Cameras in your home girl watch him!
I wouldn’t jump to conclusions. Just watch closely. Now if anything happens again then yeah I’d leave
They both knew. She only pushed him away cause she saw you. Get rid of him and never trust your sister.
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I’m an identical twin and that has never happened to us with our spouses even if it was the first time they knew what was going on
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So sorry.
Trust is a terrible thing to lose in this case.
I caught my ex with my sister and we aren’t twins. I was pregnant and they were in my bed… There is no coming back from that, that pain will linger even when you’re over your boyfriend. Just letting you know
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Umm… I am a twin myself. We are not identical but we look identical. I don’t believe he is telling the truth that he thought it was you. If he truly loved you he would know that it was not you!
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That’s a straight up lie… drinking or not, they both knew what they were doing. There’s no excuse.
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Your sister knew better though. I haven’t looked at mine since I tried to kill her in our front yard
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Your sister is just as in fault as him. Leave him!
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Nah they knew , both cheaters, I’d whoop her ass , I’ve never cheated on anyone , or stolen anyone from anyone, I’d stay far away from her and leave him too
Your sister definitely knew she wasn’t his girlfriend and how convenient she pushed him away when you busted them. Now you’ll never be able to trust them around each other alone again. Even if you break up with him you’ll probably never be able to trust your sister alone around future boyfriends.
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I would giv it a try but keep them separate
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Holy crap on a cracker 
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Dump him, beware of her because smh they both knew what they were doing 
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My cousin married a twin and she kissed her brother in law and thought it was her hsb. Accidents do happen. I wouldn’t worry unless it happens again!
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Okay if he was like
BLACKOUT DRUNK:bangbang:
i would understand how he might’ve been confused.
Still wouldn’t trust him 100% tho.
But your sister???
SHE WASNT CONFUSED!!
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I’m a twin! Me & her know better! Just like your sister does! He knew you were asleep and decided to try your twin, to see how far he could go with it. The twin, may have been caught off guard but then again I wouldn’t be so sure. I’d keep my guard up.
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He may have been confused but I would be concerned about the sister. He could have drunkenly thought she was you. But she has known since birth she wasn’t you. So.
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Na no way even if he thought it was you what’s the sisters excuse? Both are terrible people to do that to you specially your twin, I’d dump his ass and put your twin in her place!!
I think you’re sister has the hots for your boyfriend. If you wouldn’t have walked in on them kissing, who knows how far it would’ve went. I’m not saying he’s not at fault…they both are.
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Especially her sister, she should have said I’m not your gf! She totally knew what she was doing, and on his end he thought it was his gf beings they r identical twins but the sister could have prevented the whole situation.
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I think I’d be equally upset at both…I have twin sons and if I ever catch them switching up on their girlfriends I would be reading them both the riot act…disrespectful on so many levels
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Okay your man is wrong but so is your sister. This man will likely disappear from your life but your sister is forever so know that it ain’t likely u can trust her. I’m sorry
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The sister wasn’t confused. She could have turned her head… she could have moved away she could have stopped it but she allowed it. You should be worried
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Nope. Idc how drunk you are, drunken minds speak sober hearts.
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Girl dump his nasty ass
If he was drinking and yall are that much alike give him the benefit of the doubt
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like anyone else, you will need to decide just how much you want you/your bf/sister relationship to work. if not, then move on and let them live their lives and you live your life–without him (sister— well, you will just have to decide how important that relationship is.)
Lol…this is a made up story
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What about the moments that lead to the kiss… This is fucked up and I would never trust either of them again, nope
Life is not a sitcom. They knew.
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I am a huge believer in (everything happens for a reason) so in my opinion you were meant to see that for a reason. If your boyfriend can’t tell the difference between y’all yet then maybe he’s not meant to be your “boyfriend”
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Y’all have been together for 5 years, not 5 months. He should be able to tell who is who by now unless he was blackout drunk. However since they both can take accountability for what was going on tells me that the drinking didn’t play a part in “mistaking her for you”. They both knew what was going on and they both tried to hide it when they were caught, they knew better. I’d be having long conversations with the both of them.
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Your sister knew what she was doing
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They are going behind your back. Don’t believe either one.
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Ex** boyfriend.
Fixed it.
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Some people should NEVER drink! If you can’t handle your alcohol,STOP drinking!!!
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Mercy. If you actually need advice on what to do here, just stay with him. I swear the scenarios on some of these pages seem scripted. 
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Dump him n never talk to her sgain!!! He definitely knows which one u are after 5 years! And if they were KISSING it was both of them. He didn’t just give her a peck!
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After 5 years? Absolutely no way. Bet he’ll pay more attention if he EVER gets another twin 
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Ummm no. I am an identical twin too and if my husband got close enough to kiss my sister she would tell him to back tf up.
