You sound like a selfish narcissistic witch. I feel so sorry for your husband.
Creating finishes what it starts. I will say no more.
Fuck vows go with ur heart. U get one true love.
You are fucked up. And honestly donāt deserve to have anyone in your life. Fair weather ass mfer
Read the book attached the re evaluate.
Life is too short. The love of my life and I fucked around with our relationship for years. He moved to the other side of the country with another woman (gutter whore). We always had contact. He came home a couple of times in the year he was away. He then came back for Xmas 2018 to spend it with me and his daughter. We talked every day for the 5 days he was here. We worked through everything that had stuffed our relationship in the past. I told him what I wanted in my future and he was totally on board to share it with me. He flew back to Broome, packed up his life in his car and started the journey home. Unfortunately a tyre blew on his car, it rolled over 7 times (he was in the middle of the outback). He managed to get out of the car but passed away before anyone found him. To this day, I cry and hate myself because I couldnāt save him. Life is a mystery. Love isnāt guaranteed so when you find it, do ANYTHING to hold onto it
They have names for women like you!!
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You are probably just in heat.
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You are a home wrecker
You are delusional if you. Think you are not
Give your self an upper cut
Sounds like you are perfect for each other 
Women so quick to just jump on quick thoughts smh
I think this site is a fake
RUN! Run like the wind. Donāt stop, keep on running.
How would you feel if you found out your husband was doing this? Meeting up with someone that still has feelingsā¦to be brutal you need to make a choice!
Stop living two lives, noone can have the best of both worlds.
You dont want to be a home wrecker yet you are in your own home living a lie?
Im sorry, i really hate being so brutally honest but you made your choice years ago, its marriage you cant shout out ātake backiesā on a whole marriage because some twat has finally said the words youve longed to hear for many years!
He is sucking you in girl!!
Hereās hoping you actually honour your vows to your poor husband and dont drop yer knickers for this old flame, tbh your husband would be far better of without you you absolute cretinā¦
I understand. It is tough.
This sounds like the plot from the NetFlix series SexLife 
Like exactly the sameā¦
So yāall meet up in the middle of Walmart parking lot?
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Personal experience, I lived with a woman for a while before I married a different woman, who may have been a rebound match. The woman I lived with aws going through a divorce at that time. She had one child and was pregnant with another one by her husband. She was done with him and I knew she loved me very much. When I broke it off with her I actually went into hiding because I was young and needed it to end with her. She found me though and with tears in her eyes begged me to come back to her which I didnāt do. I then started dating another single woman who became my wife. I did meet the other woman about a year after my marrige and she still had love for me and told me she wanted me back, I declined and stayed faithful to my wife for 33 years and 5 children then my wife divorced me because she wanted her old life back. I never looked for the other woman even though I did think of her from time to time, but the past must be forgotten.
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Oh my goodness I feel bad for your husband 
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Jesus. Your poor husband.
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Both of you are awful people honestly
Sounds like you belong to the streets.
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Honestly, your time has passed.
Sounds like you just love dick
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They can say all the right things but in the end they never leave their spouses
If neither one of you can be 100% faithful to your current spouse. What makes you think our relationship with him will work. I married my first husband until death do us part. He was ill our entire time together. Get more stomach surgery done on him than I can ever imagine. Eventually ended up in the hospital for a full year. The doctors would let them home every other weekend so we had time with him. And also because insurance companies are idiots but thatās a different story. If you canāt be faithful to your current husband now you wonāt be faithful to this Person either and neither will he to you. I hope and pray that you do not have children even if theyāre adults. They still need the guidance and the full understanding that when you marry itās for life. You donāt run away because the person is sick. To me thatās a very low personļæ¼ļæ¼ļæ¼ļæ¼
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He doesnāt love you, he loves the idea of you. Sounds like he wants the best of both worlds. Donāt think for 2 seconds what he is doing to his wife he wonāt do to you when heās bored or had enough. Also if you have any respect for youāre marriage I would tell youāre husband and not keep him in the dark.
