He seems like a really sweet person, BUT…before I began dating this man, I told him that I care for my mother, my brother and my 3 children so I could only see him once a week. He admitted RIGHT BEFORE our first date that he did not have a driver’s license because he was a convicted felon, that he’d been caught with drugs and a firearm that he wasn’t licensed to carry. He said he was in prison for 3 years, and that he had been on his best behavior, had a legal job and his own house now. I’ve seen for myself that all of that is true BUT he has been pressuring me after only 3 months to move in with him, get married, have a child and I’m not interested in that AT ALL! On top of that, I’m the daughter of the sheriff in my old town (he’s passed away now) and I had a funny feeling in my gut so I started digging…he’s outright lied to my face about his name…he has so many aliases that I can’t keep up with them, so I can’t even find his actual arrest record because I can’t figure our which name is real. He said that he was released from prison February of 2021 yet there are photographs on his mother’s Facebook via snapchat that are timed and dated with them shopping and going out to eat when he was supposed to be in prison, so he’s lied about the date he was released. Obviously I’m going to break it off with him, but I’m just wondering if any of you have been through this with a man?
Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. I'm being pressured to move in with a man with a shady past
If there is pressure, don’t do it
You know before posting this it’s a red flag.
Oh lord. Definitely just run!! He’s no good!!
Girl, this has red flags all over it. Not sure why you’re still entertaining ANY of this. We have intuition for a reason. You already did the digging and have proof now protect yourself and end it with him instead of wasting your time and energy. Sheesh.
Run. Run now and don’t look back
Wow u better run keep running dont do it
Run and don’t look back just be done a snake considered skin but it’s still a snake
Run The foundation that your relationship is on he already messed it up by lying to you so tell him to hit the road jack
I knew someone who was in jail and he would get like a weekend out and then go back. Weird as hell but it happened.
Run… run away as fast as you can
just so many red flags here it ain’t funny…. personally, I’d hire a private investigator, find out his real name and what he’s been up to - and report it to police if it’s shady, so he can spend some more time behind bars. As for him and you being together? He’s likely a pedo and wants access to your children. Or your money. Or both
My cousin has… what a nightmare
You cant be pressured into something. If you dont want to live with him… guess what… you dont have to. You’re a grown woman. Stay away.
So many red flags get rid of him
Run now and run fast hunny you have kids period ask one the sheriff’s that know you’re dad too find his real stuff they can do that
You have three kids. If all that wasn’t a red flag to you beforehand I’m a bit worried. Don’t waste your time with this guy
Girl, contact the FBI and run. That sounds Lifetime crazy.
Regardless of any lies he may or may not have told; if you are not interested in anything you should never allow someone to pressure you into something you don’t want. And if you feel you can’t trust him…. Trust is a vital ingredient in ANY relationship.
Run and get away fast, i know ppl can rehabilitate but his shown you that he won’t change never ever
Yeah girl you need to run. Run like forest gum running out of his leg gear forreal. I can confirm after being in a relationship with a felon convicted of manufacturing meth that you need to RUN
What is the question??? Of course you should keep this man away from you and your family.
Maybe just ghost him. Cause that is too much.
So, you’re still enetertaining him, why???
Run.
First off this sounds like a book. Second yeah way too many red flags. Don’t just back away, run
Run as fast as you can
Leave him right there!!! That man doesn’t need to be near you or your kids!! Cut off all communication, if he continues take out a protective order. You never know what’s going on in someone’s head
y’all… she said she was breaking it off. she’s asking if any of us have been through it.
personally, i have not. but kudos to you for running far the fuck away from him. what a nut.
Yikes. I know people have pasts and people change but the fact that he’s lied is a big no go. Good luck
Time to run! Trust your gut!
The D Must Be Good Cause Ain’t No Way
Definitely end it if he has lied about his name
Why are you wasting your time?
Why is this even a question? LOL. He woulda been gone once I found out he lied about his name.
Why just why do all these girls keep going out or staying with these shitbag jail birds?
If you are going to be kind and actually break up with him and not just ghost him (like you probably should) PLEASE make sure someone is with you when you do it!
Omg run wtf really my gosh
So my man is a felon he spent a fair amount of time in prison which I knew when we started talking I didnt know what for or any of that I didnt want to judge…but he told me why plus told me things about his past that I wouldnt find on his record to include alias hes a good man to me and my kids and a good father to ours together and my kids from a previous marriage hes a hard worker and is honest sooooo I wouldnt be so concerned with his past HOWEVER he lied why tell u some and not all and then to flat out lie about the time line is messed up and it’s not like he wouldnt remember the date he got out no matter how far away we get away from my mans freedom date we still celebrate on that day every yr it’s not something they forget again the fact that hes a felon is so much less concerning then that fact that he lies about it!!
You already know the answer to your question, if you had to ask then you need to rethink your decision.
Girl say bye and be done!
Cut all ties with him. He sounds so shady.
“Being pressured” …how old are you?
Run & Don’t look back!!!
Run as fast as you can.
Wow. Now this is some interesting drama… i likey…
Ps. Sorry i have nothing better to offer or say💁♀️.
