I was always saying I don’t know how that’s all you get because my page looks nothing like that lmfao

Damn Tik Tok keeps showing me Psychic Lives and I never look for those😂 I believe him

Ummm first of all there’s no “trashy” way to feed your kid

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All it took one was one video, which could have been nice or funny, and he could have them flood his TikTok. It may have even been a mother in the background while her husband talks about it. TikTok will flood your page. I’ve had weird stuff and I usually only look at birds and art, but sometimes they have the same tags or something like that. I’m not saying he’s not, but more than likely it’s the truth and not worth fighting over. Now, I would speak to him about lying and how it hurts your trust, even when it’s a small thing, in a separate conversation.

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He’s ashamed of his fetish so he’s going to lie. Lol just further proves that women breastfeeding in public should try to cover alittle more … and before anyone gives me shit, I breastfed 3 kids. I was always saying Theres men out there into it and why would you want someone getting off to your private moment with your child and women always say it’s just a baby eating Blah blah blah … because trashy women are exploiting and selling themselves doing it. In any case though… yeah there’s a ton of men into pregnant porn, breastfeeding porn and even crazy shit like feet lmao …. People lie because they don’t want to deal with judgment :woman_shrugging:t2:

I dont do lies, just be stright or kick rocks .

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I’m not a stoner but 80% of my fyp is stoners. All you have to do is like ONE video and they flood your fyp page with videos of the same thing

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You can look at his liked videos and it will tell u what he watches

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I have topics pop up all the time that I never am interested in

It’s the algorithm likely. He could’ve liked one single video that had something to do with that and it will set off his whole for you page

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You have to go in and make his account private where no one can add him. My husband had all these videos of girls and was complaining that he was annoyed that it wasn’t playing any of the spiritual videos he liked watching (spiritual not religious). I went in and made his account private and deleted all the trashy women that had added him without him knowing and ever since not a single video of a girl popped up. He could have looked up something once on breastfeeding or you could have sent him something and it’ll pull it up repeatedly on there. Just make the acct private and delete all followers

You put him on the defensive so what do you expect?

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I have found that if I comment on a video even one time the next day my page is flooded with that type of content so idk it may be innocent accident. But I think the videos aren’t the problem here I think it’s your guys ability to communicate. I would highly recommend doing some counseling with one another. Don’t tell him it’s because of the videos. Take some responsibility that your quick reactions also means you can’t communicate and vice versa and that you want to figure this out together and working on communication with a professional might be the best way.

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I’m still trying to wrap my head around the fact that you called breastfeeding mom’s trashy bc they didn’t cover up :woozy_face: would you like to eat with something covering your face?

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Men lie. About the DUMBEST stuff. :woman_shrugging:t2: I know I catch my husband doing it over stuff that’s definitely obvious or unnecessary

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You can check his liked videos

Stop making excuses for :poop: behavior… it won’t change, he won’t either unless he confronts how toxic he is…

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My tiktok shows all kind of stuff I don’t like. Any search or question he looked up could be stored and that be loaded into his feed. You can Google an actor one day and suddenly your feed is all about that actor and people who like him. My tiktok even knows where I live and I don’t have my location on. It shows me videos from around my state and city.

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Yeah I have stuff I don’t like show up on mine all the time. If I accidentally liked something and don’t realize it then they will bombard my page with stuff I really don’t care about seeing

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Girl somehow I got put on Prisontok :joy::joy: I had never searched for prison videos or anything like that. I actually search for Swingtok or momtok content so how I ended up with prison videos on my FYP I have no clue

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If he’s already been proven a liar I wouldn’t believe a word he says. Even if it’s true, he’s still a liar in general and doesn’t deserve the benefit of the doubt.

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Porns. It normal for anyone !!!

