Is 23 to old to start over?

You need to get out of that relationship and parents are a good first step

Walk on. Respect yourself. I spent over 30 years with a serial cheat. Don’t give him any more of your precious time.

23 ? wow you’re just a kid, it is Never too late, unless you are dead. some people, get high school and or college well into their 50’s or sixties and beyond. Hang in there and go for your dreams.

Never too late! Show your little one how strong you are and stand up for yourself!

When you can go back to school…dont let age be a factor.

It’s never to late to start a new and better life with your children.

Never too late, sweetheart. I’ll bet your parents would be willing to help.

Never a better time than now to take care of yourself. If you want to move on you have to love yourself and never depend on someone else to take care of you. sounds like you have parents who will help you by taking care of your baby while you go to school. This is your perfect time to better yourself and move on with no backwards regrets. Do it.

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Your 23, not 83! You’re never too old to kick a deadbeat goodbye and start over! Best of luck

Your never too young to start over. I did when I turned 30. I have no regrets.

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Never too old. I went back to college at 56

I am 46 and went back to college it’s never to late

You will know when it is time to leave. You are so smart not to put up with that garbage. Your family will be there for you. The best of luck to you. Go girl!

Never too late , now is the time you do you for yourself and your little one ! You are still young , and have plenty of time in the future for any kind of relationship ! Good luck to you and your little one !

Your never too old to start over. You have to take care of yourself in order to care for your child. Go to to college.

I went to college for the first time at 37

Stop wasting your precious time! Move on & strive for a better life for your child and yourself!

No its not too late, u need to get away from him. U will be much happier

23 is a perfect age to jump back into school. Now 63 that’s old.

Move on even though it may be hard. Your child’s dad evidently doesn’t really care. Maybe tells you lies just to keep and use you.

Go for it. I started over at 33. It’s not easy or romantic like movies would have you believe, but its worth it. It gets easier, and better. And you do find romance. Work on saving yourself and your five year old. Don’t look for another man to save you. Even if one offers. Standing on your own gives you inner power and value. Once you have it you will be unstoppable. Good luck!

Start over and go back to school if you can. If your parents are willing, take them up on the offer and dedicate yourself to getting your degree and rising up for yourself!

Start over 23 you will have learned just take the baby and start over you will be so glad you did he isn’t the one!

You must do this for yourself and for your child. NEVER take him back. Move on, your whole life is in front of you.

You are to young to not start over. Since you have the opportunity to move back home, go and don’t look back. You are stressing your daughter out living in an argumentative home. You are on the right track with what you want to do with your life so do it. You are too young to let your dreams be deferred being with someone who doesn’t have the same goals. He is not worth the fight. God be with you my dear.

Absolutely go for it, my daughter and her 1 year old live with me so that she can get back on her feet!

No not too late, go to school and live with your parents. Yoou will not be sorry!!!~~

The only thing worse than spending one more day with a loser man like that is spending one more day and one minute …get out now… stop wasting your time and get on with your life do something with it he will regret it. wishing you the best of luck.

I took my first college course at 48 and continued with two degrees. Certainly 23 is not too old.

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You’re NEVER too old!! I started over at 50, so it’s never too late to find your happy!

Starting over is a new leaf and a new chapter in your life. Its never too late too be happy and enjoy life with you little one. Its never too late too better yourself.

It’s never to late to start over I’m 51 and I’m still wondering about starting over I lost my wife last January she passed away it’s only been a year for and half you do you you can go to college but just remember your daughter is the one you are doing this for just not you. You just need to put this Gods hands let him Lead the way for you and those ideas when God closes one door he always opens another one for you so just pray about it and let him see what he answers you but it’s never too late to start over

No way, you are not too old. You are young! And you will still be young when you finish school. Good plan! I’m rooting for you.

The years will pass wether you do it or not, so just do it.

No way is it too old! Kudos to you for wanting more and recognizing you (& your little) deserve it.

I was in my 30s when I went to college!! You can do it. You are never to old to start over and be happy. Do you girl!

23 is not too early to start over. You have the rest of your life​:grinning::grinning:

Go for it. You owe it to that child and mostly to yourself

No, moving back home to get back on your feet. Why not. 23 not to old. Go back to school. Just keep your head up an move on. God bless you

It would not be starting over . It would be starting with the knowledge you collected during your last 5 years .Good luck

Your not to old for anything I did not get my degree until.I was 40. Then my husband died ibretired from phone company went to class got my CNA certification when i was in my sixties. Your never to old. Just keep busy and keep learning. Yes you can

You are not too old, you’re still very young. It’s never too late to start over!! You have goals…. GO for them!!!

