Is it bad for your SO to "like" other women's pictures?

With my ex it bugged me but I never made it an issue & overlooked it

Join him and try to figure out what he see

Depends who they are and what the picture is lol

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it’s a no for me lol

He can look at the menus he just can’t order lol

No. Lol, I have male friends (that are in relationships) I like their photo even if it’s just them and vice versa :tipping_hand_woman: like damn, that’s your own insecurities unfortunately

I don’t find it okay.

If they have a body shape like me I don’t mind but an ex girlfriend or a some hot chick… my feelings are hurt.

He can do what he wants. His funeral.:tipping_hand_woman:

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I guess it depends on the picture.

If they are friends I think it’s ok, I have guy friends who like my pics :woman_shrugging:t3:

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Not as bad as insecurity over something like this. :man_shrugging:

I have no cares about it. :woman_shrugging:t4:

No but commenting or heart every picture that’s the problem One here and there ain’t shit I heart ppl shit :woman_shrugging:t3:

I have this dude as my wallpaper on my phone no clue what his name is but he sure is pretty! I have no problem with my husband liking other women’s pics, watching porn whatever works for him. We are human it is natural to be attracted to other people that doesn’t just turn off because you are in a committed relationship. What is important is what you do about it. Now if it is someone he actually knows well and is liking everything she posts and commenting on it prolly a different story but just liking some photos regardless of who they are does not a cheater make.

Being bothered or being unbothered by your man liking photos are both valid and don’t let anyone tell you different. to me it’s disrespectful and not ok :woman_shrugging:t2:

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I would say unless its a family member or friend it is being very disrespectful to you. Not only is he being rude, he is opening up the door in your mind of distrust. That is not a fair position for your SO to do to you. Either talk that one out or get off social media.

The thing is, if it bothers you, and you’ve told him it bothers you, then he should stop. If he doesn’t, he’s an ass, and has no respect for you.

I feel like we are all entitled to have friends, but its all about respect when you’re in a relationship. If something makes you feel uncomfortable, you should definitely talk about it.

Context counts but no I don’t like it and I’ve told my partner that’s one thing that really offends me and he doesn’t do it now. Look but don’t make it fuckin obvious cause I don’t do it and I don’t really even look lol

Sounds like there is tryst and jealousy issues… not a big deal at all.

Doesn’t bug me, as long as he isn’t flirting with them I don’t care if he “likes” a picture

Im fine with it unless I feel that there are red flags around any particular woman. Just went through this actually. Otherwise, I trust my man and he’s free to like whatever he wants.

I would have an issue but would depend on how attractive the person was lol

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No he’s going to like other women in real life too. Being respectful and faithful is what matters.

It really depends on who the women are and what the pictures are that he’s liking. If he likes your cousin’s dog photo and his colleagues engagement photos… you wouldn’t be here asking us. He’s looking photos OF women that must be attractive. If they weren’t, again, you wouldn’t be asking. I don’t think it’s appropriate that a guy publicly admits attraction to other women when you’re together, especially if you’re official on social media and your friends and family know it.

If he’s gone this far, he doesn’t care how you may feel about it. (Assuming it’s a new thing and he hasn’t done this your whole relationship). It’s a step before messaging and flirting. You can approach him… but if he’s defensive you know you’re right. Then you need to decide if you’re willing to be with him while he explores. Maybe do the same thing to him and see what he thinks. Guys always take women for granted… maybe the thought of losing you would snap him out. Good luck!

If U have a VALIDIFIED, TRUSTING relationship, it should be NP. If U don’t have that Trust, other chicks pix are the least of y’alls problems!
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It is leaving the door open for micro cheating. Social media blurrs these lines as he wouldn’t whistle or cat call a woman in the street in front of so you liking a half naked woman’s pictures is the same thing. A man who loves you won’t garnish attention to women online bearing their assets

Depends. Is it a girl he went to high school with that’s posting a pic of her and her family? Or a random girl with her tits out.

I think if you wouldn’t do it to your spouse then they shouldn’t do it to you and same vice versa and that it has everything to do with respect for your partner

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I mean as long as he’s not like distasteful pics or liking and commenting on everything she posts.

For me it depends. If it is, say, a model I have no problem with it. Or if it is someone we know and it is a pic of something fun like fishing or a vacay, or with family/friends.

I don’t mind at first I did until we talked and it’s not like he was commenting or messaging.