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Does your sister kinda freeze when she is startled?
If she does, she may have been startled enough to freeze initially.
As for him being that drunk, look.
There are a lot of amazing things about being twins and in particular, identical twins.
Unfortunately, one thing that is NOT on the amazing things roster is that by virtue of looking practically the same and (typically, even if it is not always) similar tastes in styles, fashion, etc.
One of the reasons parents of identical twins will in many cases dress them in different colors if nothing else IS to tell them apart.
So if even the PARENTS get confused as to who is who on occasion, I can see how anyone else- sober or not- could have a bit more difficulty.
If this has never happened before, then leave it alone and let it go and chalk it up to the oy vey’s of being an identical twin and maybe either make sure that there is always ONE easily seen statement piece on that lets literally everyone know who is who (bracelet, ring, necklace, hair style, earrings, outfit color, etc) and train those around you two to recognize it sober or not including significant others so that even if people are piss drunk, they can recognize the statement pieces and not make those kinds of mistakes in the future.
If it continues however, then I would be sitting down with both of them and having a SERIOUS discussion with them.
Um…if you dated someone for that long I feel like he should know YOU. 
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That’s a lie! He should be able to tell u apart from her by now. It was intentional and ur sister……well sad to say but I’m sure she knew what she was doing. If he supposably kissed her, he felt like he could so I just don’t believe all that. I would never be able to trust them. They are cheaters. U deserve better, that’s disgusting.
dump hum quick ! one woman is never enough for some men !!
It’s hard to say, can’t put absolutely nothing pass NO one…it’s a “no” for me… it’s over, not days or years later but now
After 5 years of being with him? He knew who was who. Yes yall are identical but he knows. Thats just an excuse in my opinion. And yes I’m an identical twin as well so i know. He done it while you where asleep for a reason. . .so he could see if he could get away with it. The sister is questionable too because why would she be close enough for him to even kiss her and then jump up when you catch them? Id be eary of BOTH. But id leave him. I know men that ive dated wanted my sister, and vice versa. Especially in high school.
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The whole “I couldn’t tell she wasn’t you” thing is crap. I don’t care if you were wearing identical outfits. He’s been with you for 5 years! You have your own speech pattern, your own mannerisms, your own tone of voice… Anybody who knows you that well cannot tell it’s not you for that long! Maybe walking into a room and sees her from behind, but to have been with her that entire time you were asleep…that’s just crazy he would even try to use that excuse. But cheaters always try and take the blame off themselves.
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Was drinking involved because I feel like that might make a difference.
Your bf wants to be with ur twin sister and not anymore. He knew that was ur sister and not you.
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How weird it happened for the first time at the exact moment you got up to go to the bathroom…
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Nah. You better than me cause I would’ve been whipping ass and asking questions later. I’d MAYBE try to work out my relationship with my sister eventually MAYBE but as far as him, HELL NO.
I’m married to an identical twin and definitely can tell them apart.
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they BEEN messing around. Don’t be a fool.
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I swear I think half of these are made up!!!
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Identical twins aren’t SO identical that he wouldn’t be able to tell the difference whether he was drunk or not.
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Bin him, send her to Coventry
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Honestly this is so sad. Not only are you being hurt by your BF but also your TWIN sister. If she was truely innocent your BF wouldnt have been able to even get close enough to her to kiss her. No way, no how Ima let any man get in my face much less kiss me if I didn’t want him to. They BOTH knew exactly what was going on…shitty on his part, but even more so on your sisters. I’d dump him and beat her ass:joy:
So he can’t tell you both apart by now after 5 years? As a mum of twins myself I know the more time you spend with them they do have differences! most people who know them well can them apart now too! Maybe it was a mistake, but I would definitely keep your eye on it.
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Sorry it was no coincidence that it happened the moment you went to the bathroom and it stopped as suddenly when you came out.
They are fooling around together behind your back and this is not something that happened for the first time. Dump your loser cheating boyfriend. As far as your sister I wouldn’t speak to her until she gave me the truth.
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Awe hellllll no. Your sister let him kiss her clearly, she could of told prevented him from coming near her in that manner, and he knew which twin she was anyway, it was just an easy excuse. Both are liars and both made that kiss happen. I hate cheaters, especially Chester’s who work together to ruin someone’s relationship. Sister or not, people fucked up.
Write em BOTH off!
You’ll never trust your twin 1000% ever again.
Both of em,
done
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Wtf! I’m a twin and they can tell us apart. Both my sister and I have been with our bfs for more than 5 years.
