I’m just saying this from my experience- my husband did this. He was always on his phone at home but when I was gone and would text him I would never get a reply. Like ever. We argued about it a lot & a few weeks later I found out he was talking to someone else. Also keep in mind, Facebook messenger is not always accurate with who’s online and who isn’t… I’ve been sleeping & was told it said I was active. It’s something I would bring up to him so he knows that there’s an issue.
You’re not crazy you know exactly what’s going on… The question is what are you going to do about it
If you can’t trust him, you don’t need him.
Dose he ever put his phone down like if he going for shower or toilet. If so try see if you can get in to it and go to his message . Some man will put under other name like use boy name to hide it . You have to try see what going on ?
Ok but my man does the same if he’s out he wont answer my calls but he’ll message me and tell me where he’s at but I completely trust him also he’s always active on messenger when ever I look but one of his buddies is constantly sending him stuff so when ever he looks at it messenger says he’s active. As soon as you open the app it says your active even when you’re looking for something. I’ll usually send him a text and he’ll call me when he can. But like others have said if you can’t trust him then there’s your answer.
I’d be done with him.
Writings on the wall just gotta choose to read it
Your gut instincts are already telling you that something isn’t right. Always follow that gut instinct. You need to sit him down and have a serious discussion about this! Your feelings are valid and no your not crazy believe me been there myself before and my gut instinct was right. Reminder that he could be deleting these messages or they could be under a fake name to hide that he’s texting or calling another female . Stay strong girl! If he admits to cheating then you need to leave , a leopard never changes it’s spots!
If you like that stay if not time to go
My ex use to ignore my calls every night then call back 10 minutes later. He was definitely cheating on me.
Make a plan to save money and get out!!
He could b inocent…but in my opinion he’s being sneaky…go with your gut feeling…remember communication is the answer…prayers
Your evidence isnt overwhelming but it is mildly curious, try again to confront him before snooping on his phone, and remember a phone is not a “leash” and if you treat it like one dont be surprised if your dog pulls against it
I’d stop calling and messaging him altogether. Then when he asks why, tell him you don’t like being ignored. If he wants to talk to you, he can call or message you. If things don’t change, its time to leave. You deserve better.