It sounds like a great plan go for it. You are not too old.

I went back to college when I was 34. I’ve never regretted it!

Never too late. Don’t wait hoping for a change that doesn’t happen.

I went back to school when I was 57/58 years old and got a 3.89 GPA and got my Associates degree in a medical field.

No, it is never too late! Get away from that dude and improve you and your daughter’s lives.

Do it! Become something your child will be proud of!

23 is just beginning. If you were 50 it would be never be to late to start a new beginning. Sounds like you got a good plan. Try doing at home on line Customer Service. You can make good money & never leave your house. Good luck. Stay strong. Never give up! Never Surrender!

Do not waste another moment thinking about it ,do it .Today is the start of a new and wonderful journey in your life .

Start over? You are still so young. Best to learn from it and go forward and try not to find one like him again!

You’re never too old to start over. I was in my 40’s, mom to 4 kids, and while I held a full time job in the daytime I went to college at night to better myself. Never give up.

Never. We women go through trying times. When we have those babies motherhood never stops.

Oh honey you are a baby!! You aren’t starting over…you are just starting! I became a widow when I was 42 and had to start over. I went back to school and got my nursing license so I could support my youngest ( who was still in high school) and myself. I had always worked some part time job during my married life but never made enough to support us! It was just extra income and something for me to do.if you have a good relationship with your parents and they are agreeable then by all means stay with them till you get on your feet. Give yourself an attainable time limit to achieve your goals to be independent. You got this! You have your whole life ahead of you!

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Your never to.old to start again. Don’t let life pass you by. You go for it x

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You arevstill young. You can go back home and start over. Going back to school is a good idea.

Out with the old and damaged , in with the new and positive! Go for it

Go for something that pays the highest wages. Nurse, Dr, dentist, you can do it.

I returned to school in my 40’s. I had a PhD at 53. It’s never too late. Visualize what you want. Make a plan. Visit a school counselor. Go for it. Btw I’m now a college instructor. Don’t let anything stop you. Don’t let anyone tell you you can’t. YOU CAN!!!

So I’m in my 60’s and had to move in with my Parents in my 20’s who I have to say were great. The only problem area I found was the kitchen, Mum continued cooking meals that I loved but I liked the more modern food. We compromised I cooked at the weekend, I worked in London and would have been home to late to cook during the week and Mum did the week days. It was great all round. As you want to study and you have a toddler then going back to your parents does seem the best option. I pray everything works out for you, your child and that your parents.

Started over at 29… Started by renting a room, and minimized my expenses until I had more financial security. I had no help… But I did it. I found more of myself that I knew existed, I regained my confidence, And I am so happy now. I met someone new who makes me happy, and loves me like I deserve.

On a side note… Try your best to find an agreement for custody without fighting. Family court can help you, but if you can do it on your own mutually DO IT! Your child will be stronger knowing you both cared enough to keep that portion of their life stable. My kids go their dad’s Fri-sun and we rotate Thursdays to keep it fair between us, but whatever work for your schedules. GOOD LUCK MAMA, YOU CAN DO ANYTHING.

You are never too old!! I’m 63 and I’m speaking from experience. I had 4 kids and went back to school in my mid 30s. Best thing I ever did. You are not too old!

You are never yo old to go to school. Last time I went i was 52.

You are in the prime of your life.Dont waste it with this loser.Get out and go to school, get a degree and be good to yourself and your child.

You are not to young get out and do what’s best for you and your child if you dont you will waste you life

You’re still a Kid!! Start over! Everyday is a new day with lots of new choices & decisions!!

It is never to late to restart your life.

You are never to old to start over just make better choices next time!

Get out ASAP!! U R NOT TO OLD TO START OVER. THE LONGER U WAIT THE HARDER IT WILL B. HE WON’T CHANGE. LET THE OTHER GIRLS HAVE HIM.

Definitely not too old. I was 25 with 2 children and went 4 years to college and then on to medical school to become a physician. Go for it!

I started over at 38 and it was the best thing for me and my kids. Never let anyone treat you or your child bad.