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I don’t think this post is made up. I feel it could be 100% real because these things do happen to some twins. Not in me and mines lives, but it can. I’ve had ex boyfriends try to talk to my sister, or guys I’ve talked to, inbox my sister and we didn’t know we’d be messaging the same guy until we brought it up to each other and realized it was the same guy. I’ve had my sisters ex bf of 4 years try to make a pass on me before and I told her. THEY KNOW who is who. There’s always SOME kind of difference regaurdless of being identical. Plus after being with somebody years, twin or not, you should be able to pick out the person you love in a room. Now it will only strain the relationship with the sisters & make her insecure and afraid to leave them alone with each other. The trust is gone. Id just leave him.
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Nope it doesn’t matter twins or not if youve been together for 5 years he will be able to tell you two apart, why was your sister close enough in the first place for him to kiss her? I would be questioning your sister more and if she can’t be truthful don’t let her around. My sister tried seducing an ex of mine numerous times and after the second time I cut her off. She wasn’t allowed around and I had trust issues with the guy for a while
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Time to drop him and move on
How drunk was he? I’d say you need to follow your gut… has anything ever made you think there was something going on before?
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It took my dad 14 years to tell me and my twin sister apart but all of our BFs did pretty good. Occasionally mixed us up but never kissed the other one because when they got closer they knew it was the wrong twin lol.
After 5 years he cant tell the two of you apart?? I was married to an identical twin, and lived in the same house with them both, I never not once, got them mixed up… He should know… there’s something off about your situation.
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Dump him see how long it takes for him in your sister to hook up it won’t take long.
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It was meant for you to see. They probably been doing this for awhile behind your back. Dont let them fool you they knew what they were doing
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How would your sister even be in a situation close enough for him to kiss her? I don’t believe it was an accident but that’s just me. No way there wasn’t a warning sign that a kiss was about to happen.
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After 5 years he can tell you apart.
He knew.
So did your sister…
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fuuuuck that !! they knew what they were doing. leave him & id be keeping my distance from her for a minute too cause that’s shady as hell.
I’m thinking hes using the fact that u r twins as an excuse…
What does your gut say?
Listen to it… hugs babe xx
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Why were they even in the bathroom together
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He knew and she definitely knew, they both knew exactly what they were doing
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They been messing around your back and even if he can’t tell ya apart by looking at you he is still able to by certain things that you do that’s she doesn’t. And you were sleeping and he should have known that. They both are lying. Don’t trust them
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Your sister is a tramp he’s an ass can I get her number
Eh…I think after 5 years he would know the difference and she would have pushed him away before he even got to her mouth if she didn’t want him to…lol
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I have identical twin cousins. And even when they would dress the same I could still tell them apart. In my opinion he knew what he was doing
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You have been with your boyfriend for 5 years and he can’t tell you from your sister?
Hell after 2 seasons of Sister Sister, I could tell Tia and Tamera apart. But I digress. They are fooling around hun. She pushed him away because you walked in. 
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Twin here! 
now I will say, my husband who I’ve been with for 8 years has come very close to mistaking my sister for me when we had the same hair color. From behind you almost couldn’t tell the difference so there was almost a butt smack or a hug from behind completely accidental. We all laugh it off. When it comes to actually being face to face with us, he can very obviously tell the difference and never ever has mistaken us even when we were the same size with the same hair color. So just my honest opinion…he knew it wasn’t you and your sister obviously knows that’s your boyfriend so something definitely doesn’t seem right. So sorry that happened to you 
They both are lying.
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Sounds like they are slipping around behind your back.She knew he wasn’t her boyfriend.
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Did he forget that you were asleep? It sounds like a BS excuse to me. I have always said that if someone cheats on you…. Be mad at your significant other…. Not the person they cheated with. In this case, your twin sister should be your most loyal ally and she failed. I would cut ties with the boyfriend and have a heart to heart with the sister.
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They knew lol… cut them both off. I’m sorry your boyfriend did that to you. But even more sorry your own sister did that to you. I couldn’t even imagine 
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Dump him he should know who u are thats bullshit coming out of his mouth
Why doesn’t he know that it’s you? Sure he can make out by something that’s stands …like the way u speak…they sneaky
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He is just trying to fulfill his little fantasy of banging twins. He knew she knew and if you believe differently you get what you deserve🤷♀️
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He may have been drunk but she knew who he was. Also why were they in the bathroom together?? Red flag for that part. It may have been an honest mistake on his part but not on your sisters. She knew who he was even if he didn’t know who she was
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He knew and she allowed it and only pushed him away because you walked in the room. If they didn’t mean anything to each other, they wouldn’t have kissed.
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Sound like the plot to a bad porno…
5 years? He can tell who is who. Your sister knew also.
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No, time to kick him to the curb
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Sorry hun but he knew and she more than likely pushed him off because you walked in. I would drill your sister some more, she will break before he will.
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BAHAHAHAHA. Whaaaaaaaaat. No. Ta ta boy!
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Trust your instincts
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So sorry but both knew and only acted appalled because you walked in
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