I have a twin sister and let me tell you “She would get knocked out and so will he”. Cause why tf are they in the same room alone. Fuck them find someone else
Leave his ass. I’m sure it wasn’t the first time. Stop staying with men that cheat.
They are lying. Best to be done with both of them.
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I disagree with others - u all were drinking if u and sister identical very possible he did think it was u - I would give the benefit of the doubt…unless and until something else happens
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I think you are going to have to trust your gut on this one. It pulls honestly be a drunken mistake.
He was leaning in to kiss what he thought was you and your sister really did push him away because she was caught off guard and appalled. Or one or both could have bad intentions. You really have to decide, we don’t know them, their histories, etc. is this soemthing your sister would do? Have you seen her do shady things before and have thought, “yeah but she’d never do that to me.” That’s a red flag. Same goes for the boyfriend, because it’s easier to hide who he is since you’ve only been together 5 years versus a whole life like your sister. Trust your gut. If it was a mistake, move on, nothing was wrong it was just really an awkward mistake, if your gut is telling you it’s something more than you have to have your guard up.
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5 years. They both knew. I’m sorry honey but they definitely knew what they were doing.
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Drop them both, they knew what they were doing
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Okay but no matter what, your TWIN SISTER knew exactly who that boy was. Impeccable timing, or whatever, but as a sister I couldn’t imagine putting myself in a position where my sisters boyfriend/husband could even get close enough to kiss me. Wtf? Drop the boy. Drop your sister too until you can heal. Or forever. 
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Mary Plado - Varghese
Aint a single soul ever fell and landed lip to lip, your sister could moved before the door, period.
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I’m going to be with one of the few others: if y’all are identical and wore similar clothing that night and alcohol was involved it very well could’ve been an accident.
However, were there any indications prior to the incident that would make you believe it was intentional? If so, then let him go. How did they interact before and after the kiss took place? That’s what you can use to decipher between the two.
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They knew what they was doing a drunk person ain’t gonna cross the street and get ran over on purpose , or set them selfs of fire 
on purpose, they know what was happening it seem like it they wasn’t fully waisted
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He probably knew but if he was really drunk he could have mistaken her for you. Now depends if it seemed like the kiss had just started or they were into it.
Nobody kisses alike. They may blame it on the booze but they are both in the wrong.
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Don’t be so naive, he’s been with you 5 years. That’s not even an acceptable excuse. Why were they in a bathroom together for starters? They both knew what was going on, you just happened to walk in an now they’re looking for excuses.
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You already know the answer. Women are so guilty of now trusting our gut. He knew and she knew. Its up to you now what you are willing to put up with. He has already shown his true colors.
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He didn’t know; sister did.
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She could of pushed him away or backed off herself before they even locked lips!! I’m sorry but I don’t think that was an accident, otherwise it wouldn’t of happened! If she really cared for u, she wouldn’t of done that to u at all! Iv had this done before with my so called cousin and my bf, blocked them both out of my life and feels great, not much the same but I thought she was my best cousin, I would think about it with them both, they done it once they can do it again and have another excuse
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Your sister knew better… Watch out
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Even if he mistook her for you - 1) after five years he should have realized her kiss was “different”. 2) she should have stopped it and told him it was her and not you! Trust your gut instinct.
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That’s the lamest excuse I’ve ever heard especially after being with you for 5yrs. And the push away was because they got caught plain and simple and you have every right to be weirded out after all that’s your identical twin but even with that they are both wrong and pretty sure it’s not the first time happening just the first time being caught - don’t believe him and I would question her as well if the last five years really has meant anything to you - that’s a crazy situation to be in for sure.
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5 years is a long time. He should be able to tel the two of you apart… that being said i know what I think
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Ask him what sister he wants. Unfortunately she is related, but you put in 5 yrs. w/ him, what’s your gut say?
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So after 5 years he still cant tell yall apart? I’m sure u guys sound different. And as for ur sister she clearly wanted it and did nothing to stop it.
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Holy fuck!!! Nope…byeeee to that guy!!!
…I’m a twin…my bf knows EXACTLY who is who …so does her bf. Drunk or even on the verge of a blackout lol. That’s a bs excuse.
Are you girls identical? Either way …no…it’s inexcusable…
even identical twins can be differentiated from those who know them.
He just wanted to kiss twins.
I’d probly smack my sister too bc she obviously knows that’s your bf…or is he a twin too? 
Goodluck girl. Find a new dude…he still obviously doesn’t KNOW you after 5 years??? Don’t waste another second of your time
After 5 hrs he should know the difference between you And your sister especially the kiss, and I agree with others your sister wanted that to happen and you need to sit them both down together and find out the truth and decide if this is what you want or if you wanna let this relationship go.
Best of luck to you!