The fact he didnāt commit to you back then and is now telling you he loves you behind the back of his wife speaks volumes. Even if you did get together heās proved more than once he canāt be trusted. Youāre in love with the idea and the fantasy but the reality will be very different. He had his chace years ago and chose to walk away so he canāt love you that much. You both need to take a look in the mirror and stand by your wedding vows. People donāt magically change, itās easy to say the right things over the phone and by text but following it through with actions is different and he has already proved he wonāt. He made vows with another woman and now times are hard heās going behind her back with another woman. Let go of the fantasy and work on your marriages.
This is how my husband abandoned me after 18 years. An emotional secret relationship. I was devastated. Guess what? He left her after 10 years. Some men just crave what they donāt already have. Heāll leave you too after you destroy your current partners.
I got married two years ago but, 8 days after we got married my husband left me for a prostitute that he told me he had been cheating with. 10 months after we got married the prostitute gave birth to supposedly his baby. The baby was born with serious defects n passed away after 3 months. He came over recently and said he doesnāt want to lose me but, he left for days again. I found long black hairs on his side of the bed on the floor, on his clothes and in his laundry basketā¦she has long black hair. My hair is shaved n he is baldā¦i donāt know where he/they live/sleep either. He comes here when heās hungry, sleeps for 2-3 days and is gone again. HE alone decided to have an open marriage only for him though. Iām not interested n anyone else. I remain faithful and lonely on the island.
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You shouldnāt have married ur husband and he shouldnāt have married his wife, if those people were so disposable to you. Unless ur husband and his wife are on board with dissolving their marriages, you two shouldnāt destroy their worlds. There is only one rule in this lifeā¦. to treat everyone with love and respect. The fact that you use the words, āwe are soooo in loveā indicates immaturity. That feeling will temper down with age, and youāll be left with the negative karma you created.
I mean, you could always attempt polyamory. Yaāll could gently bring it up to your spouses and see their thoughts on it. But be prepared for the answer to be no, and drop contact afterwards because that would be the moral thing to do.
Time to cut the ties and stop living in a what could have been world.
If youāve always hoped or longed for this relationship, how can you even say youāve given your all to your spouse? You never actually cared for your spouse if you can so easily forget about his health issues and run to another man that isnāt your husband, that you didnāt make vows to.
Cut him off. Stop playing with fire because, I promise you, the grass is greener where you water it.
For all you know. He is bored and knows he can get some play time with you because youāre vulnerable and, sorry, weak to him.
If youāre not happy with your current husband divorce. Tell him the truth youāre not in love with him. Itās not fair for him. Otherwise cut the ties with your x because thatās just the Devil trying to ruins you.
Wow, it took him long enough! Why after all of your history? Why now? You deserve better. Move forward not backwards.
Not that I want to quote the resident expert whose prescience is didactic but
āWith a taste of your lips, Iām on a ride
Youāre toxic, Iām slippinā under (toxic)
With a taste of a poison paradise
Iām addicted to you
Donāt you know that youāre toxic?ā
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I see 2 choices here
Either do the right thing and be honest with your husband and leave him or
Stay with your husband and keep away from the other bloke
End of the day no one is a winner here cos he would have to leave his marriage as well in order for you two to work but please donāt go down the cheating route
Itās simple: Trade places with your husband. How would you feel if he wanted to dump you because of your illness? Shame on you.
Then trade places with Lover Boyās wife. Maybe she knows he has not been faithful to her in the past so she is not as attentative. Possibility? How would feel?
Yeah. Thatās what I thought.
Itās called lust. Grow up and stay loyal to your husband.
You can never be sure that heās wife doesnāt have time for him,maybe itās him that doesnāt have time for her,honestly sounds like heās a player and the fact that heās married,undoubtedly proves that he is a player,one things for certain heās gutless
Couldāve, shouldāve, wouldāve. Put up a picture of your wedding, or relook at photoās of your weddingā¦embrace your marriage, the sooner you do you will realize your husband is your forever !
