If she wasn’t participating in the bullying then I don’t feel like you should be upset with her. Should she have said “leave her alone” or whatever, yeah she should have but other than that what else could she have done? You guys are adults, if no one else will stick for you, stick up for yourself. I would talk to her about how that hurt you so she has a better understanding of your feelings. Your husband though…he should really be on your side. It’s not necessarily the situation, but your feelings. If this really hurt you he should be more understanding of that and shouldn’t be making you feel worse about it. I think you need to sit down and talk to everyone and set your boundaries and expectations from everyone because it doesn’t seem like any of you are on the same page.
Sounds like some high school shit. lol
If we are married, you are one hundred percent with me and spend on me or goodbye
This woman was bullied AND let down by her so-called friend who witnessed it and did nothing to intervene. Then she was disrespected by her own husband when he learned the facts by showing her his friend means more to him than she does. Save yourself any future heartache and get out of that situation. Make a clean break… Leave the job, the husband and the “friend” and don’t look back. You don’t need that kind of abuse and disloyalty in your life.
It’s not her job to defend you. You’re an adult and should defend yourself. I think you are being immature.
There’s different ways to handle it . Sometimes in life we have to be around people we would rather not be around so we learn to tolerate them because we have to . Doesn’t mean you’ll forget she’s a pxssy or whatever, I wouldn’t forget & probably remind her eventually . But it’s your choice to be around her . Your man not supporting you or having your back … that’s worse than being bullied . He’s doesn’t seem to care for you 
And you can’t change that . I would leave .
The audacity of your husband ! I’m mad for you. I get she wanted to mind her business with it being a professional job and all but that shouldn’t even matter, the fact that your husband is choosing her side over yours is wrong. The fact that he is putting her above you is wrong!
Get yourself a male best friend at your shooting range and watch the tables turn… Your hubby does not want to and is not gonna help you… If he feels its ok for his friend to watch you be bullied then you get you a guy friend whose gonna bully him in the name of friendship… Ur not gonna drop this. If he won’t acknowledge your hurt and feelings then he is just gonna have to learn the old school way:woman_shrugging:
He’s wrong. You’re right hunny. Follow your gut and make sure you’ve got a man who has your back no matter what.
The part that is wrong is him saying he won’t shoot with you if they aren’t there. That part is crossing the line.
It takes two, but then again, I don’t like bullies, so there you go.
Why is your husband’s best friend a woman? Why are all these people jerks!?
Fuck the friend and the husband lol and also stand up for yourself. You got this girl!