I get the weirdest kink and breastfeeding stuff pop up on my tik tok and I only search for plant or gardening related tik toks. He could be honestly telling the truth, but he also could have been embarrassed about it and lied to cover up his embarrassment

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He’s just not for you. This is not your person. There is someone more suitable and way better out there for you. Time to walk

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My mans TT is full of similar videos I send him because he doesn’t go on there unless I send him a video so his TT just makes his FYP a bunch of girls or mom doing funny things or complaining about something :joy: and he’ll be like I swear I didn’t look this stuff up.
My FYP is filled with so many random things sometimes if I watch a video of a pregnant girl that’s all it takes for my stuff to be filled with that all day. It takes one video to fill your timeline

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The fact that you associated trashy with breast feeding wtf is wrong with you a mother is just feeding their child not all babies like blankets over there head etc . While it isn’t right that he lies to you this goes to prove something HE DOESNT FEEL COMFORTABLE TELLING YOU THINGS BECAUSE OF YOUR REACTION !!! Before anyone jumps down my throat I’m not saying. His lying is right but if he’s lying vaping from you he might be scared to how you react to certain shit. Go to counseling or something

That’s so gross…HATE when men sexualize feeding our children. Not saying its only him because it sounds like these videos are :eyes::nauseated_face::nauseated_face::nauseated_face: but still, tf? I’d never look at my man the same again

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My TikTok is so fucking random. I wish I had tiddies flopping on mine. Don’t be toxic. Leave him alone. It’s just freaking tik tok. There is so freaking much to stress over being a mom, this is not one of the things that deserves your time.

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Lmfaoooo he’s def lying. I have tik tok and I’ve never seen a breastfeeding video with a full tit out or even at all and I follow a lot of mom and baby tik toks. I’d search his liked videos and his search history on there lol

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This page is a jokeee

:triangular_flag_on_post::warning::grimacing::flushed: you need to make sure he is t watching child porn or shone crap :poop: like that honestly that’s grounds to go threw internet search history :triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post: definitely dig a little more I would not just let that go especially if you have children !!!

have you ever thought to yourself, that maybe he isnt lying at all??

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No that boy is lying and breast feeding really like he can’t watch someone twerking lol For him to be having videos like that it must of popped up once and he viewed it a bit it kept popping up over and over and now that’s all he sees either way he lied to you he know why they are popping up and doesn’t wanna admit he watching women breat feed. It depends on if you stay on the video and how long you watch it, if you like it and if so it’ll show you more of it

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He’s lying and and yeah that’s pretty gross. Men like him are the reason breastfeeding in public is such a huge issue for some people. Because men are sexualizing breastfeeding. It’s disgusting.

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Idk I don’t look for those videos but I do like videos of babies and cute lil kids and so it shoves the breastfeeding stuff all over my stuff that being said he could be embarrassed by liking the videos I big doubt it has anything to do with the baby unless he has shown previously pedophile behavior wouldn’t just go slinging it around

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The FYP is absolutely tailored by the algorithm to show stuff you’re most likely to enjoy….
for example I use mine to show off my art and in turn most of the people I follow are other artists. So my FYP is constantly new artists I haven’t followed yet. I occasionally get the more “trendy” videos to pop up but most of it is art because that’s what I like and search out. So if his is mostly nursing or women with their boobs out it’s because that is what he is liking or has searched for :woman_shrugging:t2:. So yeah, he’s lying about that part.

Ummmm id try to have a calm conversation with him about the breastfeeding videos and ask him why he’s watching them before you just jump to conclusions but on a side note if he’s ever given you any reason to believe hes pedophile material then maybe you could be right

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Andre Moore bro what​:sob::sob::sob::sob::sob:

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Gross . Personally I’d watch him around your kids after seeing that .

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He needs professional help! He’s in a relationship with you, and watches other women’s videos to get turned on??? These women who are making these videos are also horrible sick women!!! Just why??? :nauseated_face::face_vomiting:. I’m glad I finally found a man who finds no need to watch crap like this! In fact, he is not attracted at all to girls who make porn videos like that!

