It depends on the situation. If it’s female friends then that’s one thing cause you have to let your SO have healthy relationships outside of you (yes friendships are a type of relationship) but if it’s a bunch of half naked girls then I understand where you would feel disrespected. Every relationship is different as every person has different views and you come to compromises differently. I would definitely suggest setting the boundary before getting serious with someone if it’s not something you’re comfortable with.
Doesn’t bother me if they are his friends pictures. He has several women friends
I don’t mind if my husband likes a girls post or pictures because I trust him 100%… but he doesn’t ever even hardly get of facebook unless I tag him in something and he would never like a girls picture. He says its a respect thing.
Personally for me, that’s a hard nooooo…look and keep scrolling. No need to like it
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I don’t have an issue with my husband liking other girl pictures. As long they’re not half naked pics🤣 I like others guys pictures that I am/used to be friends with so it doesn’t bother me if he likes other girls pics
No. I dont think he should be “liking” other females pictures. He is obviously trying to get her attention. What else would he do that for?. It is a no for me. Just take a look and move on. Lol
Don’t be so insecure.
The only thing that’s not okay is if he makes inappropriate comments. And I don’t mean “You’re beautiful” or something like that.
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Personally my fiancé and I just don’t like other men or women’s pictures unless it’s like a family photo or a family member. But that’s just what we do I think it really depends on how comfortable with it you are. It’s not that either of us are uncomfortable with it we just feel as though we’ve got what we want in each other and are too busy to be checking out other people on social media. If it’s something that truly makes you uncomfortable just talk to him about it like an adult. Don’t get mad or yell at him or anything just tell him hey I’m not that ok with this, or ask him who she is. Window shopping is fine you just can’t buy what your looking at. My fiancé looks at other girls but that doesn’t bother me because I know he’s got the one he wants in me.
Not at all. If that’s the trust level you have with your SO then it’s time to move on.
If you would’ve asked me this 4-5 years ago it would’ve bothered me… now it doesn’t I’m married with two kids and he’s been with my sensitive ass this long he’s not going anywhere.
Have you ever liked a mans picture? And by liking it not “liking” it for wrong reasons? Yeah? That is a thing. My husband likes women’s pictures he knows, and I like men’s pictures that I know. Even like some that I don’t personally know but it’s not for the wrong reasons. Not every man or woman does this out of ill intent.
Honesty I don’t see an issue with it if you’re not insecure and/or have trust issues in your relationship 🤷🏼♀
The only times I’ve ever cared is when it’s hearting every pic from a person and obviously trying to get their attention. In general if they’re not flirting or doing more it doesn’t matter imo.
I couldn’t care less if they like photos.
What kind of girls?
Former school friends?
Then no you shouldn’t mind
Ex girlfriend’s who he dated for a couple years?
Yeah, I’d mind.
Hot/sexy Models on social media?
Yeah, I’d mind.
Only you know the true context. It’s all relative.
It’s like the “whistle” or cat call…definitely not ok.
nope it’s natural to look. I even point them out to my bf. hes home with me at night. and he points them out to me to.
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I think so my so hides it and it’s an issue
My husband doesn’t have any kind of social media. But he does get on mine to like other women’s photos and comment how beautiful they are. I could care less. He comes home to me and loves me. What does it matter??
I believe women check out women a whole lot more than men do so I’ll put a heart on a beautiful woman’s picture , so I will most definitely expect my hubby to. I’m just saying they can be married but they are not blind!
If is a famous woman I don’t really care lol my husband’s main crush is Sofia Vergara and he likes her pictures. I don’t feel any way about it and he doesn’t hide it either.
Do you really need to “like” a picture on social media? Spare her feelings. It’s disrespectful.
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It’s disrespectful & I bet if you did the same & liked other men’s photos he would get really mad!
It’s a like, nothing wrong with liking someone’s picture. Now, if he were to comment something like sexy, or beautiful, then I would have a problem with it. You have to pick and choose your battles. Is a like really that serious? This is why social media ruins relationships.
It depends…if their friends and I know the girl I don’t mind…I have guy friends that like my pictures…and he has female friends that like his pictures…
I personally dont care but it depends on the situation of course. A example it if he likes a picture of a Instagram model or even a porn pic i give 0 fucks, but if hes trying to talk to them or leave pervy comments, saves the pictures, not ok with that. Everyone is human and everyone looks at other ppl, even us ladies do it whether they will admit ot or not, doesnt mean we wanna get at that person or intrested, just looking 
actions and mind setting is the importance of the situation. Stop acting like looking at ppl or pictures is a crime UNLESS they have a history with cheating or trying to talk to them ect.