Depends on the type of picture. If it’s literally all half naked women & onlyfans shit no thanks, that’s disrespectful.
If it’s regular selfie of a girl or the girls family or something sure like it.:woman_shrugging:t2:

If I don’t like the chick, they can’t like the pics. :joy: If I like her, idc, heart her shit, but no likes unless I like her

My old high school friends, snd I like each other’s pictures. Never comment anything inappropriate. Don’t care what women my husband likes their post. Now if it was :heart:and flirting, i’d burn his phone​:joy:

Not a big deal. I know who’s bed my man is in every night

No.
If he makes inappropriate comments or sends inappropriate messages though that is a problem

In my relationship, no.

To each their own.

Following to see how CRAZY I am…:joy: I think it depends on the picture. A girl posting general pics is different than a selfie to me.

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No not at all. I feel secure in my marriage

I don’t really cares🤷🏽‍♀️ lol

he’s my partner, not my prisoner. and I don’t compete, anyway :woman_shrugging:t2:

this is toxic as fuck

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No. Dont even mind :heart:’s, depending on the post. Its Facebook, people.

Yeah, that’s a no. Let me find out :unamused::tipping_hand_woman:t3:

I :heart: everyone’s pictures lol

I’m not a jealous person :woman_shrugging:t3:

of course you call them females…

Not my man. Better not lol

Look but Don’t touch.

I mean, I heart react everyone’s photos, men, women. Just showing all my friends love :heart:

Depends, if they are our friends I won’t be bother…. females I don’t know, absolutely I’ll kick his butt!! LOL

Okay with me. Some days I need it!!

Insecurities kill relationships

I dont care, he does

I think it’s disrespectful

You can look but not touch

A “:+1:t4:” doesn’t bother me just don’t take it further unnecessarily

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family friend girls are fine. But I don’t let him even have these 2 specific girls added. I have my reasons and they are valid.

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With my ex, it would depend. We had a lot of mutual friends and they would post about different things, so it wasn’t a big deal. But when the girls would post selfies with major cleavage or revealing clothing and he liked or commented, I let him know that I felt he was giving them attention and it bothered be because I didn’t think that was respectful. It didn’t stop him from doing it, but at least I figured out the why part.

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You’re in a relationship, not dead. I’ve always gone by “you can look at the menu but you better never eat anywhere but home” as long as he is giving the attention to you that you deserve and not just ignoring you to pay attention to others, it shouldn’t be an issue. That’s my personal opinion but each individual has their own opinions. But I will say that if you are having issues over him just liking other people’s things it tends to go towards you being very insecure so just have a conversation with him about it

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Well… It all depends on the situation, him, who the female is… My husband is more than welcome to like a female friend/family members pictures even selfies. But he doesnt have exes or anyone inappropriate on his social medias so I guess there isnt anyone I would get upset about because he liked something they shared. We set boundaries when we got together and unless one of us pushes those boundaries, there shouldnt be problems like this for us.

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Depends on who the girl is, what kind of pic it is, and your relationship with your man. If its family or good friends or a pretty casual pic, then def not. But if its a rather sensual or sexy pic, I’d probably be uncomfortable too. Just talk to him about it. Unless he’s done something to really breach your trust, I’d try to let it go.

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Well first there’s a huge difference between a like, a heart and a wow. It depends who the girl is and it depends how said girl was dressed. And tbh it would depend a lot on if my man is acting like he’s with me or not too. I’ve been in these kinds of relationships and they all were shit. And now i have a man that i don’t have to go searching for what he likes. Because if he does like something it’s harmless. But if it bothers you it should be discussed.

Depends on the situation. I have a lot of guy friends which I like their pictures - I don’t mean anything romantic about it. I wouldn’t have a problem with my s/o liking any pics of his friends who are girls. It becomes a problem when they’re liking the pictures of women who are in their inbox being flirty and stuff like that. Also weird to like pictures of women who are mostly naked. It’s also all about the boundaries in your relationship. But, just liking innocent photos of friends, no! It is fine.

Depends on a lot of things. Normally no, but is it a sexi pic of an ex? A lil weird to me but it all depends on you and your relationship and history of whats gone on in yalls relationship.

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I have mostly male friends and like their photos🤷 I am actually the “best woman” in a wedding standing on the grooms side of the bridal party. My husband has female friends and it doesn’t bother me but it depends on the level of trust in the individual relationship. I trust my husband 1000%

Depends on the circumstance. If she was around before me and it’s not a naked pictures I don’t care personally. Even a coworker. I’m secure in my relationship so I don’t worry about small things. If he was seeking out NEW WOMEN and liking their pictures that’s a totally different story.