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What an evil twin and fuck him bye Felicia 
Tell her you are dumping him and she can have him. Her reaction will tell all.
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Hell Na kick 
him to the curb
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My wife is an identical twin I’ve been very intoxicated and never came to that point neither has her sister plus thinking rationally her reaction to push him away should have happened way before he was kissing her adjacent to that your first red flag should have been bc they were in the bathroom alone with the door closed no bueno ma’am
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I hope you weren’t stupid enough to believe those excuses. They knew what they were doing. 5 years and he makes that mistake? Ain’t no way. And then the “accident” happened in the bathroom of all places? Absolutely not. You’re being played, but for how long now, only they know.
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After 5 years?!! He sure know what’s he is doing and so is she. I am sorry 
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Idk… my husband woke up Christmas morning (we slept at my grandmothers in my sisters room) and almost kissed my sister because she said on the side of the bed next time him to get her glucose meter and he thought it was me for a second.
If you are identical it could definitely happen, especially if drinking was involved.
(My sister and I aren’t identical but do look a lot a like)
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Just saying right… if I didn’t want to kiss somebody there’s no way their lips would even touch mine… 
she pushed away cos she saw you 100%
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You finally caught them
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I’d be more mad at my sister. But that’s just me…
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Well I mean, why didn’t she stop it? If it was merely an accident on his part why didn’t she push him before then?
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You should of kicked him to the curb and knock her the fuck out 
I have an identical twin and there is no hope in hell that my partner of 3.5 years would even get us mixed up drinking or not ! There playing you for the fool
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It’s BS. They are making up excuses for them selves. No accidentally by all means.
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My best friends are IDENTICAL twin sisters and they don’t even look alike to me
It wasnt an accident
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Drinking distorts your thinking process! If you look alike he may have thought it was you. Just saying. If nothing before gave you any inclination that something was going on it probably wasn’t. I would talk to him and maybe her and tell them how hurt you are. I would also tell him your trust has been broken. Seriously he should not drink if this happened once, may happen again especially if your sister is around and you are identical.
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Nah girl, and honestly fuck your sister. I have a twin but we aren’t identical amd if she ever did that I’d cut her off. How can your own sister hurt you like that? Somthing led up to that moment, it was no accident.
She should have joined in
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Iam almost turned on
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They both new, and your identical twin doesnt give a flying hoot about you…I agree with Ella Hewstone no one would kiss me if i didnt want them too
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They were in the bathroom hiding from anyone seeing. He’s obviously gone in there after a little flirting for one reason. He knew who she was and she knew she shouldn’t be doing it but still did. She only pushed him away because you walked in. Any respectful sister would have pushed him out the door before he even got a chance to kiss her.
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Even if he is telling the truth, considering he had been drinking and who knows how intoxicated he was at the moment, your sister was shady to allow it to happen. Either way, it’s a problematic situation and cannot be ignored.
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Glad no boy I have dated has gotten me and my twin brother mixed up ,clearly we are different.
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And your sister let him kiss her?!
Nup, that’s bullshit, they are both trash
What were they both doing in the bathroom?
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Please take those blinders off. Accidents like THAT don’t happen.
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I went out with a identical twin & unfortunately married him
.i could tell them apart even when they dressed the same. They did try to fool me once… didn’t work. Now if they were in another room talking, i couldn’t tell who was saying what. Even when i spoke on the phone to his twin after the prick died ( yrs after i divorce him) he sounded so much like him.
In your case, it wasn’t a mistake. Plus this also was ypur sister. Dump him. Saying one had too much to drink & he ended up kissing the wrong sister…that is a poor ass excuse
So if you told them you were going to go lay down and they were left alone then he KNEW you were not her… 
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There’s no way your sister was in that bathroom with him accidentally 
they are both lying
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They are doing the deed girl. I’m sorry.
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All she had to say, is I’m not her, if what he says is true. Whether identical or not, after 5 years he should know the difference. Drop his lying ass.
Boy byeee. There’s no reason for them to ever even be in the bathroom together with the door shut. Even if he thought it was you, she knew for a fact it was your man lol so I’d leave him and definitely not trust her
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Let’s pretend he was drunk and made an honest mistake… your sister knows who she is and also who your boyfriend is. There’s no excuse for your sister to have allowed him to get close enough to kiss her. Also sounds like she was kissing back when you walked it. So shady.
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In my opinion, your sister is a snake! Even if your bf accidentally got it wrong (only because you guys are identical) she definitely knew she isn’t you and shouldn’t be kissing your bf!!
