my husband went to the bar with fiends over the weekend…he didnt come home until 3 am…(which finr whatever) he told me he was with the guys all night and lost time so i didnt hink anything of it…they do it all the time…we his friends came over the next day to grill out and we were all talking and their prior night came up and they said yeah when i go home at 12…(telling his story of what happened) i was like wait you got home at 12? and then turned to my husband and asked him to confirm his time and he said 12ish…but he didnt…he came home at 3 am i remember looking at the clock bc my baby woke up…i dropped it while everyone was there but when they left mu husband was acting relaly weird…when i brought it up again he got very defensive and told me to drop it and went to bed…but now i cant help but think he was out with someone…am i wrong here?
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I mean… tbh it doesn’t look good at all…
There’s a lot more to that story…
Yea that’s very suspicious. He’s lying
To play devils advocate…when i hang i do lose track of time…i may say it was 12 in reality it was 2…but being so defensive is a red flag. If its not a big then just talk about not, dont say drop it.
He could have stayed and had a few more with others. He may be upset that you are accusing him of something in front of his friends. Is there other red flags?
I would bring it up again, and tell him you want the truth.
Well sounds like he is lying to you
He had to do a side job
Whenever someone gets very defensive about questions and tells you to drop it….RED FLAG!
Follow your instincts it never fails .
Lying through his teeth
Probs didn’t want to seem weak in front of his mates so he spewed, tried to sober up and get some food then head home. Men aren’t always unfaithful some grownups are legit just stupid lol
Men often forget what time it is
When they have been drinking or are drunk
Ask his mates gfs/wives
What time they actually got home
Then if they say around 3 am
Then confront your guy
Although I can’t help feeling
There is more to the story
That you don’t want to share
Nope. He’s probably screwing around.
You got strip clubs around your area?
He’s lying. He was doing something he wasn’t supposed to and got caught.
He just said “drop it” and she did ? Ah hell nah
you Barbara & Shirley finna call you soon.
He’s lying! You saw the clock said 3, and he said 12ish. Those are not the same. Then he got defensive.
I would let it go for now, but next time. I’m going with.
Sorry buddy, you lost your privilege! 
Narcissistic behaviour! He’ll try flip it and say you’re the crazy one 
Drunk people don’t always realize what time it is
Nope I’m not dropping nothing
If they get defensive, they are guilty. Atleast in my case this has been true every… damn… time!
Do not drop it at alllllllll
Don’t drop it drop him lying ass shit
That leash would be awfully short right now. He might not want to talk about it, but he would still hear what I had to say.
Always follow your first gut instinct, intuition is real and will always steer you in the right direction
I wouldn’t drop it. I’d be picking that shit right back up and getting to the bottom of it.
Sounds like he lying but no way of knowing
Doesn’t matter how he gets his appetite as long as he comes home to eat. Learn the difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul.
What does your gut tell you to do? If your gut doesn’t trust it, then don’t trust it.
Drop my foot up his ass lmao drop it. Man the shit women take. I know I would!
Red flags everywhere!! He’s definitely hiding something!
Leave this man child before he cheats like mine did.
Uhohh… if u sense something. Girl it’s telling you the truth! Time to investigate
Don’t drop it, nothing is open after 2 am but legs and taco bell
He doesn’t want to talk about it because he’s got something to hide and nothing to say for himself.
Ask his friends in a round about sort of way to not arouse suspicion !
Noooopeeee thats weird
Drop it … I don’t think so
That dog!!! I’m mad too 
Now he’s going to turn everything on you. Guilty!!!
So if it was the other way around what would he do? Drop it?
He not gon admit to cheating. Instinct never lies. Open your eyes!
Yep why would his friend say 12 they know when they got home. Shouldn’t they all get home around the same time.
Hell no I wouldn’t drop it cause he says so. Better start talking, bub.
Sounds shady for sure
Go with your gut…. Something is off for sure. If he didn’t do wrong he wouldn’t have gotten defensive and went to bed 
Don’t drop it girl he better talk or you better drop him
No you not wrong, he’s hiding something. I would tell him you know something is up so tell you because you already imagine the worst then show him his bags.
Your expecting a buncha drunk men to keep track of time tell the truth recount the same eve?sorry chicka isnt in them.and there his boys not yours could be completely innocent doesnt matter your doubting that and trust is important its not there.
Whether your jumping to conclusions or not he should care enough to squelch that fear inside you.
What your feeling isn’t just insecurity, it’s a really simple question that should be easy for him to answer.
Your gut knows. You just have to decide what to do with it.
Maybe he thought it was 12 
Naw dog where tf was you at fa 3 damn hrs naw naw oh hell naw… Drop it? Fool about you drop that alimony and child support wit yo ol’ lyin ass
Listen to your gut. You already know the truth.