The entire issue with this post is you. Go ahead and leave your husband so he can find someone who doesnāt want to rekindle old feelings with someone else because he has āhealth issues.ā
Let that guy go. Of course things are fireyā¦they always are at first. Iām sure things were like that at first with yr husband too. But donāt go turning to the man who didnāt want u when u were available but does now that yr taken. Youāre MARRIED and people need to stop acting like itās some regular relationship you can just walk away from when things arenāt like a romance movie anymore. If you donāt believe in the vows, donāt get married. Plain and simple.
Life is to short, and now it really is to short! With warās and pandemic of various types, u have to do what makes u happyā¦have an affair!!!
Well my ex was complaining to who ever would listen about me not being there me not paying attention to him blah blah blahā¦I was a stay at home mom and did everything for this man you could think of
Long story short he just wants the attention of someone else,and I bet his poor wife has no idea what a doosh he really is if heās so I happy get a divorce.
Shame on you to even think you should do that. Heās from your past so let it stay in the past. Take care of your husband who needs you the most. Let that go!!!
My grandmother taught me one very valuable thing. If you are not happy in your marriage and have tried, go. Live your life. These archaic views of being a āhomewreckerā are ridiculous. Itās not 1950. Make yourself happy. I wouldnāt want to be married to someone who was in love with someone else, and Iām sure neither your husband nor his wife would want to, either. And to those of you who have never had to care for some one with major cognition issues, full time, just stay quiet. You have no idea what that is like to live through and you have no place
You are already cheating. So leave your husband and let him find someone who actually loves him thru sickness and health !
True love is an action, a choice, a commitment.
Divorce time, unfair to everyone staying in a loveless relationship
Girl move on. Heās in love with getting in those pants
The right person at the wrong time is still the wrong person.
He is looking for a side chick
Tears for your Husband.
Heās playing a sick game with you and his wife
You donāt k ow whethet hos wife is or isnāt thete for himā¦you only know what HE WANTS YOU TO KNOWā¦Donāt go there, stay true to your marriage.
Sometimes, you marry the wrong person 
Grass is always greenerā¦NOT!
Do either of you have kids??
He declined a relationship because he didnāt know where he would have to move toā¦yet Youse have seen each otherā¦canāt be moving that farā¦
U both need to be honest with Ur spouses, what youāre doing flirting etc is really hurtful.
He is a giant turd who is playing you girl and you are falling for it. He is slagging off the wife and your trying to justify your behaviour. You should both be up front with your partners and take this passion forward. Mind you, it will be short lived.
Heās married and Shouldnt be discussing such things with you. your lucky she doesnt tear you and him a new asshole i dont care how in love yall are he committed to her the moment they were married regardless of how you feel or he feels
He is someone elses husband and obviously he is not someone id want to be married too. They all say, āShe doesnt have time for me, blah blah blahā easy way to be a cheater and someone find that a reasonable reason to move past the fact they are married. I feel sorry for your husband too. U both are liars and disrespectful. Get a divorce and see if he wants you the way he says he does. Doubt it
Stupido! You just want to get out of your miserable life with your sick husband. Stop blaming your long lost loverās wife for having mo time to his husband! Youāre truly a home wrecker looking for a valid excuse to have a lust trysts again with your old no-string attached bed-mate!
You are a lousy āwifeā and probably somewhat of a whore. I mean you sound like a good woman, your husband has some health issues and your answer is to leave him because of it??? You give woman a bad name and I seriously hope this other guy uses you and your lady parts and leaves you like he did years back. I donāt know you or your husband but it sounds like you donāt deserve him and Iām sure you cheated already seeing as you sound like a teenager (mentality). What is it you are looking for from Facebook??? Validation??? I hope you get what you deserve and I hope your husband finds a good woman because it def isnātāt you. Skank.
Ah here we go again. Another tragic story 
Just two cheating ppl making excuses!
I think Iām going to be sick
OMG. Ditto in every way. I hope you get what you want xxx
People like you are the problem
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You a bad person fr
Go to hell
Youāre in a pickle it sounds like
Shame the fuck on you!!! Your husband would be better off without a bitch like you!!!
Through sickness and through health