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Even if he wasn’t sure your twin knew…
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Nah they both knew get rid of them both
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Advice? Girl leave
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If it was in the middle of a room of people id want to give him the benefit of the doubt if he was out of it drunk but they were hiding away from everyone and your sister has noo excuse. I wouldn’t trust them both now if it were me
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Walks like a Duck ,Looks like a Duck, Quacks like a Duck, probably a Duck . Ditch him
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He may have thought it was “you” for a min but your sister knew for sure that he was YOUR man. They’re both lying. Nah… I would be done but that’s just me 
sorry that happened to you because now your relationship will never be the same.
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If she didn’t want it she shouldn’t of let it happen at all! She could’ve pushed him away immediately or slapped him. I’d say ditch him! You’ll never be able to trust him again and being it was with your twin it will probably just cause animosity between you! Yikes🥴
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He likes your sister not you
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You can get a new boyfriend … You can’t get a new sister. Things happen. But it happened… What If it leads to something else?..
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Yeah. This is a hard nope.
Both of them are plain awful
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Yeah I’m an identical twin as well after 30’years I figured out my twin sister had pretty much slept with every guy I had ever been in a relationship with or at least tried 
we don’t talk at all best of luck but seriously it wasn’t an accident
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Let her have him and cut her off. She will be the one to regret it.
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Well that’s one way to disappoint 2 women at the same time.
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She was appalled? Then why was he still kissing her when the sister walked in?
Sorry but even if he “didnt” know at first he def knew at some point. And ur sis knew the whole time that its ur man. I wouldnt trust either of em . Its easy to say ditch the guy… but maybe the problem is ur twin? Either way hun im sorry of ur situation b cuz it involves ur sis. Just keep ur head up and u already kno in ur heart the truth and what u need to do. Be strong. Goodluck
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5 years? He should know how to tell you guys apart very well, smells fishy to me🤷♀️
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She pushed him away because you walked in, don’t try and fool yourself please.
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What was ur sisters excuse? She knew that was your boyfriend.
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Well this whole situation is wrong, you’re sister is not loyal to you she knows that’s your boyfriend so she shouldn’t be alone in a room with him and if he came onto her thinking she was you she should have said I’m the sister this isnt ok and leave the room they both cant be trusted.
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Why was your bf and sister in a room together . You said you walk-in on them😬
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Surely there is a way of telling you pair apart ffs thats a cop out i’ve heard before when it comes to twins snogging each others men. As for your sister she certainly knew it wasn’t her man! Both of them are in the wrong and i’d be pissing them both of
What a load of BS, they are going behind your back. You just don’t kiss someone.
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Nope! Bye don’t make excuses twin or not they know! My ex husband of 10 yrs was a identical twin! I damn well knew the difference
Even if he didn’t know the difference, she did. Take it from there
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I had two sets of identical twin friends in middle school and only ever hung out with them at school, and could still tell them all apart at any given moment. You saying your man cant tell you apart after 5 years? Why was your sister alone with him in a different room in the first place if he can’t tell y’all apart? How’d he not know you went to bed? Her pushing him away sounds like she got scared that they were caught and didn’t want to be blamed for it. Nah Sis they both at fault and that’s just wrong. You don’t just accidentally kiss your sisters man. Also, if they were sober enough to apologize and tell you it meant nothing, they was sober enough to know what they was doing. Also why would she even say it meant nothing? Sounds like something a guilty person would say. If my sister got kissed by my man shit would be going down.
You can’t blame the guy I probably would’ve done the same thing tbh. But the sister you can definitely blame!
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They both knew what they were doing. If you didn’t catch them it would have escalated.
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I’m a triplet, not identical but if I were in your position I would kick him to the curb. I wouldn’t be able to get past that.
Trust your gut feelings/instinct, you know she pushed him away as you walked in. Also why were they in the bathroom together. Your sister knew you were asleep.
I’m so sorry 
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5 yrs…believe me he knows the difference
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Yet he can tell you apart every other time.
They deserve each other let her have him and walk away from both.
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If your gonna be upset at anyone, knock the livin shit outta your twin!!!
She knew exactly what she was doing.
No advice… because wow thats intense. I just wanted to say I’m sorry that happened to you and I hope you find the strength to do what’s best for you. 
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Yeah no.
You know what to do.
Bounce
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Dump his ass — N O W!!!
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They knew what was up! That’s my gut feeling, and i’m sorry. Don’t listen to either one. Don’t let them blame it on the alcohol. They were well of what they were doing and if either one of them cared for you as much as for themselves you wouldn’t have to deal with a situation like this. Don’t make up any excuse for them . They are GUILTY. HOPEFULLY IT Didn’t GO FARTHER THAN SOME KISSING.
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Being your “twin” you should know if she’s telling the truth! My opinion,they knew exactly,what they were doing!
After 5 years that man knows the difference, SMH.
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I think you know the answer but are just having a hard time accepting it. This isn’t the first time for them, by how they want to easily sweep it under the rug.
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