Lol. Very interesting topic!
I have a problem with it if it’s an ex or my SO had any type of “relationship” with that female, if the female is being hoe-ish 
, if it’s someone I don’t know personally or never introduced to, and if this female is single or not. To me, it’s disrespectful.
It all has to do with how secure you are in the relationship. Not necessarily how secure you are with yourself.
I think I’m an attractive person and NO i don’t think I’m the most beautiful thing on earth…I mean geez…I’ve got flaws for sure and I know everyone isn’t going to find me attractive and I’m ok with that. BUT….trust in the relationship is a huge factor and also just showing respect.
You should be able to let your SO know it bothers you and he should respect your feelings and not do it. Point blank!
Liking photos is not wrong…however pay attention to the patterns. For example, let’s say he’s following a girl name Lucy.
Lucy posts photos of her kids and or s/o. but you notice that your husband likes NONE of those. Instead, he hearts all the ones where she’s alone and wearing “revealing” clothes (aka: sexy photos) or with her friends all glammed up. If this is a pattern you see with all his friends/coworkers that’s a red flag for me.
With celebs, I’m in a mix with this one. I like photos of Henry Cavill or Dwayne Johnson, so I know he will like some of Scarlet Johansson or Shakira for example.
However, I draw the line on those accounts that are technically soft core porn. (In our household, porn is a huge No. I know people have completely normalized it, but until you see someone get consumed by porn and have it ruin their lives, then they will understand why I’m 100% against it)
I don’t care if my wife likes other women’s photos. I like other women’s photos on fb.
I wouldn’t have a problem with it. It’s social media…and it’s a “like” no big deal.
It’s not the liking of photos that you should be cautious about… it’s if the liking of photos turns into private convos in the pms or dms that would raise alarm bells. My ex used to like female friends photos as I did with my male friends… it was the conversations in pms that raised an eyebrow, especially the convos that were set to secret or muted once he was home from work lol
It depends on the photo contents and their relationship with said person, in my relationship anyhoo 
There is nothing wrong with showing another woman or man some likes if they looking good, BUT if it is an inappropriate then yes.
Only if you’re fragile. Because your trust sure is. 
“Liking” photos or posts on social media does not bother me at all. Can’t control what a grown man does on social media.
First of all, I’m honestly surprised at how many of you are saying it’s not ok or disrespectful. Like, WHAT?!?! My husband has tons of female friends just like I have male friends. I can’t imagine being in a relationship where you had to worry about some stupid likes on FB.
If it makes their wife, girlfriend uncomfortable then yes it is wrong of them to do it if they know how it makes them feel
Omg grow up. This isnt high school. Im sure u want to like some guys pic. The world is co ed and there are too many ppl out there with so many insecurities, they even post stuff like this. Like go see a therapist instead of getting free input from a lot of fucked up strangers. Everyone is different. And u arent going to like what they say, and when u let too many ppl in ur business or ur love affairs u will let it rip ur affairs right out of ur arms. So if u have to question this, u should go get help
He can like and look all he wants. But if you talk or touch…then we have some problems.
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Any male the ever ‘liked’ my photo on fb I got accused of sleeping with
Men do what they do regardless. As long as he’s not having any other intentions why not? As long as he’s not leaving any comments about wanting her body or something. Men are more than capable of being friends with women.
No. That’s silly. I like other men’s pictures.
Not a big deal. Girls like guys photos too
What kind of pictures are we talking and?
If your SO liking a picture is going to set you off you perhaps need to be single.
I dont see an issue personally
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You should ask yourself why isn’t my man allowed to like other females photos?
As long as he is not disrespectful and he is open and honest with you
Absolutely not ok. If its a pic of a woman and her kids… thats ok, just a woman… I don’t think. Just my opinion
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Depends on the type of picture 
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Idc if he likes someone else’s picture. I trust him. If I didn’t, we wouldn’t be together
Here’s something to think about… would you find it acceptable for him to be upset about you liking other men’s pics? What’s good for one should be good for another 
I personally don’t care.
As long as it’s a like and not a heart react I’m good. Mostly.
It would depend on the context for me
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Yeah, my husband knows better. 
he don’t check my shit so he better not be checking someone else’s.