Yes , I was lied to from the beginning and I fell in love with him . He had lied about his last name and he also had been in prison twice found out after we got pulled over and he was driving and he had a warrant out for his arrest … I can pull his name up and see his mugshots … He made promises said he had money and had his own place and his family had a million dollar business and traveled drilling … My dumbass stuck out and believed him for almost 2 years and he dumped me . When he went to Las Vegas to work , so don’t trust him ,dump him now . You deserve better remember that . No relationship should start off with lies …
When does the show start? Cause if you don’t walk away you gonna be the next dramacon
Con artist!! 
Glad you have enough sense to dump his sorry ass! 
Red flags, red flags!! Run the other way fast!!
Wow !!! Run !! If anything else get a protection order today !!! 
things could go south extremely fast after you tell him you aren’t comfortable with the relationship anymore very proud of you digging that’s how most women get in very bad bad situation your dad taught you right 
good job protection those babies and yourself 
Is this a serious question? You have children. Do not risk anything. Period.
Girl leave him because if he’s lied already then he’ll keep lying but be careful abt leaving because men like him can go psycho seriously
Why do I even follow this page? And who comes up with these questions? Are you women or men that dumb? Seriously? Time to delete this page! Fucken stupid!!
Girl, you have 3 kids to raise, why are you even entertaining a man like this!? Say bye and find someone worth your time.
Get out before you even start! So many red flags and usually your gut is spot on! Worry about your kids! This man doesn’t need to be around them at all!
My gut reaction to this is Good thing your gonna drop him so you don’t end up on a Bailey Sarian episode of him going to jail for using insurance money he got from your death. RUN.
Damn I feel for you, I’m thankful I haven’t had to go through that. I’m so glad you are leaving!
So you’re still dating him??? Wtf lol
This has GOT to be a joke right?! He was caught with a gun and went to prison!!! And you’re willing to be with him? Hell no. Not with 3 kids. Red flags all over the place.
Why is this even a question…if he’s lying…leave him
Holy shit just block him and move on. Fml
Surely some of these issues posted are made up. Women get a brain.
I stopped reading after “I’m being pressured to move in with a man”. No one should be pressuring you to move in with them and you shouldn’t be allowing yourself to be pressured regardless of his past
I mean… there’s nothing anyone in here could tell you 
leave and stop putting your kids in danger. You’re “dating” a legit crazy person
What is the point of this post exactly? 
Yes and RUN AND DON’T LOOK BACK… FILE A RESTRAINING ORDER
… I’m sorry, what’s the question here? He’s a shady guy with a shady past. Your gut is telling you to run… So run.
If you ignore these HUGE RED FLAGS then idk anymore. He needs to focus on himself and you don’t need to get yourself I to a bad situation.
Run…most likely an abuser they love to isolate you and make you depend on them…
Can’t say that I have otherthan the LIFETIME movies I 
Run,as fast and as far as you can.
Block him and don’t see him anymore
I hope he doesn’t know where you live or where your kids go to school… definitely break it off and be cautious… you have no idea what he is capable of…
It’s a trap! Don’t do it. Break it off and run for the hills.
She said shes leaving him, I think she was just wondering if anyone of us had gone through the same thing. Maybe she’s afraid? Maybe she’s just trying to find comfort since she cares for this guy?
Really not sure what advice you’re looking for ?
Hes an ex con…yes I know everyone deserves a second chance…but…
You told him once a week because you have commitments. Hes lied to you . Hes putting pressure on you to marry him.
You dont know which name is real
I honestly don’t know which red flag to work first.
Hard No! 3 months is way to soon… people make mistakes but his manipulative behavior is still an issue. Nope nope nope… don’t do it!
Save yourself, WALK AWAY!! Nothing good ever comes from lies, especially when it comes to a relationship! He sounds pretty shady if you ask me!
Time to dump him and move on! Keep him away from your children!
Just know that you need to increase yourself security and safety practices when you leave. He could be really upset about that and dangerous.
This is all on you. You knew all of this and didn’t run.
How you going to take his last name if you don’t even know it lol but seriously run hunny. Hes trying to trap you and he’s a liar. He could have a warrant rn and you don’t even know…
I’m seriously started to wonder if the posts and this page are serious ?? I mean really? Do you really need to be told to leave him? Come on now
Did ANY of you read the WHOLE post?? She said she’s clearly going to leave him. Seriously starting to wonder if these comments are serious??
Noooo. I’ve had my fair share of bs. But that’s crazy
Watch ur back n leave him
& yes she said she’s not going to live with him but she’s still seeing him lol she’s asking us because she’s still thinking about this. And there’s nothing to think about anymore lol other than worry he’s going to stalk you
Is this even a serious question? Is he holding a gun to your head? You’re a big girl. Use your brain
Break Up & Leave Girl.
I wouldn’t just leave him but I would also get a PFA. Sounds like someone that won’t let you go easy.
Nope! his red flag was flying when you first started talking to him and you ignored it.
After I married my first husband his brother accidentally let it slip that he had been in prison. This was all crazy news to me because he had just joined the army. I guess they gave him a waiver for his felony charge idk.
A no good villain. RUN FOR YOUR LIFE.
He’s a liar. Run sis…
Omg girl… When you leave him please be very careful. He could be severely deranged. I’ll even offer you to come stay with me in the holler till this blows over. He wont find you here I promise.
Ó run from him sounds like a pysco
How do you know he’s not WANTED somewhere right now?! With so many different names in his record… I’d be calling the police
Run! I have and it was horrible
Don’t need to go through this with a man to know this will only hurt your children and yourself !