Idgaf if my hubby likes another women’s pic most of them are friends & family but the ones that aren’t he’s never met nor will he ever meet them so like away & sometimes I like them for him.

If we know them it’s fine but random women no.

Depends on the website. There’s a huge difference between liking a pic on FB vs liking a picture on only fans

I guess it depends on the pics. If they’re normal day to day pics than no it’s fine but if it’s only ever “hot girl” pics then it’s diffrent

Mine does. Likes an wow faces an doesn’t do the same on mine. Also went over a year without him letting me on his fb. He just finally did an I’m getting suggested friends now an see him like an wowing an hearts on others an also comments on their post but never mine. He adds all kinds if people and I’ve always been picked at in the past for who’s on mine even friend I’ve know years before him. He picked at everyone so bad I started taken people off an went from 300 to 74 people left smh. But it’s okay for him to add every female he’s ever worked with or anyone he wants. I’m finally back on his fb an still same thing. Nothing on mine an if he does its negative an no like or anything on any of my photos. Smh it hurts it really does. An we’ve had issues in the past with him cheating so just adds to them feeling ontop of he prowled on me through fb when we met an things changed ones he had me. Smh so now that’s what I think he’s up to with other women do to the past stuff an how I’m treated an always have been. He also added a password on his phone little over a year ago an started sleeping with his phone under his pillow about then to. His phone goes off all times of night to. We dont live together but use to an he makes all kinds of excuses if why we’re not smh. Went from my landlord wont allow his 3 dogs to I fixed that yesterday an got permission to now its he needs his space to an shedd an what of we fight he dont wanna be homeless. I just dont get him.

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If it’s a hot pic of a girl then it’s a different story… when he can’t even like or react to mine :roll_eyes::face_with_raised_eyebrow::thinking:

Absolutely not. It’s a respect thing🤷🏻‍♀️

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If you’re jealous of your man liking other women’s pictures, you have bigger problems.

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My man said, that this is a form of disrespect, not because of jealousy, but because it makes your girl look stupid to others and let’s other females know you liked it. Not a good look for the relationship. It’s okay to look, you just don’t need to announce to everyone that you looked, know what I mean?

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I don’t care because if she can take him she can have him save me the headache lol

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I’ll probably get hate for this but I don’t like it :woman_shrugging:t2: but it depends what kind of picture it is? If it’s a girl with her t*ts out or in practically underwear then no, I don’t like, I personally find it disrespectful :woman_shrugging:t2: if it’s just a normal picture though I don’t see why it would be an issue x

It really just depends what the picture is showing, who it is… what they are doing…anything sexual or provocative…that’s a hard hell no! Lol… I like my guy friends selfies, so he’s totally free to like his friends that are girls…we know the limits

nah liking a picture is one thing its the commenting shit and secret conversations that i see issue with. fortunately i don’t have that problem anymore tho

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Nope welcome to social media where likes are the new thing who can get the most wins

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I really don’t see why people can’t just like a photo without actually liking the photo and move on.

Why would it be bad?

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Nope. Just a picture

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I don’t like it! Makes me very insecure!

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My hubby does. It’s ok as long as he isn’t texting or calling them.

I have no trouble with it

If it were my husband I’d flip out only because he doesn’t ever like MY pictures so he’s sure in the hell not allowed to like other Womens’ lol

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We dont… obviously we all look, but there’s no need to “like” and show another person attention. Just our personal preference. We’ve been together 15 years… works for us :woman_shrugging:

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I have bigger issues to worry about. :worried:

Don’t bother me , but I’m not insecure so .

I think my partner probably does but I don’t know because I’m not insecure enough to check. :woman_shrugging:

Why would they “like” another woman’s picture? If it’s not their mom or sister, what’s to “like” about the picture?

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It’s disrespectful :woman_shrugging:t3:

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It depends on who it is and what kind of picture. Every relationship has different boundaries. In mine, it’s disrespectful if we like “thirst traps” or anything like that, or if we follow/like posts of certain people we don’t like.

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I think it depends on who it is. And if he is excessively “liking” all of her pictures or if he just “liked” one. Is he someone who “likes” a lot of peoples stuff? Or do you think he’s trying to show a certain female attention by doing it

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I don’t have an issue with it.