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It bugged me but he didn’t seem like we’re dating anymore he felt like he was doing it because he was supposedly being a man but I left with my kids he still same person today sad too he wastes 150-300 on a whore so yup his kids got nothing lately yet his daughters had birthdays in beginning of august he single now I’m happy with my kids 
Depends on the woman. A friend we both know totally fine. Strangers yeah thats a no go for me personally.
Gues it all depends on the pictures,if they are normal things no problem, if they are only half naked woman, different story:sweat_smile:
Personally I think liking another girl’s picture Is disrespectful. He should only be like yours
Um…if THAT’S all he’s doing, I honestly don’t see the problem.
I could care less lol you have serious issues in your relationship if this triggers you
As long as he is liking my photos too
I encourage my man to like it love other women’s pictures. If it’s appealing to him it’s probably appealing to me too. A nice pic is a nice pic. I don’t care if it’s bikini or lingerie or a nice outfit … nice is nice. I like guys pics alllllll the time! I even give compliments.
We don’t have insecurities about genuine compliments and likes. It’s a like… not a peen in a thot pocket. People will ALWAYS look and admire other humans…. Doesn’t mean they like them more than you, it means they found something appealing or attractive, that’s doesn’t diminish their feelings of you.
Keeping things open and HONEST is key and if a simple “like” bothers you that bad you MAY want to do some self evaluation and see what’s up with you… not him. He obviously isn’t hiding it.
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Like is one thing love is another jokes aside… more than comfortable with my man and our relationship
No its not bad. Its social media.
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If they’re close friends no. Acquaintances yes
My husband has mostly female friends, so I really don’t mind. He’s just that kinda guy I guess, but I don’t worry.
No. He’s with me and I’ve never questioned his loyalty to me.
It aggravates me in general.
I think it really depends on the context of the picture
Could care less if he likes photos on fb. I have him in real life,thats what matters
We’re all going to look, it’s human nature. As long as you’re secure with yourself and relationship I don’t see an issue.
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Red flag if he knows it bothers you
Depends if that like turns to DMs
Depends on the picture IMO
No issues here. If he wanted them, he’d be with them🤷🏽♀️
I couldn’t care less. Its me hes sticking his length in. He’s not got the monkey nuts to cheat
Are they naked photos? Pretty sure anything below the ears is against terms of service. We mostly have the same friends. If he wants to like a picture they post… well that’s kind of the point of social media. To get likes. Maybe you two need a joint social media account.
My opinion on this if he doesn’t like you doing it then he shouldn’t. Also if you gave been honest about how it makes you feel and he’s still doing it that’s a communication issue on his end. If it bugs you let him know, he can’t read your mind hun.
Depends on the content
Depends like who it is and the nature of the picture
Everyone is different and what is acceptable to one female may not be to another. I think that everyone should find a man that suits them and stop judging women who are as “laid back” or “secure” or however you want to describe these women who let their men go to strip clubs or flirt with other women or like other girls or just do whatever they want as long as they come home to them… not every woman is like that and not every woman should be.
Just a picture definitely not the end of the world
Trust!! If you don’t then you shouldn’t be with them🤷🏾♀️
We look at pictures together. Its no big deal. I know he loves n wants me
I don’t care at all!
That’s why I’m glad my bf doesn’t use Facebook for anything other than marketplace.
I don’t have to worry about any of that stuff.
Celebrities I don’t mind but just regular women…nooooo!
If shes not family- not okay. Just my opinion.
Yeah doesn’t bother me at all, just I hope she knows there’s a billion other ways to get stabbed so she better not meep bop bee bop or whoops there goes her eye 
If you don’t trust them online, you don’t trust them at all.
He can like it, heart it , whatever, Its no big deal.
He might as well not have social media wit that logic “he shouldn’t be liking stuff if he’s with me “
its jus fb why cry over a like 
Depends on the picture and who it isn
Gonna flip it…I like pictures of men…doesn’t mean I want to sleep w them at ALL!
Why would I care when I like and heart react like, everything
My husband won’t even make a facebook…
Depends on what it is and how he knows them lol.
He is liking a picture not whipping it out and pleasuring himself over it geeze. Low self esteem much lady?
I could careless. I’m not the only woman on the planet. He has life long friends he likes the pics of, even hearts them. But it doesn’t bother me one bit. Hell, if he sees a hot girl he always makes sure I see too. So I guess I’m just secure in my relationship. Looking, flirting a bit, being nice etc doesn’t bother me what so ever. I like guys pics and shit and it means nothing. Friends I grew up with n such. I spread love everywhere I go, or at least I try to. So many negative in the world, why not try and put some positive into it. 
Guess I’m a weirdo tho.
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