23 is young. You have a lifetime ahead of you. Go for your dreams

Sit down with your parents and set some basic ground rules. You know; I am a mother, 23. You need to respect each others space, offer suggestions, not criticize on either side. Your child. Set bedtime. tv rules. I was 21, on my own in the military. I got pregnant. Not planned. I had more problems with my Dad. He wanted to control my life like I was a teenager. I went right back to my nursing job, cleaned, cooked, did laundry. It took me moving out when she was 9 mo old to break his hold. Financially I had no choice at the time, but it wasn’t a cake walk! Communication is key. Good luck.

I left my husband of 13 years. I was 43 and started over. So no you are not to old

I stayed until I was 32. Then I still stayed, but kicked him out. I got my GED at 29, then went to medical assisting school and graduated first in my class. It didn’t help increase my income much, so after a few years, I went to Kent State University (it was very close, so an easy commute) and graduated with honors with a BS in Elementary Education…at age 40. All through the 80s, I went to school. The entire time I was dealing with a teenage son with serious behavior problems. It was hard…to survive financially, to find time to study, to deal with my youngest son and the juvenile court system with no support from his dad, my family or his older brother who went into the Navy. But I persevered, through my tears and gritted teeth. Through health issues, through loss of my home and horses.
But I got everything back…on my own…home, land, horses. It was hard…but so worth it. I only wish I had done it sooner. Do it. Do it now. You got this!

If he’s doing it now he’s not going to stop. You’re still young. Your life is just beginning.

You are a young lady with your life ahead of you.dont waste your time on someone who would rather be with others than you.his loss.reach for the stars and you will get there.never too old follow your dreams love to you and your daughter xx🌈

Never to late to start over. Twenty three is young sweetheart. Go for it. Get your education & take the high road. I’ve been knocked down & got back up more times than I care to count. Always tried to keep moving forward & making my life better. I will be 79 come September so speaking from experience.

I left my ex husband at 23 and I had twins that were 3 and a 2 year old so you can do what you have to do!!

Nope I did it after 16 years being with my ex husband with 2 kids and I was 33.

No, I was 24 when I went back to school. You won’t regret it

Honey a lot of peoples lives don’t even start until mid to late 20s please don’t waist your life waiting on a man.

It’s never to late to start over again. Get your child away from him, he’s a loser…

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Not to old. U just feel old cause of ur circumstances if ur parents dont mind go for it. It helps to have help

Go for it! You will feel accomplished and more in control. It’s never too late to get an education! Good luck!

23 yrs you ve got your whole life ahead of you cut that loser out of your life and make a better happier life for you and your dauģhter

Seriously?–give him the child and start your life over–you deserve better and let him be tied down with a child

Never to old to start over, but honey you are far from old. You do what you have to do for you and your child. Good luck in whatever you decide to do.

The only worse than 6 yrs is 6 yrs and a day. U r stronger than u think!

It’s never too late to start over to be happy!

No it is not. You can do this. You can do anything and don’t forget that. Life will get better for you. Just make up your mind to do it. YOU GO GIRL

Baby!! I had 3 kids and started school of cosmetology school when I was in my 30’s. My then husband and I split up. But let me tell you, I had more fun in my 30’s than I ever dreamed about as a teenager!! If it’s possible to go back home and go to college, Do it!!! It actually makes the breakup less traumatic, because you meet new friends and live life. Build a future for yourself and child. Because obviously you cannot defend on that man!!

At 23 you’re just a baby. My evil husband prevented me from going to nursing school twice, once when I was 21 and then again when I was 27. Each time I had completed a difficult course of prerequisites and was accepted into a nursing program. Finally,
when I was 35, I managed to circumvent all his obstacles and went back to school, graduating at 37. I had a wonderful nursing career for 25 years and was able to jettison that bum and support my three kids by myself. I’m now retired with a pension. So go for it!!

I did it at 32 with 3 kids. Your never too old to better yourself or start over

Go back to school I did it it with three kids in my forties and don’t regret a bit of my life change after a divorce I have never been happier with my life choices after my cheating husband of 20 year

You just a kid if it doesnt feel right get out go home and start again

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Never to old to start over. Am 42 and have started new chapters in my life many times. Life is for living and u r worth more.

kick him to the curb. come on 23 is nothing. I started over at 40. do it

It is never to late to start over! It will only get better when you do.

Baby I’m 37 and starting over for the 3rd time in my life, with 3 kids.
Do what’s best for you and your baby.