Does he he have a breast-feeding fetish? :nauseated_face:
Free boobies?

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Maybe he watched something similar because he has a boobie fetish? The algorithms on there are not precise, I have stuff pop up on mine all the time I don’t want to watch and even disliking them doesn’t keep similar ones from popping up. I call my feed infected sometimes even because the same dumb crap will pop up 80 times. Personally, talk to him without shaming him right off the bat and maybe y’all will reach a nice understanding of a kink he might have. Or maybe you’ll figure out he has something off about him. Who knows but you’ll never figure it out jumping to conclusions and distrusting him right off the bat. Maybe he just wants you to flop a tit in his face one night 🤷

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Respectfully, if your husband so much as Googled something about breastfeeding, it could have caused this.
Speaking from my own experience, granted- mine didn’t pull up anything I’d consider trashy. I’m not quite sure how you trashily breastfeed. I do know there’s MASS movements from moms out here who legit just want to comfortably feed their babies in public or wherever babe gets hungry without feeling ashamed or the need to hide.

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Im getting pedophile vibes.

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I’m mostly male, ummmm…no. What? I don’t get any breastfeeding vids, zero. There is a map that was compiled from popular porn sites, that shows the popular porn state to state. Not surprisingly guess where the mostly incest was (which also has the highest numbers), also predictably bestiality, …no real huge market for breastfeeding. Freud would have a heyday in this thread.

How normal is it for a man to get turned on by a lactating mother? That’s just gross!! He has serious mommy issues then and how can YOU be normal about that??

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Don’t let him make you the older person.

I feel sick tbh, that’s very disturbing and a bit Pervy I’d be gone.

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Reading this whilst breastfeeding my twins (dream feeding )

I’m all for promoting breastfeeding. Photos And videos with Advice and guidance for other mums.

The thought of videoing such an intimate moment between mother and child and posting it for a man to get obsessed over is pretty grim. Sadly the very reason why the minority still find breastfeeding in public inappropriate.

Although I don’t use these platforms, if I search for something on Google I bet it would appear on my Facebook advertisement. So perhaps he was researching about breastfeeding :woman_shrugging:t3:

Not all men watch porn. You tube , tiktok etc and need other naked chicks.

I’d advise sitting with this guy and have a conversation about how this has made you feel. Hear him out. Make your pros and cons list to see if you’re compatible.

Clear his cache then see if it keeps happening. You’ll have your answer.

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I wouldn’t like that either personally - I’ve seen some pregnancy kinks but the fact it’s breastfeeding and done for an audience other than what the purpose of breastfeeding is for is what’s weird to me. Both the girls doing it and those getting off to it. But that’s my personal opinion. What would mainly get me upset too is the lying about it - why lie if it’s supposedly ok and he’s defending it anyways? Just makes it worse

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Hoes have made TikTok a trashy app. Not only do the breastfeeding moms have their titties all out but they also are damn near all breastfeeding toddler size kids and many of them let their kid(s) play with the other nipple while feeding. And for the ones who aren’t breastfeeding they’re obsessed with having their yoga pants/shorts pulled so far up their vaginas/butts I wouldn’t be surprised if they have yeast infections. I’m honestly tired of females because they do too damn much.

I wouldnt think that much on it recently they changed they algorithm and I get a ton of not English or really old tiktoks. Idk

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Also I had no idea women posted stuff like that. Who knew there was a market for that. You don’t even have to show your face !!

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Tik Tok is there for China to track you & destroy your nuclear family. They allow women breastfeeding videos to titillate viewers Sexualization of the young. Prove me wrong.

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No way that he isn’t watching them. Go on his Instagram for you(recommended) by clicking the magnifying glass , it will show you all the recommended videos. Algorithms don’t work by likes or comments, that helps but it’s by watch time. So there isn’t a way to hide it. If he watching it for longer than a swipe, they will keep suggesting them!

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