Most definitely hiding something and not being honest. But ask yourself if your ready to know the truth or find out by digging. Most of the time you go digging you will find something that will hurt you. So if you do search and when you find it what will you do? Are you prepared to leave him, stay and definitely not trust him? Im sorry this definitely sucks!
Yiur gut is telling you listen to it its never wrong
All these ppl saying maybe he thought it was that time why would he get defensive over it rather than just say I thought it was 12 I was drunk just a thought he’s defo lieing can smell it a mile off
He showed you signs that hes cheating by his response to you. The writing is on the wall (so to speak)
YOUR HUBBY GOT TOGETHER WITH SOMEONE WHEN HE WAS AT THE BAR
AND SCREWED AROUND ON YOU SORRY TO SAY
You know he says drop it and goes to bed he is fuckin guilty…he was caught and he knew it and didnt have an answer for you so he needs time to think he didnt expect for it to be blown up in his face…
I wouldnt have let him go to bed because i would have been dam furious
I would have said is this the first time you have fooled around or has there been more
Are you going to drop HELL NO you better not
But he isnt going to admit anything but trust your instincts
You have a pos hubby on your hands who might have cheated on you before but was never caught
Its time to go digging sweetie but be prepared for what you find
Download a spyware on his phone like p c t a t t l e t a l e
It shows messages even deleted ones
And put a tracker under the passenger seat of his vehicle one that you pay a subscription because it shows the address of where he is and what time he got there and leaves
You owe it to yourself to know if he really is unfaithful maybe the type to have a fling when he goes out with friends
Check his underwear from that night…and his clothes
Yep he’s hiding shit so obvious. Time to go
Definitely doesn’t sound good but try talk to him again give him a chance to explain where/what he was doing.
Ummm I wouldn’t drop shit lol that would make me go off lmao
No you ain’t wrong he’s probably cheating
No. Been there, done that. But it was 6AM not 3AM. Good riddance.
Trust your instinct!
And please get screened for possible stds… You never know where and what.
Well… now you’re senses are tingling, put a gps tracker on him, oh and be ready to be single if that tracker shows you what you’re feeling is true 
He probably cheating
Absolutely not… he did something and he now knows u know … he needs to fess up before u can move on…
Actions speak louder than words… I think you know where he was by the way he acted. Trust your feelings, he doesn’t deserve you
Serious red flags…especially the drop it…
Activity log on google maps
Time to A - talk to one of the friends if they are close with you
B - track his ass
C - start getting ready to divorce
Go with your gut instinct cause now its there u will always be on edge anytime he goes out, that lie means something.
Good luck
Nope completely fishy hun keep digging
Player big time
Follow your gut
Go through his ph for more evidence
No you are not listen to your gut.
Check his bank statement.
Maybe his friend got his time wrong
A woman’s intuition is very powerful. Listen to your gut feeling. Do your digging to confirm your suspicions.
Drunk men aren’t good with timing, I agree. However, the fact that he got angry and defensive I’d be worried. Unfortunately us women tend to have a sixth sense about things of this nature. I’d be honest with him and explain that you are not looking to argue yet you are looking to talk and that you feel uneasy about things and would like to remind him if there is anything that he needs to discuss with you that now is the time because if you find anything out later on that indicates infidelity that things won’t be pretty and a divorce would automatically be the ONLY option. If he comes clean now counseling and a second chance may be on the table.
He did something. Don’t let him put you on the defensive. You know he cheated
Sadly , I think he was up to no good . A woman’s intuition is rarely wrong . Hope everything resolved the way you want it too xxx
Nah girl !!! You are absolutely right , he was with someone else
You are not wrong. Find out the truth.
Sounds fishy to me. The times don’t add up. Could be the friend was trying to tell you something. You know what time he got home. He knows what time he got home. He also knows where his shoes were parked before he came home. Trust your gut.
You’re not wrong, It sounds like he was up to something
The fact he got defensive over a perfectly valid question would be a red flag for me
Yes he did something ur gut tells you he did. What you may never know but it’s not worth the risks friends they don’t tell…they call drunk crying to you at 4 am because they feel bad lol
The times don’t add up and he’s getting defensive. He was either somewhere he shouldn’t have been or with someone he shouldn’t have been with. If he had lost track of time or told you the wrong time he would’ve told you.
You’re not wrong at all!! You have every right to know where he was… Don’t drop it get the truth!!
If he was out with someone? We will need to do about it?
Nope!!! You’re right! He messed up!
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Get tested, and abstain until he does, nothing calls bullshit faster than making doctors appointments except for changing the locks
Girl his cheating on you get the fuk outta there, know your worth and move on